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Matthew 22:36-40New International Version (NIV)
36 “Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the
Law?”
37 Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your
heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’[a] 38
This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 And the
second is like it: ‘Love your neighbour as yourself.’[b] 40 All
the Law and the Prophets hang on these two
commandments.”
Write some stuff down about ‘empathy’.
Note:
• Use a big pen
• One idea or word per sticky
What do you want to know?
(Why are you even here today!? )
When did Jesus display radical empathy?
When did Jesus practice self-empathy?
(When did Jesus practice
selfishness/selfulness?)
A better cycle of J.O.Y.
Jesus
(In what way
does Jesus need
me?)
Others
(In what way do others
need me?)
Yourself
(In what way do I
need me?)
What need is alive in me right now?
What is one thing I can think or do
to better meet this need today?
Ah huh!
I am going to…
•Understand Anger and stuff
•Support a suicidal person
•Maintaining Connection in conflict
•Beating Burnout

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Joel Young 2015 - Rethinking J.O.Y. and Jesus Radical Empathy

  • 2. Matthew 22:36-40New International Version (NIV) 36 “Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?” 37 Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’[a] 38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbour as yourself.’[b] 40 All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.”
  • 3. Write some stuff down about ‘empathy’. Note: • Use a big pen • One idea or word per sticky
  • 4. What do you want to know? (Why are you even here today!? )
  • 5. When did Jesus display radical empathy?
  • 6. When did Jesus practice self-empathy? (When did Jesus practice selfishness/selfulness?)
  • 7. A better cycle of J.O.Y. Jesus (In what way does Jesus need me?) Others (In what way do others need me?) Yourself (In what way do I need me?)
  • 8. What need is alive in me right now? What is one thing I can think or do to better meet this need today?
  • 9.
  • 10. Ah huh! I am going to…
  • 11. •Understand Anger and stuff •Support a suicidal person •Maintaining Connection in conflict •Beating Burnout

Editor's Notes

  1. 20 years here Counselling Leadership Development Resilience Workshops Jesus had been heckling with the hecklers for a while and it seemed he keeps saying things like – you think that this is important, but actually this is what’s important. That’s what I am going to be saying to you today. Perhaps you thought that x,y,z was really important but perhaps it’s not so much.
  2. Jesus had been heckling with the hecklers for a while and it seemed he keeps saying things like – you think that this is important, but actually this is what’s important. That’s what I am going to be saying to you today. Perhaps you thought that x,y,z was really important but perhaps it’s not so much.
  3. Our role model – does the way Jesus was with people (His BEing) say about empathy.) (Differences in the hero’s of faiths?)
  4. Our role model – does the way Jesus was with people (His BEing) say about empathy.) (Differences in the hero’s of faiths?) EG’s Woman at the well,(not supposed to, disciples were surprised) Tax collector – hated member of society Prostitutes Jesus Wept Peter and the guard ear cut, God loved the world – not to condemn but to save… In the garden
  5. What needs was he looking after? (Emotional, Physical, Spiritual?) Who’s needs are most important? Love others as – the same way we would like to be loved. Love others as – while staying connected to our own feelings and needs. Love others as – enabled by having loved out selves. Love others as - acknowledging that we all have needs and need love.
  6. Sometimes Jesus looks after self. Sometimes he looks after others – even after Laza died? Sometimes he was just with close friends. I have a need to contribute.
  7. Personally – Empathy Cards? The most practical way I know of showing love and empathy is to be aware of, connect with, and perhaps contribute towards a person’s needs. How do we love others and evoke the love of others if we are strangers to ourselves? “If you are a stranger to yourself you will remain a stranger to others.” It’s incredibly difficult to love somebody who isn’t alive to their own feelings and needs. We can do stuff for them, but it’s always going to be a bit clumsy – not quite knowing if it’s what they want and why it’s important to them.
  8. Judgements V Empathy. Truth V Grace. It’s about intentionality and timing – not one or the other   Distraction V Presence = Give the gift of presence this week.
  9. Our role model – does the way Jesus was with people (His BEing) say about empathy.) (Differences in the hero’s of faiths?) EG’s Woman at the well,(not supposed to, disciples were surprised) Tax collector – hated member of society Prostitute – Jesus Wept Peter and the guard ear cut, God loved the world – not to condemn but to save… Take cards, pens, laptop, hdmi, sickies notes