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4 four personalities and 5 five love languages
The document discusses how understanding the four personality types (Sanguine, Melancholy, Choleric, Phlegmatic) and five love languages (Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, Physical Touch) can help reduce relationship conflicts. It provides information about each of the personality types and love languages, and encourages understanding yourself and others using this framework. The objective is to apply what is learned about personalities and love languages to improve relationships and lessen conflicts.
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- 1. 05/24/16 1 May 8,2016 330 pm Coffee Empire, QC
- 3. MyMy main objectiveis to show to you thatmain objective is to show to you that byby masteringmastering thethe four personalityfour personality typestypes andand five love languagesfive love languages,, you will lessen your conflicts.you will lessen your conflicts.
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- 57. There are fivelanguages of loveThere are five languages of love Words of AffirmationWords of Affirmation Quality TimeQuality Time Receiving GiftsReceiving Gifts Acts of ServiceActs of Service Physical TouchPhysical Touch
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- 60. First language:First language: Wordsof AffirmationWords of Affirmation These are compliments or wordsThese are compliments or words of appreciation.of appreciation. Also included are words of encouragement.Also included are words of encouragement. The tone of your voice matters. Keep it kind!The tone of your voice matters. Keep it kind! If asking for something, make it a request, not aIf asking for something, make it a request, not a demand.demand.
- 61. 05/24/16 61 Ang pogiAngpogi mo naman!mo naman!
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- 63. Second language:Second language: QualityTimeQuality Time It is spending time with each other, without beingIt is spending time with each other, without being distracted by other things around you.distracted by other things around you. You are both doing an activity you enjoy (or oneYou are both doing an activity you enjoy (or one enjoys and the other is willing to do).enjoys and the other is willing to do). Focus is on being togetherFocus is on being together..
- 64. Second language:Second language: QualityTimeQuality Time Know your spouse by talking with each other.Know your spouse by talking with each other. “What do you think about…..”“What do you think about…..” Listen to what they are saying and respond kindlyListen to what they are saying and respond kindly to it!to it! Be willing to share your feelings, wishes, andBe willing to share your feelings, wishes, and dreams.dreams.
- 65. 05/24/16 65 Where nau?Where na u?
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- 67. Third language:Third language: ReceivingGiftsReceiving Gifts A gift is a visual symbol of the love youA gift is a visual symbol of the love you have for the other.have for the other. The cost of the gift does not matter, as much asThe cost of the gift does not matter, as much as the thought and effort put into giving the gift.the thought and effort put into giving the gift. Gifts may be homemade, bought, or found.Gifts may be homemade, bought, or found.
- 68. Third language:Third language: ReceivingGiftsReceiving Gifts A single flower given a dozen times will haveA single flower given a dozen times will have more meaning than a dozen roses given one time.more meaning than a dozen roses given one time. Love is a difficult emotion to express,Love is a difficult emotion to express, and a gift is a visual symboland a gift is a visual symbol of that love.of that love.
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- 71. Fourth language:Fourth language: Actsof ServiceActs of Service Acts of service is love expressed byActs of service is love expressed by actions.actions. You put thought, time, energy, and effort intoYou put thought, time, energy, and effort into deciding what would please your spouse the most.deciding what would please your spouse the most. Love this way may be shown as helping withLove this way may be shown as helping with various chores.various chores.
- 72. Fourth language:Fourth language: Actsof ServiceActs of Service It takes time and effort to decide what specificIt takes time and effort to decide what specific actions would mean the most to your spouse.actions would mean the most to your spouse.
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- 75. Fifth language:Fifth language: PhysicalTouchPhysical Touch No, it’s not just about sex.No, it’s not just about sex. It may include hugs, holding hands, a briefIt may include hugs, holding hands, a brief touch to one’s shoulder, ora brief kiss beforetouch to one’s shoulder, ora brief kiss before leaving home.leaving home.
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- 89. ““One of thebest feelings in the world isOne of the best feelings in the world is knowing that your presence and absencknowing that your presence and absenc both mean something to someone."both mean something to someone." 05/24/16 89 LOLA NIDORA QUALITY TIME
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- 97. Understand yourselfUnderstand yourselfandand other peopleother people by applying whatby applying what you have learned about theyou have learned about the four personality typesfour personality types andand five love languagesfive love languages.. Reduce relationship conflicts!
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