3. MyMy main objective is to show to you thatmain objective is to show to you that
byby masteringmastering thethe four personalityfour personality
typestypes andand five love languagesfive love languages,,
you will lessen your conflicts.you will lessen your conflicts.
4. Finished AffffairS ARE THE
RESULTRESULT of YEARS Of
non-terrific love combinedcombined
withwith
THE EXPERIENCE OF Not beingNot being noticednoticed.........
5.
6. Finished AffffairS ARE THE
RESULTRESULT of YEARS Of
non-terrific love combinedcombined
withwith
THE EXPERIENCE OF Not beingNot being noticednoticed.........
57. There are five languages of loveThere are five languages of love
Words of AffirmationWords of Affirmation
Quality TimeQuality Time
Receiving GiftsReceiving Gifts
Acts of ServiceActs of Service
Physical TouchPhysical Touch
60. First language:First language:
Words of AffirmationWords of Affirmation
These are compliments or wordsThese are compliments or words
of appreciation.of appreciation.
Also included are words of encouragement.Also included are words of encouragement.
The tone of your voice matters. Keep it kind!The tone of your voice matters. Keep it kind!
If asking for something, make it a request, not aIf asking for something, make it a request, not a
demand.demand.
63. Second language:Second language:
Quality TimeQuality Time
It is spending time with each other, without beingIt is spending time with each other, without being
distracted by other things around you.distracted by other things around you.
You are both doing an activity you enjoy (or oneYou are both doing an activity you enjoy (or one
enjoys and the other is willing to do).enjoys and the other is willing to do).
Focus is on being togetherFocus is on being together..
64. Second language:Second language:
Quality TimeQuality Time
Know your spouse by talking with each other.Know your spouse by talking with each other.
“What do you think about…..”“What do you think about…..”
Listen to what they are saying and respond kindlyListen to what they are saying and respond kindly
to it!to it!
Be willing to share your feelings, wishes, andBe willing to share your feelings, wishes, and
dreams.dreams.
67. Third language:Third language:
Receiving GiftsReceiving Gifts
A gift is a visual symbol of the love youA gift is a visual symbol of the love you
have for the other.have for the other.
The cost of the gift does not matter, as much asThe cost of the gift does not matter, as much as
the thought and effort put into giving the gift.the thought and effort put into giving the gift.
Gifts may be homemade, bought, or found.Gifts may be homemade, bought, or found.
68. Third language:Third language:
Receiving GiftsReceiving Gifts
A single flower given a dozen times will haveA single flower given a dozen times will have
more meaning than a dozen roses given one time.more meaning than a dozen roses given one time.
Love is a difficult emotion to express,Love is a difficult emotion to express,
and a gift is a visual symboland a gift is a visual symbol
of that love.of that love.
71. Fourth language:Fourth language:
Acts of ServiceActs of Service
Acts of service is love expressed byActs of service is love expressed by
actions.actions.
You put thought, time, energy, and effort intoYou put thought, time, energy, and effort into
deciding what would please your spouse the most.deciding what would please your spouse the most.
Love this way may be shown as helping withLove this way may be shown as helping with
various chores.various chores.
72. Fourth language:Fourth language:
Acts of ServiceActs of Service
It takes time and effort to decide what specificIt takes time and effort to decide what specific
actions would mean the most to your spouse.actions would mean the most to your spouse.
75. Fifth language:Fifth language:
Physical TouchPhysical Touch
No, it’s not just about sex.No, it’s not just about sex.
It may include hugs, holding hands, a briefIt may include hugs, holding hands, a brief
touch to one’s shoulder, ora brief kiss beforetouch to one’s shoulder, ora brief kiss before
leaving home.leaving home.
89. ““One of the best feelings in the world isOne of the best feelings in the world is
knowing that your presence and absencknowing that your presence and absenc
both mean something to someone."both mean something to someone."
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LOLA NIDORA
QUALITY TIME
97. Understand yourselfUnderstand yourself andand
other peopleother people by applying whatby applying what
you have learned about theyou have learned about the
four personality typesfour personality types andand
five love languagesfive love languages..
Reduce relationship conflicts!