2. Theories Of Attraction
When a couple meets for the first time, the attraction can be instantaneous. They may describe the
meeting as "a shock to the system", or "electric". When interviewed, the men may say
"Everything else in the room faded, all I could see was her." The woman may say "I looked
around the room, and when we locked eyes, I realized I couldn't take my eyes off of him." Could
this be love at first sight? Or is this merely a biological response? In fact, research does find that a
person's eyes do change when they see something they desire. "Looking into a lover's eyes is like
looking into a fire...Thanks to a shot of adrenaline, your palms sweat, your breathing gets shallow,
your skin feels hot, and your pupils dilate. Your amygdala, the center of the brain that processes
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Endorphins are also released during sex; they provide the "feel–good, calming" effect that one feels
immediately after orgasm. Finally, endorphins are released through touch, which is why a mother's
touch can soothe a crying infant. "Endorphins, for instance, can create the sensation of euphoria
and relief from pain." (Selhub, 33). It is that compelling euphoric feeling that couples describe
when they say they have "fallen in love." In her book, A Natural History of Love, author Diane
Ackerman discusses the importance of the hormone oxytocin in a person's experience of love.
Oxytocin, also known as the "cuddle chemical", "plays an important role in romantic love, as a
hormone that encourages cuddling between lovers and increases pleasure during lovemaking...The
hormone stimulates the smooth muscles and sensitizes the nerves, and snowballs during sexual
arousal." (Ackerman, 163). Oxytocin is also linked to the feeling of "closeness" that one
experiences after intercourse, which may explain why women are statistically more likely to "fall"
for a man that they may know they have no future with, yet they mistakenly associate the feeling
they experience after the release of oxytocin with
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3. A Tourist Attraction
November 16 was a six country day. Several Miguel and I flew over, others we landed in. After
leaving Tapachula, Mexico, we over flew Guatemala and made a fuel stop in El Salvador. We
over flew Honduras and Nicaragua, eventually landing in Liberia, Costa Rica. The time spent over
Guatamala turned out to be particularly memorable. The G in Guatemala must stand for green.
From the cockpit, my eyes could discern every imaginable shade of green and no other hues. I had
the impression farmers cultivated every available square inch of arable land. Miguel and I were able
to observe VolcГЎn de Fuego ("Volcano of Fire") on that rare day when neither smoke spewed from
it nor clouds floated over it, an impressive sight. With ease, I grasped...show more content...
Prior to arriving at the airport, in my mind, El Salvador always conjured up Iran Contra and the
1980's Miami Vice type images of guerillas blowing up buildings. Fortunately, my perceptions
turned out to be totally erroneous and our experience, while time consuming, was quite enjoyable.
While talking to one of the workers at the airport, I commented on how outstanding the facilities
were, not a difficult comment to express with total sincerity as the airport was beautiful and the
facilities were significantly in excess of adequate. He spoke English fluently and his uncensored,
genial response was, "Do you see how good it can be when you guys (Americans) don't mess
around with us?" I heard comparable sentiments expressed numerous times throughout the trip.
Miguel and I were now south of the airports along the border between the United States and
Mexico and that made a world of difference. XXXXX This was the first time we landed at an airport
which didn't routinely service private, non–commercial airplanes flying to or from the United States.
As Comalapa was an international airport and our plane was extraordinarily diminutive compared to
commercial airliners, controllers directed us to park off to the side of the terminal. Parked there, our
plane wouldn't interfere with the international airlines transiting the jetway while Miguel and I were
at customs.
As I mentioned earlier, general aviation is
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4. Attraction and Liking
Assessing Familiarity and Attraction Kayla Irwin and Daisy Antoniuk PS 250 Alex
Sanderson–MacIntyre February 28, 2013 "Familiarity Does Indeed Promote Attraction in Live
Interaction," by Reis et al., explores the issue of whether familiarity breeds attraction within
individuals in live interaction. The study's purpose was to explore if familiarity did in fact promote
liking in live interaction. This study was exploratory, as it sought to find, through two experiments,
whether or not attraction increased with the amount of familiarity the participants had with one
another. Prior literature reviewed was "Less is more: The lure of ambiguity, or why familiarity
breeds contempt," by Norton et al., (2007). This review explores why...show more content...
105 out of 110 (95%) within one standard deviation. Those who did not participate properly in the
study were not strikingly different, because they were still in the same demographic. Experimental
design and participant observation was used for this study. This was suited well to research the
question and hypotheses, because the conclusion was based on how participants interacted with one
another. The researchers chose this model because it was necessary for them to find out the
information they needed. This was modified for the study, due to the fact that the researchers
gathered information from the participants after the study in regards to their interactions with their
partners. This was modified to explore the hypothesis and get information on a deeper level. What
was given to social context in the first study is that the participants were in a lab, which is not a
normal social environment. The participants were also one on one for the first study and were
obligated to ask a series of questions, which made this study a structured social context. Whereas in
the second study the participants were anonymous and communicated over the computer, thus there
was less structure. The conclusion stated that there are contextual factors such as age and personality
that may influence results, but generally familiarity does breed attraction. Biologically, all dyads
were same–sex, so sexual attraction did not influence the research. This was
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5. Law Of Attraction
The law of attraction has three components. These are visualization, affirmations and positive
thinking. Believers in the law of attraction techniques are also called "deliberate creators". They
believe that the law of attraction helps them to achieve their goals and get what they want. The law
of attraction is better understood in physics, but it is not well understood when applied to our
lifestyles and endeavours. There is no scientific proof about the effects of visualization, affirmation
and positive thinking. It is better left to psychologists. There is a striking similarity in most
attraction laws.
The first law of attraction is called 'visualization'. Visualization in simple terms is the act of seeing
of mental images. With regards to positive thinking, it means deliberately creating mental images of
your goals. Your goals are your desires and what you want to get or achieve. If you want to be a
multi–millionaire, you can picture yourself living in mansion and driving an expensive car.
What is misunderstood is the explanation of this concept. I am sure you have understood the
definition of visualization in the previous paragraph. However, you may find it difficult to
understand the following definition of visualization from a believer' point of view. What is readily
understood from my simple definition of visualization is the benefit...show more content...
Positive thinking has been discussed by many philosophers, experts and health psychologists. The
power of positive thinking can work wonders. It can release your creative potential and put you on
the road to success. However, just like visualization, deliberate creators have a complicated definition
of positive thinking. Once again, the process involves a positive thinker producing vibrations, which
are released into the universe. Done with high emotions and strong belief, the positive thinker is able
to produce vibrations that collect to produce positive
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6. Law of Attraction
Lesa JohnsonENGL 102.18Spring 2013 Essay #3 (Final Draft) Seeing Is Believing The law of
attraction is the name given to the belief that "like attracts like" and that by focusing on positive or
negative thoughts one can bring about positive or negative results. This belief is based upon the
idea that people and their thoughts are both made from pure energy, and the belief that like energy
attracts like energy. For example, if a person opened an envelope expecting to see a bill, then
according to the law of attraction would confirm those thoughts and contain a bill when opened. A
person who decided to instead accept a check might under the same law would...show more content...
If you want to manifest anything into the physical world, you have got to move out of the desire
forming stage and into the alignment stage. There are two ways in which you can become
aligned with your desires, they are believing and feeling good. When you have massive
expectation and actually begin to believe that you have what you are asking for, in that moment
you will become perfectly aligned with what it is you want and so the law of attraction matches
like with like and ultimately yields you the stuff. Affirmations and vision boards are examples
processes that are used to yourself believing your desire is already here. The second way of
alignment stage is feeling good. This step is the easiest because all you have to do is feel good
and you will manifest the stuff you want. The law of attraction does not hear or see your
thoughts; it responds to your vibration which is primarily affected by your feelings. If you
practice these ways of first letting go and then the ways of the alignment stage, it is a sure thing
that it will work. Personally, when we watched the documentary in class two weeks ago I had
never heard of the law of attraction or how it worked. After watching the movie I was skeptical
about if it truly worked or not so I decided to do an experiment of my own and see what would
happen when I followed all the rules to the law. I had this huge midterm for my social work class
last week
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