This paper discusses the evolution of end-of-life ethics models in Western culture. It describes a shift from a paternalistic "rescue orientation" model based on beneficence to an individualistic model emphasizing patient autonomy. However, research shows limitations to relying solely on autonomy. The paper argues for an "ecological approach" that considers the effects of end-of-life decisions on family and community. This model aligns better with Western spiritual values of relationships and is supported by research on decision making and grief.