National Council on Family Relations


                                   Family Focus on . . .
                                                                                   Military Families
In focus //                                                                                                            Issue FF52

Reflections on
intergenerational relations	    page F3
                                          Working with the military
                                          by Shelley MacDermid Wadsworth, Associate Dean, College of Health and Human Sci-
Who gets custody of                       ences; Director, Center for Families; Director, Military Family Research Institute; profes-
                                          sor, Human Development and Family Studies, Purdue University, shelley@purdue.edu
Grandma after the divorce?	     page F5

The many faces of parental
                                          Since 2000, it has been my honor to lead the       military programs for
estrangement	                   page F8   Military Family Research Institute at Pur-         lacking sufficiently
                                          due University. This was an experience 	           rigorous evaluation
Intergenerational cultural                I never expected to have, but I have found         protocols. In at least
In focus // at
bonds: A look                             it to be among the most meaningful and             some of these cases,
Ukranian-American families page F11       intellectually engaging of my career. Today,       there were good
Buddy-to-Buddy: an innovative             the institute is actually misnamed because         reasons that evalua-
substitute for family support
Building intergenerational                we now carry out not just research but also        tion activities were
among at-risk, returning veterans         outreach with and for military families,           limited, such as legal
relationships via an Elder
of Iraq and Afghanistan	      page F2     working closely with military and com-             restrictions on        Shelley MacDermid
Service Partner program	      page F13    munity organizations. We often receive             appropriate use of         Wadsworth
Advice to the therapists working          calls from colleagues who are eager to learn       funds. You should always assume that
with military families	 in
Family stress and risk        page F4     about working with the military, and so in         your predecessors were smart, thoughtful
grandparent-headed                        this article I share some suggestions. Some        people who wanted to do a good job. If
Military Families Internship:             of these were presented at a recent meeting        you can find out about the constraints they
households	
Strengthening families        page F14
                                          of the Society for Social Work Research.           faced, you will have a much better chance
and communities	              page F6                                                        of improving on their effort.
                                          Go Back to the Books
World War II in                           There is a good chance that many of the            Never Forget that It’s Not About You 	
people’s lives	                page F9    research questions or intervention ideas you       or Your Program
                                          are thinking of have already been thought of       Military folks have an important mis-
Military service and the life             by others. Because research about military         sion to carry out for the country. They are
course: An assessment of                  families tends to wane between conflicts,          completely funded by taxpayer dollars
what we know	                 page F11    the most recent research relevant to your          and they expect accountability. They work
                                          question may have been published soon              with academics to find better ways to
Military families: what we know           after the most recent large-scale conflict (the	   fulfill their mission, not because they are
and what we don’t know	      page F13     first Gulf War in the 1990s). Considerable         trying to help us publish articles, conduct
                                          research on military families is published in      randomized trials of a new intervention, or
Returning home: What we
                                          technical reports rather than peer-reviewed        train students. If they learn of a resource
know about the reintegration
                                          literature (because it is funded by military       that they think will help them fulfill their
of deployed service members               contracts), and thus you must search the           mission better, cheaper, or faster, they need
into their families and                   “gray” literature as well as the traditional       to pursue that option even if it means with-
communities	                page F16      scientific literature (the Defense Techni-         drawing support from existing projects.
                                          cal Information Center is a very important
Teaching about military families:                                                            Every day, military members are in harm’s
                                          source). Before you conclude that your idea
Lessons from the field	     page F18                                                         way around the world. Even in European
                                          really is new, make sure you scan the envi-
                                                                                             cities on “regular” deployments, service
                                          ronment very carefully.
 The theme for the next issue of 	                                                           members have been targets of lethal vio-
 NCFR Report is “Teaching Family          Remember the Old Adage that “Fools                 lence. Combat deployments are decreas-
 Science.” Deadline for submission is     Rush in Where Angels Fear to Tread”                ing as troops leave Iraq and Afghanistan,
                                          It can be easy to find flaws in prior research     but deployments for peacekeeping, natural
 March 21, 2012. Questions? Write the
                                          or intervention efforts. For example, many         disasters, training, and many other purpos-
 editor at nancygonzalez@ncfr.org
                                          reports have recently criticized existing          es continue. Thus, the children, partners,

                                                                                           working with the military continued on page F2
Family Focus on...	                          Military Families

Buddy-to-Buddy: An innovative substitute
for family support among at-risk, returning
veterans of Iraq and Afghanistan
by Christopher Jarman, MSW, Michigan State University, christja@med.umich.edu; Adrian Blow, Ph.D., Michigan State University;
Marcia Valenstein, M.D., M.S., The University of Michigan


Soldiers at war anticipate few events so much    experiences upon
as returning home to family, friends, and a      returning home,
sense of peace. Yet for many returning vet-      however, are at best
erans, peace eludes them as they begin new       only loosely similar
battles with combat sequelae such as post-       to those of their full-
traumatic stress, depression, substance abuse,   time counterparts.
anxiety, traumatic brain injuries, and social
                                               Active-duty soldiers
isolation, all of which can have devastating
                                               typically return to
effects on close relationships. For one group
                                               large military com-
of recent veterans members of the Army                                    Christopher Jarman          Adrian Blow          Marcia Valenstein
                                               munities replete with
National Guard these experiences appear to                                                       ticularly for NG soldiers. However, these
                                               specialized support services for reintegration
occur at still higher rates and with greater                                                     family members are at times not able to
                                               (e.g., military hospitals, outpatient clinics,
severity than the rest of the military.                                                          be ideal supporters. Frequently, service
                                               family support groups and programs, ad-
Army National Guard (NG) soldiers comprise     diction treatment, and military chaplains,        members may choose not to speak with
nearly a third of the nation’s 1.12 million    to name but a few). Crucially, active-duty        family members about their struggles out
soldiers. Working part time (one weekend a     soldiers return to communities where they         of concern for burdening these individu-
month and a two-week annual training), these are surrounded both by military peers with          als. In addition, service members may find
citizen soldiers lead more traditional lives   similar experiences as well as the structure      it very difficult to talk to family members
when not in uniform. During the 10 years of    and close monitoring of their chain of com-       about disturbing or traumatizing deployment
the Global War on Terror, however, NG units mand; in short, they are relatively ensconced        events. Family members themselves may
across the nation have repeatedly been called by their “military family,” a significant          have their own difficulties and as a result
to full-time duty, serving year-long tours far source of social support above and beyond         they may not be receptive to the difficulties
from home and family. NG veterans’             reintegration services.                           of the service member. NG family members
                                                                                                 live in a civilian world and may not be as
                                                 Guard soldiers, by contrast, return to largely understanding about the perils of war as the
working with the military                        civilian hometowns where they must quickly service member needs. In other cases, fam-
continued from page F1                           decompress from war while reintegrating         ily may be absent from the lives of service
                                                 into their civilian jobs and communities. So- members by virtue of distance or strained
parents, and other people who love military      cial interactions with members of their units relationships, leaving the service member
members will continue to watch, wait, and        often decrease precipitously, and many NG       with limited support. Whatever the reason,
worry. Over the past decade, we have added       veterans report a sense of isolation and disil- it is increasingly apparent that in some cases
millions of men and women to the veteran         lusionment with the more mundane, day-          service members are more easily able to
population, and the costs of caring for the      to-day experiences of civilian living. Poten- talk to their fellow service members about
service-connected illnesses and injuries         tially contributing to the challenge, many      struggles with deployment and reintegration,
of these individuals will not peak for sev-      young soldiers are unmarried or unpartnered and in cases where family is not ideal as a
eral decades. As educators, scholars, and        and no longer live with their families. These support, the military family takes on a much
practitioners, we are obligated to pay atten-    veterans are at potentially even greater risk   larger significance.
tion to this new demographic group. 	            of negative outcomes by virtue of social iso-
I am proud to be among many wonderful                                                            In response to growing awareness of the
                                                 lation and lack of close family support. For
colleagues around the world who are doing                                                        struggles facing National Guard veterans,
                                                 soldiers struggling with the traumatic effects
this work and we at MFRI are eager to col-                                                       our team of researchers, clinicians, and
                                                 of war, their “military family” may become
laborate with students and faculty who share                                                     military leaders in Michigan felt compelled
                                                 as important as their family of origin.
our interest in gathering and analyzing data,                                                    to respond. After several years of close col-
strengthening programs, and educating new        Often, family members (spouses, parents,        laboration we developed what is known as
colleagues. 			                                 and extended family) are the first lines of     Buddy-to-Buddy, an innovative peer support
                                                 support for soldiers when they return, par-                buddy-to-buddy continued on page F3
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buddy-to-buddy continued from page F2
program carefully tailored to meet the chal-      soon received grant funding from the Robert tions with soldiers, available resources, and
lenges and needs of our National Guard            R. McCormick Foundation’s Welcome Back      limited training regarding symptoms sug-
veterans. By enhancing the effectiveness 	                                                    gestive of the need for further evaluation.
                                                  Veterans initiative and began regularly meet-
of these soldiers’ “military family,” we are      ing to set a course for enhanced support forSoldiers are then assigned a panel of four to
hoping to improve outcomes among these            returning soldiers in Michigan.             10 soldiers in their units whom they contact
deserving veterans.                                                                           each month by phone or in person. During
                                                  Through an iterative process among group    these conversations, B1s rely on a list of
The military has long been aware of the           members, the collaboration between MSU,     11 potential problem areas to guide them.
struggles of returning soldiers and provides      UM, the VA, and the Michigan National       Importantly, these volunteers do not serve
soldiers in the NG and active duty alike with     Guard eventually developed a peer-support   as mental health counselors or case manag-
considerable support. Despite these resourc-      program for units returning from Operation  ers and do not diagnose conditions. Instead,
es, fear of stigmatization, a warrior ethos,      Iraqi Freedom (OIF) and Operation Endur-    B1s provide soldiers in need or at risk with
distrust of healthcare professionals, and         ing Freedom (OEF). Our intent was not to    an opportunity to speak to a trained, trusted
career concerns persist as powerful barriers      develop another mental health program, but peer and with substantially reduced concerns
to seeking care, and more than half of those      rather a unit-level mechanism for identify- about stigmatization, breeches of confiden-
in need choose not to seek it.                    ing soldiers with needs and confidentially  tiality, or career implications. If B1s have
In response to these alarming realities           connecting them with available resources. A concerns about one of their soldiers, they
among returning veterans, various organi-
zations in Michigan began considering a                      In response to growing awareness of the struggles facing
way to augment existing support programs.
Michigan which has no active-duty military           National Guard veterans, our team of researchers, clinicians, and military
installations, but a relatively large National           leaders in Michigan felt compelled to respond. After several years
Guard presence was rife with opportunities            of close collaboration we developed what is known as Buddy-to-Buddy,
to serve returning veterans. In 2005, faculty
at Michigan State University (MSU) began                 an innovative peer support program carefully tailored to meet the
developing tailored programs for returning                     challenges and needs of our National Guard veterans.
veterans and their families through what are
known as Reintegration Weekends. These            variety of hurdles including concerns about      can contact NG mental health personnel for
NG sponsored events provide soldiers and          confidentiality, ambivalence regarding treat-    consultations and referrals. Such concerns
their families opportunities to reconnect         ment, relational issues between the NG and       cover an array of matters, however, and
with their “military family” while simultane-     nonmilitary organizations, respect for the       may include financial issues, employment
ously receiving briefings and referral infor-     NG chain of command, programmatic feasi-         concerns, substance abuse problems, marital
mation for common needs. The MSU faculty          bility and effectiveness, and “in-unit” versus   difficulties, and so on.
sought to enhance these events by providing       “out-of-unit” peers required negotiation and     The second tier of volunteers consists of vet-
soldiers and families with information and        creative solutions. The result of these early    erans no longer serving who are selected and
assistance grounded in the latest research.       efforts became known as the Buddy-To-            supervised by VA and UM staff. These vol-
At many of these events, two of Michigan’s        Buddy Veteran Volunteer Program, or B2B.         unteers are selected because of their demon-
Vietnam veterans volunteered to provide           Designed specifically for service members        strated maturity, responsibility, interpersonal
informal, unstructured outreach efforts to        returning from OIF and OEF, we developed         skills, knowledge of mental health services,
soldiers, typically by giving talks about their   B2B to improve outcomes by activating            and trainability in more nuanced strategies
own experiences with the challenges and           veterans’ “military families.”                   for motivating soldiers to seek and remain in
pitfalls of reintegration. The veterans’ talks    Today, Buddy-to-Buddy is a two-tier peer-        care. B2s receive two days of intensive train-
had a powerful effect on soldiers as well as      support program run by within-unit soldier       ing, including the use of Motivational Inter-
visiting faculty members, who were intrigued      volunteers (Buddy Ones, or B1s) and vet-         viewing (MI), an empirically validated tech-
by their approach. The two veterans’ status       eran volunteers external to units (Buddy         nique for effectively responding to ambiva-
as relative outsiders to formal systems en-       Twos, or B2s). This tiered design provides a     lence. B2s often interact with their assigned
abled them to deliver their message of hope       balance between effectiveness and the con-       units at training weekends and reintegration
while bypassing the resistance so common          cerns mentioned above. Buddy One soldiers        events, and soldiers know they can call B2s
among returning veterans. Soon, University        are selected because peers view them as          directly if they prefer. B2s also receive sol-
of Michigan (UM) and Veteran’s Administra-        informal leaders to whom they willingly          dier referrals from B1s, military chaplains,
tion (VA) investigators joined the MSU fac-       turn for advice or support. These volunteers     commanders, family service organizations,
ulty at reintegration briefings, and by 2008,     receive roughly four hours of training on        and other sources. Each Buddy Two receives
discussions about more deliberate outreach        the Buddy-to-Buddy program, their roles as       weekly supervision teleconferences with an
programs based largely on the concept of          B1 volunteers, open-ended questioning and        experienced clinician in the VA.
peer support were ongoing. The collaboration      reflections to sustain and enhance conversa-              buddy-to-buddy continued on page F4

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Family Focus on...	                          Military Families

Advice to the therapists 		
working with military families
by Angela J. Huebner, Ph.D., Associate Professor, Department of Human Development,
Virginia Tech, ahuebner@vt.edu


The military conflicts in Iraq and Afghani-      emotions can shift into feelings of indepen-     access to a wide vari-
stan mark the first time in our nation’s         dence and control as the deployment wears        ety of mental health
history of military service that we have         on. Finally, reintegration occurs when the       supports. These sup-
attempted to maintain such an involved           service member returns to the United States      ports can include
forward deployment with an all-volunteer         and is reunited with his or her loved ones.      counseling through
force. To date, about 1.8 million troops have    This period may start as a honeymoon, but        behavioral health,
been deployed. This translates into 2.7 mil-     end in the reality of renegotiating roles and    chaplains, or Military
lion family members who have experienced         getting to know each other once again.           OneSource. Despite
separation from their service member for      Service members ranked deployment length            the availability of sup-
extended periods of time.                     and family separation among their top               ports and the docu-         Angela Huebner
                                              noncombat-related stressors. Other studies          mented impact of the
The experience of deployment can be di-
                                              have documented the impact of deploy-               stressors of deploy-
vided into three distinctive phases, each
                                              ment on family members, noting the shifts           ment, studies suggest that service members
with its own associated stressors and emo-
                                                                                                  and their families are often hesitant to seek
tions. First, predeployment begins when the needed for adjustment. For some children
                                              and youth, parental deployment has been             mental health services. Service members
service member receives his or her orders.
                                              associated with depression, anxiety, lower          cite concerns about confidentiality, fear of
It typically involves extended training and
                                                                                                  appearing weak, and negative repercussions
preparation for the upcoming mission. Fami- grades in school, and increased familial
                                              conflict. Deployment has also been linked to        on career advancements (including threats to
lies may become more distancing and argu-
                                              depression, anxiety, isolation, and sadness         security clearance) as reasons for not seek-
mentative during this phase of deployment
                                                                                                  ing mental health support when needed.
as they vacillate between denial and sadness for some nondeployed spouses. Not surpris-
about the service member’s departure. Sec-    ingly, the adjustment of the at-home parent         Therapists outside the military community
ond, deployment occurs when the service       (the nondeployed spouse) has repeatedly             can be a valued support to service members
member begins his or her actual mission in    been shown to have the greatest impact on           and their families precisely because they are
or in support of the theater of war. Families the overall adjustment of the children.             unaffiliated with any military branch. This
typically experience a wide variety of emo-   Depending on their geographic location,             nonaffiliation can be helpful in assuring
tions during the actual deployment including service members and their families can have          confidentiality but it may also be accompa-
relief, sadness, numbing, or anxiety. These                                                       nied by a lack of understanding about the
                                                                                                  military culture, which can compromise the
buddy-to-buddy continued from page F3                                                             therapeutic alliance.

B2s encourage soldiers to open up about          for several thousand veterans, qualitative in-   Understanding Military Culture
their problems, seek help when needed, and       terviews of soldiers, leaders, and key infor-    How can therapists become the “inside”
remain in care if necessary. They also pro-      mants in the program, and analysis of health     outsiders for service members and their
vide soldiers with confidential information      data. Preliminary data is already enabling       families? The following suggestions are
about a wide range of resources, all without     the Michigan National Guard to improve the       designed to familiarize the militarily naïve
involving the chain of command.                  program’s reach and effectiveness. The data      therapist to the military culture and potential
                                                                                                  issues of special concern for military service
After the initial development and implemen-      are also providing encouraging evidence that
                                                                                                  members and their families.
tation of the B2B peer-support program, the      the concept of an extended “military fam-
Michigan Army National Guard assumed             ily” can help struggling veterans survive and    One of the most important things to recog-
control of the program and has assigned          even thrive under truly challenging circum-      nize when working with military service
an officer and noncommissioned officer to        stances. We hope to continue supporting this     members or their families is what has been
conduct training and implementation. NG          wonderful group well into the future through     termed the “warrior ethos.” Service mem-
Bureaus 	in other states have expressed inter-   our close relationship with the National         bers and their families pride themselves on
est in the program and efforts to disseminate    Guard. While we do not wish to supplant the      their strength and ability to successfully
Buddy-to-Buddy are ongoing. We are cur-          role of family in providing support, we hope     confront challenge. The notion of asking
rently conducting a multistate evaluation of     to extend the picture to include the valuable    for help or support often carries with it the
the program, including longitudinal surveys      support found among close peers.                stigma of weakness. In our studies, service

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advice to therapists continued from page F4
advice to therapists continued on page F5         posts. Those in the Navy are called sailors        majority have been involved in or witnessed
                                                  and their installations are referred to as         trauma but may not be willing to share this
members have reported concerns about
                                                  bases. Marines are affiliated with the Navy        information unless explicitly asked. The
appearing weak in front of their peers or
                                                  but are referred to as Marines. Those in the       service member and his or her family need
commanders; commanders have reported
                                                  Air Force are airmen or airwomen and their         to know that you are aware of the reality of
concerns of appearing weak to their subor-
                                                  installations are also called bases. Referring     combat exposure and that you can handle
dinates. In a culture where respect and team-
                                                  to someone in the Army as a sailor or to           hearing about it.
work reign, such fears are not unwarranted.
                                                  someone in the Navy as a soldier lessens the       Depression and Suicide
No one wants to be considered the “weakest
                                                  therapist’s credibility and can be interpreted      The growing rate of suicide in the military
link” and many believe their families to be
                                                  as disrespectful.                                  has received increased attention. Given the
a direct reflection on them. These beliefs,
which help make our military strong, can          A service member’s rank can provide infor-         warrior ethos, it is not surprising that service
also place service members in a double bind       mation about his or her education, income,         members would be hesitant to talk about
when they do find themselves in need of           and job description. For example, those            suicidal ideation even if it were occurring.
support, especially when that support entails     in the enlisted ranks usually have no prior        Again, be specific in asking about this.
mental health services. It is imperative that     college degree. Commissioned officers              Survivor Guilt
therapists have an awareness of this tension      have either completed a college Reserve            Many service members may be experiencing
if they are to successfully work with military    Officers’ Training Corps (ROTC), a degree          survivor guilt. “Why did my comrade step
service members and their families.               from a U.S. service academy, or officer            on the IED and I didn’t?” “Why did their
                                                  training school. Noncommissioned officers          convoy get attacked and mine didn’t?” It is
As with any culture, the military has its own
                                                  have ascended up the ranks from enlisted to
set of acronyms and terms that flow through-
out their everyday conversations. While
it is not necessary to become completely
                                                       Identifying service members by their proper branch is a sign of respect.
fluent in “military-ese,” an understanding             For example, those in the Army are called soldiers and their installations
of common terms can go a long way in                     are referred to as forts or posts. Those in the Navy are called sailors
establishing a therapeutic alliance. Several             and their installations are referred to as bases. Marines are affiliated
websites provide excellent primers in this
regard (e.g., http://www.militaryfamily.org/
                                                        with the Navy but are referred to as Marines. Those in the Air Force are
get-info/new-to-military/military-culture/).         airmen or airwomen and their installations are also called bases. Referring
Some frequently used terms include: OEF               to someone in the Army as a sailor or to someone in the Navy as a soldier
(Operation Enduring Freedom); OIF (Op-               lessens the therapist’s credibility and can be interpreted as disrespectful.
eration Iraqi Freedom); PCS (Permanent
Change of Station or moving to a new loca-        enlisted officer status, but they still remain     important to explore this issue and to help
tion); TDY (temporary duty going away for         part of the enlisted culture. In establishing      the service member make sense of the expe-
a conference, education, or training); MOS        a therapeutic relationship, it is important to     rience and surrounding feelings.
(Military Occupational Specialty); CONUS          acknowledge the rank initially (as a sign of
(located in the continental United States);                                                          History of Trauma (Military and Nonmilitary)
                                                  respect), then to make it clear to the client      As suggested above, ask about trauma ex-
OCONUS (located outside the continental           that you view him or her as a person, rather
United States); IA (individual augmentee,                                                            posure experienced during deployment. But
                                                  than a position.                                   don’t limit the inquiry to this period of time.
a service member who is deployed with a
unit other than the one with whom he or           Assessment                                         According to Seifert and colleagues (2011)
she has trained); FRG (Family Readiness           Several specialized areas of assessment may        46% of service members report a history of
Group, provides support for spouses and           be needed in working with military service         childhood physical abuse; 25% report both
families left behind, especially during de-       members and their families. Note that these        physical and sexual abuse. Those who expe-
ployment); and “in theater” (in the location      suggestions are meant to supplement regular        rienced both have a higher rate of develop-
of the conflict or battle).                       assessment of strengths and social supports        ing PTSD. Additionally, for female service
                                                  as well as issues of depression, ATOD,             members, it is important to query about their
Each service branch brings with it its own        violence, and the like as appropriate for the      experiences of sexual harassment or assault
culture and pride. Each specializes in dif-       presenting issue.                                  during deployment. Murdoch and colleagues
ferent contexts of battle (land, sea, sky) and                                                       (2003) reported that incidents of sexual ha-
                                                  Deployment Experience
each operates different lengths of deploy-                                                           rassment were reported by 80% of the mili-
                                                  Ask the service member about his or her ex-
ment, ranging on average from 6-15 months.                                                           tary women in their study. In other studies,
                                                  perience with deployment. Ask specifically
Identifying service members by their proper                                                          researchers have suggested that 28%-30% of
                                                  about combat exposure and trauma expo-
branch is a sign of respect. For example,                                                            female service members have experienced a
                                                  sure. Estimates are that between 77%-87%
those in the Army are called soldiers and                                                            rape while in military service.
                                                  of OEF and OIF veterans had combat expo-
their installations are referred to as forts or
                                                  sure (i.e., shot or were shot at). Thus the vast        advice to therapists continued on page F6
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Military Families Internship:
Strengthening families and communities
by Sally Koblinsky, Ph.D., professor, koblinsk@umd.edu, and Zainab Okolo, M.A.,
undergraduate coordinator, University of Maryland, College Park,

When men and women serve our country,            Multiple and longer deployments strain
their families also serve. Supporting and        families, especially when the stress of war
strengthening military families is now a         affects a service member’s reunification
national priority. Fewer than 1% of Ameri-       with family members and readjustment to
cans have served in the armed forces during      civilian life. Some post-9/11 veterans have
the last decade, yet they and their families     sustained serious physical injuries, including
have borne the burdens of our nation’s lon-      amputations and traumatic brain injuries.
gest period of continuous conflict. Among        Others have unique behavioral health needs.
our current troops, 55% are married and more     According to a RAND study of military
than 40% have children. Although family          members who served in Operation Iraqi               Sally Koblinsky            Zainab Okolo
separations are an intrinsic component of        Freedom (OIF) or Operation Enduring Free-
military life, the post-9/11 wars have been      dom (OEF), one in five reports symptoms of       problems among military children and more
characterized by special challenges, includ-     post-traumatic stress disorder or depression.    mental health diagnoses among Army wives.
ing the increased number, length, and unpre-     Greater cumulative length of deployments         While our U.S. military continues to recruit
dictability of deployments.                      has also been linked to more emotional                         internship continued on page F7

advice to therapists continued from page F5
                                                                                                  person. Unprecedented access to the Internet
Such experiences may be particularly dif-        they being physically aggressive with others
                                                                                                  and cell phones even in theater makes such
ficult for female service members to make        or getting into physical fights?
                                                                                                  concerns real. Be ready to assess for Internet
meaning of, given that the assault came          Risk-Taking Behavior                             pornography use and potential addiction.
from those who were supposed to be on            Many returning service members report
their side.                                                                                       Financial Difficulties
                                                 difficulty adjusting to “normal life.” After
                                                                                                  It is not uncommon for families to experi-
PTSD Symptoms                                    having survived at a heightened sense of
                                                                                                  ence great changes in their family income
Check for symptoms of PTSD, noting even          alertness for such an extended period of
                                                                                                  during deployment. Finances can often
subclinical levels and their impact on the       time, a service member may be tempted to
                                                                                                  become a point of tension. How have money
service member’s behavior and interactions       engage in risk-taking behaviors in an effort
                                                                                                  issues been handled during the deployment?
with others. Also be mindful of the impact       to get the adrenalin rush that was such a part
                                                                                                  Are couples able to communicate about their
of vicarious trauma among family members         of everyday experience in theater. These
                                                                                                  needs and the status of their finances?
of service members.                              behaviors may be consciously intentional or
                                                 not, but can include driving recklessly, not     Youth Internalizing and 			
Drug Use                                                                                          Externalizing Behaviors
                                                 wearing a motorcycle helmet, drinking too
Assess the client’s use of licit, illicit, and                                                    Explore changes in behaviors and emotions
                                                 much, engaging in fights, and taking other
prescription drugs. Remember that admis-                                                          among the children in military families. Fall-
                                                 chances.
sion of use of illicit drugs can be grounds                                                       ing grades, withdrawal, depression, anger,
for discharge, so service members may be         Couple Communication
                                                 How often were the service member and            and sleep issues are all common responses
particularly hesitant to be honest about their                                                    to deployment. Some studies suggest that
use. Don’t forget to ask about prescrip-         spouse able to communicate during deploy-
                                                 ment? How well do they communicate now           youth have more difficulty with the re-
tion drug use, both in theater and at home.                                                       integration phase of deployment than do
Spouses may also have turned to drug use as      that the service member has returned home?
                                                 Look for changes from predeployment to           parents, in part because they are concerned
a coping response during the deployment.                                                          about the potential for redeployment.
                                                 reintegration phases.
Sleep Habits                                                                                      Summary
                                                 Infidelity (Physical and Emotional)
Check with service members and spouses                                                            The need for military-savvy therapists has
                                                 During long separations, the threat of infi-
about their sleeping habits. Disrupted sleep                                                      never been greater as the stress of repeated
                                                 delity is high on both service members’ and
can be sign of PTSD and other issues.                                                             deployments takes its toll. Knowing some-
                                                 spouses’ minds. Normalizing these concerns
Anger/Rage                                                                                        thing about the culture and specific issues
                                                 and assessing for extramarital relationships
Check to see how service members are                                                              can go a long way in brokering the relation-
                                                 is important. Note that such relationships
                                                                                                  ship of mutual respect needed for a success-
managing any issues with anger. Are they         can be Internet-based, with emotional at-
                                                                                                  ful therapeutic experience.		             
verbally lashing out at family members? Are      tachments formed at long distances or in
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a first-rate, volunteer force and large num-       gram leaders, researchers, and family mem-        military bases and military-focused agen-
bers of military families exhibit resiliency, it   bers together to identify ways to increase the    cies had previously accepted our students
is important that family professionals better      effectiveness of military family support and      as interns, most students’ lack of familiarity
understand the challenges faced by military        readiness programs. Our program also com-         with military culture and lifestyles created 	
families and apply this knowledge to im-           plements two other internship programs in         a steep learning curve that limited their con-
proving their well-being.                          the USDA/DoD Military Extension Part-             tributions to the internship sponsor. 	 he
                                                                                                                                           T
                                                   nership that recruit interns from across the      current demands on military agencies further
Military Families Internship
                                                   nation. Purdue University’s 4-H Military In-      restricted the amount of time they could
One of the challenges involved in promoting                                                          devote to sifting through student requests to
resiliency among OIF/OEF military person-          ternship places student interns in child care
                                                   and youth programs on military bases in the       intern at their sites.
nel and their families is the short supply of
family science and behavioral health profes-       United States and overseas. North Carolina        To address these issues, family science
sionals who have been trained to identify          State University’s Project Y.E.S! (Youth Ex-      faculty initiated contact with nearby military
and meet military family needs. To address         tension Service) engages students in a year       bases, health centers, and agencies serving
this shortage, the University of Maryland’s        of service to provide youth development           military families to solicit their interest in
Department of Family Science created a             programs for military children nationwide.        hosting an intern. We informed potential
Military Families Internship program in 	
fall of 2011. This internship prepares senior                One of the challenges involved in promoting resiliency among
family science students to enhance the readi-          OIF/OEF military personnel and their families is the short supply of family
ness, resilience, and well-being of service               science and behavioral health professionals who have been trained
members, veterans, and families. Students
receive training to help military families              to identify and meet military family needs. To address this shortage, the
deal with deployments and family reunifica-                  University of Maryland’s Department of Family Science created
tion, gain access to services and benefits,                       a Military Families Internship program in fall of 2011.
and advocate for their needs. Major goals of
the program are to:
	Increase  students’ knowledge about mili-        While Maryland’s Military Families Intern-        supervisors/mentors that all prospective stu-
  tary culture and military family strengths       ship shares many of the goals of the national     dents would be screened by our internship
  and challenges;                                  programs, it recruits students from our uni-      directors and matched with bases/agencies
	Familiarize students with the range of pro-      versity and puts them to work with military       seeking their skills. All of the interns were
  grams and services available to military         families in the local community. Students         required to complete an online, 10-module,
  families;                                        gain real-world experience with military          Military OneSource course on military cul-
	Develop students’ skills for planning,           culture and increase community capacity to        ture and military families (at no cost) prior
                                                   foster and sustain resilient military families.   to beginning their internships. As in our
  implementing, and evaluating programs
                                                   Maryland’s internship places some students        larger internship program, Military Family
  that support military families and military
                                                   in military child/youth programs, but also        Interns must complete a contract with their
  children/youth;
                                                   prepares students to work with military           supervisor/mentor specifying professional
	Improve the capacity of local communi-
                                                   families in family readiness and human            learning goals, career fit, internship duties,
  ties to serve military families;
                                                   service and family life education programs        a supervision plan, and a schedule for prog-
	Build and enhance university partnerships
                                                   that focus on health, financial management,       ress reviews.
  with state military installations, military
                                                   housing, employment, parenting, caregiving,
  health centers, health/social service agen-                                                        During their placement semester, students
                                                   and other family issues. The program is one
  cies, and nonprofits addressing military                                                           attend bi-weekly seminars taught by fam-
                                                   model for land grant and other institutions
  family needs; and                                                                                  ily science and other university faculty who
                                                   seeking to strengthen community capacity-
	Increase the number of family science                                                              are engaged in research and service projects
                                                   building in support of military families and
  professionals in the workforce who have                                                            involving military families. Seminars pro-
                                                   develop a local workforce of professionals
  the knowledge, skills, and experience to                                                           vide an opportunity for students to share
                                                   prepared to meet military family needs.
  assist military families.                                                                          their experiences and to learn about timely
                                                   Internship Basics                                 military issues, such as effects of the de-
The goals of our internship program ad-
                                                   The Military Families Internship was an           ployment cycle on families, post-traumatic
dress major priorities of the recent National
                                                   outgrowth of our required senior internship       stress disorder, traumatic brain injury, and
Leadership Summit on Military Families. In
                                                   program in family science. After taking pre-      evidence-based interventions for building
2009, the University of Maryland partnered
                                                   requisite courses in family science and hu-       family resiliency. Local experts who direct
with the Department of Defense (DoD) and
                                                   man services, students complete a capstone,       military youth programs, behavioral health
the U.S. Department of Agriculture (USDA)
                                                   120-hour (minimum) internship where they                        internship continued on page F8
to bring military family policy makers, pro-       apply classroom learning in professional
                                                   positions in the community. Although a few
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initiatives, and family support activities        and organizes warrior visits for distin-        Wood Johnson Foundation to coordinate and
present their work at the seminars. A panel       guished leaders and visitors.                   strengthen military and civilian services for
of the university’s veteran students also of-                                                     troops, veterans, and their families. The in-
                                                  Easter Seals Military Families
fers advice on working with military fami-                                                        tern is helping to map community resources
                                                  Respite Program
lies. Finally, interns complete a journal and a                                                   and create a user-friendly, online navigator
                                                  Easter Seals interns work with a respite care
poster project that enable them to reflect 	                                                      system that will enable military families to
                                                  program for military families who have
on their work as emerging professionals ad-                                                       locate and access needed services.
                                                  children with disabilities. They acquaint
dressing military family needs.                   military parents with the program, recruit      Other internships engage students in a va-
We began recruiting students for the Mili-        caregivers, provide training on quality child   riety of military family activities, including
tary Families Internship in the fall of 2011.     care, and make unannounced site visits to       organizing family health/wellness work-
Forty-five students applied for the 20 place-     evaluate respite caregiver interactions with    shops; developing and implementing curri-
ment sites. The authors interviewed all           children.                                       cula for Operation Military Kids/4-H pro-
applicants to assess their interest in military                                                   grams; working with families on financial
                                                  Operation HomeFront
families, familiarity with military life (e.g.,                                                   management; creating a peer support and
                                                  Operation Homefront internships involve
parent or spouse in the armed forces), and                                                        advocacy network for women veterans; and
                                                  identifying services and sources of emer-
relevant experience. The response of one                                                          helping service members reintegrate into
                                                  gency financial aid for families of deployed
student was representative of the group: “I                                                       civilian and family life.
                                                  service members and wounded warriors dur-
realized that these guys are my peer group        ing their period of recovery and transition.   Conclusion
… and they’ve been through so much. …             Interns assess service member and family       University of Maryland’s Military Families
I feel like working with wounded warriors         needs, acquaint them with community re-        Internship program can be replicated by oth-
and their families is a way for me to give        sources, organize family events, and monitor   er colleges/universities interested in serving
back.” One of the student interns is an Air       use of transitional housing.                   military families in their local communities.
Force veteran and several have relatives in                                                      The program educates students about mili-
the military. Many of the students who were       Ft. Meade Army Community Service
                                                                                                 tary family strengths and challenges, pro-
not selected (generally because they were         Interns at Fort Meade work in the cultural
                                                                                                 vides opportunities for meaningful service,
not graduating in May 2012) will serve as         awareness, employment readiness, mobi-
                                                                                                 and prepares family professionals to meet
interns in summer or fall 2012. We also have      lization/deployment, or volunteer services
                                                                                                 military family needs. Through the work of
plans to increase our military internship sites   program. Two students are planning military
                                                                                                 student interns, communities increase their
and expand the program to seniors in public       family readiness activities, including classes
                                                                                                 capacity to improve military families’ well-
health.                                           that introduce families to the culture of
                                                                                                 being. Although many institutions may not
                                                  Afghanistan and programs for children/youth
Internship Placements                                                                            have the diverse network of military bases
                                                  whose parents will soon deploy. Another stu-
Our Military Family interns are serving in                                                       and agencies found in the Maryland-Wash-
                                                  dent is developing onsite and online volun-
a variety of military and civilian organiza-                                                     ington, D.C., area, most communities have
                                                  teer programming for base families, as well
tions, including Walter Reed National Mili-                                                      veterans’ groups, behavioral health agen-
                                                  as helping to plan and evaluate a volunteer
tary Medical Center, Fort George G. Meade,                                                       cies, or youth programs that serve military
                                                  services fair. These interns also work with
Andrews Air Force Base, Operation Military                                                       families, including the National Guard and
                                                  family support groups and connect military
Kids/4-H, Operation Homefront, Operation                                                         reserves. A community-based military in-
                                                  spouses to programs that address their em-
Second Chance, Easter Seals Military and                                                         ternship program can provide students with
                                                  ployment, education, and health needs.
Veterans Services, Women Veterans Interac-                                                       valuable knowledge, skills, and apprecia-
                                                  Serving Together                               tion for the dedicated service of our nation’s
tive Foundation, Serving Together/Mental
                                                  The Serving Together intern participates in    military families.          
Health Association of Montgomery County,
                                                  a county-wide project funded by the Robert
University of Maryland Office of Veteran
Student Life, and the Maryland Department
of Health and Mental Hygiene. Below are
brief descriptions of selected internships:
Walter Reed Warrior Family
Coordination Cell
The Walter Reed internship involves ad-
dressing the daily needs of wounded war-
riors and their family members in inpatient
and outpatient settings. The intern also plans
and coordinates events for warriors and fam-
ily members, works with nongovernmental
organizations assisting wounded warriors,
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World War II in people’s lives
by Ralph LaRossa, Ph.D., Professor of Sociology, Georgia State University, rlarossa@gsu.edu


Seventy-some-odd years ago, in the wake 	       employer (e.g., in one of its ads, the Ameri-   Several years ago I
of the December 1941 attack on Pearl Har-       can Thermos Bottle Company, manufacturer        embarked on a proj-
bor, the United States of America became        of vacuum bottles and lunch boxes, claimed      ect to research World
a combatant in World War II. The country        that “the man with the lunch kit and the man    War II. I wanted to
would remain at war until 1945 when first       with the gun are equally vital to America’s     better understand
Germany and later Japan surrendered. In         war effort”). Children, too, contributed to     what the war meant
commemoration of the war, many in the           the war effort by being messengers in the       for fathers and their
United States and throughout the world will     U.S. Citizens Defense Corps and by solicit-     families. The project
periodically stop and think about the war’s     ing monetary donations as “Victory Volun-       began as a sequel of
battles and its overall impact. What we will    teers” (“Won’t you buy a war bond, Mister,      sorts to a book I had       Ralph LaRossa
remember will include (but not be limited       so’s my Daddy can come home?”).                 written on the history of fatherhood during
to): Presidential Executive Order 9102                                                          the Machine Age (1918-1941). Quickly,
                                                In short, the majority of Americans during
(signed into law in March 1942) establishing                                                    however, the venture expanded to include
                                                World War II, regardless of whether they
the War Relocation Authority and leading                                                        a lot more than this. The conversations I
                                                were in the armed forces, lived with the war
to the imprisonment of more than 110,000                                                        had with my parents about the war did little
                                                on a regular basis. “Military families” thus
resident Japanese men, women, and chil-                                                         to prepare me for the heart-wrenching and
                                                included not only those that happened to
dren (many of whom were U.S. citizens);                                                         heartwarming stories I came across.
                                                have a son or father or uncle (or daughter or
the congressional debate (in the spring and
                                                mother or aunt) in uniform, but also those in   What stood out were both the magnitude 	
summer of 1943) over whether the six mil-
                                                which a member of the family was engaged        of the conflict and the enormity of its reach.
lion fathers who had conceived a child on or
                                                in war-related work.                            My parents’ war was not a confrontation that
before the date of the Japanese attack should
                                                                                                touched only a fraction of the population
continue to be exempted from the draft               Postwar conversations about                while the rest of the country remained largely
(eventually it was decided that they should
                                                the war thus could be difficult, not just       unscathed. Rather, as its name implies, World
be among the pool of potential recruits);
                                                                                                War II was a full-scale conflagration, the
the Allied invasion of Normandy, otherwise              for the men who did not
                                                                                                consequences of which are still being felt.
known as D-Day (in June 1944); the battle             want to dwell on the terrible
of Okinawa (April to June 1945); the fall                                                       Central to understanding World War II was
of Berlin (in May 1945); and the dropping          things they saw and were forced              the diversity of people’s experiences. Some
of atomic bombs on Hiroshima and Naga-              to do, but also for the men who             have suggested that the singular impact of
saki (in August 1945), which ushered in the                                                     the war on the domestic front was the eco-
                                                   could not honestly offer the tales
Nuclear Age and redefined what it meant to                                                      nomic boom that it initiated and the speed
destroy something.                                of bravery that family and friends            with which it put Depression-era men back
                                                        so much wanted to hear.                 to work, as if war was only about gross
With the United States currently at war, 	
                                                                                                national production. Men in the 1940s also
we can appreciate, to some extent, what         My father served in World War II (as an Air
                                                                                                have often been characterized in monochro-
Americans were confronted with in the           Corps radio man on B-series bombers). So,
                                                                                                matic terms, with the impression given that
1940s. But we must understand, too, that the    in a way, did my mother, in that she was
                                                                                                all were (a) drafted or volunteered, (b) sent
breadth and depth of World War II put it in     employed for a while in a Brooklyn factory
                                                                                                overseas and into combat, and (c) welcomed
an entirely different realm. Today, approxi-    that manufactured gyroscopes for planes
                                                                                                home as heroes when they returned. Such
mately 1.5 million men and women are on         and ships. I remember as a child asking my
                                                                                                generalizations, however, ignore the myriad
active duty. During World War II, more than     parents about the war and being captivated
                                                                                                ways that the war was felt and perceived and
16 million were. Today, tens of thousands       by what they had to say. I remember, too,
                                                                                                the significant differences that existed from
of civilians are engaged in homeland secu-      playing war games and simulating combat
                                                                                                one group to the next. The social meaning of
rity (particularly at airports and seaports).   with my elementary school buddies in the
                                                                                                World War II varied substantially by (among
During World War II, the number was sig-        small field across the street from the house
                                                                                                other things): race, ethnicity, social class,
nificantly higher, especially if we take into   where I grew up. My friends and I would
                                                                                                gender, age, geography, religion, whether
account those who worked in munitions           “shoot” at each other and, every now and
                                                                                                one had or had not seen combat, and the par-
factories (e.g., “Rosie the Riveter”) and the   then, fall down and pretend to be dead, only
                                                                                                ticular relationship one had with the casual-
fact that everyone had to ration and get by     to miraculously arise a few seconds later
                                                                                                ties (e.g., as a father or mother or sibling of
with less. In the 1940s, even if a person’s     to fight again. Little did we realize how far
                                                                                                a soldier who died or who was injured).
job did not seem to be connected to the war,    removed our antics were from the actual
a link nonetheless was often made by an         horrors of battle.                                         world war II continued on page F10


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One thus cannot talk about the war’s eco-
nomic effect without acknowledging the
Japanese Americans who, in U.S. govern-
ment-sponsored roundups, were forced to
abandon their homes and leave behind most
of their possessions, and who, upon their
release years later, were unable to return to
the jobs they once had or find new jobs com-
mensurate with their skills. As one Japanese
American woman reported, “My father
kept looking for work [after the war], and
                                               guished themselves on the battlefield. Said a    but also for the men who could not honestly
he couldn’t find anything. … He never was
                                               corpsman who was wounded on D-Day, “No           offer the tales of bravery that family and
able to get back on his feet. …”
                                               one asked me if I was gay when they called       friends so much wanted to hear.
Nor can one speak of the pride that men        out ‘Medic!’ and you went out under fire
                                                                                                Geography was a factor, too. Today, Ameri-
gained from being in the military and be-      and did what you were expected and trained
                                                                                                cans in large cities are especially prone to
ing given a chance to defend their country     to do.” In the immediate postwar years and
                                                                                                feel vulnerable to terrorist attacks. New
without acknowledging the fact that Black      especially in the 1950s, thousands of men
                                                                                                Yorkers, many of whom personally wit-
men initially were barred from enlisting, and and women, many of whom were veterans,
                                                                                                nessed the fall of the Twin Towers, are in-
that when they were allowed to participate     were fired from their jobs if it was discov-     clined to have a heightened sense of alarm.
they were told they would have to serve in     ered that they were gay. The freedoms that       During World War II, Americans who re-
noncombat roles. Even when African Ameri- many had fought for were not made avail-
                                                                                                sided in cities and towns on the East Coast
cans were eventually permitted to join or be able to all.
                                                                                                or West Coast were more likely to believe
drafted (the United States could ill afford
                                               The social meaning of World War II also          they were in immediate danger because of
to continue to exclude them if it was to win
                                               varied by how close a person got to battle.      the assumption that the country would be in-
the war) and even though many were in
                                               Of the 16 million Americans who were on          vaded from the sea. Their fears were fueled
the thick of battle (the decorated Tuskegee
                                               active duty, only about 10% saw combat.          by the buildup of shoreline artillery batteries
Airmen constitute only a small proportion
                                               For these soldiers, the brutality of war was     and by the success of German submarines
of the Black soldiers who fought), they
                                               witnessed up close. One infantryman, who         in waters around America’s harbors. In early
were not revered when they returned, as
                                               had seen action in the Pacific, wrote in a       1942, U-boats patrolling off the East Coast
White soldiers were, but sometimes were
                                               letter to his father and mother about “mor-      sank 216 ships, and it was not uncommon
scorned. To cite but one example, in 1946,
                                               tar shells dropping in on heads and ripping      for bodies from the torpedoed vessels to
Isaac Woodward, traveling in uniform, was
                                               bodies” and how “faces [were] blown apart        wash up on shore. We can only imagine
on his way home by bus to South Carolina
                                               by flying lead and coral” on the beach. “The     what it was like for World War II-era fami-
and, at one point, asked the bus driver, who
                                               Catholic Chaplain,” the son reported, “was       lies to stroll on the beach, ever watchful of
was White, if it would be possible to stop
                                               killed as he was blessing each foxhole. An       what they might find in the sand.
the vehicle so he could use the bathroom.
“Hell no!” the driver told him. “Dammit,”      artillery shell cut him in half at the waist.”   More than 400,000 U.S. soldiers were killed
Woodward replied, “you’ve got to talk to me Some soldiers, though near battles, were not        in World War II. Kids suffered the loss of
like a man.” Furious that Woodward would       in any immediate danger, while others, far       their parents and siblings; parents grieved the
challenge him, the driver called ahead to the away from the front lines, never fired their      loss of their children. Yet another gruesome
police who at the next stop beat Woodward      weapons or were fired upon. Youngsters           statistic in the arithmetic of war is the number
so hard as to render him blind.                often wanted to know what their fathers did      of soldiers missing in action, lost at sea, or
                                                                                                interred as unknowns. (A mother, mourn-
Consider, too, that although the armed forces in the war. In many cases, they yearned to
                                               learn whether their fathers had killed any-      ing her child, exclaimed, “If they could just
were (by law) desegregated in 1948, the
                                               one. Not fully appreciating the import of        find him so I could bury him I don’t want the
privileges that White veterans enjoyed were
                                               what they were asking, the children hoped in     birds picking on his body.”) To this day, the
not offered in equal measure to Black veter-
                                                                                                remains of over 70,000 American G.I.s from
ans. G.I. Bill benefits, which provided educa- their hearts the answer was yes. One young
                                                                                                World War II have never been officially re-
tional and housing opportunities for millions man, finding out that his dad was not in
                                                                                                covered or identified. For the families of these
of White veterans, were frequently denied to combat, said that he “felt cheated.” (“After
                                               everything the rest of us went through so        veterans, the war, in some ways, is not over.
Black veterans. New York’s famed suburb,
Levittown, which began construction in 1947 he could go off the war, he never even got          Note
and flourished throughout the 1950s, system- shot at.”) Postwar conversations about the         This essay draws on the research and refer-
atically excluded African American families. war thus could be difficult, not just for the      ences reported in Ralph LaRossa, Of War
                                               men who did not want to dwell on the ter-        and Men: World War II in the Lives of Fa-
Gay soldiers also fought in World War II, 	    rible things they saw and were forced to do,     thers and Their Families (2011).	       
as they had done in wars before, and distin-
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Military service and the life course:
An assessment of what we know
by Jay Teachman, Ph.D., Professor of Sociology, Western Washington University, Jay.Teachman@wwu.edu


Over the last 60 years, at least 1.5 million    Crime and Delinquency                            vein, it is important
military personnel have been on active duty     Research on crime and delinquency illus-         to note that variation
in each year, affecting 10% to 70% of rel-      trates well the importance of time and place     and changes in the
evant birth cohorts. The peak participation     when considering the impact of military ser-     civilian environment
figures are for birth cohorts affected by war   vice. The available literature suggests that     facing veterans and
and large-scale conscription (World War         service during World War II acted to reduce      non-veterans may be as
II, Korea, Vietnam), but military service is    the likelihood that veterans would engage in     important to consider
common even for peacetime birth cohorts.        criminal or delinquent behavior (Sampson         as variation and change
For example, a recent study estimates that      & Laub, 1996). For veterans of the Vietnam       in the military environ-
17% of Black men and 14% of White men           era, however, this was less true, and there is   ment that act upon            Jay Teachman
born 1965-1969 have served in the military      even some evidence that Vietnam veterans         veterans. Thus, alterations in civilian oppor-
(Pettit & Western, 2004). If men experienc-     were more likely to abuse alcohol and drugs      tunities for educational and economic suc-
ing incarceration are excluded, nearly one      than nonveterans (Bouffard & Laub, 2004).        cess are likely to be as important as changes
in four Black men of this generation has        More recently, veterans of the AVF are more      in the nature of selectivity into the military
                                                                                                 and the nature of military service. As we
       An often-ignored fact is that the military remains the single largest                     shall see, points two and three are important
    employer of young men in the United States. Thus, military service is not                    considerations for other outcomes of mili-
                                                                                                 tary service.
      an anomaly or an isolated event in the transition to adulthood, even
    during the All-Volunteer Force (AVF) era; it is a common event that occurs                   Marriage, Divorce, and Cohabitation
                                                                                                 An important component of the life course
         at ages during which many men (and increasingly women) are                              involves family transitions. Most research
     making decisions about education, careers, and intimate relationships.                      in the field has tied military service to the
                                                                                                 likelihood of divorce, with much less atten-
served in the military. An often-ignored fact likely to experience contact with the legal        tion being paid to marriage or cohabitation.
is that the military remains the single largest system than comparable nonveterans (Bouf- Moreover, much of the literature tends to be
employer of young men in the United States. fard, 2005).                                         contradictory. For example, one study found
Thus, military service is not an anomaly or                                                      that military service during World War II
                                                 As important as it is, the available research   raised the risk of divorce (Pavalko & Elder,
an isolated event in the transition to adult-
                                                 is limited in several ways. First, the data     1990), while another finds a decreased risk
hood, even during the All-Volunteer Force
                                                 sources for earlier cohorts of veterans are     of divorce for the same period (Ruger, Wil-
(AVF) era; it is a common event that oc-
                                                 restricted to small, specialized samples. 	     son, & Waddoups, 2002). Such variations
curs at ages during which many men (and
                                                 The limitations of these samples (lack of       in findings are likely due to differences in
increasingly women) are making decisions
                                                 geographic, racial, and socioeconomic varia- datasets and analysis procedures and high-
about education, careers, and intimate re-
                                                 tion) make it difficult to identify the true    light the difficulty in specifying an effect of
lationships. Military service also occurs at
                                                 pattern of change across time. Second, these military service on life course behavior.
an age when service members are forming
                                                 studies continue to struggle with appropri-
lifelong habits that will affect their health in                                                 Research on veterans of the Vietnam era
                                                 ate procedures to deal with selectivity into
the future.                                                                                      tends to be more consistent. This literature
                                                 the military. This is an especially important
Given the continuing importance of mili-         concern for any life course outcome given       generally finds that service during the Viet-
tary service in American life, it is important the fact that the military has always screened nam era had little to no effect on risk of
to understand its relationship to important      recruits on criteria such as health, education, divorce (Ruger et al., 2002). The literature
components of the life course. In this report mental aptitude, and criminal history. This        is also reasonably consistent in finding that
I consider the relationship between military     means that military recruits are far from be- combat exposure increases the risk of di-
service and several life course outcomes,        ing a random subset of all Americans. Third, vorce among veterans of this era. Evidence
including crime and delinquency; marriage, the mechanisms through which military                 for the post-Vietnam era indicates that di-
divorce, and cohabitation; socioeconomic         service may influence crime and delinquen- vorce rates while serving in the military are
attainment; and health. I also indicate some     cy remain poorly specified, both within and     generally lower than for comparable civil-
important limitations in our knowledge base. among different cohorts of veterans. In this                  the life course continued on page F12

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ians, particularly for Black men (Lundquist,       (Fredland & Little, 1980). More recent            Health
2006; Teachman, 2008). After active-duty           research, however, has found little impact        A large body of literature has investigated
service, though, there appears to be little dif-   of service during World War II on income,         the health consequences of military service.
ference between veterans and nonveterans in        largely due to increased awareness of the         Much of this research focuses on PTSD and
the risk of divorce.                               need to control for selectivity (Teachman         the negative effects of combat. Irrespective
                                                   & Tedrow, 2004). That is, veterans would          of historical era, combat is positively linked
The literature pertaining to military service,
                                                   have earned more than nonveterans even if         to PTSD and other negative health effects
marriage, and cohabitation is limited. The
                                                   they had not served. An exception occurs for      (Dobkin & Shabani, 2007). Other research
available evidence suggests that rates of
                                                   Black veterans and veterans with little preser-   has linked military service during times of
marriage are particularly high during active-
                                                   vice education. Minorities and lesser educat-     combat to excess mortality later in life (Be-
duty military service in the AVF era, with
                                                   ed Whites appear to gain some benefit from        dard & Deschenes, 2006). The link between
Blacks being as likely to marry as Whites,
                                                   military service irrespective of selectivity.     combat, PTSD, and mortality is not unex-
contrary to the case for civilians. In addi-
                                                                                                     pected and its pervasiveness across different
tion, the evidence indicates that men serv-        This pattern of findings–little to no positive
                                                                                                     cohorts of veterans speaks to the powerful
ing on active duty are much more likely            effect of military service on income except
                                                                                                     impact that highly stressful military service
than civilian men to choose marriage over          for disadvantaged groups–is repeated for
                                                                                                     can have on the lives of veterans.
cohabitation, and active-duty military ser-        both the Vietnam and AVF eras (Teachman,
vice is strongly linked to the likelihood that     2004; Teachman & Tedrow, 2007). Indeed,           A strength of this literature is that it identi-
cohabiting unions will be converted into           for both eras, White men saw declines in          fies mechanisms through which military
marriages rather than dissolved. Active-duty       their civilian incomes as a result of military    service negatively affects health. The nega-
military service thus appears to be support-       service, even when controlling for selectiv-      tive mental health effects of experiencing
ive of marriage.                                   ity. Other research has also found similar        combat have been well-identified and ex-
                                                   results for education only minority men           ist across all cohorts of military veterans.
The literature linking marriage, divorce, and                                                        In addition, the excessive use of tobacco
                                                   seem to have benefited educationally from
cohabitation is limited in several fashions,                                                         among men in the military is a contributor
                                                   military service (Teachman, 2005). An ex-
though. First, it is difficult to obtain con-                                                        to their excess mortality (Bedard & De-
                                                   ception to the pattern for education occurs
sistent data on these important family life                                                          schenes, 2006). A variety of research has
                                                   for veterans of World War II, however. The
course statuses across different historical                                                          clearly shown that military service is related
                                                   availability of the G.I. Bill appears to have
eras. Only more recently have event history                                                          to abuse of tobacco and alcohol products.
                                                   increased the level of education obtained by
data collecting the dates of important transi-                                                       Some authors have also tied military service
                                                   veterans of this era (Stanley, 2003).
tions for nationally representative samples                                                          to risk-taking behaviors that impact mortal-
become available. Second, the mechanisms           Even though much has been learned, this           ity through accidental deaths (e.g., speeding,
linking military service to these family life      body of literature too is limited in many         motorcycle riding).
course events remain unclear. While active-        ways. First, there remains a lack of data that
duty service appears to spur marriage, at          can be used to compare the consequences of        Nevertheless, a significant gap in the litera-
least for more recent cohorts, the mecha-          military service across different eras. This      ture exists, in that there is very little re-
nisms by which this occurs remain opaque           makes it difficult to understand why changes      search that addresses the health implications
and crudely measured at best. Third, it is not     in the consequences of military service may       of noncombat military service. While we
known to what extent military service af-          have occurred over time. Second, the num-         know that veterans who experience combat
fects marriage, divorce, and cohabitation af-      ber of socioeconomic outcomes that have           have more negative health outcomes than
ter leaving active duty. Fourth, although we       been investigated is limited. Income and          noncombat veterans, we do not know how
have begun to accumulate information about         education are most commonly considered,           noncombat veterans compare to the general
a select number of family-related transitions,     but outcomes such as occupations, wealth          population. On one hand, the screening
other family events such as childbearing,          accumulation, and home ownership are              process that selects veterans into the ser-
child rearing, and kin relationships remain        scarcely discussed. Third, paths of socioeco-     vice suggests that they should be healthier
severely under researched.                         nomic attainment, and the interrelationships      than nonveterans. On the other hand, poor
                                                   between various components of attainment          health habits (use of tobacco and alcohol)
Socioeconomic Attainment                                                                             learned in the military may operate to negate
                                                   over the life course, have largely been ig-
There is a relatively rich history of research                                                       any positive selectivity effect. The existing
                                                   nored. Only recently have researchers begun
investigating the consequences of military                                                           literature also fails to fully consider how
                                                   to move beyond static indicators of income
service for subsequent socioeconomic at-                                                             variations in military service affect health.
                                                   and education. Fourth, research on socioeco-
tainment. Most of this research focuses on                                                           For example, are the health-related effects of
                                                   nomic attainment continues to struggle with
education and income. The earliest research,                                                         military service different for officers versus
                                                   appropriate controls for selectivity and pre-
focused on World War II, suggested con-                                                              enlisted men, for different military occu-
                                                   cise specification of the mechanisms through
siderable benefit to serving in the military.                                                        pational specialties, for different terms of
                                                   which military service impacts postservice
A number of studies found that veterans of                                                           service? In addition, with the exception
                                                   accomplishments.
World War II received an income premium                                                                       the life course continued on page F13
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Military families:
What we know and what we don’t know
by Sarah O. Meadows, Ph.D., RAND Corporation, smeadows@rand.org


Today’s soldiers, sailors, marines, airmen,      argue that it has been renewed over the past  RAND’s Children on
and Coast Guard members have faced un-           decade.) Based on this reinvigorated line of  the Homefront study
precedented stresses, not the least of which     research, my goal in this piece is to provide shows that children 	
is repeated, extended deployments to hostile     the reader, who may or may not be familiar    of currently deployed
zones far away from home and friends and         with this work, a taste of what we know, and  parents have higher
families. These stresses have been captured      what we don’t, about military families.       rates of anxiety symp-
by popular media, journalists, politicians,                                                    toms than a compa-
                                                 What We Know
military leaders, and, perhaps most impor-                                                     rable national sample
                                                 Select references for this section can be
tant for readers of the NCFR Report, fam-                                                      of same-aged children
                                                 found in Hosek (2011).
ily scholars. Family researchers–including                                                     (by roughly 4%).             Sarah Meadows
social workers, psychologists, sociologists,     Military Kids Experience Some Problems        Other studies have
economists, and others–have brought criti-       More Often than Their Civilian Peers          reported similar results for behavior prob-
cal thinking, advanced methodologies, and        Evidence suggests that kids in military fami- lems (e.g., aggressiveness) and internalizing
policy analysis to a unique population that,     lies, especially those who have experienced   symptoms (e.g., sadness). An important
in the past, has not often received the kind     longer periods of time away from a deployed predictor of how well a child will cope with
of attention that their civilian counterparts    parent, have significantly higher rates of    a parent’s deployment is the health and well-
have enjoyed. (For the record, research on       problems, especially emotional and behav-     being of the child’s nondeployed parent.
military families is not new, but I would        ioral difficulties, than non-military kids.            what we know continued on page F14


the life course continued from page F12
of tobacco and alcohol use, there is little      Bouffard, L. (2005). The military as a bridging        and marital dissolution. Armed Forces and
indication in the literature of the mecha-         environment in criminal careers: Differential        Society, 29, 85-107.
nisms through which military service affects       outcomes of the military experience. Armed         Sampson, R., & Laub, J. (1996). Socioeconomic
                                                   Forces and Society, 41, 491-510.                     achievement in the life course of disadvantaged
health. Variations in life course patterns of
education, income, and occupational attain-      Bouffard, L., & Laub, J. (2004). Jail or the Army:     men: Military service as a turning point, circa
                                                   Does military service facilitate desistance from     1940-1965. American Sociological Review, 61,
ment associated with military service may          crime? In S. Maruna & R. Immarigeon (eds.),          347-367.
impact health outcomes.                            After crime and punishment (pp. 129-151).          Stanley, M. (2003). College education and the
Some Final Thoughts                                London: Willan.                                      midcentury GI bills. Quarterly Journal of Eco-
I have noted some of the weaknesses in our       Dobkin, C., & Shabani, R. (2007). The health           nomics, 118, 671-708.
knowledge base with respect to particular          effects of military service: Evidence from the     Teachman, J. (2004). Military service during
                                                   Vietnam draft. Economic Inquiry, 45, 112.            the Vietnam era: Were there consequences for
topics. Additional weaknesses involve our
almost complete lack of knowledge about          Fredland, J., & Little, R. (1980). Long-term           subsequent civilian earnings? Social Forces,
                                                   returns to vocational training: Evidence from        83, 709-730.
the relationship between military service and      military sources. Journal of Human Resources,      Teachman, J. (2005). Military service in the Viet-
the life course outcomes of women veterans.        15, 4966.                                            nam Era and educational attainment. Sociology
The same limitation applies to the life course   Lundquist, J. (2006). The Black-White gap in           of Education, 78, 50-68.
outcomes of veterans who are gay or lesbian.       marital dissolution among young adults: What       Teachman, J. (2008). Divorce, race, and military
As the military becomes more diverse, it is        can a counterfactual scenario tell us? Social        service: More than equal pay and equal op-
important to continue gaining knowledge            Problems, 53, 421-441.                               portunity. Journal of Marriage and Family, 70,
about its impact across different groups of      Pavalko, E., & Elder, G. (1990). World War II          1030-1044.
individuals who choose to serve.	                 and divorce: A life-course perspective. Ameri-     Teachman, J., & Tedrow, L. (2004). Wages, earn-
                                                   can Journal of Sociology, 95, 1213-1234.             ings, and occupational status: Did World War
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 term impact of military service on health:        inequality in U.S. incarceration. American         Teachman, J., & Tedrow, L. (2007). Joining up:
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Despite Military-Related Stress, Resilience      What Exactly is a Military Family?               exactly do military families do, and what
is the Norm among Military Families              Obviously, it’s a dad who is in the military,    resources do they possess, that make them
While children (and to some degree parents)      a mom, and a kid or two, right? Not quite.       able to handle deployments, permanent
in military families experience a decline        Although the two-parent married family is        changes in station (or other relocations due
in well-being, particularly during parental      still the norm among military families, it       to military service), parental and spousal
absence due to a deployment, most families       is not the only type. Women represent be-        absence, and the risk of injury or death?
find ways to cope. Prior studies have shown      tween 15% and 20% of the overall military        What Are the Keys to Successful
that, during peacetime, kids from military       population, depending on branch of service       Reintegration After Deployment?
families do not differ from their nonmili-       (i.e., Air Force, Army, Navy, Marines, Coast     In a similar vein, we actually know very
tary peers in terms of mental health and         Guard) and pay grade (i.e., officer versus       little about what factors pave the way to a
behavioral outcomes, and in some cases,          enlisted) (see Demographics 2009, 2009).         smooth reintegration process after a family
fare better on these outcomes. Other studies     Single-parent families represent just over 5%    member returns from a deployment. To date,
have found that, although children may have      of the current military population (Hosek,       military family researchers have primarily
elevated symptoms during a deployment, the       2011). Unmarried and unpartnered service         focused on the rapid cycle of deployment
severity of symptoms often does not reach        members are an understudied population,          and reintegration. But with ever-increasing
a clinical threshold. And recent studies have                                                                         numbers of service
found limited (and mixed) evidence of an                                                                              members returning home
impact of deployment on specific academic           My colleagues at RAND have reported that roughly
                                                                                                                      with no new deployment
outcomes such as engagement, achieve-                20% of troops returning from Iraq or Afghanistan                 in sight, we must now
ment, and performance. Taken together, this                                                                           focus on the long-term
                                                        met the diagnostic criteria for post-traumatic
research suggests that negative outcomes                                                                              reintegration of service
among military families are not inevitable.           stress disorder or depression, and 20% met the                  members within their
National Guard and Reserve Families                 criteria for experiencing a probable traumatic brain              families and society. My
Often Face Distinctive Issues                          injury during their deployment. Arguably, these                colleagues at RAND have
Deployments are stressful for all families,                                                                           reported that roughly 20%
but a growing body of research suggests that          types of “invisible wounds” are more difficult to               of troops returning from
they can be even more stressful for families            manage than more obvious physical injuries.                   Iraq or Afghanistan met
who are part of the approximately 1.1 mil-                                                                            the diagnostic criteria for
lion service members who are part of Na-                                                                              post-traumatic stress dis-
tional Guard or Reserve units. These families and it is not at all clear what family means        order or depression, and 20% met the criteria
often live far removed from the built-in re-     to these individuals. Is it the family of origin for experiencing a probable traumatic brain
sources and support systems that are provid- (e.g., parents, siblings), a significant other, or injury during their deployment (Tanielian
ed to active component families who live on, even Fido or Fluffy? And with the repeal of          & Jaycox, 2008). Arguably, these types of
or near, a military base. Children of reserve    Don’t Ask Don’t Tell, LGBT families, which “invisible wounds” are more difficult to
component members may be the only child          to date have been the focus of a very limited manage than more obvious physical injuries.
in their entire school who has a parent in the amount of research, may see a substantial          Given the types of injuries that recent vet-
military. As a result of their situations, Guard increase in attention from family scholars.      erans may experience, possible exposure to
and Reserve families often do not know what What Makes a Resilient Military Family                horrific events on the battlefield, and being
to expect when a deployment occurs, nor do Resilient?                                             away from home for months at a time, how
they always know where to go for assistance As noted above, the existing body of re-              do families cope when a loved one returns?
if and when it is needed. Further, teachers,     search on military families suggests that        What Happens to Military Kids During the
pediatricians, psychologists, and other ser-     most families are indeed able to cope with       Transition to Adulthood and Beyond?
vice providers in those communities often do the stresses associated with being a part of         A 10-year-old child whose parent deployed
not have the military information (e.g., cul-    the military. Yet, we do not know exactly        in 2001, soon after 9-11, would today be
tural awareness, knowledge of and access to what it is that makes these families resil-           20 years old. How is that child functioning
resources) needed to support these families.     ient. Do they have innate skills that make       today? Is he or she in college, or working
And What We Don’t Know                           them some-how different from their civilian      at a full time job? Has that child joined the
Admittedly, we do know more than the             peers? That is, are more resilient families      military? Is he or she married, cohabiting, or
handful of things outlined above. But despite    selected into the military in the first place?   a parent? How does experiencing a parental
the healthy amount of the existing literature    (I suspect the answer is no, but the jury is     deployment influence the childparent rela-
on military families, there are a number of      still out.) Does the military somehow inocu-     tionship once the parent comes home and
outstanding questions that for one reason or     late families against the deleterious effects    the child grows into adulthood? We simply
another (largely due to a lack of longitudi-     of stress? There has been a lot of focus on      do not know the answers to these life course
nal data on military families, see Segal &       strengthening these “resilient factors” but      questions. In some respects these may be
Kleykamp, 2011) have not been addressed.         how effective have those efforts been? What      “nice to know” questions, but if you scratch
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the surface you quickly realize that the         is that we will have data from three family      resource environment like the one we have
answers have implications for family for-        members–service members, their spouses,          now. Nonetheless, we must continue to ex-
mation patterns, fertility rates, educational    and their children, roughly three times per      pand our knowledge base, not only because
attainment, unemployment, poverty, etc.          year. Three years x three times a year x three   it represents a general contribution to the
Furthermore, they could have dramatic im-        family members–that’s 27 surveys per fam-        scientific community, but also because it’s a
plications for the future of our all-volunteer   ily. By collecting rich data on military expe-   way to say “thank you” to those who most
military, where legacy service members           riences, family functioning, and mental and      definitely deserve it.
are common (Ferris, 1981; Segal & Segal,         physical health, we hope to be able to tackle
                                                                                                  Note
2004).                                           some of the tricky questions that remain
                                                                                                  Many thanks to my colleagues Benjamin
How Do We Integrate Research and Civilian        elusive to military family researchers.
                                                                                                  Karney and Anita Chandra for providing
and Military Services to Provide the Most        Certainly my colleagues and I at RAND are        feedback on this piece.		              
Effective Support for Military Families?         not the only researchers investigating issues
Finally, when it comes to policy, we have        surrounding military families. The Military      References
not yet been completely successful in inte-      Family Research Institute at Purdue Uni-         Demographics 2009: Profile of the military com-
grating research and support services. Last      versity is conducting a longitudinal study of     munity (Office of the Deputy Under Secretary
April I attended the 2011 Family Resilience                                                        of Defense, Military Community and Family
                                                 National Guard families. And in 2010 the
                                                                                                   Policy, 2009), http://www.militaryhomefront
Conference cosponsored by the U.S. De-           Undersecretary of Defense for Personnel           .dod.mil/12038/Project%20Documents/Mili-
partment of Defense (DoD) and the U.S            and Readiness, with the help of the Defense       taryHOMEFRONT/QOL%20Resources/Re-
Department of Agriculture (USDA). At this        Manpower Data Center, launched the Mili-          ports/2009_Demographics_Report.pdf
point you may be asking yourself why the         tary Family Life Project, a study of roughly     Ferris, J. H. (1981). The all-volunteer force–Re-
USDA cohosted a conference with the DoD?         30,000 service members and their spouses.         cruiting from military families. Armed Forces
I will spare you the details, but basically      A follow-up survey will take place during         and Society, 7, 545-559.
land-grant universities (e.g., Penn State,       the next year. And the First Lady’s Joining      Hosek, J. (2011). How is deployment to Iraq and
Ohio, Cornell) have mandatory Cooperative        Forces initiative may provide more chances        Afghanistan affecting U.S. service members
Extension Services with a mission to (more       for researchers to interact with peers outside    and their families? An overview of early RAND
or less) serve the public good (U.S. Depart-     academia. These and other similar efforts         research on the topic. OP-316-DOD. Santa
ment of Agriculture, 2011; see Proclamation,     should keep us all busy for a while.              Monica, CA: RAND Corporation.
2011). In this case, that public good meant                                                       Proclamation in recognition of Department of
                                                 I may be biased, but I think it is an incred-     Defense/Department of Agriculture extension-
getting researchers, policymakers, and           ibly exciting time to be a family scholar
service providers in one room and forcing                                                          military partnership [Proclamation]. (2011).
                                                 interested in the health and well-being of        http://www1.cyfernet.org/FRConf2011/2011-
them to talk to each other. In many respects     our military families. Arguably, never be-        Proclamation.pdf
I think we were all a little outside of our      fore in our nation’s history have our service    Segal, D. R., & Kleykamp, M. (2011). Long-
comfort zones. But what I quickly realized       members and their families been so chal-          term consequences of modern military service,
is that as a researcher I have to find a way     lenged and never before have their struggles      http://www.nsf.gov/sbe/sbe_2020/2020_pdfs/
to connect with these folks. I cannot expect     (and successes) been the topic of so much         Segal_David_184.pdf
them to read the most recent copy of JMF         scholarly attention. The work we do makes a      Segal, D. R., & Segal, M. W. (2004). America’s
or Armed Forces and Society. (I rarely have      real difference for these families–as a policy    military population. Population Bulletin, 59.
time to do that myself!) And by the same         researcher I am lucky enough to see that first   Tanielian, T. L., & Jaycox, L. (2008). Invisible
token, from their perspective on the ground,     hand. And the work we do in understanding         wounds of war: Psychological and cognitive
they need to tell me what works and what         how these families confront stress has impli-     injuries, their consequences, and services to
does not, what is feasible to implement and      cations for the larger body of family stress      assist recovery. MG-720-CCF. Santa Monica,
what is not, and what helps and what hurts.                                                        CA: RAND Corporation.
                                                 and coping research.
Forward, March!                                                                                   U.S. Department of Agriculture (2011). About
                                                 Although we know a lot about what it means        Us: Cooperative Extension System Offices,
Given the gaps outlined above, how do we
                                                 to be a military family, our work is not done.    http://www.csrees.usda.gov/Extension/
start to fill them? One way to potentially       It will likely be difficult to prioritize the    White House. (2011). Joining forces. http://www.
address many of these issues is with the         many unanswered questions in a constrained        whitehouse.gov/joiningforces
use of longitudinal data, of which we have
surprisingly little when it comes to military
families. That’s why I am so excited to be
a part of RAND’s Deployment Life Study.
Over the next 3 years we will follow some
2,000 military families, both active and
reserve components, across the deploy-
ment cycle from preparing, to being away,
to returning home. And even more exciting
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Returning home: What we know about
the reintegration of deployed service members
into their families and communities
by Lydia I. Marek, Ph.D., LMFT, lmarek@vt.edu, Family and Community Research Laboratory, Virginia Tech,
W. Glenn Hollingsworth, M.A., Carissa D’Aniello, M.A., Kathleen O’Rourke, M.A., Donna-Jean P. Brock, M.A.,
Lyn Moore, M.A., John L. Butler VI, M.S., Jing Zhang, M.S., Bradford Wiles, M.A.


According to the Department of Defense, as        persist for months to years depending on the    prior to deployment or that the structure that
of June 30, 2011, 203,400 military person-        individual service member, his or her family,   emerged during deployment will remain.
nel, including reserve and National Guard         and the fuller context of the service mem-      Lack of appropriate expectations and com-
members, were currently on deployment             ber’s life. Notably, although many service      munication around this restructuring is a
in Iraq or Afghanistan. As nearly one half        members, spouses, and children or youth         frequent source of conflict and stress for
of all military personnel are parents, and        demonstrate great resilience during what        reintegrating families.
with almost two million children having a         can be a smooth and joyful reintegration
                                                                                                  Those involved with military families must
military parent, there are a growing number       process, many individuals and families have
                                                                                                  understand the reintegration process and its
of families who are experiencing or have          difficulties with this stage of deployment.
                                                                                                  effects on the service member and his or
experienced the strain of wartime deploy-
                                                  Reintegration can be a turbulent time for       her family, because this multifaceted period
ments. These deployments are characterized
                                                  the family, as members must re-form into a      of time has been found to have a profound
by lengthy and multiple separations that put
                                                  functioning system. Some studies suggest        impact on multiple life domains. With the
stress on family functioning, structure, and
                                                  that relationship stress and negative family    current drawdown of troops in Iraq, this
cohesion. In addition, the effects of these
                                                                                                  reintegration process is even more important
deployments, with their related difficulties,          Reactions to the return of the             for researchers and practitioners to under-
can spill over into domains outside of the
                                                    deployed service member can vary              stand so that critical supports for returning
home and affect individual and social func-
                                                                                                  service members and their families can be
tioning. Military personnel, program provid-            wildly; some spouses report               developed, implemented, and evaluated.
ers, and helping professionals are becoming          not having to adjust at all during           This article provides a brief overview of
more interested in and concerned about the
                                                     reintegration while others report            main issues in the process of reintegration
stage of deployment known as reintegration
                                                                                                  for service members, spouses, children, and
or postdeployment. Understanding this stage            that their deployed partner is             the family unit, and concludes with future
is especially important at this time, given the         no longer the same person                 research needs.
current drawdown of troops. With the num-
ber of returning service members increasing,           they knew previously, making             The Experience of Reintegration
they and their families must now reassemble          for a rather difficult adjustment.         Service Members
their lives after each member has experi-                                                       During the service member’s reentry to the
enced profound change.                                                                          home, he or she faces physical, psychologi-
                                                  function may reach a peak between 4 to 9
                                                                                                cal (e.g., symptoms related to an experience
Reintegration is the stage of the deployment      months after the service member’s return.
                                                                                                of trauma), and social challenges. Adler,
cycle (predeployment, deployment, postde-         One of the greatest challenges for these
                                                                                                Zamorski, and Britt (2011) suggested a
ployment or reintegration) characterized by       families appears to be renegotiating family
                                                                                                model of service member transition in which
the service member’s reentry into his or her      roles as the service member encounters the
                                                                                                the effect of deployment-related variables 	
daily life as experienced prior to deploy-        often-unexpected difficulty of fitting into a
                                                                                                (deployment experiences, anticipation of
ment, or into a new civilian life, including      home routine that has likely changed a great
                                                                                                homecoming, and meaningfulness) on do-
the domains of work, family, and personal         deal since his or her departure. Typically,
                                                                                                mains of postdeployment transition (physi-
experiences. Most often, this stage is an-        over the course of one or more deployments,
                                                                                                cal, emotional, and social) are moderated by
other predeployment, given the operational        the at-home parent and children (especially
                                                                                                the service member’s decompression, or the
tempo of the last 10 years; meaning that          adolescents who are more capable of provid-
                                                                                                psychological transition from functioning
most service members are already preparing        ing greater instrumental support within the
                                                                                                in a high-stress and pressure-filled environ-
for another deployment immediately upon           home) assume new responsibilities such that
                                                                                                ment to one of less stress and pressure (in
return to their families. Despite much litera-    when the service member returns, there may
                                                                                                other words, the psychological processes
ture suggesting that the reintegration stage      be expectations among family members that
                                                                                                involved in going from battlefield to
lasts several months, this stage can actually     things will either return to how they were
                                                                                                         returning home continued on page F17

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returning home continued from page F16
bedroom), his or her personal narrative         during that time. Chandra and colleagues       increased parental attention during reinte-
around military experiences, unit variables,    (2011) found the following challenges ex-      gration and often did not understand why
and the anticipation of redeployment. These     pressed by spouses related to reintegration:   they did not receive it. Youth adjustment
transition domains can then directly affect                                                    may be moderated by age, gender, and cu-
                                                1. Fitting the deployed spouse back into the
the quality of one’s health, work, relation-                                                   mulative length of deployment, such that
                                                   home routine;
ships, and an overall ability to enjoy life.                                                   older girls who experienced longer parental
                                                2. Rebalancing child responsibilities;
Studies have identified specific challenges                                                    deployments were at greater risk for rein-
                                                3. Getting to know the deployed spouse again;
facing reintegrating service members as                                                        tegration difficulties. Boys, on the other
                                                4. Worrying about the next deployment;
follows:                                                                                       hand, may have more difficulty adjusting to
                                                5. Dealing with the deployed spouse’s mood
                                                                                               reduced autonomy and increased structure
1. Feeling like they no longer fit into their      changes; and
                                                                                               when the deployed parent returns home.
   families due to the family changes that      6. Deciding who to turn to for advice.
   occurred in their absence, including the                                                    In spite of their challenges, many children
                                                Some mitigating factors that are associ-
   normative development and maturation of                                                     demonstrate remarkable resilience during
                                                ated with the reintegration process include
   children and the increased competence of                                                    deployment and reintegration. Chandra and
                                                frequency of contact during deployment,
   the spouse who has taken over many of                                                       colleagues (2011) reported that when con-
                                                overall adjustment to deployment, use
   the tasks and roles that were previously                                                    cerns did arise, they tended to focus on:
                                                of military support programs, and age of
   completed by the service member.                                                            1. Adjusting to fit the deployed parent back
                                                children. Negative communications with
2. A feeling of separation for returning ser-                                                     into the home routine;
                                                the service member, negative beliefs in the
   vice members from the culture to which                                                      2. Worrying about the next deployment;
                                                value of the service member’s mission, and
   they return. Several reasons were cited                                                     3. Dealing with the service member’s mood
                                                the service member’s exposure to combat
   such as lack of respect from civilians (in-                                                    changes;
                                                were significant predictors of wives’ stress
   cluding a loss of status and self-esteem),                                                  4. Worrying about how parents are getting
                                                during postdeployment. Making sense of the
   the belief that they hold themselves to                                                        along;
                                                deployment process in general and making
   a higher standard than civilians, and the                                                   5. Becoming reacquainted with the service
                                                appropriate attributions of the military part-
   complexity of “normal” life.                                                                   member; and
                                                ner’s behavior in particular (e.g., if trauma
3. Difficulties related to interpersonal inter-                                                6. Deciding who to turn to for support and
                                                symptoms are present) are valuable in re-
   actions (including those with their partners                                                   advice.
                                                ducing reintegration stress.
   and children) due to low frustration toler-
   ance, poor anger management, difficulties Military Children/Youth                           Military Families
   in coping and self-regulation, hypervigi-    Reintegration can be a very difficult time for Family adjustment depends on a variety of
   lance, and social withdrawal. Many of        children and youth. While proud of their de- factors, and although a majority of families
   these could be characterized as post-trau-   ployed parent, many report feelings of loss,   make the appropriate adaptations during
   matic stress symptoms and may also in-       loneliness, and worry for the safety of their  postdeployment and demonstrate a great
   clude increased alcohol use and heightened   military parent during deployment and fre-     degree of resilience, many report difficulties.
   symptoms of depression and anxiety.          quently must take on more responsibilities     The family dynamics created during deploy-
                                                in the home. The child or youth may eagerly ment are often challenged during reintegra-
Spouses of Service Members                                                                     tion. Mechanisms of risk for these families,
                                                anticipate reconnecting with the service
Pincus, House, Christensen, and Adler                                                          identified by Saltzman and colleagues
                                                member parent who returns. Nevertheless,
(2001) postulated that postdeployment is ar-                                                   (2011), include:
                                                both parent and child may have undergone
guably the most important stage for the ser-
                                                significant changes during deployment, thus 1. An incomplete understanding of the
vice member and spouse as they often must
                                                heightening the unpredictability of this time     impact of deployment and combat opera-
reduce expectations, take time to become re-
                                                for everyone.                                     tional stress;
acquainted with one another, and build com-
munication. Reactions to the return of the      A variety of factors, such as a child’s stage  2. Inaccurate developmental expectations;
deployed service member can vary wildly;        of development (emotional, cognitive, or       3. Impaired family communication;
some spouses report not having to adjust at     physical), the at-home caregiver’s satisfac-   4. Impaired parenting practices;
all during reintegration while others report    tion with military and community support,      5. Impaired family organization; and
that their deployed partner is no longer the    the individual adjustment and emotional        6. A lack of a guiding belief system (i.e.,
same person they knew previously, making        development of the parents, and the degree        values or beliefs that enable a family to
for a rather difficult adjustment. Despite the of marital stability can all affect a child’s      make sense of and find meaning in their
potential for positive effects of reintegration adjustment to reunion and reintegration.          circumstances or a difficult situation).
(e.g., greater appreciation for one’s family,   Studies have found that children and youth     Pincus and colleagues (2011) also suggest
personal growth), spouses may experience        expressed difficulty relating to the reinte-   that there are a number of adaptations that
a loss of the independence gained during        grating parent due to the physical, mental,    can serve as protective factors and ease the
the service member’s deployment and the         and emotional changes that resulted from                returning home continued on page F18
loss of the social support networks formed      deployment. Children reportedly expected
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Teaching about military families:
Lessons from the field
by Tara Saathoff-Wells, Ph.D., CFLE, Tara.Saathoff-Wells@ucf.edu ; Amy Dombro, M.S.; Karen Blaisure, Ph.D., CFLE;
Angela Pereira (Col., U.S. Army, Ret.), Ph.D., MSW; Shelley MacDermid Wadsworth, Ph.D., CFLE

Introduction                                      to support military and veteran families as       disseminates results that students read; Amy,
This article focuses on college-level courses     they enter, complete, leave, and deal with        the writer, listens to families and creates
about military families. The authors of this      the aftermath of their military service. Simi-    support materials that students read and can
article have just finished collaborating on       lar to our recent cowriting experience, the       share with families; and Tara and Karen, the
a textbook about military families aimed          development and implementation of Karen           instructors, facilitate learning.
at undergraduates training to become help-        and Tara’s courses involved purposeful            Although the number of service members
ing professionals. The book was inspired in       collaboration with a range of professionals       and veterans is relatively small compared
large part by the courses developed by two        and families within the military and veteran      to the U.S. population as a whole, they and
of the authors, Karen Blaisure and Tara Saa-      population. Each of the authors played a          many more millions of moms, dads, sib-
thoff-Wells. As a group, our goal is to work      role in the courses, some of which were           lings, and other family members have been
to ensure that the next generation of profes-     more visible than others: Angela, as a career     deeply influenced by the conflicts of the past
sionals from disciplines like family stud-        Army social worker, is a professional who         decade as well as earlier conflicts. Thus, all
ies, counseling, social work, psychology,         does the work that students need to know;         professionals working with families are now
student affairs, and others are well-prepared     Shelley, a researcher, conducts studies and        lessons from the field continued on page F19

returning home continued from page F17
family into the reintegration process. These      sion. Other limits of reintegration research      and civilian community would be needed
include:                                          thus far include the following:                   for such a research agenda and is essential
                                                                                                    if we are to assist in building the resiliency
1. Being able to have role flexibility with the   1. Many service members have been sur-
                                                                                                    of military families during the potentially
   ability to perform multiple roles;                veyed about their experiences of reinte-
                                                                                                    difficult and multidimensional process of
2. Using active coping skills;                       gration years after returning from deploy-
                                                                                                    reintegration.                             
3. Maintaining contact through e-mail and            ment (rather than during or immediately
   letter writing during deployment;                 following postdeployment);                     References
4. Having all family members maintain real-       2. Measures used have reported limited            Adler, A. B., Zamorski, M., & Britt, T. W. (2011).
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5. Developing a shared family narrative and          with some notable exceptions;                   & Castro, C. A. (eds.), Deployment psychol-
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6. Open communication in the family; and             informants; and                                 Association.
7. Effective parental leadership.                 5. There is insufficient attention to theory,     Chandra, A., Lara-Cinisomo, S., Jaycox, L. H.,
                                                     thereby limiting the application and build-     Tanielian, T., Han, B., Burns, R. M., & Ruder,
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                                                     and understanding.
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their consequences is for the most part based     Addressing these deficits would enrich our         tion.
on research using largely clinical samples        knowledge of the process of reintegration     Pincus, S. H., House, R., Christenson, J., &
focusing on service member experiences of         and help highlight the stressors and resil-     Adler, L. E. (2001). The emotional cycle of
post-traumatic stress disorder and its impact     ience factors in military families. More        deployment: A military family perspective. U.S.
on the marital relationship and parenting.        research that is family-focused and longitu-    Army Medical Department Journal, 2, 21-29.
Such a focus obscures the fact that even in       dinal, using nonclinical samples and mea-     Saltzman, W. R., Lester, P., Beardslee, W. R.,
the absence of formal mental health diagno-       sures that have demonstrated psychometrics,     Layne, C. M., Woodward, K., & Nash, W. P.
                                                                                                  (2011). Mechanisms of risk and resilience in
ses for service members, difficulties can and     is needed. This understanding could then
                                                                                                  military families: Theoretical and empirical
do arise, thus warranting further research        lead to the development, implementation,        basis of a family-focused resilience enhance-
with nonclinical samples. There is a need for     and evaluation of effective support programs    ment program. Clinical Child and Family
a greater balance between strengths-based or      and services targeted at each of these groups   Psychology Review, 14, 213-230. doi:10.1007/
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phasizing psychopathology and its transmis-       effective collaboration between the military

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likely to encounter military and veteran         mend that instructors take time at the be-        installation. At the VA medical center, a psy-
families in their practices even if they work    ginning of a course to familiarize students       chologist discussed PTSD treatment; at the
in the civilian community.                       with hallmarks of military culture; of basic      national cemetery, staff discussed how they
                                                 organizational characteristics of the different   assist families with arrangements. During
The support our society offers military fami-
                                                 branches, including active duty and ready         another class session, our coauthor, retired
lies has grown from a seed to a twig over
                                                 reserve; and of common experiences of mili-       Army Colonel Angela Pereira, skyped into
the last few years. But we need to offer them
                                                 tary family life compared, when possible, to      our classrooms sharing her experiences as
the support of a tree for the good of military
                                                 civilian families.                                a career Army social worker and answering
families and our country. Courses like this
                                                                                                   questions from students. These experiences
will help. KLC, WMU student                      As we mark almost a decade of sustained
                                                                                                   bring information about military families to
                                                 military action in Iraq and Afghanistan,
Course Structure and Content                                                                       life in a way that a standard seminar format
                                                 other topics have been added into our
Karen, at Western Michigan University, and                                                         cannot duplicate.
                                                 courses. Emerging research on stress and
Tara, at Central Michigan University, both
                                                 resilience regarding multiple deployments         Instructor Knowledge and Preparation
developed and taught courses on military
                                                 and combat-affected families (spouse’s            Because there are currently 30 million vet-
families during the past 5 years. Most hu-
                                                 and children’s well-being, family violence,       erans and 2.2 million service members and
man development and family studies pro-                                                            their families, college and university instruc-
                                                 substance abuse, and changes in close and
grams in the United States do not regularly      extended family relationships), visible and       tors may be part of an extended military
offer a course on military families, so fol-     invisible wounds, and service member death        family. While this is appreciated by students
lowing university guidelines for special-top-    now take a more prominent place in our            and is a means of gaining initial credibility,
ics courses may be necessary. The following      courses than they did 5 years ago. In earlier     experience as a military family member is
items are examples of what Tara and Karen
considered in developing their courses:                We strongly recommend that instructors take time at the beginning of
	 weekend
  A            format. We both found that a              a course to familiarize students with hallmarks of military culture;
  weekend format worked well, whether of-                 of basic organizational characteristics of the different branches,
  fering a 1-credit or 3-credit version of our
  courses. A large block of time allowed for
                                                       including active duty and ready reserve; and of common experiences
  deeper discussion of topics, for extended              of military family life compared, when possible, to civilian families.
  time with guests, and for unique field trip
  opportunities.                                 iterations of our classes, students were ask-     not necessary to teach a course on military
	Flexible course numbers. These courses         ing “Where is the research on families, chil-     families. Building from respect for military
  were offered at a level that allowed both      dren, loss, and deployments?” Now we can          families, instructors can engage in the study
  graduate and advanced undergraduate            point to a rapidly growing body of literature     and activities required to prepare and deliver
  students to enroll.                            that examines these questions. Discussions        a high-quality course.
	Online course-management systems. 	            on new military and civilian initiatives built
                                                                                                   If you aren’t a member of a military family,
  An online platform helped structure            from this research and practice innovations
                                                                                                   be up front about it. If you are knowledge-
  homework and reading assignments and           are also included.
                                                                                                   able, share stories you have gathered,
  kept dialogue about topics active via          Assignments and field trip/guest speaker          and bring in guest speakers with military
  discussion boards and resource sharing         opportunities offer variation in integrating      backgrounds, you will have credibility. KH,
  between class sessions.                        course content. For example, students find it     CMU student
	CVIT and Skype™. Compressed Video              informative to investigate local veterans’ or-
  Interactive Technology allowed us to           ganizations such as the Veterans of Foreign   An instructor’s knowledge should span
  stream class sessions with each other          Wars or Student Veterans of America. They     military culture (e.g., values, mission, chain
  throughout the semester. Additionally,         may collate resources for returning National  of command, service before self, language),
  classes could “share” guest speakers, cre-     Guard families or volunteer in a Yellow Rib-  active and reserve components (i.e., reserves
  ating an open dialogue across sites. Skype     bon reintegration weekend.                    and National Guard), and the Departments
  ™ enabled video conference calls with                                                        of Defense and Veterans Affairs. Familiarity
  guests who were not local to one of our        In fall 2010, we coordinated our classes at   with recent research on military families is
  universities. We also became good friends      WMU and CMU and met together for a joint central to an instructor’s knowledge and in-
  with our local IT gurus. (Note that tech       field trip to an Air National Guard base on a cludes factors that support family resilience,
  support availability for a weekend class       drill weekend, a VA hospital, and a national the implications for adults and children of
  may be challenging on your campus; check       cemetery. During the base visit, the family   separations due to training and deployment,
  beforehand!)                                   readiness manager, the chaplain, and a first  relocations, service members’ 24/7 “on call”
                                                 sergeant described their work and reactions   status, and visible and invisible injuries.
Course content is a combination of back-         to deployment. We toured the facilities and   Instructors also need to know military and
ground information and current trends in         ate lunch in the cafeteria, providing some
research and practice. We strongly recom-        students their first experience on a military   lessons from the field continued on page F20

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lessons from the field continued from page F19
civilian resources for military, as well as      coordinated 2010 courses, several gradu-          barriers in their knowledge about military
content found in key reports, research ar-       ate students in a student affairs program at      subculture and comfort in working with
ticles, and books (see Recommended Re-           WMU had experience working with student           military families. When a professional is
sources, below).                                 veterans and with military family members         more familiar with and more comfortable
Theory and praxis are necessary to address       who were attending college while a loved          working with military families, and when
tension between content that focuses on          one was deployed. Students at CMU were            military family members understand that a
service members and content that focuses         both undergraduate and graduate students          professional acknowledges, appreciates, and
on family members. Helping students frame in Human Development and Family Stud-                    understands what it is to be part of a military
intricate, contextual influences for individual ies whose career goals included working as         family, the helping relationship can develop
and family resilience requires taking time       civilians on military installations in child,     and thrive. Even students who have been in
throughout the semester to revisit theoretical youth, and family programs.                         the military or have been part of a military
concepts and models so that they can create Students also vary in their political or social        family will benefit from being able to look
a robust theoretical foundation.                 views that intersect with their interests in a    at the military culture and military family
                                                 course about military families. For example,      life from another point of view with other
Developing positive relationships with on-                                                         students. They will gain a better appreciation
                                                 when thinking about course policy and
campus and local military groups can be                                                            of how life differs for civilian and military
                                                 expectations for civil discourse, we have
mutually beneficial. A course on military                                                          families in general and will be able to work
                                                 found it helpful to think ahead about how to
families adds to a supportive climate for                                                          with military families whose experiences
                                                 address topics and facilitate classroom and
military students, veterans, and their families.                                                   and needs are different from their own.
                                                 online discussions on issues such as political
In turn, members of these groups often are
                                                 stances on current military actions and so-       Courses on working with military families
eager to be guest speakers. If a college or
                                                 cial views on the repeal of Don’t Ask, Don’t      should have the goals of helping profession-
university has a department of Military Sci-
                                                 Tell or women serving in combat positions.        als become competent in their knowledge
ence (responsible for the training of Reserve
Officers Training Corps students), it is staffed Guest speakers provide some students their        about military family life and developing
by active-duty members, typically willing to     first experience talking with a service mem-      professional skills that enhance effective
make presentations on military culture. Mem- ber or veteran, as well as the opportunity to         interactions. These goals can be achieved
bers of the campus military student/veteran      hear about the highs and lows of military         when students:
office or organization can describe reintegra- life. Discuss with guest speakers what to           • are introduced to military members, veter-
tion and the transition to or back to college    cover. At times, what they say may chal-             ans, and their families;
life. Family program staff at a local National lenge students, and how students respond            • share personal experiences as or with mili-
Guard unit (e.g., Military Family Life Con-      may challenge speakers. These are opportu-           tary members and families;
sultants, Director of Psychological Services), nities for respectful dialogue.                     • acquire a basic understanding of military
reserve unit (e.g., Family Readiness Man-        Field trips to nearby Army or Air National           structure and history;
ager), or active-duty base or post can describe Guard installations during a drill weekend         • learning about the culture of the military
their day-to-day work with military families. offer both opportunities and examples of                and the nature of military service, includ-
Opportunities and Challenges                     challenges for faculty and students. Dates of        ing the fact that many military and family
Students enrolled in a military family course    a drill weekend may change, allowing stu-            members may not agree politically with
vary in knowledge of and comfort with the        dents to experience a bit of what it is like to      the missions of the military, but feel they
military and in motivation for taking the        rearrange personal and professional sched-           must carry out whatever missions the na-
course. Some may be limited to what they         ules in response to a military decision.             tion has deemed necessary, because they
have learned from media accounts while           Why Courses Like This Matter to 		                   have vowed to do so; and
others have lived in the military culture for    Military Families                                 • exploring the role(s) and stance of a help-
years. Other students may take the course        Perhaps the most important contribution              ing professional when it comes to support-
for personal reasons, such as marrying a         a course on military families can make in            ing families.
service member. Yet others enroll because        educating current or future professionals is      These course contents help professionals
they realize issues military families face       imparting to them a greater understanding of      develop empathy for military families the
will continue even if current military actions   the culture of military life. Military service    single most important characteristic for a
come to a close and as a professional they       is a subculture of American life. If we can       helping professional and help them to be-
will be responding to these implications for     convey to students what it means to be part       come compassionate professionals who are
rest of their professional lives.                of a military family and help them feel more      knowledgeable about the population they
Students’ experiences with the military often    comfortable working with those families,          will serve.
have been with one branch of the military        we will give them the greatest tools in their
                                                                                                       lessons from the field continued on page 9
or one population (e.g., returning veterans).    work with this population.
A course on military families offers them        Military members and families relate best to             For permission to use NCFR’s
the opportunity to share their knowledge         and trust those who understand them, which             Family Focus call 888-781-9331.
while also expanding it. For example, in our     means that professionals need to address

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2012 2 focus

  • 1.
    National Council onFamily Relations Family Focus on . . . Military Families In focus // Issue FF52 Reflections on intergenerational relations page F3 Working with the military by Shelley MacDermid Wadsworth, Associate Dean, College of Health and Human Sci- Who gets custody of ences; Director, Center for Families; Director, Military Family Research Institute; profes- sor, Human Development and Family Studies, Purdue University, shelley@purdue.edu Grandma after the divorce? page F5 The many faces of parental Since 2000, it has been my honor to lead the military programs for estrangement page F8 Military Family Research Institute at Pur- lacking sufficiently due University. This was an experience rigorous evaluation Intergenerational cultural I never expected to have, but I have found protocols. In at least In focus // at bonds: A look it to be among the most meaningful and some of these cases, Ukranian-American families page F11 intellectually engaging of my career. Today, there were good Buddy-to-Buddy: an innovative the institute is actually misnamed because reasons that evalua- substitute for family support Building intergenerational we now carry out not just research but also tion activities were among at-risk, returning veterans outreach with and for military families, limited, such as legal relationships via an Elder of Iraq and Afghanistan page F2 working closely with military and com- restrictions on Shelley MacDermid Service Partner program page F13 munity organizations. We often receive appropriate use of Wadsworth Advice to the therapists working calls from colleagues who are eager to learn funds. You should always assume that with military families in Family stress and risk page F4 about working with the military, and so in your predecessors were smart, thoughtful grandparent-headed this article I share some suggestions. Some people who wanted to do a good job. If Military Families Internship: of these were presented at a recent meeting you can find out about the constraints they households Strengthening families page F14 of the Society for Social Work Research. faced, you will have a much better chance and communities page F6 of improving on their effort. Go Back to the Books World War II in There is a good chance that many of the Never Forget that It’s Not About You people’s lives page F9 research questions or intervention ideas you or Your Program are thinking of have already been thought of Military folks have an important mis- Military service and the life by others. Because research about military sion to carry out for the country. They are course: An assessment of families tends to wane between conflicts, completely funded by taxpayer dollars what we know page F11 the most recent research relevant to your and they expect accountability. They work question may have been published soon with academics to find better ways to Military families: what we know after the most recent large-scale conflict (the fulfill their mission, not because they are and what we don’t know page F13 first Gulf War in the 1990s). Considerable trying to help us publish articles, conduct research on military families is published in randomized trials of a new intervention, or Returning home: What we technical reports rather than peer-reviewed train students. If they learn of a resource know about the reintegration literature (because it is funded by military that they think will help them fulfill their of deployed service members contracts), and thus you must search the mission better, cheaper, or faster, they need into their families and “gray” literature as well as the traditional to pursue that option even if it means with- communities page F16 scientific literature (the Defense Techni- drawing support from existing projects. cal Information Center is a very important Teaching about military families: Every day, military members are in harm’s source). Before you conclude that your idea Lessons from the field page F18 way around the world. Even in European really is new, make sure you scan the envi- cities on “regular” deployments, service ronment very carefully. The theme for the next issue of members have been targets of lethal vio- NCFR Report is “Teaching Family Remember the Old Adage that “Fools lence. Combat deployments are decreas- Science.” Deadline for submission is Rush in Where Angels Fear to Tread” ing as troops leave Iraq and Afghanistan, It can be easy to find flaws in prior research but deployments for peacekeeping, natural March 21, 2012. Questions? Write the or intervention efforts. For example, many disasters, training, and many other purpos- editor at nancygonzalez@ncfr.org reports have recently criticized existing es continue. Thus, the children, partners, working with the military continued on page F2
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    Family Focus on... Military Families Buddy-to-Buddy: An innovative substitute for family support among at-risk, returning veterans of Iraq and Afghanistan by Christopher Jarman, MSW, Michigan State University, christja@med.umich.edu; Adrian Blow, Ph.D., Michigan State University; Marcia Valenstein, M.D., M.S., The University of Michigan Soldiers at war anticipate few events so much experiences upon as returning home to family, friends, and a returning home, sense of peace. Yet for many returning vet- however, are at best erans, peace eludes them as they begin new only loosely similar battles with combat sequelae such as post- to those of their full- traumatic stress, depression, substance abuse, time counterparts. anxiety, traumatic brain injuries, and social Active-duty soldiers isolation, all of which can have devastating typically return to effects on close relationships. For one group large military com- of recent veterans members of the Army Christopher Jarman Adrian Blow Marcia Valenstein munities replete with National Guard these experiences appear to ticularly for NG soldiers. However, these specialized support services for reintegration occur at still higher rates and with greater family members are at times not able to (e.g., military hospitals, outpatient clinics, severity than the rest of the military. be ideal supporters. Frequently, service family support groups and programs, ad- Army National Guard (NG) soldiers comprise diction treatment, and military chaplains, members may choose not to speak with nearly a third of the nation’s 1.12 million to name but a few). Crucially, active-duty family members about their struggles out soldiers. Working part time (one weekend a soldiers return to communities where they of concern for burdening these individu- month and a two-week annual training), these are surrounded both by military peers with als. In addition, service members may find citizen soldiers lead more traditional lives similar experiences as well as the structure it very difficult to talk to family members when not in uniform. During the 10 years of and close monitoring of their chain of com- about disturbing or traumatizing deployment the Global War on Terror, however, NG units mand; in short, they are relatively ensconced events. Family members themselves may across the nation have repeatedly been called by their “military family,” a significant have their own difficulties and as a result to full-time duty, serving year-long tours far source of social support above and beyond they may not be receptive to the difficulties from home and family. NG veterans’ reintegration services. of the service member. NG family members live in a civilian world and may not be as Guard soldiers, by contrast, return to largely understanding about the perils of war as the working with the military civilian hometowns where they must quickly service member needs. In other cases, fam- continued from page F1 decompress from war while reintegrating ily may be absent from the lives of service into their civilian jobs and communities. So- members by virtue of distance or strained parents, and other people who love military cial interactions with members of their units relationships, leaving the service member members will continue to watch, wait, and often decrease precipitously, and many NG with limited support. Whatever the reason, worry. Over the past decade, we have added veterans report a sense of isolation and disil- it is increasingly apparent that in some cases millions of men and women to the veteran lusionment with the more mundane, day- service members are more easily able to population, and the costs of caring for the to-day experiences of civilian living. Poten- talk to their fellow service members about service-connected illnesses and injuries tially contributing to the challenge, many struggles with deployment and reintegration, of these individuals will not peak for sev- young soldiers are unmarried or unpartnered and in cases where family is not ideal as a eral decades. As educators, scholars, and and no longer live with their families. These support, the military family takes on a much practitioners, we are obligated to pay atten- veterans are at potentially even greater risk larger significance. tion to this new demographic group. of negative outcomes by virtue of social iso- I am proud to be among many wonderful In response to growing awareness of the lation and lack of close family support. For colleagues around the world who are doing struggles facing National Guard veterans, soldiers struggling with the traumatic effects this work and we at MFRI are eager to col- our team of researchers, clinicians, and of war, their “military family” may become laborate with students and faculty who share military leaders in Michigan felt compelled as important as their family of origin. our interest in gathering and analyzing data, to respond. After several years of close col- strengthening programs, and educating new Often, family members (spouses, parents, laboration we developed what is known as colleagues.  and extended family) are the first lines of Buddy-to-Buddy, an innovative peer support support for soldiers when they return, par- buddy-to-buddy continued on page F3 F2 family focus // spring 2012
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    Family Focus on... Military Families buddy-to-buddy continued from page F2 program carefully tailored to meet the chal- soon received grant funding from the Robert tions with soldiers, available resources, and lenges and needs of our National Guard R. McCormick Foundation’s Welcome Back limited training regarding symptoms sug- veterans. By enhancing the effectiveness gestive of the need for further evaluation. Veterans initiative and began regularly meet- of these soldiers’ “military family,” we are ing to set a course for enhanced support forSoldiers are then assigned a panel of four to hoping to improve outcomes among these returning soldiers in Michigan. 10 soldiers in their units whom they contact deserving veterans. each month by phone or in person. During Through an iterative process among group these conversations, B1s rely on a list of The military has long been aware of the members, the collaboration between MSU, 11 potential problem areas to guide them. struggles of returning soldiers and provides UM, the VA, and the Michigan National Importantly, these volunteers do not serve soldiers in the NG and active duty alike with Guard eventually developed a peer-support as mental health counselors or case manag- considerable support. Despite these resourc- program for units returning from Operation ers and do not diagnose conditions. Instead, es, fear of stigmatization, a warrior ethos, Iraqi Freedom (OIF) and Operation Endur- B1s provide soldiers in need or at risk with distrust of healthcare professionals, and ing Freedom (OEF). Our intent was not to an opportunity to speak to a trained, trusted career concerns persist as powerful barriers develop another mental health program, but peer and with substantially reduced concerns to seeking care, and more than half of those rather a unit-level mechanism for identify- about stigmatization, breeches of confiden- in need choose not to seek it. ing soldiers with needs and confidentially tiality, or career implications. If B1s have In response to these alarming realities connecting them with available resources. A concerns about one of their soldiers, they among returning veterans, various organi- zations in Michigan began considering a In response to growing awareness of the struggles facing way to augment existing support programs. Michigan which has no active-duty military National Guard veterans, our team of researchers, clinicians, and military installations, but a relatively large National leaders in Michigan felt compelled to respond. After several years Guard presence was rife with opportunities of close collaboration we developed what is known as Buddy-to-Buddy, to serve returning veterans. In 2005, faculty at Michigan State University (MSU) began an innovative peer support program carefully tailored to meet the developing tailored programs for returning challenges and needs of our National Guard veterans. veterans and their families through what are known as Reintegration Weekends. These variety of hurdles including concerns about can contact NG mental health personnel for NG sponsored events provide soldiers and confidentiality, ambivalence regarding treat- consultations and referrals. Such concerns their families opportunities to reconnect ment, relational issues between the NG and cover an array of matters, however, and with their “military family” while simultane- nonmilitary organizations, respect for the may include financial issues, employment ously receiving briefings and referral infor- NG chain of command, programmatic feasi- concerns, substance abuse problems, marital mation for common needs. The MSU faculty bility and effectiveness, and “in-unit” versus difficulties, and so on. sought to enhance these events by providing “out-of-unit” peers required negotiation and The second tier of volunteers consists of vet- soldiers and families with information and creative solutions. The result of these early erans no longer serving who are selected and assistance grounded in the latest research. efforts became known as the Buddy-To- supervised by VA and UM staff. These vol- At many of these events, two of Michigan’s Buddy Veteran Volunteer Program, or B2B. unteers are selected because of their demon- Vietnam veterans volunteered to provide Designed specifically for service members strated maturity, responsibility, interpersonal informal, unstructured outreach efforts to returning from OIF and OEF, we developed skills, knowledge of mental health services, soldiers, typically by giving talks about their B2B to improve outcomes by activating and trainability in more nuanced strategies own experiences with the challenges and veterans’ “military families.” for motivating soldiers to seek and remain in pitfalls of reintegration. The veterans’ talks Today, Buddy-to-Buddy is a two-tier peer- care. B2s receive two days of intensive train- had a powerful effect on soldiers as well as support program run by within-unit soldier ing, including the use of Motivational Inter- visiting faculty members, who were intrigued volunteers (Buddy Ones, or B1s) and vet- viewing (MI), an empirically validated tech- by their approach. The two veterans’ status eran volunteers external to units (Buddy nique for effectively responding to ambiva- as relative outsiders to formal systems en- Twos, or B2s). This tiered design provides a lence. B2s often interact with their assigned abled them to deliver their message of hope balance between effectiveness and the con- units at training weekends and reintegration while bypassing the resistance so common cerns mentioned above. Buddy One soldiers events, and soldiers know they can call B2s among returning veterans. Soon, University are selected because peers view them as directly if they prefer. B2s also receive sol- of Michigan (UM) and Veteran’s Administra- informal leaders to whom they willingly dier referrals from B1s, military chaplains, tion (VA) investigators joined the MSU fac- turn for advice or support. These volunteers commanders, family service organizations, ulty at reintegration briefings, and by 2008, receive roughly four hours of training on and other sources. Each Buddy Two receives discussions about more deliberate outreach the Buddy-to-Buddy program, their roles as weekly supervision teleconferences with an programs based largely on the concept of B1 volunteers, open-ended questioning and experienced clinician in the VA. peer support were ongoing. The collaboration reflections to sustain and enhance conversa- buddy-to-buddy continued on page F4 family focus // spring 2012 F3
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    Family Focus on... Military Families Advice to the therapists working with military families by Angela J. Huebner, Ph.D., Associate Professor, Department of Human Development, Virginia Tech, ahuebner@vt.edu The military conflicts in Iraq and Afghani- emotions can shift into feelings of indepen- access to a wide vari- stan mark the first time in our nation’s dence and control as the deployment wears ety of mental health history of military service that we have on. Finally, reintegration occurs when the supports. These sup- attempted to maintain such an involved service member returns to the United States ports can include forward deployment with an all-volunteer and is reunited with his or her loved ones. counseling through force. To date, about 1.8 million troops have This period may start as a honeymoon, but behavioral health, been deployed. This translates into 2.7 mil- end in the reality of renegotiating roles and chaplains, or Military lion family members who have experienced getting to know each other once again. OneSource. Despite separation from their service member for Service members ranked deployment length the availability of sup- extended periods of time. and family separation among their top ports and the docu- Angela Huebner noncombat-related stressors. Other studies mented impact of the The experience of deployment can be di- have documented the impact of deploy- stressors of deploy- vided into three distinctive phases, each ment on family members, noting the shifts ment, studies suggest that service members with its own associated stressors and emo- and their families are often hesitant to seek tions. First, predeployment begins when the needed for adjustment. For some children and youth, parental deployment has been mental health services. Service members service member receives his or her orders. associated with depression, anxiety, lower cite concerns about confidentiality, fear of It typically involves extended training and appearing weak, and negative repercussions preparation for the upcoming mission. Fami- grades in school, and increased familial conflict. Deployment has also been linked to on career advancements (including threats to lies may become more distancing and argu- depression, anxiety, isolation, and sadness security clearance) as reasons for not seek- mentative during this phase of deployment ing mental health support when needed. as they vacillate between denial and sadness for some nondeployed spouses. Not surpris- about the service member’s departure. Sec- ingly, the adjustment of the at-home parent Therapists outside the military community ond, deployment occurs when the service (the nondeployed spouse) has repeatedly can be a valued support to service members member begins his or her actual mission in been shown to have the greatest impact on and their families precisely because they are or in support of the theater of war. Families the overall adjustment of the children. unaffiliated with any military branch. This typically experience a wide variety of emo- Depending on their geographic location, nonaffiliation can be helpful in assuring tions during the actual deployment including service members and their families can have confidentiality but it may also be accompa- relief, sadness, numbing, or anxiety. These nied by a lack of understanding about the military culture, which can compromise the buddy-to-buddy continued from page F3 therapeutic alliance. B2s encourage soldiers to open up about for several thousand veterans, qualitative in- Understanding Military Culture their problems, seek help when needed, and terviews of soldiers, leaders, and key infor- How can therapists become the “inside” remain in care if necessary. They also pro- mants in the program, and analysis of health outsiders for service members and their vide soldiers with confidential information data. Preliminary data is already enabling families? The following suggestions are about a wide range of resources, all without the Michigan National Guard to improve the designed to familiarize the militarily naïve involving the chain of command. program’s reach and effectiveness. The data therapist to the military culture and potential issues of special concern for military service After the initial development and implemen- are also providing encouraging evidence that members and their families. tation of the B2B peer-support program, the the concept of an extended “military fam- Michigan Army National Guard assumed ily” can help struggling veterans survive and One of the most important things to recog- control of the program and has assigned even thrive under truly challenging circum- nize when working with military service an officer and noncommissioned officer to stances. We hope to continue supporting this members or their families is what has been conduct training and implementation. NG wonderful group well into the future through termed the “warrior ethos.” Service mem- Bureaus in other states have expressed inter- our close relationship with the National bers and their families pride themselves on est in the program and efforts to disseminate Guard. While we do not wish to supplant the their strength and ability to successfully Buddy-to-Buddy are ongoing. We are cur- role of family in providing support, we hope confront challenge. The notion of asking rently conducting a multistate evaluation of to extend the picture to include the valuable for help or support often carries with it the the program, including longitudinal surveys support found among close peers.  stigma of weakness. In our studies, service F4 family focus // spring 2012
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    Family Focus on... Military Families advice to therapists continued from page F4 advice to therapists continued on page F5 posts. Those in the Navy are called sailors majority have been involved in or witnessed and their installations are referred to as trauma but may not be willing to share this members have reported concerns about bases. Marines are affiliated with the Navy information unless explicitly asked. The appearing weak in front of their peers or but are referred to as Marines. Those in the service member and his or her family need commanders; commanders have reported Air Force are airmen or airwomen and their to know that you are aware of the reality of concerns of appearing weak to their subor- installations are also called bases. Referring combat exposure and that you can handle dinates. In a culture where respect and team- to someone in the Army as a sailor or to hearing about it. work reign, such fears are not unwarranted. someone in the Navy as a soldier lessens the Depression and Suicide No one wants to be considered the “weakest therapist’s credibility and can be interpreted The growing rate of suicide in the military link” and many believe their families to be as disrespectful. has received increased attention. Given the a direct reflection on them. These beliefs, which help make our military strong, can A service member’s rank can provide infor- warrior ethos, it is not surprising that service also place service members in a double bind mation about his or her education, income, members would be hesitant to talk about when they do find themselves in need of and job description. For example, those suicidal ideation even if it were occurring. support, especially when that support entails in the enlisted ranks usually have no prior Again, be specific in asking about this. mental health services. It is imperative that college degree. Commissioned officers Survivor Guilt therapists have an awareness of this tension have either completed a college Reserve Many service members may be experiencing if they are to successfully work with military Officers’ Training Corps (ROTC), a degree survivor guilt. “Why did my comrade step service members and their families. from a U.S. service academy, or officer on the IED and I didn’t?” “Why did their training school. Noncommissioned officers convoy get attacked and mine didn’t?” It is As with any culture, the military has its own have ascended up the ranks from enlisted to set of acronyms and terms that flow through- out their everyday conversations. While it is not necessary to become completely Identifying service members by their proper branch is a sign of respect. fluent in “military-ese,” an understanding For example, those in the Army are called soldiers and their installations of common terms can go a long way in are referred to as forts or posts. Those in the Navy are called sailors establishing a therapeutic alliance. Several and their installations are referred to as bases. Marines are affiliated websites provide excellent primers in this regard (e.g., http://www.militaryfamily.org/ with the Navy but are referred to as Marines. Those in the Air Force are get-info/new-to-military/military-culture/). airmen or airwomen and their installations are also called bases. Referring Some frequently used terms include: OEF to someone in the Army as a sailor or to someone in the Navy as a soldier (Operation Enduring Freedom); OIF (Op- lessens the therapist’s credibility and can be interpreted as disrespectful. eration Iraqi Freedom); PCS (Permanent Change of Station or moving to a new loca- enlisted officer status, but they still remain important to explore this issue and to help tion); TDY (temporary duty going away for part of the enlisted culture. In establishing the service member make sense of the expe- a conference, education, or training); MOS a therapeutic relationship, it is important to rience and surrounding feelings. (Military Occupational Specialty); CONUS acknowledge the rank initially (as a sign of (located in the continental United States); History of Trauma (Military and Nonmilitary) respect), then to make it clear to the client As suggested above, ask about trauma ex- OCONUS (located outside the continental that you view him or her as a person, rather United States); IA (individual augmentee,  posure experienced during deployment. But than a position. don’t limit the inquiry to this period of time. a service member who is deployed with a unit other than the one with whom he or Assessment According to Seifert and colleagues (2011) she has trained); FRG (Family Readiness Several specialized areas of assessment may 46% of service members report a history of Group, provides support for spouses and be needed in working with military service childhood physical abuse; 25% report both families left behind, especially during de- members and their families. Note that these physical and sexual abuse. Those who expe- ployment); and “in theater” (in the location suggestions are meant to supplement regular rienced both have a higher rate of develop- of the conflict or battle). assessment of strengths and social supports ing PTSD. Additionally, for female service as well as issues of depression, ATOD, members, it is important to query about their Each service branch brings with it its own violence, and the like as appropriate for the experiences of sexual harassment or assault culture and pride. Each specializes in dif- presenting issue. during deployment. Murdoch and colleagues ferent contexts of battle (land, sea, sky) and (2003) reported that incidents of sexual ha- Deployment Experience each operates different lengths of deploy- rassment were reported by 80% of the mili- Ask the service member about his or her ex- ment, ranging on average from 6-15 months. tary women in their study. In other studies, perience with deployment. Ask specifically Identifying service members by their proper researchers have suggested that 28%-30% of about combat exposure and trauma expo- branch is a sign of respect. For example, female service members have experienced a sure. Estimates are that between 77%-87% those in the Army are called soldiers and rape while in military service. of OEF and OIF veterans had combat expo- their installations are referred to as forts or sure (i.e., shot or were shot at). Thus the vast advice to therapists continued on page F6 family focus // spring 2012 F5
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    Family Focus on... Military Families Military Families Internship: Strengthening families and communities by Sally Koblinsky, Ph.D., professor, koblinsk@umd.edu, and Zainab Okolo, M.A., undergraduate coordinator, University of Maryland, College Park, When men and women serve our country, Multiple and longer deployments strain their families also serve. Supporting and families, especially when the stress of war strengthening military families is now a affects a service member’s reunification national priority. Fewer than 1% of Ameri- with family members and readjustment to cans have served in the armed forces during civilian life. Some post-9/11 veterans have the last decade, yet they and their families sustained serious physical injuries, including have borne the burdens of our nation’s lon- amputations and traumatic brain injuries. gest period of continuous conflict. Among Others have unique behavioral health needs. our current troops, 55% are married and more According to a RAND study of military than 40% have children. Although family members who served in Operation Iraqi Sally Koblinsky Zainab Okolo separations are an intrinsic component of Freedom (OIF) or Operation Enduring Free- military life, the post-9/11 wars have been dom (OEF), one in five reports symptoms of problems among military children and more characterized by special challenges, includ- post-traumatic stress disorder or depression. mental health diagnoses among Army wives. ing the increased number, length, and unpre- Greater cumulative length of deployments While our U.S. military continues to recruit dictability of deployments. has also been linked to more emotional internship continued on page F7 advice to therapists continued from page F5 person. Unprecedented access to the Internet Such experiences may be particularly dif- they being physically aggressive with others and cell phones even in theater makes such ficult for female service members to make or getting into physical fights? concerns real. Be ready to assess for Internet meaning of, given that the assault came Risk-Taking Behavior pornography use and potential addiction. from those who were supposed to be on Many returning service members report their side. Financial Difficulties difficulty adjusting to “normal life.” After It is not uncommon for families to experi- PTSD Symptoms having survived at a heightened sense of ence great changes in their family income Check for symptoms of PTSD, noting even alertness for such an extended period of during deployment. Finances can often subclinical levels and their impact on the time, a service member may be tempted to become a point of tension. How have money service member’s behavior and interactions engage in risk-taking behaviors in an effort issues been handled during the deployment? with others. Also be mindful of the impact to get the adrenalin rush that was such a part Are couples able to communicate about their of vicarious trauma among family members of everyday experience in theater. These needs and the status of their finances? of service members. behaviors may be consciously intentional or not, but can include driving recklessly, not Youth Internalizing and Drug Use Externalizing Behaviors wearing a motorcycle helmet, drinking too Assess the client’s use of licit, illicit, and Explore changes in behaviors and emotions much, engaging in fights, and taking other prescription drugs. Remember that admis- among the children in military families. Fall- chances. sion of use of illicit drugs can be grounds ing grades, withdrawal, depression, anger, for discharge, so service members may be Couple Communication How often were the service member and and sleep issues are all common responses particularly hesitant to be honest about their to deployment. Some studies suggest that use. Don’t forget to ask about prescrip- spouse able to communicate during deploy- ment? How well do they communicate now youth have more difficulty with the re- tion drug use, both in theater and at home. integration phase of deployment than do Spouses may also have turned to drug use as that the service member has returned home? Look for changes from predeployment to parents, in part because they are concerned a coping response during the deployment. about the potential for redeployment. reintegration phases. Sleep Habits Summary Infidelity (Physical and Emotional) Check with service members and spouses The need for military-savvy therapists has During long separations, the threat of infi- about their sleeping habits. Disrupted sleep never been greater as the stress of repeated delity is high on both service members’ and can be sign of PTSD and other issues. deployments takes its toll. Knowing some- spouses’ minds. Normalizing these concerns Anger/Rage thing about the culture and specific issues and assessing for extramarital relationships Check to see how service members are can go a long way in brokering the relation- is important. Note that such relationships ship of mutual respect needed for a success- managing any issues with anger. Are they can be Internet-based, with emotional at- ful therapeutic experience.  verbally lashing out at family members? Are tachments formed at long distances or in F6 family focus // spring 2012
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    Family Focus on... Military Families internship continued from page F6 a first-rate, volunteer force and large num- gram leaders, researchers, and family mem- military bases and military-focused agen- bers of military families exhibit resiliency, it bers together to identify ways to increase the cies had previously accepted our students is important that family professionals better effectiveness of military family support and as interns, most students’ lack of familiarity understand the challenges faced by military readiness programs. Our program also com- with military culture and lifestyles created families and apply this knowledge to im- plements two other internship programs in a steep learning curve that limited their con- proving their well-being. the USDA/DoD Military Extension Part- tributions to the internship sponsor. he T nership that recruit interns from across the current demands on military agencies further Military Families Internship nation. Purdue University’s 4-H Military In- restricted the amount of time they could One of the challenges involved in promoting devote to sifting through student requests to resiliency among OIF/OEF military person- ternship places student interns in child care and youth programs on military bases in the intern at their sites. nel and their families is the short supply of family science and behavioral health profes- United States and overseas. North Carolina To address these issues, family science sionals who have been trained to identify State University’s Project Y.E.S! (Youth Ex- faculty initiated contact with nearby military and meet military family needs. To address tension Service) engages students in a year bases, health centers, and agencies serving this shortage, the University of Maryland’s of service to provide youth development military families to solicit their interest in Department of Family Science created a programs for military children nationwide. hosting an intern. We informed potential Military Families Internship program in fall of 2011. This internship prepares senior One of the challenges involved in promoting resiliency among family science students to enhance the readi- OIF/OEF military personnel and their families is the short supply of family ness, resilience, and well-being of service science and behavioral health professionals who have been trained members, veterans, and families. Students receive training to help military families to identify and meet military family needs. To address this shortage, the deal with deployments and family reunifica- University of Maryland’s Department of Family Science created tion, gain access to services and benefits, a Military Families Internship program in fall of 2011. and advocate for their needs. Major goals of the program are to:  Increase students’ knowledge about mili- While Maryland’s Military Families Intern- supervisors/mentors that all prospective stu- tary culture and military family strengths ship shares many of the goals of the national dents would be screened by our internship and challenges; programs, it recruits students from our uni- directors and matched with bases/agencies  Familiarize students with the range of pro- versity and puts them to work with military seeking their skills. All of the interns were grams and services available to military families in the local community. Students required to complete an online, 10-module, families; gain real-world experience with military Military OneSource course on military cul-  Develop students’ skills for planning, culture and increase community capacity to ture and military families (at no cost) prior foster and sustain resilient military families. to beginning their internships. As in our implementing, and evaluating programs Maryland’s internship places some students larger internship program, Military Family that support military families and military in military child/youth programs, but also Interns must complete a contract with their children/youth; prepares students to work with military supervisor/mentor specifying professional  Improve the capacity of local communi- families in family readiness and human learning goals, career fit, internship duties, ties to serve military families; service and family life education programs a supervision plan, and a schedule for prog-  Build and enhance university partnerships that focus on health, financial management, ress reviews. with state military installations, military housing, employment, parenting, caregiving, health centers, health/social service agen- During their placement semester, students and other family issues. The program is one cies, and nonprofits addressing military attend bi-weekly seminars taught by fam- model for land grant and other institutions family needs; and ily science and other university faculty who seeking to strengthen community capacity-  Increase the number of family science are engaged in research and service projects building in support of military families and professionals in the workforce who have involving military families. Seminars pro- develop a local workforce of professionals the knowledge, skills, and experience to vide an opportunity for students to share prepared to meet military family needs. assist military families. their experiences and to learn about timely Internship Basics military issues, such as effects of the de- The goals of our internship program ad- The Military Families Internship was an ployment cycle on families, post-traumatic dress major priorities of the recent National outgrowth of our required senior internship stress disorder, traumatic brain injury, and Leadership Summit on Military Families. In program in family science. After taking pre- evidence-based interventions for building 2009, the University of Maryland partnered requisite courses in family science and hu- family resiliency. Local experts who direct with the Department of Defense (DoD) and man services, students complete a capstone, military youth programs, behavioral health the U.S. Department of Agriculture (USDA) 120-hour (minimum) internship where they internship continued on page F8 to bring military family policy makers, pro- apply classroom learning in professional positions in the community. Although a few family focus // spring 2012 F7
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    Family Focus on... Military Families internship continued from page F7 initiatives, and family support activities and organizes warrior visits for distin- Wood Johnson Foundation to coordinate and present their work at the seminars. A panel guished leaders and visitors. strengthen military and civilian services for of the university’s veteran students also of- troops, veterans, and their families. The in- Easter Seals Military Families fers advice on working with military fami- tern is helping to map community resources Respite Program lies. Finally, interns complete a journal and a and create a user-friendly, online navigator Easter Seals interns work with a respite care poster project that enable them to reflect system that will enable military families to program for military families who have on their work as emerging professionals ad- locate and access needed services. children with disabilities. They acquaint dressing military family needs. military parents with the program, recruit Other internships engage students in a va- We began recruiting students for the Mili- caregivers, provide training on quality child riety of military family activities, including tary Families Internship in the fall of 2011. care, and make unannounced site visits to organizing family health/wellness work- Forty-five students applied for the 20 place- evaluate respite caregiver interactions with shops; developing and implementing curri- ment sites. The authors interviewed all children. cula for Operation Military Kids/4-H pro- applicants to assess their interest in military grams; working with families on financial Operation HomeFront families, familiarity with military life (e.g., management; creating a peer support and Operation Homefront internships involve parent or spouse in the armed forces), and advocacy network for women veterans; and identifying services and sources of emer- relevant experience. The response of one helping service members reintegrate into gency financial aid for families of deployed student was representative of the group: “I civilian and family life. service members and wounded warriors dur- realized that these guys are my peer group ing their period of recovery and transition. Conclusion … and they’ve been through so much. … Interns assess service member and family University of Maryland’s Military Families I feel like working with wounded warriors needs, acquaint them with community re- Internship program can be replicated by oth- and their families is a way for me to give sources, organize family events, and monitor er colleges/universities interested in serving back.” One of the student interns is an Air use of transitional housing. military families in their local communities. Force veteran and several have relatives in The program educates students about mili- the military. Many of the students who were Ft. Meade Army Community Service tary family strengths and challenges, pro- not selected (generally because they were Interns at Fort Meade work in the cultural vides opportunities for meaningful service, not graduating in May 2012) will serve as awareness, employment readiness, mobi- and prepares family professionals to meet interns in summer or fall 2012. We also have lization/deployment, or volunteer services military family needs. Through the work of plans to increase our military internship sites program. Two students are planning military student interns, communities increase their and expand the program to seniors in public family readiness activities, including classes capacity to improve military families’ well- health. that introduce families to the culture of being. Although many institutions may not Afghanistan and programs for children/youth Internship Placements have the diverse network of military bases whose parents will soon deploy. Another stu- Our Military Family interns are serving in and agencies found in the Maryland-Wash- dent is developing onsite and online volun- a variety of military and civilian organiza- ington, D.C., area, most communities have teer programming for base families, as well tions, including Walter Reed National Mili- veterans’ groups, behavioral health agen- as helping to plan and evaluate a volunteer tary Medical Center, Fort George G. Meade, cies, or youth programs that serve military services fair. These interns also work with Andrews Air Force Base, Operation Military families, including the National Guard and family support groups and connect military Kids/4-H, Operation Homefront, Operation reserves. A community-based military in- spouses to programs that address their em- Second Chance, Easter Seals Military and ternship program can provide students with ployment, education, and health needs. Veterans Services, Women Veterans Interac- valuable knowledge, skills, and apprecia- Serving Together tion for the dedicated service of our nation’s tive Foundation, Serving Together/Mental The Serving Together intern participates in military families.  Health Association of Montgomery County, a county-wide project funded by the Robert University of Maryland Office of Veteran Student Life, and the Maryland Department of Health and Mental Hygiene. Below are brief descriptions of selected internships: Walter Reed Warrior Family Coordination Cell The Walter Reed internship involves ad- dressing the daily needs of wounded war- riors and their family members in inpatient and outpatient settings. The intern also plans and coordinates events for warriors and fam- ily members, works with nongovernmental organizations assisting wounded warriors, F8 family focus // spring 2012
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    Family Focus on... Military Families World War II in people’s lives by Ralph LaRossa, Ph.D., Professor of Sociology, Georgia State University, rlarossa@gsu.edu Seventy-some-odd years ago, in the wake employer (e.g., in one of its ads, the Ameri- Several years ago I of the December 1941 attack on Pearl Har- can Thermos Bottle Company, manufacturer embarked on a proj- bor, the United States of America became of vacuum bottles and lunch boxes, claimed ect to research World a combatant in World War II. The country that “the man with the lunch kit and the man War II. I wanted to would remain at war until 1945 when first with the gun are equally vital to America’s better understand Germany and later Japan surrendered. In war effort”). Children, too, contributed to what the war meant commemoration of the war, many in the the war effort by being messengers in the for fathers and their United States and throughout the world will U.S. Citizens Defense Corps and by solicit- families. The project periodically stop and think about the war’s ing monetary donations as “Victory Volun- began as a sequel of battles and its overall impact. What we will teers” (“Won’t you buy a war bond, Mister, sorts to a book I had Ralph LaRossa remember will include (but not be limited so’s my Daddy can come home?”). written on the history of fatherhood during to): Presidential Executive Order 9102 the Machine Age (1918-1941). Quickly, In short, the majority of Americans during (signed into law in March 1942) establishing however, the venture expanded to include World War II, regardless of whether they the War Relocation Authority and leading a lot more than this. The conversations I were in the armed forces, lived with the war to the imprisonment of more than 110,000 had with my parents about the war did little on a regular basis. “Military families” thus resident Japanese men, women, and chil- to prepare me for the heart-wrenching and included not only those that happened to dren (many of whom were U.S. citizens); heartwarming stories I came across. have a son or father or uncle (or daughter or the congressional debate (in the spring and mother or aunt) in uniform, but also those in What stood out were both the magnitude summer of 1943) over whether the six mil- which a member of the family was engaged of the conflict and the enormity of its reach. lion fathers who had conceived a child on or in war-related work. My parents’ war was not a confrontation that before the date of the Japanese attack should touched only a fraction of the population continue to be exempted from the draft Postwar conversations about while the rest of the country remained largely (eventually it was decided that they should the war thus could be difficult, not just unscathed. Rather, as its name implies, World be among the pool of potential recruits); War II was a full-scale conflagration, the the Allied invasion of Normandy, otherwise for the men who did not consequences of which are still being felt. known as D-Day (in June 1944); the battle want to dwell on the terrible of Okinawa (April to June 1945); the fall Central to understanding World War II was of Berlin (in May 1945); and the dropping things they saw and were forced the diversity of people’s experiences. Some of atomic bombs on Hiroshima and Naga- to do, but also for the men who have suggested that the singular impact of saki (in August 1945), which ushered in the the war on the domestic front was the eco- could not honestly offer the tales Nuclear Age and redefined what it meant to nomic boom that it initiated and the speed destroy something. of bravery that family and friends with which it put Depression-era men back so much wanted to hear. to work, as if war was only about gross With the United States currently at war, national production. Men in the 1940s also we can appreciate, to some extent, what My father served in World War II (as an Air have often been characterized in monochro- Americans were confronted with in the Corps radio man on B-series bombers). So, matic terms, with the impression given that 1940s. But we must understand, too, that the in a way, did my mother, in that she was all were (a) drafted or volunteered, (b) sent breadth and depth of World War II put it in employed for a while in a Brooklyn factory overseas and into combat, and (c) welcomed an entirely different realm. Today, approxi- that manufactured gyroscopes for planes home as heroes when they returned. Such mately 1.5 million men and women are on and ships. I remember as a child asking my generalizations, however, ignore the myriad active duty. During World War II, more than parents about the war and being captivated ways that the war was felt and perceived and 16 million were. Today, tens of thousands by what they had to say. I remember, too, the significant differences that existed from of civilians are engaged in homeland secu- playing war games and simulating combat one group to the next. The social meaning of rity (particularly at airports and seaports). with my elementary school buddies in the World War II varied substantially by (among During World War II, the number was sig- small field across the street from the house other things): race, ethnicity, social class, nificantly higher, especially if we take into where I grew up. My friends and I would gender, age, geography, religion, whether account those who worked in munitions “shoot” at each other and, every now and one had or had not seen combat, and the par- factories (e.g., “Rosie the Riveter”) and the then, fall down and pretend to be dead, only ticular relationship one had with the casual- fact that everyone had to ration and get by to miraculously arise a few seconds later ties (e.g., as a father or mother or sibling of with less. In the 1940s, even if a person’s to fight again. Little did we realize how far a soldier who died or who was injured). job did not seem to be connected to the war, removed our antics were from the actual a link nonetheless was often made by an horrors of battle. world war II continued on page F10 family focus // spring 2012 F9
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    Family Focus on... Military Families world war II continued from page F9 One thus cannot talk about the war’s eco- nomic effect without acknowledging the Japanese Americans who, in U.S. govern- ment-sponsored roundups, were forced to abandon their homes and leave behind most of their possessions, and who, upon their release years later, were unable to return to the jobs they once had or find new jobs com- mensurate with their skills. As one Japanese American woman reported, “My father kept looking for work [after the war], and guished themselves on the battlefield. Said a but also for the men who could not honestly he couldn’t find anything. … He never was corpsman who was wounded on D-Day, “No offer the tales of bravery that family and able to get back on his feet. …” one asked me if I was gay when they called friends so much wanted to hear. Nor can one speak of the pride that men out ‘Medic!’ and you went out under fire Geography was a factor, too. Today, Ameri- gained from being in the military and be- and did what you were expected and trained cans in large cities are especially prone to ing given a chance to defend their country to do.” In the immediate postwar years and feel vulnerable to terrorist attacks. New without acknowledging the fact that Black especially in the 1950s, thousands of men Yorkers, many of whom personally wit- men initially were barred from enlisting, and and women, many of whom were veterans, nessed the fall of the Twin Towers, are in- that when they were allowed to participate were fired from their jobs if it was discov- clined to have a heightened sense of alarm. they were told they would have to serve in ered that they were gay. The freedoms that During World War II, Americans who re- noncombat roles. Even when African Ameri- many had fought for were not made avail- sided in cities and towns on the East Coast cans were eventually permitted to join or be able to all. or West Coast were more likely to believe drafted (the United States could ill afford The social meaning of World War II also they were in immediate danger because of to continue to exclude them if it was to win varied by how close a person got to battle. the assumption that the country would be in- the war) and even though many were in Of the 16 million Americans who were on vaded from the sea. Their fears were fueled the thick of battle (the decorated Tuskegee active duty, only about 10% saw combat. by the buildup of shoreline artillery batteries Airmen constitute only a small proportion For these soldiers, the brutality of war was and by the success of German submarines of the Black soldiers who fought), they witnessed up close. One infantryman, who in waters around America’s harbors. In early were not revered when they returned, as had seen action in the Pacific, wrote in a 1942, U-boats patrolling off the East Coast White soldiers were, but sometimes were letter to his father and mother about “mor- sank 216 ships, and it was not uncommon scorned. To cite but one example, in 1946, tar shells dropping in on heads and ripping for bodies from the torpedoed vessels to Isaac Woodward, traveling in uniform, was bodies” and how “faces [were] blown apart wash up on shore. We can only imagine on his way home by bus to South Carolina by flying lead and coral” on the beach. “The what it was like for World War II-era fami- and, at one point, asked the bus driver, who Catholic Chaplain,” the son reported, “was lies to stroll on the beach, ever watchful of was White, if it would be possible to stop killed as he was blessing each foxhole. An what they might find in the sand. the vehicle so he could use the bathroom. “Hell no!” the driver told him. “Dammit,” artillery shell cut him in half at the waist.” More than 400,000 U.S. soldiers were killed Woodward replied, “you’ve got to talk to me Some soldiers, though near battles, were not in World War II. Kids suffered the loss of like a man.” Furious that Woodward would in any immediate danger, while others, far their parents and siblings; parents grieved the challenge him, the driver called ahead to the away from the front lines, never fired their loss of their children. Yet another gruesome police who at the next stop beat Woodward weapons or were fired upon. Youngsters statistic in the arithmetic of war is the number so hard as to render him blind. often wanted to know what their fathers did of soldiers missing in action, lost at sea, or interred as unknowns. (A mother, mourn- Consider, too, that although the armed forces in the war. In many cases, they yearned to learn whether their fathers had killed any- ing her child, exclaimed, “If they could just were (by law) desegregated in 1948, the one. Not fully appreciating the import of find him so I could bury him I don’t want the privileges that White veterans enjoyed were what they were asking, the children hoped in birds picking on his body.”) To this day, the not offered in equal measure to Black veter- remains of over 70,000 American G.I.s from ans. G.I. Bill benefits, which provided educa- their hearts the answer was yes. One young World War II have never been officially re- tional and housing opportunities for millions man, finding out that his dad was not in covered or identified. For the families of these of White veterans, were frequently denied to combat, said that he “felt cheated.” (“After everything the rest of us went through so veterans, the war, in some ways, is not over. Black veterans. New York’s famed suburb, Levittown, which began construction in 1947 he could go off the war, he never even got Note and flourished throughout the 1950s, system- shot at.”) Postwar conversations about the This essay draws on the research and refer- atically excluded African American families. war thus could be difficult, not just for the ences reported in Ralph LaRossa, Of War men who did not want to dwell on the ter- and Men: World War II in the Lives of Fa- Gay soldiers also fought in World War II, rible things they saw and were forced to do, thers and Their Families (2011).  as they had done in wars before, and distin- F10 family focus // spring 2012
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    Family Focus on... Military Families Military service and the life course: An assessment of what we know by Jay Teachman, Ph.D., Professor of Sociology, Western Washington University, Jay.Teachman@wwu.edu Over the last 60 years, at least 1.5 million Crime and Delinquency vein, it is important military personnel have been on active duty Research on crime and delinquency illus- to note that variation in each year, affecting 10% to 70% of rel- trates well the importance of time and place and changes in the evant birth cohorts. The peak participation when considering the impact of military ser- civilian environment figures are for birth cohorts affected by war vice. The available literature suggests that facing veterans and and large-scale conscription (World War service during World War II acted to reduce non-veterans may be as II, Korea, Vietnam), but military service is the likelihood that veterans would engage in important to consider common even for peacetime birth cohorts. criminal or delinquent behavior (Sampson as variation and change For example, a recent study estimates that & Laub, 1996). For veterans of the Vietnam in the military environ- 17% of Black men and 14% of White men era, however, this was less true, and there is ment that act upon Jay Teachman born 1965-1969 have served in the military even some evidence that Vietnam veterans veterans. Thus, alterations in civilian oppor- (Pettit & Western, 2004). If men experienc- were more likely to abuse alcohol and drugs tunities for educational and economic suc- ing incarceration are excluded, nearly one than nonveterans (Bouffard & Laub, 2004). cess are likely to be as important as changes in four Black men of this generation has More recently, veterans of the AVF are more in the nature of selectivity into the military and the nature of military service. As we An often-ignored fact is that the military remains the single largest shall see, points two and three are important employer of young men in the United States. Thus, military service is not considerations for other outcomes of mili- tary service. an anomaly or an isolated event in the transition to adulthood, even during the All-Volunteer Force (AVF) era; it is a common event that occurs Marriage, Divorce, and Cohabitation An important component of the life course at ages during which many men (and increasingly women) are involves family transitions. Most research making decisions about education, careers, and intimate relationships. in the field has tied military service to the likelihood of divorce, with much less atten- served in the military. An often-ignored fact likely to experience contact with the legal tion being paid to marriage or cohabitation. is that the military remains the single largest system than comparable nonveterans (Bouf- Moreover, much of the literature tends to be employer of young men in the United States. fard, 2005). contradictory. For example, one study found Thus, military service is not an anomaly or that military service during World War II As important as it is, the available research raised the risk of divorce (Pavalko & Elder, an isolated event in the transition to adult- is limited in several ways. First, the data 1990), while another finds a decreased risk hood, even during the All-Volunteer Force sources for earlier cohorts of veterans are of divorce for the same period (Ruger, Wil- (AVF) era; it is a common event that oc- restricted to small, specialized samples. son, & Waddoups, 2002). Such variations curs at ages during which many men (and The limitations of these samples (lack of in findings are likely due to differences in increasingly women) are making decisions geographic, racial, and socioeconomic varia- datasets and analysis procedures and high- about education, careers, and intimate re- tion) make it difficult to identify the true light the difficulty in specifying an effect of lationships. Military service also occurs at pattern of change across time. Second, these military service on life course behavior. an age when service members are forming studies continue to struggle with appropri- lifelong habits that will affect their health in Research on veterans of the Vietnam era ate procedures to deal with selectivity into the future. tends to be more consistent. This literature the military. This is an especially important Given the continuing importance of mili- concern for any life course outcome given generally finds that service during the Viet- tary service in American life, it is important the fact that the military has always screened nam era had little to no effect on risk of to understand its relationship to important recruits on criteria such as health, education, divorce (Ruger et al., 2002). The literature components of the life course. In this report mental aptitude, and criminal history. This is also reasonably consistent in finding that I consider the relationship between military means that military recruits are far from be- combat exposure increases the risk of di- service and several life course outcomes, ing a random subset of all Americans. Third, vorce among veterans of this era. Evidence including crime and delinquency; marriage, the mechanisms through which military for the post-Vietnam era indicates that di- divorce, and cohabitation; socioeconomic service may influence crime and delinquen- vorce rates while serving in the military are attainment; and health. I also indicate some cy remain poorly specified, both within and generally lower than for comparable civil- important limitations in our knowledge base. among different cohorts of veterans. In this the life course continued on page F12 family focus // spring 2012 F11
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    Family Focus on... Military Families the life course continued from page F11 ians, particularly for Black men (Lundquist, (Fredland & Little, 1980). More recent Health 2006; Teachman, 2008). After active-duty research, however, has found little impact A large body of literature has investigated service, though, there appears to be little dif- of service during World War II on income, the health consequences of military service. ference between veterans and nonveterans in largely due to increased awareness of the Much of this research focuses on PTSD and the risk of divorce. need to control for selectivity (Teachman the negative effects of combat. Irrespective & Tedrow, 2004). That is, veterans would of historical era, combat is positively linked The literature pertaining to military service, have earned more than nonveterans even if to PTSD and other negative health effects marriage, and cohabitation is limited. The they had not served. An exception occurs for (Dobkin & Shabani, 2007). Other research available evidence suggests that rates of Black veterans and veterans with little preser- has linked military service during times of marriage are particularly high during active- vice education. Minorities and lesser educat- combat to excess mortality later in life (Be- duty military service in the AVF era, with ed Whites appear to gain some benefit from dard & Deschenes, 2006). The link between Blacks being as likely to marry as Whites, military service irrespective of selectivity. combat, PTSD, and mortality is not unex- contrary to the case for civilians. In addi- pected and its pervasiveness across different tion, the evidence indicates that men serv- This pattern of findings–little to no positive cohorts of veterans speaks to the powerful ing on active duty are much more likely effect of military service on income except impact that highly stressful military service than civilian men to choose marriage over for disadvantaged groups–is repeated for can have on the lives of veterans. cohabitation, and active-duty military ser- both the Vietnam and AVF eras (Teachman, vice is strongly linked to the likelihood that 2004; Teachman & Tedrow, 2007). Indeed, A strength of this literature is that it identi- cohabiting unions will be converted into for both eras, White men saw declines in fies mechanisms through which military marriages rather than dissolved. Active-duty their civilian incomes as a result of military service negatively affects health. The nega- military service thus appears to be support- service, even when controlling for selectiv- tive mental health effects of experiencing ive of marriage. ity. Other research has also found similar combat have been well-identified and ex- results for education only minority men ist across all cohorts of military veterans. The literature linking marriage, divorce, and In addition, the excessive use of tobacco seem to have benefited educationally from cohabitation is limited in several fashions, among men in the military is a contributor military service (Teachman, 2005). An ex- though. First, it is difficult to obtain con- to their excess mortality (Bedard & De- ception to the pattern for education occurs sistent data on these important family life schenes, 2006). A variety of research has for veterans of World War II, however. The course statuses across different historical clearly shown that military service is related availability of the G.I. Bill appears to have eras. Only more recently have event history to abuse of tobacco and alcohol products. increased the level of education obtained by data collecting the dates of important transi- Some authors have also tied military service veterans of this era (Stanley, 2003). tions for nationally representative samples to risk-taking behaviors that impact mortal- become available. Second, the mechanisms Even though much has been learned, this ity through accidental deaths (e.g., speeding, linking military service to these family life body of literature too is limited in many motorcycle riding). course events remain unclear. While active- ways. First, there remains a lack of data that duty service appears to spur marriage, at can be used to compare the consequences of Nevertheless, a significant gap in the litera- least for more recent cohorts, the mecha- military service across different eras. This ture exists, in that there is very little re- nisms by which this occurs remain opaque makes it difficult to understand why changes search that addresses the health implications and crudely measured at best. Third, it is not in the consequences of military service may of noncombat military service. While we known to what extent military service af- have occurred over time. Second, the num- know that veterans who experience combat fects marriage, divorce, and cohabitation af- ber of socioeconomic outcomes that have have more negative health outcomes than ter leaving active duty. Fourth, although we been investigated is limited. Income and noncombat veterans, we do not know how have begun to accumulate information about education are most commonly considered, noncombat veterans compare to the general a select number of family-related transitions, but outcomes such as occupations, wealth population. On one hand, the screening other family events such as childbearing, accumulation, and home ownership are process that selects veterans into the ser- child rearing, and kin relationships remain scarcely discussed. Third, paths of socioeco- vice suggests that they should be healthier severely under researched. nomic attainment, and the interrelationships than nonveterans. On the other hand, poor between various components of attainment health habits (use of tobacco and alcohol) Socioeconomic Attainment learned in the military may operate to negate over the life course, have largely been ig- There is a relatively rich history of research any positive selectivity effect. The existing nored. Only recently have researchers begun investigating the consequences of military literature also fails to fully consider how to move beyond static indicators of income service for subsequent socioeconomic at- variations in military service affect health. and education. Fourth, research on socioeco- tainment. Most of this research focuses on For example, are the health-related effects of nomic attainment continues to struggle with education and income. The earliest research, military service different for officers versus appropriate controls for selectivity and pre- focused on World War II, suggested con- enlisted men, for different military occu- cise specification of the mechanisms through siderable benefit to serving in the military. pational specialties, for different terms of which military service impacts postservice A number of studies found that veterans of service? In addition, with the exception accomplishments. World War II received an income premium the life course continued on page F13 F12 family focus // spring 2012
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    Family Focus on... Military Families Military families: What we know and what we don’t know by Sarah O. Meadows, Ph.D., RAND Corporation, smeadows@rand.org Today’s soldiers, sailors, marines, airmen, argue that it has been renewed over the past RAND’s Children on and Coast Guard members have faced un- decade.) Based on this reinvigorated line of the Homefront study precedented stresses, not the least of which research, my goal in this piece is to provide shows that children is repeated, extended deployments to hostile the reader, who may or may not be familiar of currently deployed zones far away from home and friends and with this work, a taste of what we know, and parents have higher families. These stresses have been captured what we don’t, about military families. rates of anxiety symp- by popular media, journalists, politicians, toms than a compa- What We Know military leaders, and, perhaps most impor- rable national sample Select references for this section can be tant for readers of the NCFR Report, fam- of same-aged children found in Hosek (2011). ily scholars. Family researchers–including (by roughly 4%). Sarah Meadows social workers, psychologists, sociologists, Military Kids Experience Some Problems Other studies have economists, and others–have brought criti- More Often than Their Civilian Peers reported similar results for behavior prob- cal thinking, advanced methodologies, and Evidence suggests that kids in military fami- lems (e.g., aggressiveness) and internalizing policy analysis to a unique population that, lies, especially those who have experienced symptoms (e.g., sadness). An important in the past, has not often received the kind longer periods of time away from a deployed predictor of how well a child will cope with of attention that their civilian counterparts parent, have significantly higher rates of a parent’s deployment is the health and well- have enjoyed. (For the record, research on problems, especially emotional and behav- being of the child’s nondeployed parent. military families is not new, but I would ioral difficulties, than non-military kids. what we know continued on page F14 the life course continued from page F12 of tobacco and alcohol use, there is little Bouffard, L. (2005). The military as a bridging and marital dissolution. Armed Forces and indication in the literature of the mecha- environment in criminal careers: Differential Society, 29, 85-107. nisms through which military service affects outcomes of the military experience. Armed Sampson, R., & Laub, J. (1996). Socioeconomic Forces and Society, 41, 491-510. achievement in the life course of disadvantaged health. Variations in life course patterns of education, income, and occupational attain- Bouffard, L., & Laub, J. (2004). Jail or the Army: men: Military service as a turning point, circa Does military service facilitate desistance from 1940-1965. American Sociological Review, 61, ment associated with military service may crime? In S. Maruna & R. Immarigeon (eds.), 347-367. impact health outcomes. After crime and punishment (pp. 129-151). Stanley, M. (2003). College education and the Some Final Thoughts London: Willan. midcentury GI bills. Quarterly Journal of Eco- I have noted some of the weaknesses in our Dobkin, C., & Shabani, R. (2007). The health nomics, 118, 671-708. knowledge base with respect to particular effects of military service: Evidence from the Teachman, J. (2004). Military service during Vietnam draft. Economic Inquiry, 45, 112. the Vietnam era: Were there consequences for topics. Additional weaknesses involve our almost complete lack of knowledge about Fredland, J., & Little, R. (1980). Long-term subsequent civilian earnings? Social Forces, returns to vocational training: Evidence from 83, 709-730. the relationship between military service and military sources. Journal of Human Resources, Teachman, J. (2005). Military service in the Viet- the life course outcomes of women veterans. 15, 4966. nam Era and educational attainment. Sociology The same limitation applies to the life course Lundquist, J. (2006). The Black-White gap in of Education, 78, 50-68. outcomes of veterans who are gay or lesbian. marital dissolution among young adults: What Teachman, J. (2008). Divorce, race, and military As the military becomes more diverse, it is can a counterfactual scenario tell us? Social service: More than equal pay and equal op- important to continue gaining knowledge Problems, 53, 421-441. portunity. Journal of Marriage and Family, 70, about its impact across different groups of Pavalko, E., & Elder, G. (1990). World War II 1030-1044. individuals who choose to serve.  and divorce: A life-course perspective. Ameri- Teachman, J., & Tedrow, L. (2004). Wages, earn- can Journal of Sociology, 95, 1213-1234. ings, and occupational status: Did World War References Pettit, B., & Western, B. (2004). Mass impris- II veterans receive a premium? Social Science Bedard, K., & Deschenes, O. (2006). The long- onment and the life course: Race and class Research, 33, 581-605. term impact of military service on health: inequality in U.S. incarceration. American Teachman, J., & Tedrow, L. (2007). Joining up: Evidence from World War II and Korean War Sociological Review, 69, 151-169. Did military service in the early all volunteer veterans. American Economic Review, 96, Ruger, W., Wilson, S., & Waddoups, S. (2002). era affect subsequent civilian income? Social 176-194. Warfare and welfare: Military service, combat, Science Research, 36, 1447-1474. family focus // spring 2012 F13
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    Family Focus on... Military Families what we know continued from page F13 Despite Military-Related Stress, Resilience What Exactly is a Military Family? exactly do military families do, and what is the Norm among Military Families Obviously, it’s a dad who is in the military, resources do they possess, that make them While children (and to some degree parents) a mom, and a kid or two, right? Not quite. able to handle deployments, permanent in military families experience a decline Although the two-parent married family is changes in station (or other relocations due in well-being, particularly during parental still the norm among military families, it to military service), parental and spousal absence due to a deployment, most families is not the only type. Women represent be- absence, and the risk of injury or death? find ways to cope. Prior studies have shown tween 15% and 20% of the overall military What Are the Keys to Successful that, during peacetime, kids from military population, depending on branch of service Reintegration After Deployment? families do not differ from their nonmili- (i.e., Air Force, Army, Navy, Marines, Coast In a similar vein, we actually know very tary peers in terms of mental health and Guard) and pay grade (i.e., officer versus little about what factors pave the way to a behavioral outcomes, and in some cases, enlisted) (see Demographics 2009, 2009). smooth reintegration process after a family fare better on these outcomes. Other studies Single-parent families represent just over 5% member returns from a deployment. To date, have found that, although children may have of the current military population (Hosek, military family researchers have primarily elevated symptoms during a deployment, the 2011). Unmarried and unpartnered service focused on the rapid cycle of deployment severity of symptoms often does not reach members are an understudied population, and reintegration. But with ever-increasing a clinical threshold. And recent studies have numbers of service found limited (and mixed) evidence of an members returning home impact of deployment on specific academic My colleagues at RAND have reported that roughly with no new deployment outcomes such as engagement, achieve- 20% of troops returning from Iraq or Afghanistan in sight, we must now ment, and performance. Taken together, this focus on the long-term met the diagnostic criteria for post-traumatic research suggests that negative outcomes reintegration of service among military families are not inevitable. stress disorder or depression, and 20% met the members within their National Guard and Reserve Families criteria for experiencing a probable traumatic brain families and society. My Often Face Distinctive Issues injury during their deployment. Arguably, these colleagues at RAND have Deployments are stressful for all families, reported that roughly 20% but a growing body of research suggests that types of “invisible wounds” are more difficult to of troops returning from they can be even more stressful for families manage than more obvious physical injuries. Iraq or Afghanistan met who are part of the approximately 1.1 mil- the diagnostic criteria for lion service members who are part of Na- post-traumatic stress dis- tional Guard or Reserve units. These families and it is not at all clear what family means order or depression, and 20% met the criteria often live far removed from the built-in re- to these individuals. Is it the family of origin for experiencing a probable traumatic brain sources and support systems that are provid- (e.g., parents, siblings), a significant other, or injury during their deployment (Tanielian ed to active component families who live on, even Fido or Fluffy? And with the repeal of & Jaycox, 2008). Arguably, these types of or near, a military base. Children of reserve Don’t Ask Don’t Tell, LGBT families, which “invisible wounds” are more difficult to component members may be the only child to date have been the focus of a very limited manage than more obvious physical injuries. in their entire school who has a parent in the amount of research, may see a substantial Given the types of injuries that recent vet- military. As a result of their situations, Guard increase in attention from family scholars. erans may experience, possible exposure to and Reserve families often do not know what What Makes a Resilient Military Family horrific events on the battlefield, and being to expect when a deployment occurs, nor do Resilient? away from home for months at a time, how they always know where to go for assistance As noted above, the existing body of re- do families cope when a loved one returns? if and when it is needed. Further, teachers, search on military families suggests that What Happens to Military Kids During the pediatricians, psychologists, and other ser- most families are indeed able to cope with Transition to Adulthood and Beyond? vice providers in those communities often do the stresses associated with being a part of A 10-year-old child whose parent deployed not have the military information (e.g., cul- the military. Yet, we do not know exactly in 2001, soon after 9-11, would today be tural awareness, knowledge of and access to what it is that makes these families resil- 20 years old. How is that child functioning resources) needed to support these families. ient. Do they have innate skills that make today? Is he or she in college, or working And What We Don’t Know them some-how different from their civilian at a full time job? Has that child joined the Admittedly, we do know more than the peers? That is, are more resilient families military? Is he or she married, cohabiting, or handful of things outlined above. But despite selected into the military in the first place? a parent? How does experiencing a parental the healthy amount of the existing literature (I suspect the answer is no, but the jury is deployment influence the childparent rela- on military families, there are a number of still out.) Does the military somehow inocu- tionship once the parent comes home and outstanding questions that for one reason or late families against the deleterious effects the child grows into adulthood? We simply another (largely due to a lack of longitudi- of stress? There has been a lot of focus on do not know the answers to these life course nal data on military families, see Segal & strengthening these “resilient factors” but questions. In some respects these may be Kleykamp, 2011) have not been addressed. how effective have those efforts been? What “nice to know” questions, but if you scratch what we know continued on page F15 F14 family focus // spring 2012
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    Family Focus on... Military Families what we know continued from page F14 the surface you quickly realize that the is that we will have data from three family resource environment like the one we have answers have implications for family for- members–service members, their spouses, now. Nonetheless, we must continue to ex- mation patterns, fertility rates, educational and their children, roughly three times per pand our knowledge base, not only because attainment, unemployment, poverty, etc. year. Three years x three times a year x three it represents a general contribution to the Furthermore, they could have dramatic im- family members–that’s 27 surveys per fam- scientific community, but also because it’s a plications for the future of our all-volunteer ily. By collecting rich data on military expe- way to say “thank you” to those who most military, where legacy service members riences, family functioning, and mental and definitely deserve it. are common (Ferris, 1981; Segal & Segal, physical health, we hope to be able to tackle Note 2004). some of the tricky questions that remain Many thanks to my colleagues Benjamin How Do We Integrate Research and Civilian elusive to military family researchers. Karney and Anita Chandra for providing and Military Services to Provide the Most Certainly my colleagues and I at RAND are feedback on this piece.  Effective Support for Military Families? not the only researchers investigating issues Finally, when it comes to policy, we have surrounding military families. The Military References not yet been completely successful in inte- Family Research Institute at Purdue Uni- Demographics 2009: Profile of the military com- grating research and support services. Last versity is conducting a longitudinal study of munity (Office of the Deputy Under Secretary April I attended the 2011 Family Resilience of Defense, Military Community and Family National Guard families. And in 2010 the Policy, 2009), http://www.militaryhomefront Conference cosponsored by the U.S. De- Undersecretary of Defense for Personnel .dod.mil/12038/Project%20Documents/Mili- partment of Defense (DoD) and the U.S and Readiness, with the help of the Defense taryHOMEFRONT/QOL%20Resources/Re- Department of Agriculture (USDA). At this Manpower Data Center, launched the Mili- ports/2009_Demographics_Report.pdf point you may be asking yourself why the tary Family Life Project, a study of roughly Ferris, J. H. (1981). The all-volunteer force–Re- USDA cohosted a conference with the DoD? 30,000 service members and their spouses. cruiting from military families. Armed Forces I will spare you the details, but basically A follow-up survey will take place during and Society, 7, 545-559. land-grant universities (e.g., Penn State, the next year. And the First Lady’s Joining Hosek, J. (2011). How is deployment to Iraq and Ohio, Cornell) have mandatory Cooperative Forces initiative may provide more chances Afghanistan affecting U.S. service members Extension Services with a mission to (more for researchers to interact with peers outside and their families? An overview of early RAND or less) serve the public good (U.S. Depart- academia. These and other similar efforts research on the topic. OP-316-DOD. Santa ment of Agriculture, 2011; see Proclamation, should keep us all busy for a while. Monica, CA: RAND Corporation. 2011). In this case, that public good meant Proclamation in recognition of Department of I may be biased, but I think it is an incred- Defense/Department of Agriculture extension- getting researchers, policymakers, and ibly exciting time to be a family scholar service providers in one room and forcing military partnership [Proclamation]. (2011). interested in the health and well-being of http://www1.cyfernet.org/FRConf2011/2011- them to talk to each other. In many respects our military families. Arguably, never be- Proclamation.pdf I think we were all a little outside of our fore in our nation’s history have our service Segal, D. R., & Kleykamp, M. (2011). Long- comfort zones. But what I quickly realized members and their families been so chal- term consequences of modern military service, is that as a researcher I have to find a way lenged and never before have their struggles http://www.nsf.gov/sbe/sbe_2020/2020_pdfs/ to connect with these folks. I cannot expect (and successes) been the topic of so much Segal_David_184.pdf them to read the most recent copy of JMF scholarly attention. The work we do makes a Segal, D. R., & Segal, M. W. (2004). America’s or Armed Forces and Society. (I rarely have real difference for these families–as a policy military population. Population Bulletin, 59. time to do that myself!) And by the same researcher I am lucky enough to see that first Tanielian, T. L., & Jaycox, L. (2008). Invisible token, from their perspective on the ground, hand. And the work we do in understanding wounds of war: Psychological and cognitive they need to tell me what works and what how these families confront stress has impli- injuries, their consequences, and services to does not, what is feasible to implement and cations for the larger body of family stress assist recovery. MG-720-CCF. Santa Monica, what is not, and what helps and what hurts. CA: RAND Corporation. and coping research. Forward, March! U.S. Department of Agriculture (2011). About Although we know a lot about what it means Us: Cooperative Extension System Offices, Given the gaps outlined above, how do we to be a military family, our work is not done. http://www.csrees.usda.gov/Extension/ start to fill them? One way to potentially It will likely be difficult to prioritize the White House. (2011). Joining forces. http://www. address many of these issues is with the many unanswered questions in a constrained whitehouse.gov/joiningforces use of longitudinal data, of which we have surprisingly little when it comes to military families. That’s why I am so excited to be a part of RAND’s Deployment Life Study. Over the next 3 years we will follow some 2,000 military families, both active and reserve components, across the deploy- ment cycle from preparing, to being away, to returning home. And even more exciting family focus // spring 2012 F15
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    Family Focus on... Military Families Returning home: What we know about the reintegration of deployed service members into their families and communities by Lydia I. Marek, Ph.D., LMFT, lmarek@vt.edu, Family and Community Research Laboratory, Virginia Tech, W. Glenn Hollingsworth, M.A., Carissa D’Aniello, M.A., Kathleen O’Rourke, M.A., Donna-Jean P. Brock, M.A., Lyn Moore, M.A., John L. Butler VI, M.S., Jing Zhang, M.S., Bradford Wiles, M.A. According to the Department of Defense, as persist for months to years depending on the prior to deployment or that the structure that of June 30, 2011, 203,400 military person- individual service member, his or her family, emerged during deployment will remain. nel, including reserve and National Guard and the fuller context of the service mem- Lack of appropriate expectations and com- members, were currently on deployment ber’s life. Notably, although many service munication around this restructuring is a in Iraq or Afghanistan. As nearly one half members, spouses, and children or youth frequent source of conflict and stress for of all military personnel are parents, and demonstrate great resilience during what reintegrating families. with almost two million children having a can be a smooth and joyful reintegration Those involved with military families must military parent, there are a growing number process, many individuals and families have understand the reintegration process and its of families who are experiencing or have difficulties with this stage of deployment. effects on the service member and his or experienced the strain of wartime deploy- Reintegration can be a turbulent time for her family, because this multifaceted period ments. These deployments are characterized the family, as members must re-form into a of time has been found to have a profound by lengthy and multiple separations that put functioning system. Some studies suggest impact on multiple life domains. With the stress on family functioning, structure, and that relationship stress and negative family current drawdown of troops in Iraq, this cohesion. In addition, the effects of these reintegration process is even more important deployments, with their related difficulties, Reactions to the return of the for researchers and practitioners to under- can spill over into domains outside of the deployed service member can vary stand so that critical supports for returning home and affect individual and social func- service members and their families can be tioning. Military personnel, program provid- wildly; some spouses report developed, implemented, and evaluated. ers, and helping professionals are becoming not having to adjust at all during This article provides a brief overview of more interested in and concerned about the reintegration while others report main issues in the process of reintegration stage of deployment known as reintegration for service members, spouses, children, and or postdeployment. Understanding this stage that their deployed partner is the family unit, and concludes with future is especially important at this time, given the no longer the same person research needs. current drawdown of troops. With the num- ber of returning service members increasing, they knew previously, making The Experience of Reintegration they and their families must now reassemble for a rather difficult adjustment. Service Members their lives after each member has experi- During the service member’s reentry to the enced profound change. home, he or she faces physical, psychologi- function may reach a peak between 4 to 9 cal (e.g., symptoms related to an experience Reintegration is the stage of the deployment months after the service member’s return. of trauma), and social challenges. Adler, cycle (predeployment, deployment, postde- One of the greatest challenges for these Zamorski, and Britt (2011) suggested a ployment or reintegration) characterized by families appears to be renegotiating family model of service member transition in which the service member’s reentry into his or her roles as the service member encounters the the effect of deployment-related variables daily life as experienced prior to deploy- often-unexpected difficulty of fitting into a (deployment experiences, anticipation of ment, or into a new civilian life, including home routine that has likely changed a great homecoming, and meaningfulness) on do- the domains of work, family, and personal deal since his or her departure. Typically, mains of postdeployment transition (physi- experiences. Most often, this stage is an- over the course of one or more deployments, cal, emotional, and social) are moderated by other predeployment, given the operational the at-home parent and children (especially the service member’s decompression, or the tempo of the last 10 years; meaning that adolescents who are more capable of provid- psychological transition from functioning most service members are already preparing ing greater instrumental support within the in a high-stress and pressure-filled environ- for another deployment immediately upon home) assume new responsibilities such that ment to one of less stress and pressure (in return to their families. Despite much litera- when the service member returns, there may other words, the psychological processes ture suggesting that the reintegration stage be expectations among family members that involved in going from battlefield to lasts several months, this stage can actually things will either return to how they were returning home continued on page F17 F16 family focus // spring 2012
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    Family Focus on... Military Families returning home continued from page F16 bedroom), his or her personal narrative during that time. Chandra and colleagues increased parental attention during reinte- around military experiences, unit variables, (2011) found the following challenges ex- gration and often did not understand why and the anticipation of redeployment. These pressed by spouses related to reintegration: they did not receive it. Youth adjustment transition domains can then directly affect may be moderated by age, gender, and cu- 1. Fitting the deployed spouse back into the the quality of one’s health, work, relation- mulative length of deployment, such that home routine; ships, and an overall ability to enjoy life. older girls who experienced longer parental 2. Rebalancing child responsibilities; Studies have identified specific challenges deployments were at greater risk for rein- 3. Getting to know the deployed spouse again; facing reintegrating service members as tegration difficulties. Boys, on the other 4. Worrying about the next deployment; follows: hand, may have more difficulty adjusting to 5. Dealing with the deployed spouse’s mood reduced autonomy and increased structure 1. Feeling like they no longer fit into their changes; and when the deployed parent returns home. families due to the family changes that 6. Deciding who to turn to for advice. occurred in their absence, including the In spite of their challenges, many children Some mitigating factors that are associ- normative development and maturation of demonstrate remarkable resilience during ated with the reintegration process include children and the increased competence of deployment and reintegration. Chandra and frequency of contact during deployment, the spouse who has taken over many of colleagues (2011) reported that when con- overall adjustment to deployment, use the tasks and roles that were previously cerns did arise, they tended to focus on: of military support programs, and age of completed by the service member. 1. Adjusting to fit the deployed parent back children. Negative communications with 2. A feeling of separation for returning ser- into the home routine; the service member, negative beliefs in the vice members from the culture to which 2. Worrying about the next deployment; value of the service member’s mission, and they return. Several reasons were cited 3. Dealing with the service member’s mood the service member’s exposure to combat such as lack of respect from civilians (in- changes; were significant predictors of wives’ stress cluding a loss of status and self-esteem), 4. Worrying about how parents are getting during postdeployment. Making sense of the the belief that they hold themselves to along; deployment process in general and making a higher standard than civilians, and the 5. Becoming reacquainted with the service appropriate attributions of the military part- complexity of “normal” life. member; and ner’s behavior in particular (e.g., if trauma 3. Difficulties related to interpersonal inter- 6. Deciding who to turn to for support and symptoms are present) are valuable in re- actions (including those with their partners advice. ducing reintegration stress. and children) due to low frustration toler- ance, poor anger management, difficulties Military Children/Youth Military Families in coping and self-regulation, hypervigi- Reintegration can be a very difficult time for Family adjustment depends on a variety of lance, and social withdrawal. Many of children and youth. While proud of their de- factors, and although a majority of families these could be characterized as post-trau- ployed parent, many report feelings of loss, make the appropriate adaptations during matic stress symptoms and may also in- loneliness, and worry for the safety of their postdeployment and demonstrate a great clude increased alcohol use and heightened military parent during deployment and fre- degree of resilience, many report difficulties. symptoms of depression and anxiety. quently must take on more responsibilities The family dynamics created during deploy- in the home. The child or youth may eagerly ment are often challenged during reintegra- Spouses of Service Members tion. Mechanisms of risk for these families, anticipate reconnecting with the service Pincus, House, Christensen, and Adler identified by Saltzman and colleagues member parent who returns. Nevertheless, (2001) postulated that postdeployment is ar- (2011), include: both parent and child may have undergone guably the most important stage for the ser- significant changes during deployment, thus 1. An incomplete understanding of the vice member and spouse as they often must heightening the unpredictability of this time impact of deployment and combat opera- reduce expectations, take time to become re- for everyone. tional stress; acquainted with one another, and build com- munication. Reactions to the return of the A variety of factors, such as a child’s stage 2. Inaccurate developmental expectations; deployed service member can vary wildly; of development (emotional, cognitive, or 3. Impaired family communication; some spouses report not having to adjust at physical), the at-home caregiver’s satisfac- 4. Impaired parenting practices; all during reintegration while others report tion with military and community support, 5. Impaired family organization; and that their deployed partner is no longer the the individual adjustment and emotional 6. A lack of a guiding belief system (i.e., same person they knew previously, making development of the parents, and the degree values or beliefs that enable a family to for a rather difficult adjustment. Despite the of marital stability can all affect a child’s make sense of and find meaning in their potential for positive effects of reintegration adjustment to reunion and reintegration. circumstances or a difficult situation). (e.g., greater appreciation for one’s family, Studies have found that children and youth Pincus and colleagues (2011) also suggest personal growth), spouses may experience expressed difficulty relating to the reinte- that there are a number of adaptations that a loss of the independence gained during grating parent due to the physical, mental, can serve as protective factors and ease the the service member’s deployment and the and emotional changes that resulted from returning home continued on page F18 loss of the social support networks formed deployment. Children reportedly expected family focus // spring 2012 F17
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    Family Focus on... Military Families Teaching about military families: Lessons from the field by Tara Saathoff-Wells, Ph.D., CFLE, Tara.Saathoff-Wells@ucf.edu ; Amy Dombro, M.S.; Karen Blaisure, Ph.D., CFLE; Angela Pereira (Col., U.S. Army, Ret.), Ph.D., MSW; Shelley MacDermid Wadsworth, Ph.D., CFLE Introduction to support military and veteran families as disseminates results that students read; Amy, This article focuses on college-level courses they enter, complete, leave, and deal with the writer, listens to families and creates about military families. The authors of this the aftermath of their military service. Simi- support materials that students read and can article have just finished collaborating on lar to our recent cowriting experience, the share with families; and Tara and Karen, the a textbook about military families aimed development and implementation of Karen instructors, facilitate learning. at undergraduates training to become help- and Tara’s courses involved purposeful Although the number of service members ing professionals. The book was inspired in collaboration with a range of professionals and veterans is relatively small compared large part by the courses developed by two and families within the military and veteran to the U.S. population as a whole, they and of the authors, Karen Blaisure and Tara Saa- population. Each of the authors played a many more millions of moms, dads, sib- thoff-Wells. As a group, our goal is to work role in the courses, some of which were lings, and other family members have been to ensure that the next generation of profes- more visible than others: Angela, as a career deeply influenced by the conflicts of the past sionals from disciplines like family stud- Army social worker, is a professional who decade as well as earlier conflicts. Thus, all ies, counseling, social work, psychology, does the work that students need to know; professionals working with families are now student affairs, and others are well-prepared Shelley, a researcher, conducts studies and lessons from the field continued on page F19 returning home continued from page F17 family into the reintegration process. These sion. Other limits of reintegration research and civilian community would be needed include: thus far include the following: for such a research agenda and is essential if we are to assist in building the resiliency 1. Being able to have role flexibility with the 1. Many service members have been sur- of military families during the potentially ability to perform multiple roles; veyed about their experiences of reinte- difficult and multidimensional process of 2. Using active coping skills; gration years after returning from deploy- reintegration.  3. Maintaining contact through e-mail and ment (rather than during or immediately letter writing during deployment; following postdeployment); References 4. Having all family members maintain real- 2. Measures used have reported limited Adler, A. B., Zamorski, M., & Britt, T. W. (2011). istic expectations during this reintegration psychometric information; The psychology of transition: Adapting to home process; 3. Most current research is cross-sectional after deployment. In Adler, A. B., Bliese, P. D., 5. Developing a shared family narrative and with some notable exceptions; & Castro, C. A. (eds.), Deployment psychol- collaborative meaning-making; 4. Data are seldom gathered from multiple ogy. Washington, DC: American Psychological 6. Open communication in the family; and informants; and Association. 7. Effective parental leadership. 5. There is insufficient attention to theory, Chandra, A., Lara-Cinisomo, S., Jaycox, L. H., thereby limiting the application and build- Tanielian, T., Han, B., Burns, R. M., & Ruder, Next Steps T. (2011). Views from the homefront: The ing of family stress and resilience research Our current knowledge of reintegration experiences of youth and spouses from military and understanding. experiences, how they unfold over time, and families. Santa Monica, CA: RAND Corpora- their consequences is for the most part based Addressing these deficits would enrich our tion. on research using largely clinical samples knowledge of the process of reintegration Pincus, S. H., House, R., Christenson, J., & focusing on service member experiences of and help highlight the stressors and resil- Adler, L. E. (2001). The emotional cycle of post-traumatic stress disorder and its impact ience factors in military families. More deployment: A military family perspective. U.S. on the marital relationship and parenting. research that is family-focused and longitu- Army Medical Department Journal, 2, 21-29. Such a focus obscures the fact that even in dinal, using nonclinical samples and mea- Saltzman, W. R., Lester, P., Beardslee, W. R., the absence of formal mental health diagno- sures that have demonstrated psychometrics, Layne, C. M., Woodward, K., & Nash, W. P. (2011). Mechanisms of risk and resilience in ses for service members, difficulties can and is needed. This understanding could then military families: Theoretical and empirical do arise, thus warranting further research lead to the development, implementation, basis of a family-focused resilience enhance- with nonclinical samples. There is a need for and evaluation of effective support programs ment program. Clinical Child and Family a greater balance between strengths-based or and services targeted at each of these groups Psychology Review, 14, 213-230. doi:10.1007/ family resilience approaches and those em- during specific time periods. Strong and s10567-011-0096-1 phasizing psychopathology and its transmis- effective collaboration between the military F18 family focus // spring 2012
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    Family Focus on... Military Families lessons from the field continued from page F18 likely to encounter military and veteran mend that instructors take time at the be- installation. At the VA medical center, a psy- families in their practices even if they work ginning of a course to familiarize students chologist discussed PTSD treatment; at the in the civilian community. with hallmarks of military culture; of basic national cemetery, staff discussed how they organizational characteristics of the different assist families with arrangements. During The support our society offers military fami- branches, including active duty and ready another class session, our coauthor, retired lies has grown from a seed to a twig over reserve; and of common experiences of mili- Army Colonel Angela Pereira, skyped into the last few years. But we need to offer them tary family life compared, when possible, to our classrooms sharing her experiences as the support of a tree for the good of military civilian families. a career Army social worker and answering families and our country. Courses like this questions from students. These experiences will help. KLC, WMU student As we mark almost a decade of sustained bring information about military families to military action in Iraq and Afghanistan, Course Structure and Content life in a way that a standard seminar format other topics have been added into our Karen, at Western Michigan University, and cannot duplicate. courses. Emerging research on stress and Tara, at Central Michigan University, both resilience regarding multiple deployments Instructor Knowledge and Preparation developed and taught courses on military and combat-affected families (spouse’s Because there are currently 30 million vet- families during the past 5 years. Most hu- and children’s well-being, family violence, erans and 2.2 million service members and man development and family studies pro- their families, college and university instruc- substance abuse, and changes in close and grams in the United States do not regularly extended family relationships), visible and tors may be part of an extended military offer a course on military families, so fol- invisible wounds, and service member death family. While this is appreciated by students lowing university guidelines for special-top- now take a more prominent place in our and is a means of gaining initial credibility, ics courses may be necessary. The following courses than they did 5 years ago. In earlier experience as a military family member is items are examples of what Tara and Karen considered in developing their courses: We strongly recommend that instructors take time at the beginning of  weekend A format. We both found that a a course to familiarize students with hallmarks of military culture; weekend format worked well, whether of- of basic organizational characteristics of the different branches, fering a 1-credit or 3-credit version of our courses. A large block of time allowed for including active duty and ready reserve; and of common experiences deeper discussion of topics, for extended of military family life compared, when possible, to civilian families. time with guests, and for unique field trip opportunities. iterations of our classes, students were ask- not necessary to teach a course on military  Flexible course numbers. These courses ing “Where is the research on families, chil- families. Building from respect for military were offered at a level that allowed both dren, loss, and deployments?” Now we can families, instructors can engage in the study graduate and advanced undergraduate point to a rapidly growing body of literature and activities required to prepare and deliver students to enroll. that examines these questions. Discussions a high-quality course.  Online course-management systems. on new military and civilian initiatives built If you aren’t a member of a military family, An online platform helped structure from this research and practice innovations be up front about it. If you are knowledge- homework and reading assignments and are also included. able, share stories you have gathered, kept dialogue about topics active via Assignments and field trip/guest speaker and bring in guest speakers with military discussion boards and resource sharing opportunities offer variation in integrating backgrounds, you will have credibility. KH, between class sessions. course content. For example, students find it CMU student  CVIT and Skype™. Compressed Video informative to investigate local veterans’ or- Interactive Technology allowed us to ganizations such as the Veterans of Foreign An instructor’s knowledge should span stream class sessions with each other Wars or Student Veterans of America. They military culture (e.g., values, mission, chain throughout the semester. Additionally, may collate resources for returning National of command, service before self, language), classes could “share” guest speakers, cre- Guard families or volunteer in a Yellow Rib- active and reserve components (i.e., reserves ating an open dialogue across sites. Skype bon reintegration weekend. and National Guard), and the Departments ™ enabled video conference calls with of Defense and Veterans Affairs. Familiarity guests who were not local to one of our In fall 2010, we coordinated our classes at with recent research on military families is universities. We also became good friends WMU and CMU and met together for a joint central to an instructor’s knowledge and in- with our local IT gurus. (Note that tech field trip to an Air National Guard base on a cludes factors that support family resilience, support availability for a weekend class drill weekend, a VA hospital, and a national the implications for adults and children of may be challenging on your campus; check cemetery. During the base visit, the family separations due to training and deployment, beforehand!) readiness manager, the chaplain, and a first relocations, service members’ 24/7 “on call” sergeant described their work and reactions status, and visible and invisible injuries. Course content is a combination of back- to deployment. We toured the facilities and Instructors also need to know military and ground information and current trends in ate lunch in the cafeteria, providing some research and practice. We strongly recom- students their first experience on a military lessons from the field continued on page F20 family focus // spring 2012 F19
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    Family Focus on... Military Families lessons from the field continued from page F19 civilian resources for military, as well as coordinated 2010 courses, several gradu- barriers in their knowledge about military content found in key reports, research ar- ate students in a student affairs program at subculture and comfort in working with ticles, and books (see Recommended Re- WMU had experience working with student military families. When a professional is sources, below). veterans and with military family members more familiar with and more comfortable Theory and praxis are necessary to address who were attending college while a loved working with military families, and when tension between content that focuses on one was deployed. Students at CMU were military family members understand that a service members and content that focuses both undergraduate and graduate students professional acknowledges, appreciates, and on family members. Helping students frame in Human Development and Family Stud- understands what it is to be part of a military intricate, contextual influences for individual ies whose career goals included working as family, the helping relationship can develop and family resilience requires taking time civilians on military installations in child, and thrive. Even students who have been in throughout the semester to revisit theoretical youth, and family programs. the military or have been part of a military concepts and models so that they can create Students also vary in their political or social family will benefit from being able to look a robust theoretical foundation. views that intersect with their interests in a at the military culture and military family course about military families. For example, life from another point of view with other Developing positive relationships with on- students. They will gain a better appreciation when thinking about course policy and campus and local military groups can be of how life differs for civilian and military expectations for civil discourse, we have mutually beneficial. A course on military families in general and will be able to work found it helpful to think ahead about how to families adds to a supportive climate for with military families whose experiences address topics and facilitate classroom and military students, veterans, and their families. and needs are different from their own. online discussions on issues such as political In turn, members of these groups often are stances on current military actions and so- Courses on working with military families eager to be guest speakers. If a college or cial views on the repeal of Don’t Ask, Don’t should have the goals of helping profession- university has a department of Military Sci- Tell or women serving in combat positions. als become competent in their knowledge ence (responsible for the training of Reserve Officers Training Corps students), it is staffed Guest speakers provide some students their about military family life and developing by active-duty members, typically willing to first experience talking with a service mem- professional skills that enhance effective make presentations on military culture. Mem- ber or veteran, as well as the opportunity to interactions. These goals can be achieved bers of the campus military student/veteran hear about the highs and lows of military when students: office or organization can describe reintegra- life. Discuss with guest speakers what to • are introduced to military members, veter- tion and the transition to or back to college cover. At times, what they say may chal- ans, and their families; life. Family program staff at a local National lenge students, and how students respond • share personal experiences as or with mili- Guard unit (e.g., Military Family Life Con- may challenge speakers. These are opportu- tary members and families; sultants, Director of Psychological Services), nities for respectful dialogue. • acquire a basic understanding of military reserve unit (e.g., Family Readiness Man- Field trips to nearby Army or Air National structure and history; ager), or active-duty base or post can describe Guard installations during a drill weekend • learning about the culture of the military their day-to-day work with military families. offer both opportunities and examples of and the nature of military service, includ- Opportunities and Challenges challenges for faculty and students. Dates of ing the fact that many military and family Students enrolled in a military family course a drill weekend may change, allowing stu- members may not agree politically with vary in knowledge of and comfort with the dents to experience a bit of what it is like to the missions of the military, but feel they military and in motivation for taking the rearrange personal and professional sched- must carry out whatever missions the na- course. Some may be limited to what they ules in response to a military decision. tion has deemed necessary, because they have learned from media accounts while Why Courses Like This Matter to have vowed to do so; and others have lived in the military culture for Military Families • exploring the role(s) and stance of a help- years. Other students may take the course Perhaps the most important contribution ing professional when it comes to support- for personal reasons, such as marrying a a course on military families can make in ing families. service member. Yet others enroll because educating current or future professionals is These course contents help professionals they realize issues military families face imparting to them a greater understanding of develop empathy for military families the will continue even if current military actions the culture of military life. Military service single most important characteristic for a come to a close and as a professional they is a subculture of American life. If we can helping professional and help them to be- will be responding to these implications for convey to students what it means to be part come compassionate professionals who are rest of their professional lives. of a military family and help them feel more knowledgeable about the population they Students’ experiences with the military often comfortable working with those families, will serve. have been with one branch of the military we will give them the greatest tools in their lessons from the field continued on page 9 or one population (e.g., returning veterans). work with this population. A course on military families offers them Military members and families relate best to For permission to use NCFR’s the opportunity to share their knowledge and trust those who understand them, which Family Focus call 888-781-9331. while also expanding it. For example, in our means that professionals need to address F20 family focus // spring 2012