This document discusses Islam's stance on pre-marital relationships. It outlines that Islam only permits relationships within marriage. Any romantic or sexual relationship outside of marriage, such as boyfriend-girlfriend relationships, is considered haram or forbidden. The document provides quotes from the Quran and hadiths to support this view and warns that pre-marital relationships can easily lead to further sinful acts. It also discusses the benefits of waiting for marriage such as increased self-respect, peace of mind, and developing good character.
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What about work socials and group study?
And the big one – where does Islam stand on my relationship with my fiancé?
Allah SWT says in the Qur’an:
"Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty: that will make for greater purity for them...
...And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty."
[Surah al-Noor: 30-31]
Find out all the answers with your host Sheikh Musleh Khan in this Webinar Presenation where Sheikh Musleh will guide you through the Islamic relationship rules of work, family, friends and fiancés!
Is free-mixing allowed within cousins?
What does Islam say about working with people of the opposite gender?
What about work socials and group study?
And the big one – where does Islam stand on my relationship with my fiancé?
Allah SWT says in the Qur’an:
"Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty: that will make for greater purity for them...
...And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty."
[Surah al-Noor: 30-31]
Find out all the answers with your host Sheikh Musleh Khan in this Webinar Presenation where Sheikh Musleh will guide you through the Islamic relationship rules of work, family, friends and fiancés!
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Do you know the rulings behind the mahr?
What about knowing who can and can’t be your mahrams?
What about walis – do you know their rights over you in relation to marriage?
If you think you know everything there is to know about mahr, mahrams and walis, then prepare to be shocked and amazed as we delve deep into a this highly misunderstood and often mis-represented topic that can easily confuse the best of us!
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• Conditions which nullify your wali for representing you (yes this happens a LOT and you probably don’t even know this!)
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Do you know the rulings behind the mahr?
What about knowing who can and can’t be your mahrams?
What about walis – do you know their rights over you in relation to marriage?
If you think you know everything there is to know about mahr, mahrams and walis, then prepare to be shocked and amazed as we delve deep into a this highly misunderstood and often mis-represented topic that can easily confuse the best of us!
Sheikh Musleh Khan will help you discover:
• What makes a mahr and the conditions attached to it
• Whether or not your marriage is valid without a mahr
• The fundamental rulings of mahrams in relation to marriage
• Why a wali is needed for marriage
• Conditions which nullify your wali for representing you (yes this happens a LOT and you probably don’t even know this!)
• What you can do if you don’t have a wali
It doesn’t matter whether you’re about to get married or your children are, this is an incredibly important topic which MUST be understood so you fulfil the rights Allah SWT has give you.
One of the most popular and oft quoted hadith (sayings attributed to the Prophet Muhammad) is narrated by Mu'awiyah bin Jahima al-Sulami and reported by Imam ibn Hanbal. The hadith relates how al-Sulami went to the Prophet Muhammad and said, "O messenger of Allah, I desire to go on the military expedition and I have come to consult you." The Prophet responded by asking, "Do you have a mother?" Al-Sulami replied, "Yes." The Prophet told him, "Stay with her, because paradise lies beneath her feet."
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Islamic Legislation takes great interest in, and attaches great importance to children, and many rulings, etiquettes and instructions were laid down concerning them. Unfortunately, we live in a time were the radiant sun of Islamic rulings has set; knowledge has disappeared; and blind imitation of the west and ignorance in general is widespread. Many Muslims who fell in love with the western way of life became interested in how the westerners take care of their children, as well as what they do to bring joy and happiness to their children; at the same time, these Muslims neglected everything that Islam has to offer in this regard. This book is an adaption of a friday khutbah given by Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid explaining how the Muslim should raise his children.
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Boyfriend girlfriend the stand of islam by nuh tahir
1. Boyfriend - Girlfriend relationship
THE STAND OF ISLAM
By Nuhu Tahir
6 Safar 1437 A.H
19 Nov 2015 AC (NOT A.D)
2. REMINDERS
• Broadly, Islam has five categories of Do’s and Don’ts:
• (i) ‘Fard’ i.e. compulsory or obligatory
• (ii) ‘Mustahab’ i.e. recommended or encouraged
• (iii) ‘Mubah/Halal’ i.e. allowed or permissible
• (iv) ‘Makruh’ i.e. not recommended or discouraged
• (v) ‘Haraam’ i.e. prohibited or forbidden
3. Introduction
• Zina (fornication) has become a common place occurrence
within the Muslim Youth community.
• The Muslim girls and boys have sadly fallen prey to the
snares of non-Islamic lifestyle.
• The Qur'an prohibits anything that motivates one's heart in
a seductive way towards the other because, it build’s up into
an unhealthy /Haram relationship.
4. Preamble
• Because we do not take the time to talk and explain to
ourselves about the seriousness of Zina, most boyfriend
girlfriend (friendship) have lead us into:
PRE-MARITAL RELATIONSHIP
5. Pre Marital relationship
• A relationship between a man and a woman outside of
marriage is haraam, whether it goes as far as an
“intimate relationship” or zina (sexual relationship).
• Zina is one of the MAJOR sins and one of the gravest
of major sins that poses the greatest danger to the
individual’s religious commitment and faith, or it is less
than that, “looking, touching or kissing”.
• All of that is haraam and these are types of zina in the
general sense, and are things that lead to the greater
immoral action, extra marital affairs, masturbation,
Abortion etc…….
6. Allah speaks on pre/extra marital affairs
• The Qur’an in (Surah 17, al Isra,, verse 32), Allah
says: “Do not go near adultery, surely it is an
indecency, and an evil way [of fulfilling sexual
urge]”.
7. The Prophet SAW Speaks to us
• Abu Hurairah (r.a.a) narrated that Prophet Muhammad
(s.a.w) said that among the seven persons whom Allah
will shade in His Shade on the Day (of Judgement) when
there is no shade except His Shade, is a man who is
tempted by a beautiful woman and refuses to respond
for fear of Allah. [Bukhari and Muslim].
8. Fornication & Adultery
• “The believers are… those who protect their sexual
organs except from their spouses… Therefore,
whosoever seeks more beyond that [in sexual
gratification+, then they are the transgressors.” (Surah
23 Al Muminoon (The Believers):5-6)
• Again Allah says, “Those who invoke not, with Allah,
any other god, nor slay such life as Allah has made
sacred except for just cause, nor commit fornication and
any that does this deserves punishment.” *Sûrah al-
Furqân: 68]
9. Is Boyfriend/girlfriend relationship halal or haram?
• In Islam, there is no such thing as a girlfriend-boyfriend
relationship. You are either married or you are not.
• A girl or boy can have a HALAL relationship FOR THE
SAKE OF ALLAH with a non-Mahram. Furthermore, if a
girl or boy enters into a HARAM girlfriend-boyfriend
relationship or just a relationship, then he/she is
entering into a HARAM pre-marital relationship.
10. Questions Before Marriage
• If you have any affection towards a person, you should
ask yourself:
1. why do you like that person?
2. Is it love?
3. Is it lust? (Infatuation etc…
4. If you have good Islamic, reasonable justification, then
you need not tell that person of what you feel.
5. Make a serious plan (DISCOURSE WITH YOUR
PARENTS) to make him ask for your hand in marriage.
11. Fitnah of pre-marital relationship IS ZINA
• A great part of it is what people nowadays call love
or romance through social media etc…..
12. Zina Venues for students/young adults
• On Campus (Car park, night group studies, offices,
abandoned places etc….
• Off campus (Apartments, BQs, outings, parties (with
our uncles and aunties), outside your state etc…..
• “Zanche” …… shopping etc…..
• Lesbo & Fags……………… (Homosexual/lesbians)
13. Valid marriage after a relationship
• That marriage comes after a HARAM/HALAL
relationship (the relationship did not go as far as zina,
such as kissing, touching and other haraam actions that
are less serious than zina).
• In this case the marriage is valid, because it cannot be
said of those who fell into this haraam relationship that
they committed zina.
14. Istibra’a
• It is permissible for a person who committed Zina
(fornication or adultery) to marry provided that they
both have repented to Allah (SWT), and provided that
this marriage takes place after Istibra’a, (i.e. after she
gives birth if she is pregnant or observes a waiting
period of three menses according to one view of the
scholars, or one menses according to another view)
15. 24. Surah An Noor (The Light) Aya 3
ْوَأ ٍانَز ََّلِإ ٓاَهُحِكنَي ََل ُةَيِناَّٱلزَو ًةَك ِْرشُم ْوَأ ًةَيِناَز ََّلِإ ُحِكنَي ََل ىِناَّٱلز
َينِنِمْؤُمْلٱ ىَلَع َكِلََٰذ َم ِّرُحَو ۚ ٌك ِْرشُم
“The adulterer shall marry none but an adulteress or
an idolatress; and the adulteress shall marry none but
an adulterer or an idolater. That has been prohibited
for the believers”
16. 24. Surah An Noor (The Light) Aya 26
ُاتَثيِبَخْالَُينِثيِبَخْلِلَُونيثِبَخْالَوُِتاَثيِبَخْلِلُاتَبِيَّالطَوَُينِبِيَّلطِلَُونبِيَّالطَوُِتاَبِيَّلطِل
“Bad statements are for bad people (or bad women for
bad men) and bad people for bad statements (or bad men
for bad women). Good statements are for good people (or
good women for good men) and good people for good
statements (or good men for good women)…”
17. Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him)
“If love develops for a reason that is not haraam, a person
cannot be blamed for that, such as one who loves his wife
or his servant woman, then he leaves her but that love
remains and does not leave him. He is not to be blamed
for that. The same applies if he glances accidentally then
looks away, but love may settle in his heart without him
wanting it to. But he has to ward it off and look away”
18. Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him)
A person may hear that a woman is of good character and virtuous
and knowledgeable, so he may want to marry her. Or a woman
may hear that a man is of good character and virtuous and
knowledgeable and religiously committed, so she may want to
marry him. But contact between the two who admire one another
in ways that are not Islamically acceptable is the problem, which
leads to disastrous consequences. In this case it is not permissible
for the man to get in touch with the woman or for the woman to
get in touch with the man, and say that he wants to marry her.
Rather he should tell her wali (guardian) that he wants to marry
her, or she should tell her wali that she wants to marry him, as
‘Umar (may Allaah be pleased with him) did when he offered his
daughter Hafsah in marriage to Abu Bakr and ‘Uthmaan (may
Allaah be pleased with them both). But if the woman contacts the
man directly, this is what leads to fitnah (temptation).
19. Haram Boyfriend and Girlfriend relationship
You are going too far when . . .
• Either person’s hands start roaming.
• He says he wants to know me deeply
• You are doing something you wouldn’t do in the
presence of someone you really respect.
• You are arousing feelings that reduce your self-control
and ability to make the right decision.
21. Benefits of waiting till you are married
• Makes you an ideal Muslim (Rewards from ALLAH).
• Waiting will make your relationships better because
you’ll spend more time getting to know each other.
• Waiting will increase your self-respect.
• Waiting will teach you to respect others—you won’t
tempt or pressure them.
22. Benefits of waiting till you are married Contd.
• Waiting means a clear conscience (no guilt) and peace
of mind (no regrets).
• Waiting will help you find the right mate—someone
who values you for the person you are.
• Waiting means a better relationship in marriage—free
of comparisons and based on trust. By waiting, you’re
being faithful to your spouse even before you meet him
or her.
23. • By practicing the virtues involved in waiting—such as
good judgment, self-control, modesty, and genuine
respect for self and others—you’re developing the kind
of character that will make you a good Muslim marriage
partner.
• By becoming a person of character yourself, you’ll be
able to attract a person of character—the kind of
person you’d like to marry and to have as the father or
mother of your children.
Benefits of waiting till you are married Contd.
24. CONCLUSSION
• A young man once came to our Prophet (peace be upon
him) and said: “O, Messenger of Allah give me a
permission to commit fornication.”
• The Companions were angry
• “Would you like a man to fornicate with your mother?”
The young man replied: “No.”
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “Hence other
people do not like it for their mothers. Would you like it
for your daughter?”
The man said: “No.”
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “Hence people do
not like it for their daughters….” *Musnad Ahmad]
25. • Subhanaka Allahuma wabihamdiqa, Ashahadu
anlailaha ila anta. Astagafurka wa atubuilaihiak
• “How perfect you are o Allah I praise you, I bear
witness that none has the right to be worshiped
except you. I seek your forgiveness and I turn to you
in repentance”.