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The Art of Effective
CommuniCAtion
Dr. Hassan Hashim
Enjoy our Misunderstanding far away
from us
What is Communication?
Some Definitions:
The process of communication allows us to
interact with other people; lack of it, we would be
unable to share knowledge or experiences
outside of ourselves.
Common forms of communication include
speaking, writing, gestures, touch, or even being
soundless
Continued
 Communication is the Solvent for Any
Human Problem
 Communication is not just a way of
getting along in life, it is the heart of life.
It is by thousands of percent the senior
factor in understanding life and living it
successfully.
 Communication is a “secret tool” by
which one can deeply understand
others, communicate with them, get
understood & understand effortlessly
Verbal vs. Non Verbal
Can we communicate without words?
Voice attributes
What are they and how do they affect
communication?
Physical attributes
What could be considered here and how do they
affect communication?
The power of touch
What and when is OK?
Personal Presentation
 Does personal presentation make a difference
to the way we are perceived?
 Does it matter?
 What can we do about it - do we have to look
bland and boring?
 What if our organisation has Poly-codes?
 How to Keep “Quality” in your built-in Concept?
The Communication Equation
What you hear
Tone of voice
Vocal clarity
Verbal expressiveness 40% of the message
What you see or feel
Facial expression
Dress and grooming
Posture
Eye contact
Touch
Gesture 50% of the message
WORDS … 10% of the message!
Understanding Communication
We are going to consider:
The 2-Way communication process
 Effective communication skills
 Barriers to effective communication
 ARC Triangle Model
Communication is a 2-way process
Communication skills involve:
Listening to others (Receiving) message
Asserting/ Expressing (Sending)
Barriers to communication can lead to misunderstanding and confusion
sender
receiver
sender
receiver
values and attitudes
“generation gap”
Cultural differences
language
noise
hearing
Effective Communication Skills
Effective
Communication skills
Eye contact & visible mouth
Body language
Silence
Checking
for understanding
Smiling face
Summarising
what has been said
Encouragement
to continue
Some questions
Barriers to Effective Communication
Barriers to
effective
communication
Language
NoiseTime
DistractionsOther people
Put downsToo many questions
Distance
Discomfort
with
the topic
Disability
Lack of interest
The Art of Listening
 “If we were supposed to talk more than
listen, we would have been given two
mouths and one ear.”
 Listen as you were born without Tongue
 “White Magic” – Priceless
Listening Skills
A 5 factor process of an Effective Listener
Active Listening
Responding
Paraphrasing
Asking questions for clarification
Mirroring the other person’s language
Responding
 Responses to check that your perceptions are
correct
 Responses to encourage further communication
Questioning Techniques
 Open ended and Closed questions
 Diverse Questioning techniques
 Participants to practise
 Then try the Questioning Quiz.
Individual Differences
What individual factors could affect the way a
person “sends” or “receives” a message?
Is gender/ age a factor?
How can we adapt if :-
we have a problem ourselves or
the other person seems to have a problem?
Cultural Diversity
 What do we know about the communication
styles of different cultures?
 Consider verbal and non verbal, including dress
constraints, language difficulties, taboos.
Group Processes
In groups there are obviously more people, so good
communication skills are paramount.
Be mindful to practise:
Observing non verbal signals
 Listening, responding, clarifying, paraphrasing and
summarising
 Identifying barriers to communication
Remember: Silence is golden & No one is perfect!
Constraints on Communication
 Legal Obligations
 Anti Discrimination
 Privacy Laws
 Code of Conduct of Organisation
 Confidentiality and Gossip
Seeking Advice
Objectives
To consider verbal and non-verbal communication
methods
To understand and practise effective listening skills
To communicate in clear, respectful and non-
judgemental ways
To know when to seek advice
ARC Triangle Model
 Affinity: it is “emotional response”, the “feeling
of affection or lack of it” – emotion or miss-
emotion connected with life
 Reality: it means “the solid objects, the real
things of life”
 Communication: it is an interchange of ideas
between “terminals; people”
Assumption
 Without affinity, there is no reality or
communication. Without reality, there is no
affinity or communication. Without
communication, there is neither affinity nor
reality. Now these are sweeping statements but
are, nevertheless, very valuable & are true..
Enjoy once more
Again get Fun thru De-communication
Thank you for being
communicated
Asking Question is a skill.. Show it
right now & right here

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The Art of Effective Communication

  • 1. 2018 The Art of Effective CommuniCAtion Dr. Hassan Hashim
  • 2. Enjoy our Misunderstanding far away from us
  • 3. What is Communication? Some Definitions: The process of communication allows us to interact with other people; lack of it, we would be unable to share knowledge or experiences outside of ourselves. Common forms of communication include speaking, writing, gestures, touch, or even being soundless
  • 4. Continued  Communication is the Solvent for Any Human Problem  Communication is not just a way of getting along in life, it is the heart of life. It is by thousands of percent the senior factor in understanding life and living it successfully.  Communication is a “secret tool” by which one can deeply understand others, communicate with them, get understood & understand effortlessly
  • 5. Verbal vs. Non Verbal Can we communicate without words? Voice attributes What are they and how do they affect communication? Physical attributes What could be considered here and how do they affect communication? The power of touch What and when is OK?
  • 6. Personal Presentation  Does personal presentation make a difference to the way we are perceived?  Does it matter?  What can we do about it - do we have to look bland and boring?  What if our organisation has Poly-codes?  How to Keep “Quality” in your built-in Concept?
  • 7. The Communication Equation What you hear Tone of voice Vocal clarity Verbal expressiveness 40% of the message What you see or feel Facial expression Dress and grooming Posture Eye contact Touch Gesture 50% of the message WORDS … 10% of the message!
  • 8. Understanding Communication We are going to consider: The 2-Way communication process  Effective communication skills  Barriers to effective communication  ARC Triangle Model
  • 9. Communication is a 2-way process Communication skills involve: Listening to others (Receiving) message Asserting/ Expressing (Sending) Barriers to communication can lead to misunderstanding and confusion sender receiver sender receiver values and attitudes “generation gap” Cultural differences language noise hearing
  • 10. Effective Communication Skills Effective Communication skills Eye contact & visible mouth Body language Silence Checking for understanding Smiling face Summarising what has been said Encouragement to continue Some questions
  • 11. Barriers to Effective Communication Barriers to effective communication Language NoiseTime DistractionsOther people Put downsToo many questions Distance Discomfort with the topic Disability Lack of interest
  • 12. The Art of Listening  “If we were supposed to talk more than listen, we would have been given two mouths and one ear.”  Listen as you were born without Tongue  “White Magic” – Priceless
  • 13. Listening Skills A 5 factor process of an Effective Listener Active Listening Responding Paraphrasing Asking questions for clarification Mirroring the other person’s language
  • 14. Responding  Responses to check that your perceptions are correct  Responses to encourage further communication
  • 15. Questioning Techniques  Open ended and Closed questions  Diverse Questioning techniques  Participants to practise  Then try the Questioning Quiz.
  • 16. Individual Differences What individual factors could affect the way a person “sends” or “receives” a message? Is gender/ age a factor? How can we adapt if :- we have a problem ourselves or the other person seems to have a problem?
  • 17. Cultural Diversity  What do we know about the communication styles of different cultures?  Consider verbal and non verbal, including dress constraints, language difficulties, taboos.
  • 18. Group Processes In groups there are obviously more people, so good communication skills are paramount. Be mindful to practise: Observing non verbal signals  Listening, responding, clarifying, paraphrasing and summarising  Identifying barriers to communication Remember: Silence is golden & No one is perfect!
  • 19. Constraints on Communication  Legal Obligations  Anti Discrimination  Privacy Laws  Code of Conduct of Organisation  Confidentiality and Gossip Seeking Advice
  • 20. Objectives To consider verbal and non-verbal communication methods To understand and practise effective listening skills To communicate in clear, respectful and non- judgemental ways To know when to seek advice
  • 21. ARC Triangle Model  Affinity: it is “emotional response”, the “feeling of affection or lack of it” – emotion or miss- emotion connected with life  Reality: it means “the solid objects, the real things of life”  Communication: it is an interchange of ideas between “terminals; people”
  • 22. Assumption  Without affinity, there is no reality or communication. Without reality, there is no affinity or communication. Without communication, there is neither affinity nor reality. Now these are sweeping statements but are, nevertheless, very valuable & are true..
  • 24. Again get Fun thru De-communication
  • 25. Thank you for being communicated Asking Question is a skill.. Show it right now & right here

Editor's Notes

  1. TIME: Start on time Allow NO MORE than 10 minutes (TOTAL ELAPSED TIME 10 MINS) ACTIVITY: Ice Breaker Introduce yourself ( your name should already be on the Board) – very brief!! Set the example!! Welcome INCLUDING brief Traditional welcome. Housekeeping Toilets, Coffee, Break time - 15 mins at half time. Note taking - Handouts will include all reference such as website/texts etc. Time Management “for the benefit of the whole group” Introductions : Say who you are, your organisation, what you want from today –say one sentence about something you like OR hate Trainer Boards these for later reference
  2. Discuss job interviews; TV ads what people wear – how they cover up etc…eg Goth girl with tattoos who hides it from her mother; stereotypes
  3. Discuss how this came across in the introductions when people talked about their LOVE items and their HATE items. How did they sound? How did they look? How much weight did the actual words carry compared with their vocal expression and faces?
  4. Explain that this is a little bit of theory but helps make sense as to why communication can go right or wrong and can be handy to remember in lots of circumstances.
  5. Encourage participants to think about a situation where they must communicate with someone who is hard of hearing; anxious; has been put down in the past; doesn’t know who you are – what are some of the things you can do to help communication?
  6. Show the title of this slide and ask people to see if they can suggest some of the barriers-Then reveal the diagram when there has been 2 to 3 mins of ideas from the group
  7. Discuss what each of these means and give/ask for examples. Practise in pairs; One participant is given a situation/problem to talk about and the partner has to practise some of the listening and responding skills. Practice is also attempted in paraphrasing and clarifying.
  8. Handouts “Keeping the Communication door Open” – if time, have a practice
  9. 3 handouts 1: Open and closed questions; Questioning techniques; Questioning Quiz; _ use jelly beans for “prizes” for correct answers.
  10. Ask participants in pairs to identify as many different cultural groups that they can think of that they may come across in their vol work. Are their differences in communicating? What are they? Which are the ones that matter?
  11. Give participants a group scenario with a card for each individual describing their character. Ask them to try to resolve the issue using their best communications skills (Like DeBono’s Thinking caps)
  12. Ask participants to identify any laws that may place constraints on communication in a workplace….write on whiteboard and add any that may be missing. Discuss also what constraints the organisation may place on the nature of communication. Could use a case study to explore Confidentiality issue if time permits- I have attached the two from the Frail Aged module by way of example. Participants to identify confidentiality issues and the harm that can come from “gossip”. If in doubt, they should be encouraged to seek advice within the organisation. Who should they turn to?
  13. TIME: 5 minutes (TOTAL ELAPSED TIME 2HR 50 MINS) ACTIVITY: Evaluation Sheet HANDOUT: N/A Contacts for the future include organisations that have engaged well with young people. Networking can begin. Look to orgs like the Red Cross, or local councils. On a more formal level enrol in more training