1. Maintaining understanding, honesty, patience and positivity help ensure long and happy marriages by overcoming challenges together. 2. Partners should make each other feel appreciated by listening to opinions, respecting freedom and fulfilling psychological needs. 3. Tips for both husbands and wives include expressing care through affection, respecting each other's families, appreciating appearances, and spending quality time together.

1. Guide for long term marriage
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Without understanding, it is impossible to
find happiness in a marriage as hoped.
Sincere and honesty are some of the
elements to ensure a marriage will last long
and having a happy family. Those who love
their family will be patient in educating and
Instill the positive feelings in the family. No matter what ever challenges appear,
husband and wife together will challenge the challenges without fear.
Rule of thumb for a happy family and long term marriage are:-
Psychological Need - Increase the partner’s confident level by giving them the
feeling of belonging and appreciate them
Power Need - Appreciate your partner by asking her opinion before taking any
action.
Freedom - Your partner also have chance to make a decision in your family.
HAPPINESS - Make your partner happy by instill intimacy in your family.
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2. Tip to make your family happy
- Talk nicely and softly, call your partner with
tender and care.
- Maintain hygiene, always neat and tidy and
put on some perfume to yourself even at home.
- Be honest, don't down grade your partner
always forgive your partner for any
wrong doing.
- Don't condemn your wife's cook and try
to assist her in her housework.
- Don't compare your partner with other people.
- Avoid things that make you jealous.
- Always holding hand and hug your partner
so that your partner feels appreciated and always
needed by you.
- Make your bedroom you a private place, always neat, clean and refreshing
especially when you are with your partner. Get more useful tips exclusively at
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- Always advice your partner and assist your partner if they have a problem.
- Spend a good quality time with your kids, listen to what they want to say.
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3. Tips for husband
1. Dress up for your wife as how you feel easy and delighted your wife dress up for
you
2. Call your wife with tender and make her feel safe
3. Fulfill her need to talk and discuss
4. Call your with nickname or name that she like
5. Avoid being too emotional and hot tempered
6. Make your wife feel peace and calm
7. Make her happy by giving surprises
8. Every time when return home after work or outstation, walk into your house
with a smile
9. Be nice to your wife when talking or advising her
10. Talk something that make her feels good and calm and don't talk something
that makes her sad
11. Praise her in front of your family and her family
12. Appreciate her appearances
13. Give romantic prizes such as flower, jewelry, etc to make your love stronger
14. Replace your boring routine activity with relaxing with her or do some
interesting activity with her
15. Nobody is perfect, accept her as she is
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4. 16. Avoid those small matters becoming big issue
17. Assist your wife in her housework
18. Express your feelings to your wife nice and honestly
19. Appreciate her suggesting, ideas and feelings
20. Build the feeling that she is the woman of your life
21. Assist her especially when she is doing her work or hobby
22. Take care of her feeling especially when she is pregnant, period or menopause
23. Assist her in organizing the kids
24. Respect her family, be nice to them and allow her to visit her family
25. Be fair to her
26. Don't always leave her alone and always going out
27. Always call or text her especially when you on duty or outstation
28. Intensively take care of her health
29. Always bring your wife together when your are happy
30. Don't think that you are always right at all times
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5. Tips for wife
1. Always eat, walk, exercise and bath together
2. Always sleep on your husband's shoulder. Some says that a caring wife will
always walk on right side of her husband
3. Make sure that you don't have bad body odor or bad breath
4. Always change your style so that your partner will not feel bored
5. Creatively create a harmony and peace in your house
6. If you have a quarrel, remember the time when you were in love or during
honeymoon
7. Make sure that you don't occupy yourself too much with outside activities such
as in community service, direct selling or even on the net
8. Always understand your husband feeling, needs and wants
9. Women's' characters are more towards feelings and understanding. Use it to
tame the men's' lion heart
10. Respect and understand his wants and don't turn him down
11. Show that you are happy to be together with him
12. Sincere and open to what he has to say and express
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6. 13. Respect yourself
14. Always assist your husband in any way you can
15. Tell him that you love him so much
16. Avoid facing backward from him when on bed
17. Put your kids on bed early and go to bed together because that will be the best
moment in marriage
18. Always thankful to him
19. Take care of the kids
20. Keep your husband's secret
21. Show him that you care
22. Always smile to him and at home so that he will feel comfortable
23. Choose a correct time to rectify his mistake
24. Don't always remind him that you asking for something
25. Don't give your thought and ideas first unless been ask to do so
26. Avoid being too jealousy
27. Use suitable household products that he likes
28. Don't ever show that your status is higher than him
29. Honest and sincere to him
30. Always express his needs and wants in front of his to show that you really care
for his needs and wants
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8. In summary maintain these things in your marriage
1. Kiss - start your new day with kissing. Kissing with love is priceless to your
partner and will make your partner feel appreciated.
2. Wedding ring - always wear your wedding ring at all time. You'll feel that your
partner close to you every time you look and feel the ring.
3. Dinner or holiday - plan for a dinner or holiday to interesting or romantic place
with your partner at least once a month to maintain intimacy.
4. Changes - this include physical and mental changes that involve with in-law
families, children, debt, workload and others. Both have to be strong and positive
towards these changes.
5. Etiquette - to ensure harmonize in marriage, you have to respect your partner so
it will not hurt or irritate your partner.
6. Courtesy - the word says by itself. Soft and tender voice will create loving
atmosphere.
7. Gift - presents on special occasion such as birthday, anniversary, etc. It shows
that you care your partner and your partner will feel appreciated.
8. Smile - smile to your partner always will create loving and caring atmosphere.
9. Touch - soft and tender touch is another body language saying that you feel
towards your partner. If you have difficulties in express your words, express it with
touch. Your partner will definitely understand. I'm sharing with you this eBook
on Body language that will discuss further how to read and understand
better your partner's body language so that the communication is virtually
understood.
10. Dream - everybody have dreams and those who in marriage dream that they
will live happily ever after together. Each other are encouraged to tell your partner
of their dream so that together will work their way to achieve the dream.
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time you look at them your heart breaks because you think of the impending
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10. Just for fun.
Some words to attract the opposite sex.
1. "Don't smile" said the man. "Why?" asked
the woman. "I'm afraid that will always
remember you!" he replied.
2. "Do you believe love at first sight?" he
asked. "Excuse me?" she replied. "If not, I'll
walk in front of you once again." he said.
3. "Excuse me, do you have a map?" asked
the man. "Why? Are you lost?" answered
the woman. "Yes. I always get lost in your
heart." the man added.
4. "I hate you." a man said. "Why? What I've done wrong?" asked the woman.
"You've stole my heart!" answered the man.
5. "Is it pain?" suddenly the man asked. "What pain are you talking?" the woman
replied. "Pain fell from the heaven." the man continued.
6. You can fall from the sky, a building or even from a tree, but it will be
wonderful if you fall in love with me.
7. Apart of being so beautiful, what is you occupation?
8. Can I borrow some coins? I want to call my mother that I already meet the girl
of my dream.
9. If I could rearrange the alphabet, I'll arrange the letter I and U together.
10. Where is the safety pin because you are the bomb!
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11. The do's and don'ts that you should know and aware.
10 Things You Aren't Telling Him
10 Ways to Transform Your Marriage
101 Conversation Starters For Couples
101 Things You Should Never Say to Your Spouse
101 Top Honeymoon Destinations
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