3. Applies to women also – how they speak
Basar means fully visible
Eyes.. Part of zina –hadith
How images lead to sexual behavior
Hadith – evil of zina in society
“san’a” – manufacture
Wala tattabi’u khutuwatish shayateen Sura Baqara 208
What is the single most attraction the kuffar throw at us – women!
Path of tazkiyah begins with our eyes: how come I don’t cry in my salah? Perhaps the answer is in our eyes!
The EVILS of facebook
For a believer a sin is like a mountain
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4. البصر
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• To look, see
• To realize, understand, comprehend, grasp
• Understand or realize
• Make someone aware
• To enlighten, to tell, inform
• To see, catch sight of, behold, discern, perceive
6. To do, make, to arrange, stage, put on
To produce, build, manufacture
Fabricate, design, to do someone a favor
To process, rework, treat
Production, manufacture, fabrication, making, design, workmanship
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13. Perfect use of the organs
On the authority of Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) who said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of
Allah be upon him) said, “Verily Allah ta’ala has said: ‘Whosoever shows enmity to a wali (friend) of Mine, then I have declared
war against him. And My servant does not draw near to Me with anything more loved to Me than the religious duties I have
obligated upon him. And My servant continues to draw near to me with nafil (supererogatory) deeds until I Love him. When I
Love him, I am his hearing with which he hears, and his sight with which he sees, and his hand with which he strikes, and his foot
with which he walks. Were he to ask [something] of Me, I would surely give it to him; and were he to seek refuge with Me, I
would surely grant him refuge.’ ” [Al-Bukhari]
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َلاَق ُهْنَع ُهللا َي ِ
ضَر ةَْريَرُه يِبَأ ْنَع
:
ِ ّ
َللا ولُسَر َلاَق
َ ّ
َللا ّإن سلم و عليه هللا صلى
َلاَق ىَلاَعَت
" :
ْرَحْالِب ُهتْنَذآ دْقَف ًّايِل َو يِل ىَداَع ْنَم
َْيشِب يِدْبَع ّيَلإ َبّرَقَت اَم َو ،ِب
ٍء
ْبَع ُلاَزَي َ
َل َو ،ِهْيَلَع ُهُتْضَرَتْفا اّمِم ّيَلإ ّبَحَأ
ّتَح ِلِفا َوّنالِب ّيَلإ ُبّرَقَتَي يِد
اَذِإَف ،ُهّب ِحُأ ى
ُهَرَصَب َو ،ِهِب ُعَمْسَي يِذّال ُهَعْمَس تْنُك ُهُتْبَبْحَأ
ْبَي يِتّال ُهَدَي َو ،ِهِب ُر ِ
ْصبُي يِذّال
،اَهِب ُشِط
َيِطْعُ َ
َل يِنَلَأَس ْنِئَل َو ،اَهِب يِشْمَي يِتّال ُهَلْج ِ
ر َو
ُهّنَذيِعُ َ
َل يِنَذاَعَتْسا ْنِئَل َو ،ُهّن
"
.
[
ي ِ
َارخُبْال ُها َوَر
]
14. How to protect ourselves
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Sunan an-Nasa'i » The Book of Marriage
Narrated 'Abdullah:
It was narrated that 'Abdullah said: "The Messenger of Allah said to us: 'O young
men, whoever among you can afford it, let him get married, for it is more effective
in lowering the gaze and guarding chastity, and whoever cannot then he should
fast, for it will be a restraint (wija') for him.'"
َنَثّدَح َلاَق ، ٍ
ورُصْنَم ُْنب ُدّمَحُم َانَرَبْخَأ
ْنَع ، ِ
شَمْعََلا ِنَع ،ُانَيْفُس ا
ِْنب ِنَمْحّالر ِدْبَع ْنَع ، ٍ
ْريَمُع ِْنب َةَارَمُع
َق َلاَق ،ِ ّ
َللا ِدْبَع ْنَع ،َدي ِ
زَي
َلا
وسلم عليه هللا صلى ِ ّ
َللا ُلوُسَر َانَل
"
ََرشْعَم اَي
َعاَطَتْسا ِنَم ِباَبّشال
ِل َضغَأ ُهّنِإَف ْحِكْنَيْلَف َةَءاَبْال ُمُكْنِم
َم َو ِج ْرَفْلِل ُنَصْحَأ َو ِ
رَصَبْل
ْمُصَيْلَف ََل ْن
15. Story of Thalaba ibn Abdur Rahman RA
Age 16, In Medina
Glanced inside, wind blew the curtain, glanced too long. He then went away
Sent Umar RA and Salman Al Farisi RA
Look for him in the outskirts, nomads
Are you looking for “fatal baqqat”?
For 40 days nothing but crying and istighfar
Comes down at sunset, drinks milk, goes up again
“What do you want from me” – did Allah reveal Ayah about me?
“Did Allah mention ayah about me? Mention me with the hypocrites”?
What do you wish for? I wish for the mercy of Allah
What are you afraid of? Punishment of Allah
“Ask forgiveness for me” he jolted. I feel ants between flesh and bones. Kept saying shahada
Prophet PBUH was walking on the tip of his toes. Umar RA said – people have given a lot of room
Ya Umar, may Allah have mercy on you. I do not find a place to put my foot because of how the angels are crowding me
We imagine sins as a straw
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