Child Protection:
Sexual Abuse
Paul Poore: ppoore@aassa.com
Child Protection
Protecting children against
intentional or unintentional
harm to one’s self
and from others
Pedophilia: acting upon sexual arousal to
prepubescent children (13 and under)
Hebephilia: acting upon sexual arousal to
post-pubescent children (12-14+)
These conditions cannot be cured!
The Scope of the Sexual Abuse Problem
in the U.S.
1 in 4 girls
&
1 in 6 boys
will be sexually abused
by age 18….
That’s one every 10 seconds!
Worldwide Statistics
20% of women
&
5-10% of men
are sexually abused as children
Ark of Hope for Children.org
81% of all types of child
abuse is by
parents!
Does my country have a
problem with child abuse?
Does my school or community
have a problem with
child abuse?
DENIAL!
Typology of Child Molesters
Situational
Preferential
…and the continuum between…
Situational Offenders
• No true sexual preference and are morally
indiscriminate
– May go after boys or girls
– Do not necessarily have a preference for children
• Tend to be less intelligent and of a lower socioeconomic
status
• They have the opportunity: a child is ‘available’
• They need a sexual encounter
• Impulsive, but they consider risk
• Tend to collect violent adult pornography and have
anger issues
• Situational offenders are easier to protect against
because they make sloppy mistakes
Preferential Offenders
• Patterns of preferring sexual encounters with
youth begin in early adolescence
• Tend to be more intelligent and of a higher
socioeconomic status
• Master manipulators
• Compulsive and predatory: Has method to
access children
• Fantasy-driven: wholly interested in children
–Obsessively driven by carnal urges to turn
fantasy into reality
–Has many more victims than a situational
offender (120 victims on average)
–Tend to record evidence
–Makes ritual or need-driven mistakes
• Collect child pornography
• Often have a normal adult relationship
(sometimes to gain access to children)
• More difficult to protect against
Common Characteristics of a
Preferential Offender
Male
Single
Over 25
Moves frequently
Depend upon an environment of secrecy, silence and denial
Excessive interest in children and dedicated to them
Liked by children
Successful in work life (pillars of the community) and
establishes credibility with people
Believe their actions are loving and caring….
Justify actions by ‘all the good they do’
This could be ANYONE!
‘Stranger Danger’
30+% are family members
60+% are known to the child
Only 5-10% are
strangers!
Typical Acquaintance Offenders
Intra-familial (long-term access to the child)
Clergy
Doctor
Policeman
Coach
Boy Scout leader
Neighbor
Teacher
Myths
MYTH: They’re known criminals.
Most have no prior criminal history
MYTH: They were sexually abused as children.
Only 21% of online abusers were sexually abused
MYTH: Only ‘lowlife’ become pedophiles.
“Character’ and community standing don’t matter
MYTH: They’re very religious.
Religiosity does not matter
MYTH: He’s too old!
Age does not matter: the drive does not go away…
Peer to Peer
In the U.S., 23% of reported cases of
child sexual abuse
are perpetrated by individuals
under 18
The Law:
The person must be at least 16 and at least
5 years older than the ‘child’
5 Stages of Grooming/Seduction
I. Identifying a vulnerable victim
II. Collecting Information on the victim
III.Filling a Need
IV.Lowering Inhibitions Concerning Sexual Matters
--Games that involve getting undressed
--Making sexual comments
--Showing child pornographic images
V. Initiating the abuse
Grooming Techniques
• Building an emotional connection to gain a child’s
trust through
–Attention, recognition, affection, kindness,
privileges, gifts, alcohol, drugs or money
–Excessive attention to one child or a small group
–Establishing secrets with a child (especially
something that may get the child in trouble with a
parent)
• The molester invests in the child and fosters guilt
• The child often believes the activity is consensual
Common Strategies
Befriending parents to gain access to children
Offering babysitting services
Taking jobs that involve children
Attending or coaching children’s sports
Volunteering in youth organizations, schools,
churches, sports and hobbies
Chaperoning overnight trips
Loitering in places that children frequent
Involved in internet gaming & social communities
Becoming foster parents
--A Profile of the Child Molester
“These offenders seduce children much the
same way adults seduce one another.”
(page 27)
“Any child can be groomed by any
reasonably nice adult with interpersonal
skills.”
Child Molesters: A Behavioral Analysis for Professionals
Investigating the Sexual Exploitation of Children,
Kenneth Lanning (FBI), 2010
Advice to Parents
“Pay attention if there is somebody who knows
too much about what your children are into.”
“Those who seem to be helping the most, those
who maybe seem to be the most kind, the most
giving, the most willing, the most helpful and
available, are the very ones you need to audit the
most.”
--Dr. Phil
Online Groomers
• 80-85% of the internet is in the “Dark Web”
–Tor Network: software guarantees encryption &
anonymity
• Bolder approaches due to online anonymity
• The internet has allowed communities of child
molesters to gather and share pornography online
• The National Center for Missing and Exploited
Children now has over 100 million images!
U.S. Statistics on Internet-Based Abuse
13% of youth received unwanted sexual
solicitations online
1/25 received solicitation requesting offline contact
95% of predators told their victims they were older
males seeking sexual relations
The majority met the predator and 93% of those
encounters included sexual contact
Why Don’t Children Report?
• They have been carefully groomed and don’t realize
they are being groomed
– Grooming fills their emotional, physical and sexual
needs
– Feel special; like gifts
– They believe they’re in a real relationship
• Sextortion: molester collects information on the child
– Progresses to molester asking them for favors in
order to not expose them
• Guilt
Risk Factors in an
Expatriate Community
Social isolation of frequent moves
Absence of traditional, extended family
Social isolation due to lack of language
Cultural norms that prevent discussion and reporting
Lack of laws, enforcement or services in host culture
Lack of policies and procedures in schools
Lack of regular training in schools
DENIAL!
Symptoms of Abuse
Sudden behavior changes (secretive)
Regressive behavior for young children
Sexual acting out/promiscuity
Unusual sexual knowledge
Mood swings
Unexplained money or gifts
Suicide/self-harm attempts
Aggressive behavior
High risk of substance abuse
PTSD
PTSD Symptoms
Disturbed sleep patterns/nightmares
Regression behavior (bed wetting)
Problems with attentiveness
Change in appetite
Inability to trust others
Involvement in exploitative relationships
Tendency to withdraw
Paranoia or phobias
Damage to self-concept
Higher incidence of emotional disorders & depression
Sexual abuse symptoms are the same as
symptoms of depression and PTSD
BUT
Up to 40% of sexually abused children
are asymptomatic
Florida Sex Offender
Registry
http://offender.fdle.state.fl.us/offe
nder/Search.jsp
Countries Having or Considering a
Sex Offender Registry System
SMART: Office of Sex Offender Sentencing, Monitoring, Apprehending, Registering and Tracking April ‘14
Red: Have laws and registry
Yellow: Considering…..
Argentina
Australia
Bermuda
Canada
France
Germany
Ireland
Jamaica
Jersey
Kenya
Maldives
Malta
Pitcairn Islands
South Africa
South Korea
Taiwan
Trinidad &
Tobago,
United
Kingdom
United States
Where are Children
Most Vulnerable?
Sex-trade destinations:
Mexico, Honduras, Costa Rica, Brazil
Thailand, Laos, Philippines, Cambodia
….none of which have a Sex Offender Registry…
Now you know…

Child protection (Sexual Abuse)

  • 1.
    Child Protection: Sexual Abuse PaulPoore: ppoore@aassa.com
  • 2.
    Child Protection Protecting childrenagainst intentional or unintentional harm to one’s self and from others
  • 3.
    Pedophilia: acting uponsexual arousal to prepubescent children (13 and under) Hebephilia: acting upon sexual arousal to post-pubescent children (12-14+) These conditions cannot be cured!
  • 4.
    The Scope ofthe Sexual Abuse Problem in the U.S. 1 in 4 girls & 1 in 6 boys will be sexually abused by age 18…. That’s one every 10 seconds!
  • 5.
    Worldwide Statistics 20% ofwomen & 5-10% of men are sexually abused as children Ark of Hope for Children.org
  • 6.
    81% of alltypes of child abuse is by parents!
  • 7.
    Does my countryhave a problem with child abuse? Does my school or community have a problem with child abuse?
  • 8.
  • 9.
    Typology of ChildMolesters Situational Preferential …and the continuum between…
  • 10.
    Situational Offenders • Notrue sexual preference and are morally indiscriminate – May go after boys or girls – Do not necessarily have a preference for children • Tend to be less intelligent and of a lower socioeconomic status • They have the opportunity: a child is ‘available’ • They need a sexual encounter • Impulsive, but they consider risk • Tend to collect violent adult pornography and have anger issues • Situational offenders are easier to protect against because they make sloppy mistakes
  • 11.
    Preferential Offenders • Patternsof preferring sexual encounters with youth begin in early adolescence • Tend to be more intelligent and of a higher socioeconomic status • Master manipulators • Compulsive and predatory: Has method to access children
  • 12.
    • Fantasy-driven: whollyinterested in children –Obsessively driven by carnal urges to turn fantasy into reality –Has many more victims than a situational offender (120 victims on average) –Tend to record evidence –Makes ritual or need-driven mistakes • Collect child pornography • Often have a normal adult relationship (sometimes to gain access to children) • More difficult to protect against
  • 13.
    Common Characteristics ofa Preferential Offender Male Single Over 25 Moves frequently Depend upon an environment of secrecy, silence and denial Excessive interest in children and dedicated to them Liked by children Successful in work life (pillars of the community) and establishes credibility with people Believe their actions are loving and caring…. Justify actions by ‘all the good they do’ This could be ANYONE!
  • 14.
    ‘Stranger Danger’ 30+% arefamily members 60+% are known to the child Only 5-10% are strangers!
  • 15.
    Typical Acquaintance Offenders Intra-familial(long-term access to the child) Clergy Doctor Policeman Coach Boy Scout leader Neighbor Teacher
  • 16.
    Myths MYTH: They’re knowncriminals. Most have no prior criminal history MYTH: They were sexually abused as children. Only 21% of online abusers were sexually abused MYTH: Only ‘lowlife’ become pedophiles. “Character’ and community standing don’t matter MYTH: They’re very religious. Religiosity does not matter MYTH: He’s too old! Age does not matter: the drive does not go away…
  • 17.
    Peer to Peer Inthe U.S., 23% of reported cases of child sexual abuse are perpetrated by individuals under 18 The Law: The person must be at least 16 and at least 5 years older than the ‘child’
  • 18.
    5 Stages ofGrooming/Seduction I. Identifying a vulnerable victim II. Collecting Information on the victim III.Filling a Need IV.Lowering Inhibitions Concerning Sexual Matters --Games that involve getting undressed --Making sexual comments --Showing child pornographic images V. Initiating the abuse
  • 19.
    Grooming Techniques • Buildingan emotional connection to gain a child’s trust through –Attention, recognition, affection, kindness, privileges, gifts, alcohol, drugs or money –Excessive attention to one child or a small group –Establishing secrets with a child (especially something that may get the child in trouble with a parent) • The molester invests in the child and fosters guilt • The child often believes the activity is consensual
  • 20.
    Common Strategies Befriending parentsto gain access to children Offering babysitting services Taking jobs that involve children Attending or coaching children’s sports Volunteering in youth organizations, schools, churches, sports and hobbies Chaperoning overnight trips Loitering in places that children frequent Involved in internet gaming & social communities Becoming foster parents --A Profile of the Child Molester
  • 21.
    “These offenders seducechildren much the same way adults seduce one another.” (page 27) “Any child can be groomed by any reasonably nice adult with interpersonal skills.” Child Molesters: A Behavioral Analysis for Professionals Investigating the Sexual Exploitation of Children, Kenneth Lanning (FBI), 2010
  • 22.
    Advice to Parents “Payattention if there is somebody who knows too much about what your children are into.” “Those who seem to be helping the most, those who maybe seem to be the most kind, the most giving, the most willing, the most helpful and available, are the very ones you need to audit the most.” --Dr. Phil
  • 23.
    Online Groomers • 80-85%of the internet is in the “Dark Web” –Tor Network: software guarantees encryption & anonymity • Bolder approaches due to online anonymity • The internet has allowed communities of child molesters to gather and share pornography online • The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children now has over 100 million images!
  • 25.
    U.S. Statistics onInternet-Based Abuse 13% of youth received unwanted sexual solicitations online 1/25 received solicitation requesting offline contact 95% of predators told their victims they were older males seeking sexual relations The majority met the predator and 93% of those encounters included sexual contact
  • 26.
    Why Don’t ChildrenReport? • They have been carefully groomed and don’t realize they are being groomed – Grooming fills their emotional, physical and sexual needs – Feel special; like gifts – They believe they’re in a real relationship • Sextortion: molester collects information on the child – Progresses to molester asking them for favors in order to not expose them • Guilt
  • 27.
    Risk Factors inan Expatriate Community Social isolation of frequent moves Absence of traditional, extended family Social isolation due to lack of language Cultural norms that prevent discussion and reporting Lack of laws, enforcement or services in host culture Lack of policies and procedures in schools Lack of regular training in schools DENIAL!
  • 28.
    Symptoms of Abuse Suddenbehavior changes (secretive) Regressive behavior for young children Sexual acting out/promiscuity Unusual sexual knowledge Mood swings Unexplained money or gifts Suicide/self-harm attempts Aggressive behavior High risk of substance abuse PTSD
  • 29.
    PTSD Symptoms Disturbed sleeppatterns/nightmares Regression behavior (bed wetting) Problems with attentiveness Change in appetite Inability to trust others Involvement in exploitative relationships Tendency to withdraw Paranoia or phobias Damage to self-concept Higher incidence of emotional disorders & depression
  • 30.
    Sexual abuse symptomsare the same as symptoms of depression and PTSD BUT Up to 40% of sexually abused children are asymptomatic
  • 31.
  • 32.
    Countries Having orConsidering a Sex Offender Registry System SMART: Office of Sex Offender Sentencing, Monitoring, Apprehending, Registering and Tracking April ‘14 Red: Have laws and registry Yellow: Considering….. Argentina Australia Bermuda Canada France Germany Ireland Jamaica Jersey Kenya Maldives Malta Pitcairn Islands South Africa South Korea Taiwan Trinidad & Tobago, United Kingdom United States
  • 33.
    Where are Children MostVulnerable? Sex-trade destinations: Mexico, Honduras, Costa Rica, Brazil Thailand, Laos, Philippines, Cambodia ….none of which have a Sex Offender Registry…
  • 34.