Jamaica Kincaid is a Caribbean novelist, gardener, and gardening writer who was born in Antigua and lives between Vermont and California. The poem depicts a mother trying to mold her daughter into conforming with society's expectations of women by enforcing strict values and etiquette. The daughter questions the mother's advice but is unable to change her mindset that women must conform to society's prejudices. The mother tries to prevent her daughter from being her free-spirited self and instead wants to reshape her mentally into society's idea of the perfect woman.