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THE SURPRISE 
This was a story sent to me via email and it touched me 
deeply. 
The ending shows how just 1 person can dramatically 
change the life of another. 
Presented by I M Confident Niagara Canada 
www.imconfident.com
One day, when I was a 
freshman in high school, I 
saw a kid from my class was 
walking home from school. 
His name was Kyle. 
It looked like he was carrying 
all of his books.
I thought to myself, 'Why would 
anyone bring home all his books 
on a Friday? He must really be a 
nerd.‘ 
I had quite a weekend planned 
(parties and a football game with 
my friends tomorrow afternoon), 
so I shrugged my shoulders and 
went on.
As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids 
running toward him. 
They ran at him, knocking all his books out of 
his arms and tripping him so he landed in the 
dirt. 
His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in 
the grass about ten feet from him... 
He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness 
in his eyes.
My heart went out to him. 
So, I jogged over to him as 
he crawled around looking 
for his glasses, and I saw a 
tear in his eye. 
As I handed him his 
glasses, I said, 'Those guys 
are jerks. They really 
should get lives. '
' He looked at me and said, 
'Hey thanks!' 
There was a big smile on 
his face. 
It was one of those smiles 
that showed real gratitude. 
Hey 
thanks
I helped him pick up his books, and asked him 
where he lived... 
As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked 
him why I had never seen him before... 
He said he had gone to private school before 
now. I would have never hung out with a 
private school kid before.
We talked all the way home, and I carried 
some of his books. He turned out to be a 
pretty cool kid. 
I asked him if he wanted to play a little 
football with my friends He said yes..
We hung out all weekend and 
the more I got to know Kyle, 
the more I liked him, 
and my friends thought the 
same of him.
Monday morning came, and 
there was Kyle with the huge 
stack of books again. 
I stopped him and said, 'Boy, 
you are gonna really build some 
serious muscles with this pile of 
books everyday! 
' He just laughed and handed 
me half the books. Over the next 
four years, Kyle and I became 
best friends..
When we were seniors we began to think 
about college. Kyle decided on Georgetown 
and I was going to Duke. 
I knew that we would always be friends, that 
the miles would never be a problem. 
He was going to be a doctor and I was going 
for business on a football scholarship..
Kyle was valedictorian of our class. I 
teased him all the time about being a nerd. 
He had to prepare a speech for graduation. 
I was so glad it wasn't me having to get up 
there and speak.
Graduation day, I saw Kyle. He looked great. 
He was one of those guys that really found 
himself during high school. He filled out and 
actually looked good in glasses. 
He had more dates than I had and all the girls 
loved him. Boy, sometimes I was jealous!
Today was one of those days. I could see that 
he was nervous about his speech. 
So, I smacked him on the back and said, 'Hey, 
big guy, you'll be great!' 
He looked at me with one of those looks (the 
really grateful one) and smiled. ' Thanks,' he 
said.
As he started his speech, he cleared his 
throat, and began…. 
'Graduation is a time to thank those who 
helped you make it through those tough 
years. 
Your parents, your teachers, your siblings, 
maybe a coach....but mostly your friends..... 
I am here to tell all of you that being a friend 
to someone is the best gift you can give them.
I am going to tell you a story.' 
I just looked at my friend with 
disbelief as he told about the 
first day we met. 
He had planned to kill himself 
over the weekend. 
He talked of how he had 
cleaned out his locker 
so his Mom wouldn't have to 
do it later and was carrying 
his stuff home.
He looked hard at me and gave me a little 
smile. 
'Thankfully, I was saved... My friend saved 
me from doing the unspeakable....'
I heard the gasp go through the crowd as 
this handsome, popular boy told us all 
about his weakest moment. 
I saw his Mom and Dad looking at me and 
smiling that same grateful smile. 
Not until that moment did I realize it's 
depth.
Never underestimate the 
power of your actions.. 
With one small gesture you 
can change a person's life. 
For better or for worse...... 
God puts us all in each 
others lives to impact one 
another in some way. 
Look for God in others.
'Friends are angels who lift 
us to our feet when our wings 
have trouble remembering 
how to fly.' 
There is no beginning or 
end.. Yesterday is history. 
Tomorrow is a mystery. 
Today is a gift.

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The Surprise - Kyle, a Story of Suicide

  • 1. THE SURPRISE This was a story sent to me via email and it touched me deeply. The ending shows how just 1 person can dramatically change the life of another. Presented by I M Confident Niagara Canada www.imconfident.com
  • 2. One day, when I was a freshman in high school, I saw a kid from my class was walking home from school. His name was Kyle. It looked like he was carrying all of his books.
  • 3. I thought to myself, 'Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday? He must really be a nerd.‘ I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on.
  • 4. As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him. They ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the dirt. His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him... He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes.
  • 5. My heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him as he crawled around looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye. As I handed him his glasses, I said, 'Those guys are jerks. They really should get lives. '
  • 6. ' He looked at me and said, 'Hey thanks!' There was a big smile on his face. It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude. Hey thanks
  • 7. I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived... As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before... He said he had gone to private school before now. I would have never hung out with a private school kid before.
  • 8. We talked all the way home, and I carried some of his books. He turned out to be a pretty cool kid. I asked him if he wanted to play a little football with my friends He said yes..
  • 9. We hung out all weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him, and my friends thought the same of him.
  • 10. Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books again. I stopped him and said, 'Boy, you are gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile of books everyday! ' He just laughed and handed me half the books. Over the next four years, Kyle and I became best friends..
  • 11. When we were seniors we began to think about college. Kyle decided on Georgetown and I was going to Duke. I knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would never be a problem. He was going to be a doctor and I was going for business on a football scholarship..
  • 12. Kyle was valedictorian of our class. I teased him all the time about being a nerd. He had to prepare a speech for graduation. I was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there and speak.
  • 13. Graduation day, I saw Kyle. He looked great. He was one of those guys that really found himself during high school. He filled out and actually looked good in glasses. He had more dates than I had and all the girls loved him. Boy, sometimes I was jealous!
  • 14. Today was one of those days. I could see that he was nervous about his speech. So, I smacked him on the back and said, 'Hey, big guy, you'll be great!' He looked at me with one of those looks (the really grateful one) and smiled. ' Thanks,' he said.
  • 15. As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began…. 'Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years. Your parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach....but mostly your friends..... I am here to tell all of you that being a friend to someone is the best gift you can give them.
  • 16. I am going to tell you a story.' I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told about the first day we met. He had planned to kill himself over the weekend. He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn't have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home.
  • 17. He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile. 'Thankfully, I was saved... My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable....'
  • 18. I heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy told us all about his weakest moment. I saw his Mom and Dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile. Not until that moment did I realize it's depth.
  • 19. Never underestimate the power of your actions.. With one small gesture you can change a person's life. For better or for worse...... God puts us all in each others lives to impact one another in some way. Look for God in others.
  • 20. 'Friends are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly.' There is no beginning or end.. Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. Today is a gift.