1) The document discusses the concept of "rescuing" others, which is repeatedly doing things for people that they can and should do for themselves. 2) There are two main reasons people engage in rescuing behavior: fear of potential pain, and needing to fulfill their own needs by overcompensating. 3) True self-care involves being aware of one's own needs without demanding others meet them or feeling ashamed of having needs, and intentionally keeping oneself emotionally healthy.