Due to globalistion more interaction with people of different countries and culture have become essential.There is no short and easy way to understand others culture.However general principles exists for success in communication and conducting business with people of background other than ours.
Understanding Cultural Differences for Effective Communication
1. An Initiative of
Shivnandani Industries Pvt Ltd
&
Jagdamb Janaki Nawal Janaki Society
By
Col Mukteshwar Prasad(Retd),
M Tech,CE,FIE(I),FIETE,FISLE,FInstOD,AMCSI
2. Due to globalistion More interaction with
people of different countries and culture
No short and easy way to understand others
culture
However general principles exists for success
in
Communication with people of
background
other
than ours
Conducting business
3. Direct experience as the best way to learn
any culture
Jump in other culture as we immerse in another
language to learn
Take help to begin with
Radio station
Music
Trips to religious org/clubs
4. Not true but Differences may look
threatening
Natural when faced with different culture
Feel stranger
Unable to communicate Hence we
feel
alone
Unable to decipher aspects of behaviour different
from us
We must keep feeling in perspective and remember
differences are less important than commodities
5. Tend to overlook similarities and notice just
differences
More true if cross cultural interaction is
infrequent
When faced with uncertainty human mind
Creates some order from what we observe
specially when we feel vulnerable
Creates own set of rules or generalisation based
on surface reality & pattern which fails on real
experience /individual variation.
Leads to prejudice as mind presumes negative
motives and draws negative inferences based on
generalisation
6. More variation with in the group than between two
groups
Both groups have
Shy people Mixed stew of people with
almost same pattern in both.
Daring people culture and history shape the
custom &rituals through
which these human aspects
are expressed.
Honest
Dishonest
Bellicose
Accommodating
Hence cross cultural communication takes work –we
have examine our own operating system and understands
system of others to communicate between two platform
Own cultural identities are not known until we interact
with other culture
7. Cultures change on interaction
With in the group
Move & flow even if we do not
think so
Change through time
Change accelerated when cultures that reinforce
style of communication
Both culture change in process
Individuals who bridge the gap
Pioneers
Blazing paths
Plausible hybrid path for others to copy &test future
8.
9. Different cultures have different customs
Who addresses whom
artificial
customs
When and how
Who has the right or duty to speak first
Proper way to conclude a conversation
Which way of commencing or concluding is considered to be
rude or disrespectful
Check
Modes of address
,level of deference to age/ social position
Acceptable ways to conclude gracefully
Gender differences
Learn to open and close conversation
depending upon culture
10. Some culture take turn in an interactive way
In others important Else taken as
challenge
or
humiliation
to listen thoroughly
and without comment
and without immediate response
Depending on
Context
Level of personal knowledge/relationship
Decide turn based on what people expect
11. Some cultures interruptions
Vocal
Emotional default communication
style specially amongst
equals/men
Expression
But North Europeans /Americans may
consider it argument /hostility
Interrupt rightly
12. In some form of communication silence is
expected before response as a sign of
Respect /deference to the speaker
In other case may be sign of hostility
In west 20 sec silence during meeting is extra
ordinary long time and people feel
uncomfortable
Some one may break it before
It is not universal
Use silence effectively like Atal Behari Vajpai
in his earlier days but not long silence of his
later phase
13. In some places speaking openly about money
is vulgar
Some places intimate family issues of TV
shows may be inappropriate
As business people we must understand
customs that surround deal making
Transaction of commerce
Degree to which details are specified in
advance in writing
Be cautious in selecting topic of conversation
to build rapport and lasting impression
14. In west immediate rapport is built through
humour
Not universally appropriate in all context
Humour may turn out to be sign of disrespect
May at times be cause of misunderstanding
Humour is an effective tool use it
appropriately
15. Some places less is more
At other place small point may be wrapped
up in big preamble
Western world value speaking directly and to
the point
Many a times westerners say too much and
lose communication
Age social standing may decide what is
appropriate
How much to talk and when to talk is an art
learn it
16. At what point during conversation
/negotiation sensitive issues can be touched?
How soon during conversation direction can
be sought?
Depends on custom to touch sensitive issues
with respect to all concerned
Right question asked in right way not too
soon nor too late, according to custom
Hence sequencing and timing do matter