This document discusses the ethics of autoethnographic writing both inside and outside of academia. It notes that published writers entering PhD programs are often surprised by university ethics requirements for works involving personal elements. The paper examines how autoethnography connects the personal and social, making it difficult to discuss oneself without discussing others. It also considers challenges of applying a retrospective methodology in practice-led research, which clashes with universities' proactive ethics procedures. The document identifies nine practical problems that can arise and argues for best practices around consent, transparency, and dialogue regarding autoethnographic research ethics.