The document provides a dozen tips for parents to protect their young daughters from harassment and abuse in today's environment. It advises teaching children about "good touch vs bad touch", carefully handling complaints about relatives, supervising tuition and play, ensuring safe transportation, and being vigilant of servants and strangers who could take inappropriate photos or videos. Overall, the tips emphasize supervising children, teaching bodily autonomy, and ensuring they know to seek help from trusted adults if they feel unsafe.

1. A dozen ideas to protect your little
daughter…!
There is very less security for girl children these days. Let us see how we can protect them and take care of them…!
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2. Present situation in our country
 Even the kids that are
playing with small dolls
are being agonized with
lots of harassment and
physical abuse.
 Every parent is worried
as to how they should
bring up their children in
this critical environment.
 This is just to sensitize
with some tips that would
help parents to take care
of their children.
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3. Good touch v/s Bad touch
 If your kid is less than 4 or
5 years of age and they
can not understand much
communication, just tell
them very simply : “If any
one touches you in your
face it is ok. If some one
touches any part of your
body under your neck
portion, you have to tell
your mom”. This would
surely make them feel
protected to some extent.
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4. If your child complains…
 Let us say that one of your
close relative touches your
kid in a wrong place and
the child makes a
complaint about it, please
understand that it is a tricky
and sensitive issue
because your relative is
involved. Handle it very
carefully. Think twice
before any action or you
proceed further in the
matter.
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5. Are you sending your kid for the tuition?
 Please visit the tuition center
and see the environment,
meet the teacher and also
find out how many children
are coming for the tuition.
 If the teacher says, “please
stay back and finish the
work before you go”, your
child can learn to refuse it
nicely.
 It is better to bring a teacher
home even it is a bit
expensive. Your child will
feel secured. And you will
also be at peace.
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6. Playing with other children
 Let your child play with
the other children either in
your compound or outside
your gate.
 If the child is going to the
neighbor's house, you
may allow only if there is a
female in that house.
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7. In the school van or bus
 Please take the pain of
going to the venue where
your child would alight
from the van or bus from
the school or class.
 If the child is little older,
you may send her by a
cycle and let her come
with her other friends and
not alone.
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8. If the school is suddenly closed….
 If the school declares a
sudden holiday, tell your
kid to wait in the school
with her teacher till you
reach there to pick her up.
 You may even give your
number to the teacher or
school management for
any emergency.
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9. No permission to go to a friend’s house
 You may not permit your
kid to go for a group
study or a night stay in
friend’s house – unless
the friend’s mother
assures to take care of
the kid.
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10. If any stranger chases…
 Let us say your kid is
grown-up and some
stranger is chasing,
please advise her to enter
a nursing home, petrol
bunk or a crowded place
or a bus stop and sit
down there for some
time. She may even call
the parent over phone for
help.
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11. In public functions…
 If the kid accompanies
you for a public function
or a wedding, always
keep an eye on the kid
and never let the kid be
alone in a less-crowded
place
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12. Beware…Be aware
 Servants, water suppliers,
or shop keepers who visit
our house frequently –
watch out as to how they
behave with your kid as
they are the ones who
share unwanted photos
or videos with the kids
when they are alone.
Better to be careful and
watchful.
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13. If anyone expressing love to your kid…
 There are lots of relatives,
friends who would like to
pick up the kid and keep
them on their lap. You
may allow them only if you
are very confident about
them. Nothing wrong to be
watchful about the person
who is holding your kid.
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14. Going to toilets…
 Kids may be wanting to go
to toilet or rest room.
 Better to advise our kids
not to use public toilets.
 If it is very urgent or
unavoidable, parent is
advised to accompany the
kid, as most of the
misbehavior happens only
under this circumstance.
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15. Hope you are relieved now…
 Always
 Be
 Careful
 Be vigilant
 Let your kid be secured
 It is our responsibility to
protect our kids.
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