1. “Particularly for girls, there is
pressure coming from two
opposite ends: the pressure
to “lose it” and the pressure
to lose it “in the right way.” I
don‟t think guys feel that
“right way” bit as much.
2. Child-rearing practices
Government policy
Religion
Media images
Pharmaceutical companies
Drug advertisements
Violence
Sexual abuse
Stereotypes
3. A virgin is defined as someone who has
not had sexual intercourse
As women we face the opinions that we
should save ourselves for marriage
On the other hand, teen girls often face
the idea that „everyone is having sex‟
4. The media portrays different stereotypes
having to do with sexuality, which
include:
› African-American: hypersexual when young;
asexual when older
› Latina: tight revealing clothing
› Muslim: clothing that covers them head to
toe
› Lesbians: aggressive man-haters
› Bisexuals: promiscuous
5. Our comfort level when it comes to our
sexuality can often be crippled by the
way that we view ourselves
The media is telling us we are supposed
to look a certain way, which can often
times make us feel uncomfortable with
out bodies
This often times limits us, even if our
partner enjoys our body
6. A power struggle in a You feel you should have sex
relationship, even if not
acknowledged, can lead when your partner wants to
to some of the following You feel you should have
feelings:
orgasms to validate your
partner
You feel you shouldn‟t ask
for what you want
You feel you shouldn‟t use
protection if it interferes with
your partners pleasure
If you have a male
partner, you feel you should
help him orgasm to relieve
his sexual tensions
If you have a male
partner, you feel you should
take care of the birth
control, unless he doesn‟t
want you taking birth control
7. Sexual abuse is a For someone who
tragic matter, and has experienced
may be something sexual abuse, they
that a person has to may need to show
live with for their there partner how to
entire life take things slower so
Being in a they can warm up
relationship with You may have to
someone who start with sensual
experienced a form conversations or
of sexual abuse may touching your
mean being sensitive partner gently
and caring to the
situation
8. Often times, religion has an impact on
our sexuality
Some religions preach sexual purity until
marriage
Some religions to not support same sex
relationships
These views can often hold people back
from truly understanding their own
sexuality
9. Celibacy can be defined as someone
who chooses to withhold from have
sex, and sometimes even masturbation
Some people choose celibacy for
religious reasons, for the chance at
distance or solitude, or even because
they just do not want to have sex
10. Asexuality is not a sudden decline in
sexual interest or attraction, but instead it
is the lack of interest in any form of sex
It is a sexual orientation, not a choice
One woman states: “I love the human
form and can regard individuals as works
of art and find people aesthetically
pleasing, but I don‟t ever want to come
into sexual contact with even the most
beautiful of people
11. I do not have an opinion either way on
this chapter because it is stating facts
and not giving opinions. I learned a lot
about sexuality that I had never thought
about before. It is interesting how many
different aspects of our lives truly impact
how we view our sexuality.
12. Do you think there is a double standard
for men and women when it comes to
sex? Why? (Is is because of society? The
media? How we are raised? Etc?)