Given the disappearance of biblical moral values beneath the cultural tidal wave of pornography, sexualized advertising, and the celebration of LGBT “rights” in the media and in corporate offices…what can a parent do? Rise up, moms and dads; it’s time to get serious about teaching God’s Word and eternal, unchanging values to our kids.

1. TEACHING OUR
CHILDREN SEXUAL
PURITY BY FOCUSING
ON THE BEAUTY OF
GOD’S WORD
Drink the Water, Flee The Fire:

2. The Problem
 “No boundaries” PC driven culture
 Confusing gender distinctions
 Earlier “sexualization” of our kids
 Tolerating the porn tidal wave
 Scoffing at God’s view of sex restricted to marriage
and procreation of children

3. Table Discussions
Group 1:
How would you explain adultery to a seven year old?
Group 2:
Your 14 year old daughter learned that her best friend’s
father, who also goes to your church, is having an affair.
What do you say to her after she shares this news with you?
Group 3: Your office manager is a man who is “married” a
man. He is inviting the office staff and their families to his
home to meet his “husband.” Everyone else has responded
“yes” and some have families with children. How would
you handle this offer?

4. “No boundaries” PC driven culture
“Northwestern University, fielding a torrent of
criticism after a professor allowed students to view a
live sex demonstration after his Human Sexuality
class…The university initially supported the actions of
psychology professor J. Michael Bailey, saying in a
statement released Wednesday that, ‘the university
supports the efforts of its faculty to further the
advancement of knowledge….”

5. Perverted Professional Services

6. Confusing gender distinctions
Credit: Kerry Rego Consulting
How many gender options are there on Facebook?

7. All parents are not in agreement with basic truth
Commentary: My transgender daughter should not
have to use the men’s restroom
Tucker FitzGerald is a Seattle father, husband and graphic designer. He
has been involved with the Gender Diversity family support group for
three years.

8. Earlier “sexualization” of our kids
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9. The Chill of “Frozen”
“No right, no wrong, no rules for me!” Elsa
“It seems the animators couldn’t help but visually send the
message that ‘letting it go’ means putting on high heels,
caking your face in make-up, and showing very little passion
in your face (aside from constantly smiling) during the
emotionally charged parts of the song. Visually, this still
sends the wrong message that girls must still be worried
about being sexy during their journey of self discovery and
empowerment.”

10. Songs at Church
 “Trust and obey, for there is no other way to be
happy in Jesus, but to trust and obey.”
Does a spring pour forth from the same opening both
fresh and salt water?
James 3:11

11. Tolerating the porn tidal wave
American scholars have come to nearly identical
nonconclusions. “By the end we looked at 40 to 50
studies,” said Eric Owens, an assistant professor at West
Chester University in Pennsylvania and co-author of “The
Impact of Internet Pornography on Adolescents: A Review
of the Research,” published in Sexual Addiction and
Compulsivity: The Journal of Treatment and Prevention.
“And it became, ‘O.K., this one tells us A, this one tells us
B.’ To some degree we threw up our hands and said, there
is no conclusion to be drawn here.”

12. There is a way that seems right to a man,
but its end is the way to death.
Proverbs 14:12

13. Scoffing at God’s view of sex restricted to
marriage and procreation of children
LGBT-affirming Christian
denominations
Affirming Pentecostal Church International
Anglican Church of Canada
The Anthem Network
Association of Welcoming and Affirming Baptists
AXIOS - Eastern and Orthodox Gay and Lesbian
Christians
Catholic Apostolic Church in North America
Christian Church (Disciples of Christ)
Community of Christ
Ecclesia Gnostica
Ecumenical Catholic Church
Ecumenical Catholic Communion
Episcopal Church (United States)
Eucharistic Catholic Church
Evangelical Anglican Church In America
Evangelical Catholic Church
Evangelical Lutheran Church in America
The Evangelical Network
Friends General Conference
Friends of Jesus Fellowship in
America
Global Alliance of Affirming
Apostolic Pentecostals
Inclusive Orthodox Church
Independent Catholic Christian
Church
Independent Greek Orthodox
Church of the United States
Metropolitan Community
Church
Old Catholic Church
Presbyterian Church (USA)
Progressive Christian Alliance
Reconciling Pentecostals

14. The Solution
Asking the Holy Spirit for wisdom to teach your
children ZERO tolerance
Matthew 5:27-28
“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit
adultery.’ But I tell you that anyone who looks at a
woman lustfully has already committed adultery with
her in his heart.”

15. Start with Self Examination
Beyond Abstinence: Challenging your child to the
higher goal of purity.
“No matter what you teach your child, your model of
purity will go farthest in protecting your child. He needs
to see a commitment to purity in your life.”
By Dennis and Barbara Rainey

16. Make The Lord Your First Passion and His Plan
for Earthly Passion Will Follow
“Your child’s understanding of sexuality will be
derived from somewhere, either from you or from
culture.
“The topic of purity is not all about rules, or
making it to the wedding night as a virgin. At the
center of the purity message is a love and genuine
passion for God. From this is born a lifestyle of
purity.”
Lakepointe Church

17. Virginity is Not the Main Goal
1 Thessalonians. 4:3-5, 7
For this is the will of God, your sanctification; that is,
that you abstain from sexual immorality; that each of
you know how to possess his own vessel in
sanctification and honor, not in lustful passion, like
the Gentiles who do not know God. . . For God has not
called us for the purpose of impurity but in
sanctification.

18. Let God Do the “Sex Education” Class
 Part of creation
So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he
created him; male and female he created them.
Genesis 1:27
 Procreation
Then God blessed them and said, "Be fruitful and multiply.
Genesis 1:28
 Pleasure is marriage
A loving doe, a graceful deer-- may her breasts satisfy you
always, may you ever be intoxicated with her love.
Proverbs 5:19

19. Help them see the benefits of Obeying God
 Nothing to hide
 Clear conscience
 Your experience will only be limited to your spouse
 It’s another form of self-control
2 Timothy 2:22
Now flee from youthful lusts, and pursue
righteousness, faith, love, and peace, with those who
call on the Lord from a pure heart".

20. Provide in the home what they “think” they need
outside with physical affection
Definition of Sin: Satisfying a legitimate desire by
illegitimate means.
Our goal as parents is to recognize a child’s
desire for love, affection, attention, can be met
in so many God honoring ways, that can help
overcome illegitimate sexual temptations.

21. Teach and Share the Beauty of God’s Word
Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the
marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually
immoral and adulterous.
Hebrews 13:4
I will not set before my eyes anything that is worthless.
Psalm 101:3
Do not present your members to sin as instruments for
unrighteousness, but present yourselves to God as those
who have been brought from death to life, and your
members to God as instruments for righteousness.
Romans 6:13