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Workshop 3: “I know what’s best for the child”: The Art of Effective Parent Communication, 22 January 2016.
Schools and teachers want to develop partnership with parents. Strong communication is fundamental to this partnership. So, teachers must continue to develop and expand skills required to build a strong partnership.
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These comments are translated and adapted from a seminar
presented by Professor Loris Malaguzzi in Reggio Emilia,
Italy, June 1993.
There are hundreds of different images of the child.
Each one of you has inside yourself an image of the
child that directs you as you begin to relate to a child.
This theory within you pushes you to behave in
certain ways; it orients you as you talk to the child,
listen to the child, observe the child. It is very
difficult for you to act contrary to this internal image.
For example, if your image is that boys and girls are
very different from one another, you will behave
differently in your interactions with each of them.
The environment you construct around you and the
children also reflects this image you have about the
child. There’s a difference between the environment
that you are able to build based on a preconceived
image of the child and the environment that you can
build that is based on the child you see in front of you
— the relationship you build with the child, the
games you play. An environment that grows out of
your relationship with the child is unique and fluid.
The quality and quantity of relationships among you
as adults and educators also reflects your image of
the child. Children are very sensitive and can see and
sense very quickly the spirit of what is going on
among the adults in their world. They understand
whether the adults are working together in a truly
collaborative way or if they are separated in some
way from each other, living their experience as if it
were private with little interaction.
Posing Important Questions
When you begin working with children in the
morning, you must, as adults, pose questions about
the children, such as: “When are these children really
going to begin socializing?” And at the same time
the children will pose questions to the adults: “When
are the adults really going to begin socializing?” This
is a dialogue that needs to be continual between the
adults and the children. The adults ask questions
from the world of adults to the children. The
children will ask questions to the adults. The expec-
tations that the children have of the adults and the
adults have of the children are important. We must
spend some time talking about these expectations.
The family — mothers, fathers, aunts, uncles, grand-
parents — is also involved in this questioning. Daily
Your Image of the Child:
Where Teaching Begins
by Loris Malaguzzi
they need to ask: “What is this child doing in the
school?”
It’s very probable that once a day, maybe twice or
three times or many times a day, the children are
asking themselves: “What is my mother doing?”
“What is my father doing?” “What is my brother or
my sister doing?” “Are they having more fun than I
am?” “Are they bored?”
The school we are talking about is not the school you
are familiar with in the past, but it is something that
you can hope for.
Considering Each Child’s Reality
We can nev.
1. How to implement Montessori
principles to enhance communication
with our parents and families.
PARENT/TEACHER
COMMUNICATION
2. The purpose of this training:
• To enhance communication between teachers and parents,
which ultimately benefits our students.
3. Two Sculptors
I dreamed I stood in a studio and
watched two sculptors there.
The clay they used was a child’s mind,
And they fashioned it with care.
One was a teacher. The tools she used were books, music and art.
One was a parent who worked with a guiding hand and a loving heart.
Day after day the teacher toiled with touch that was deft and sure,
While the parent labored by her side and polished and smoothed it over.
And when at last their task was done,
They were proud of what they’d wrought.
For the things they had molded into the child
Could neither be sold or bought.
And each agreed she would have failed If she had worked alone.
For behind the teacher Stood the school,
And behind the parent, The home.
-Author Unknown
4. What do we know about our school?
• We have our first year under our belt! Phew!
• However, IMCS is still new; we are only in our 2nd year.
• We are still in the process of developing effective ways to
communicate with our parents.
5. “Coming together is a beginning,
Keeping together is progress,
Working together is success.”
Henry Ford
6. What do we know about our parents?
• Most of our parents are new to Montessori.
• They have little knowledge of the Montessori process.
• They are curious about Montessori and want to see firsthand how it
works.
• They sought our school because they wanted something
different/better for their children.
• They took a huge leap of faith that IMCS will deliver a better
alternative education to their children.
• They want us to succeed, and they want to be a part of our success.
7. What do we know about the parent
teacher connection?
Strong connections between parents and teachers can
positively impact students!
The evidence is consistent, positive, and convincing: When
schools, families, and community groups work together to
support learning, children tend to do better in school, stay in
school longer, and like school more.
8. What do we know about the parent teacher
connection?
Many studies found that students with involved parents, no matter what
their income or background, were more likely to:
• earn higher grades and test scores, and enroll in higher-level programs.
• be promoted, pass their classes, and earn credits.
• attend school regularly.
• have better social skills, show improved behavior, and adapt well to
school.
• graduate and go on to postsecondary education.
Source: National Center for Family & Community Connections with Schools,
2002 (http://www.sedl.org/connections/resources/evidence.pdf)
9. How can we build strong connections with our
parents?
• Effective communication
• Maintain positive expectations of parents
• Do we have positive expectations of parents?
10. The Power of Expectations
The Pygmallion Effect: Robert Rosenthal and Lenore Jacobson’s study showed that
if teachers were led to expect enhanced performance from children, then the
children’s performance was enhanced. This study supported the hypothesis that
reality can be positively or negatively influenced by the expectations of others,
called the observer-expectancy effect. Rosenthal argued that biased expectancies
could affect reality and create self-fulfilling prophecies.
Source: Wikipedia.org
Impact: The subtle verbal and non-verbal cues teachers gave to students
throughout the day (reassuring nods, for example) were important in raising IQs.
11. Maria Montessori understood the effects of
expectations
“The first step an intending Montessori teacher must take is to
prepare herself. For one thing, she must keep her imagination
alive; for whilst, in traditional schools, the teacher sees the
immediate behavior of her pupils … the Montessori teacher is
constantly looking for a child who is not yet there ...”
Source: The Absorbent Mind, Maria Montessori
12. She must have a kind of faith that the
child will reveal himself through work.
She must free herself from all
preconceived ideas concerning the
levels at which the children may be.
The many different types of children
(meaning they are more or less
deviated) must not worry her.
In her imagination she sees the single
normalized type, which lives in a world
of the spirit.”
Source: The Absorbent Mind, Maria Montessori
13. So, what do expectations have to do with
parent communication?
It poses the question: do we sometimes have faulty
expectations … of parents?
Do we have an US vs. THEM attitude about parents?
14. How many times do we just want to say …
Give us your children and have
absolute faith in what we do.
Now, go away!
15. Are these positive expectations?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=baZso0xm0PQ
16. Maria Montessori understood the power of
expectations
“The first step an intending Montessori teacher must take is to
prepare herself. For one thing, she must keep her imagination
alive; for whilst, in traditional schools, the teacher sees the
immediate behavior of parents… the Montessori teacher is
constantly looking for a parent who is not yet there …”
17. She must have a kind of faith that the
parent will reveal himself through
work.
She must free herself from all
preconceived ideas. The many
different types of parents (meaning
they are more or less deviated) must
not worry her.
18. How do we interact with children?
What do we do when a child is struggling in the classroom? We ask
ourselves: 1) What can I do differently? 2) What can I change in the
environment?
How do you get those answers? Through observation.
19. Let’s define the role of the Montessori teacher
Finish this sentence:
“A Montessori teacher is …”
20. How do we interact with parents?
What do we do when a parent is struggling?
21. “Follow the Child”
We celebrate the Montessori principle of follow the child. This
principle tells us that rather than just imposing our goals and
expectations on a child, we should first observe the child’s behavior
and seek to understand his or her needs and goals. We should seek
to know why a child has a certain response, or exhibits a certain
behavior, and try to gain a perspective on the underlying need that is
not being met.
Source: LePort Schools
22. Can we “Follow the Parent?”
To follow the parent means to step back, listen, and truly understand
why a parent might have a hostile response.
Source: LePort Schools
23. Follow the Parent
As with follow the child, follow the parent does not mean that we
simply do whatever our parents want.
Source: LePort Schools
24. Action Plan: Foster connections with parents
We must focus on creating environments that are
conducive to growth, development, self-discovery and
transformation.
As Montessori teachers, that’s something we know quite a
lot about.
25. Implement fundamental Montessori practices
for both children and parents
• Be humble
• Believe in the innate potential and goodness of each
• Respect self-direction, self-motivation and choice
• Take into account natural tendencies, developmental
characteristics, sensitive periods
• Teach by teaching, not correcting
• Allow time for self-paced development
• Provide opportunity for active engagement
• Get out of the way, and let them do for themselves
• Treat them as individuals
• Observe, listen and prepare to respond
26. How can we connect with our parents?
Increase opportunities to connect with parents through:
• Parent/Teacher conferences
• Newsletters – Specific info about your class, students, and
Montessori (Mrs. Roberts’ newsletter)
• Individualized information about your students
• Quick connections through phone calls, email, notes sent home, or
face-to-face interactions
• Parent Education Nights
• Volunteer opportunities
• Preemptive contact – Talk to the parents before the parents talk to
you! (LePort Schools example)
27. Seek first to understand, then to be
understood
Understanding a parent’s situation and point
of view first puts us in a better position to
communicate effectively and with relevance.
Once a person feels understood, he or she is
much more likely to let go of preconceptions
and be open to new ideas.
28. Let’s examine this scenario:
• A student, Lacey, makes an innocent joke that she doesn’t want to wear glasses because then she’ll be a
“nerd.”
• Another student, Oliver, reacts by looking down and walking away. His posture suggests he is hurt by
this comment. Oliver just started wearing glasses a few weeks earlier, and seems to be taking Leslie’s
comment personally.
• The teacher, Ms. Jones, observes the whole situation unfold. She makes a note to monitor Lacey’s social
awareness, and to watch for whether she’s frequently making comments that don’t take other people’s
context into account. She also wonders how the idea of a “nerd” stands in Lacey’s mind—was Lacey just
trying to be funny, or is there a deeper insecurity about the fact that she’s smarter than others.
• Ms. Jones also checks in with Oliver, just to see how he’s feeling. She asks him if he’s having a good day.
He says he is, but doesn’t really open up, and does seem kind of mopey to Ms. Jones. Ms.
Jones doesn’t explicitly raise Lacey’s comment since Oliver didn’t bring it up, and she’s not positive
that’s what is bothering him. Instead, she finds some other way to validate Jonny: she reinforces his
sense of personal value by asking him interesting questions about the work he’s doing, and gives him the
opportunity to share his excitement. He seems to respond well to that. Ms. Jones hasn’t formed
a hypothesis yet, but makes a mental note that Oliver may have a tendency to assume too quickly that
others are rejecting him when they make an ambiguous comment, and to internalize those feelings
of rejection. Since she has occasionally seen other signs of moodiness, she decides to watch Oliver
closely for the next few weeks, and think carefully about what might be at play, and how best to meet
his needs. She also plans to raise the whole issue with her Head of School in her next meeting, in case
there’s anything else she should do.
• Both Lacey and Oliver seem engaged the rest of the day, so Ms. Jones goes home feeling good about her
handle on the issue.
29. But then …
• The next morning, Mrs. Wynn, Oliver’s mom, comes in furious, wanting to talk
immediately to the Head of School about the fact that Oliver is being bullied. She says
that Oliver told her that Lacey and a group of other kids were laughing at his glasses,
and calling him a nerd. She insists on seeing IMCS’ bullying policy, and wants to know
what we’re going to address the psychological damage being done to her child. She
brings in articles about the dangers of bullying in schools, and mentions as an aside
that she’s heard other parents complain about Lacey as well.
• Then the floodgates open. She brings up the fact that during the Peace Picnic, Ms.
Jones asked her to bring salad rather than a main course, even though she’s been
involved at the school since last year—and that this shows that Ms. Jones has never
really liked her family. And, she adds, last year when Oliver scraped his knee on the
playground, she asked to have the rope walk lowered so it wasn’t so far off the
ground, and she was told that IMCS couldn’t do it because it wasn’t in our budget,
showing that all we care about is making money. And that reminds her that we started
charging extra money for school lunches this year. This reminds her that her name was
misspelled in an email last year, and no one ever apologized. That reminds her about
how the only spot ever available in parking lot is the tight spot rather than the wide
spot, even though she has an SUV. And on and on, she offers a long list of problems.
30. Is she for real?!?
Every single thing the parent is saying feels like it is begging for a
defensive comeback, either because it is inaccurate or an
exaggeration or a misunderstanding of our approach to education.
And her angry tone seems so unfair, and seems to warrant a strong,
decisive response. Especially during such a busy point of the year,
and we really, really don’t have time to deal with this drama.
32. Instead, we do the following …
Despite our own frustration, we collect ourselves, take a breath, and
start explaining, nicely and patiently, why Mrs. Wynn’s interpretation
is incorrect. We respond to her agitation with kindness.
But rather than seeing how inappropriately she’s acting, our answers
only seem to agitate her more. She treats our friendliness as
hypocrisy, and doubles down on her criticisms.
33. What if the teacher had contacted the parent
first?
Imagine Ms. Jones, in addition to all the excellent things she did to handle
the incident of Lacey’s comment and Oliver’s response, had also sent the
following email to Mrs. Wynn:
“Hi Mrs. Wynn,
I noticed that Oliver seemed a bit withdrawn today. It might be nothing more
than a low energy day, but I wanted to be safe and check with you. If you
think it’s a good idea, could you chat with him to see if he’s enjoying school,
and let me know if he says anything? I’ll of course keep an eye on him the rest
of the week and see what happens. He’ll probably bounce back tomorrow!
Thanks for your time,
Ms. Jones”
34. A simple step can have a great impact
Notice that Ms. Jones would not give any specific details in the
emails, nor would she have taken a long time to lay out her
hypotheses. All she would have done is fired off a 2-minute email
alerting the parent to the concern. But by taking that simple step,
she would have avoided, or at least significantly minimized, the
entire situation the next morning. No matter what Mrs. Wynn thinks,
no matter what her practical concerns, one simple email would have
transformed an adversarial relationship into a relationship of trust. I
see examples of this often at IMCS.
35. A proactive email from
an IMCS teacher to a parent
Hi Mrs. McCormick,
I noticed Ian had a difficult morning when he first arrived to school this morning. His day
progressed positively. I just wanted to reach out to you and let you know how much I
enjoy being Ian's teacher :) I am here to help you at all times if/when you need me.
Sincerely,
Meghan Sellers
Mom’s reply:
Thank you very much, Ms. Meghan! He was upset that I put lip balm on his lips! I think it
has to do with his sensory issue, but sometimes it's behavioral. Your reaching out means
a lot to me. We are very happy at IM and I am so glad you are his teacher. :-)
Sincerely,
Debra McCormick
36. Build trust!
Parents must believe
• We are committed to providing their child with our very best
• We recognize and value their child’s uniqueness
• We value them as members of our school community
• Their child’s well-being is our top priority
• Their child is safe while at our school
• They have made the right choice for their child
37. How can IMCS administrators help teachers
connect with parents?
• Discuss