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Shannon McNicol
How to become an
Hear What People are Really Saying…
Shannon McNicol
Listening is one of the most important
skills you can have. How well you
listen has a major impact on your job
effectiveness, and on the quality of
your relationships with others.
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Good communication skills require a high level
of self-awareness. By understanding your
personal style of communicating, you will go a
long way towards creating good and lasting
impressions with others.
Tip:
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About
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Shannon McNicol
If you're finding it particularly difficult to
concentrate on what someone is saying, try
repeating their words mentally as they say them
– this will reinforce their message and help you
stay focused.
Tip:
Remove
Distractions
Repeat
Back
Don’t
Lose Focus
Practice
Shannon McNicol
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Becoming an
Shannon McNicol
Shannon McNicol
"Listen" to the speaker's body language
Look at the speaker directly
Put aside distracting thoughts
Don't mentally prepare a rebuttal!
Avoid being distracted by environmental factors
Shannon McNicol
Nod occasionally
Smile and use other facial expressions
Note your posture and make sure it is open and
inviting
Encourage the speaker to continue with small
verbal comments like yes, and uh huh
Shannon McNicol
Reflect what has been said by paraphrasing. "What
I'm hearing is," and "Sounds like you are saying," are
great ways to reflect back
Ask questions to clarify certain points. "What do you
mean when you say?" "Is this what you mean?"
Summarize the speaker's comments periodically
Shannon McNicol
Tip:
If you find yourself responding emotionally to
what someone said, say so, and ask for more
information: "I may not be understanding you
correctly, and I find myself taking what you said
personally. What I thought you just said is XXX;
is that what you meant?"
Shannon McNicol
Allow the speaker to finish each point before
asking questions
Don't interrupt with counter arguments
Shannon McNicol
Be candid, open, and honest in your response
Assert your opinions respectfully
Treat the other person in a way that you think
he or she would want to be treated
Shannon McNicol
Key Points:
It takes a lot of concentration and determination
to be an active listener. Old habits are hard to
break, and if you’re listening skills are as bad as
many peoples are, then there's a lot of habit-
breaking to do!
Shannon McNicol
Shannon McNicol
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