MANAGING  FIRST IMPRESSION
In the next hour... We will learn about Importance  of First Impression Looking  Good Sounding  Good Feeling  Good Positive  Body Language Impact of Making great First Impression
Facial Expressions A winning Smile “ It takes  15  muscles to  smile  and  37  to  frown ! ” So save energy and Smile Eye Contact “ Eyes are  Windows of the soul , excellent indicators of feelings ” Steady and Relaxed Eye Contact
Greeting Cheerfully greet the person Smile Energy Firm Handshake Greet based on Time of the day
Voice What  we say? Use simple and Polite words Repeat the customer’s statements to clarify if you understood it right How  we say it?   Slow down... Lower your voice
Importance of First Impression “ It takes less than a minute for someone to make up their mind about whether they like you or not” Once seen, never forgotten! It sends out messages about you You are the company’s image Before we start the improvement, you need to stop and think about what you would like your image to be.
When I meet someone new, do I Smile and greet them Feel comfortable Start talking to them
Facts that Influence First Impressions Dress for Success Facial Expressions Body Language Enthusiasm Voice Greeting
Dress for Success Looking good is good for you Hair – clean and neat Uniform – clean, pressed and proper fit Details – no missing buttons, lint or tags Hands – clean, manicured fingernails Smell – little or no cologne; no cigarette odor Breath – fresh, clean breath Footwear – Clean Socks, Polished Shoes
Body language Body Posture Be Open and Confident Be Positive Look like a winner Relax & breathe Stand & walk tall
First Impressions - Body language Positive Signals:   Negative Signals:   Upright posture  Slouching  Good eye contact  Avoiding eye contact  Own Comfort Level Fidgeting  Proper gestures  Touching face/hair  Stillness  Defensive gestures  Active listening Frowning
Enthusiasm Be courteous Use words like Thank you, Sorry and Please Answer the questions Listen carefully   “ We have two ears and just one mouth, so perhaps we should listen twice as much as we talk!”
What  we say?  =  7% How  we say it?  =  38% N on  V erbal  B ehaviour?  =  55% “ Learn to look happier, less depressed and smile more”
S ummary Dress  properly – Appearance matters! Be mindful  of your own Body Language Listen well. and  show that you care! Increase  the amount of eye-contact you give a Brit!… and smile Slow down!  - when speaking in public Think  ‘Success” Be   positive   Practice  it till you make it Result : YOU FEEL HAPPIER AND MORE POSITIVE AND FEEL GOOD OF YOUR SELF
Final Thought “ You only have one chance to make a first impression”
Questions??????

First impression

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    MANAGING FIRSTIMPRESSION
  • 2.
    In the nexthour... We will learn about Importance of First Impression Looking Good Sounding Good Feeling Good Positive Body Language Impact of Making great First Impression
  • 3.
    Facial Expressions Awinning Smile “ It takes 15 muscles to smile and 37 to frown ! ” So save energy and Smile Eye Contact “ Eyes are Windows of the soul , excellent indicators of feelings ” Steady and Relaxed Eye Contact
  • 4.
    Greeting Cheerfully greetthe person Smile Energy Firm Handshake Greet based on Time of the day
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    Voice What we say? Use simple and Polite words Repeat the customer’s statements to clarify if you understood it right How we say it? Slow down... Lower your voice
  • 6.
    Importance of FirstImpression “ It takes less than a minute for someone to make up their mind about whether they like you or not” Once seen, never forgotten! It sends out messages about you You are the company’s image Before we start the improvement, you need to stop and think about what you would like your image to be.
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    When I meetsomeone new, do I Smile and greet them Feel comfortable Start talking to them
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    Facts that InfluenceFirst Impressions Dress for Success Facial Expressions Body Language Enthusiasm Voice Greeting
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    Dress for SuccessLooking good is good for you Hair – clean and neat Uniform – clean, pressed and proper fit Details – no missing buttons, lint or tags Hands – clean, manicured fingernails Smell – little or no cologne; no cigarette odor Breath – fresh, clean breath Footwear – Clean Socks, Polished Shoes
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    Body language BodyPosture Be Open and Confident Be Positive Look like a winner Relax & breathe Stand & walk tall
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    First Impressions -Body language Positive Signals: Negative Signals: Upright posture Slouching Good eye contact Avoiding eye contact Own Comfort Level Fidgeting Proper gestures Touching face/hair Stillness Defensive gestures Active listening Frowning
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    Enthusiasm Be courteousUse words like Thank you, Sorry and Please Answer the questions Listen carefully “ We have two ears and just one mouth, so perhaps we should listen twice as much as we talk!”
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    What wesay? = 7% How we say it? = 38% N on V erbal B ehaviour? = 55% “ Learn to look happier, less depressed and smile more”
  • 14.
    S ummary Dress properly – Appearance matters! Be mindful of your own Body Language Listen well. and show that you care! Increase the amount of eye-contact you give a Brit!… and smile Slow down! - when speaking in public Think ‘Success” Be positive Practice it till you make it Result : YOU FEEL HAPPIER AND MORE POSITIVE AND FEEL GOOD OF YOUR SELF
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    Final Thought “You only have one chance to make a first impression”
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Editor's Notes

  • #4 Your smile - relaxed and sincere slightly open - use all face muscles Eye contact - steady relaxed - about 5 seconds Windows of the soul, excellent are indicators of feelings. Shifty eyes, beady eyes and look of steel demonstrate awareness. Honest person has a tendency to look you straight in the eye when speaking. At least listeners accept it like that
  • #10 Appearance – Is your appearance appropriate for the situation? Are you well groomed and clean? Is your hair combed? Is your clothing clean and neat? Do you ‘stand out’ from the crowd or blend in? Your appearance - good personal hygiene - simple clothing - clean, sharp, and ironed - coordinated - solid, neutral colors limited accessories Differences between men and women
  • #11 Posture - Position your head and body squarely in line with the other person. By facing towards a person, you show genuine interest in what they have to say. Don't stand too close or to far away when you talk to another person. Be respectful of personal space. Remember to stand and sit up straight when speaking - don't slouch. • Don't cross your arms or legs - This is the biggest mistake when it comes to negative body language. You come across as defensive or guarded when crossing your arms or legs. Keep your body open when communicating with others. Nod your head once in awhile- When a person is speaking directly to you, nod once in awhile to send the message that you are listening. Don't over do it and bob your head every few seconds. • Slow down your actions - Whether you are walking or talking, slow down your actions. It gives others the impression of ease and confidence (especially when addressing a crowd). From our body • The way we move - walk, stand and sit – Walk » an assertive, purposeful person will take longer, slower and more definite strides » Less confident counterparts may scurry, plod and shuffle – Standing (Posture) » Stand with feet side by side » Keep legs straight but not tense » Breath slowly and evenly » Roll your shoulders back » Lift chin slightly – Sitting » Sit squarely and neatly » Your back should be firmly parallel to the back of the chair » Arm should be folded loosely on your lap » Your leg should be folded or crossed tidily. Greetings – Your accessibility style » Passive approach / Active approach » Body talk