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I am changing… 
and I am perfect as I am
Body Image is not what you see 
It is how you see
Biggest culprit of poor body image… 
We see ourselves as not enough
1. When we focus on change, it’s easy 
to start feeling inadequate or “not 
enough.”
2. www.youtube.com/watch?v=9zKfF40jeCA
3. Social Norms: 
- Fearing failure and, along with that, the 
illusion of perfection 
- Embracing self-hate before accepting 
vulnerability 
- Self-deprecation and rejection of 
compliments 
- The “Mean Coach” approach 
- Comparing
4. Confusion about confidence
How do we improve our body image? 
Again, it’s not about what, but how.
Instead of looking at body through lens of 
- Judgment 
- Inadequacy / Not Enough 
- Cruel Social Norms 
- Expertise and perfection as roots of 
Confidence 
Look through a lens of curiosity, love, 
kindness.
1. When we focus on change, it’s easy 
to start feeling inadequate or “not 
enough.” 
Instead of feeling bad about what you are 
not, celebrate what you are. 
Motivate differently 
Embrace curiosity over judgment
Culture’s reliance on “you’re not good 
enough” to sell us products. 
Be Aware 
Know that feelings are just feelings
Unhealthy social norms 
- Fearing failure: Be proud and embrace 
your power, even the power to try 
something you can’t ensure you’ll be 
amazing at. 
- Embracing self-hate: Too bad. You’re 
vulnerable.
Unhealthy social norms 
- Self deprecation and rejection of 
compliments: STOP IT! 
- The “Mean Coach” Approach: Be a good 
coach 
- Comparing: Know that you are supposed 
to be you. 
“Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability 
to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is 
stupid.” - Albert Einstein
Confusion about Confidence 
Confidence is the authentic outward expression of 
what you are experiencing, thinking and 
believing inwardly. 
Confidence is acting boldly in a way that aligns 
with your values. 
Confidence is being sure that you want to play the 
game even if you don’t know if the final score 
leaves you as the winner or loser.
Angela Taylor, LCSW 
12301 Wilshire Blvd, Suite 202 
LA, CA 90025 
310-946-9750 
RealHelpTherapy.com 
Luvtheoneurwith.blogspot.com
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hYjHix 
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I am changing...and I am perfect as I am by Angela Taylo, LCSW at OH2014

  • 1. I am changing… and I am perfect as I am
  • 2. Body Image is not what you see It is how you see
  • 3. Biggest culprit of poor body image… We see ourselves as not enough
  • 4. 1. When we focus on change, it’s easy to start feeling inadequate or “not enough.”
  • 6. 3. Social Norms: - Fearing failure and, along with that, the illusion of perfection - Embracing self-hate before accepting vulnerability - Self-deprecation and rejection of compliments - The “Mean Coach” approach - Comparing
  • 7. 4. Confusion about confidence
  • 8. How do we improve our body image? Again, it’s not about what, but how.
  • 9. Instead of looking at body through lens of - Judgment - Inadequacy / Not Enough - Cruel Social Norms - Expertise and perfection as roots of Confidence Look through a lens of curiosity, love, kindness.
  • 10. 1. When we focus on change, it’s easy to start feeling inadequate or “not enough.” Instead of feeling bad about what you are not, celebrate what you are. Motivate differently Embrace curiosity over judgment
  • 11. Culture’s reliance on “you’re not good enough” to sell us products. Be Aware Know that feelings are just feelings
  • 12. Unhealthy social norms - Fearing failure: Be proud and embrace your power, even the power to try something you can’t ensure you’ll be amazing at. - Embracing self-hate: Too bad. You’re vulnerable.
  • 13. Unhealthy social norms - Self deprecation and rejection of compliments: STOP IT! - The “Mean Coach” Approach: Be a good coach - Comparing: Know that you are supposed to be you. “Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.” - Albert Einstein
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  • 30. Confusion about Confidence Confidence is the authentic outward expression of what you are experiencing, thinking and believing inwardly. Confidence is acting boldly in a way that aligns with your values. Confidence is being sure that you want to play the game even if you don’t know if the final score leaves you as the winner or loser.
  • 31. Angela Taylor, LCSW 12301 Wilshire Blvd, Suite 202 LA, CA 90025 310-946-9750 RealHelpTherapy.com Luvtheoneurwith.blogspot.com