This document discusses the importance of communication for HR professionals and provides tips for effective communication. It emphasizes discovering your individual communication style and establishing clear expectations. Different methods of communication like in-person, writing, phone, and text are outlined with suggestions for appropriate uses of each. The document also addresses providing feedback, setting up communication feedback loops, and asking others how they prefer to communicate.
2. Introduction
Chris Stanzione, MBA, CIR
• 14 years of Talent Acquisition & HR
Experience
• Joined Cox Automotive this year
• Completed my Executive MBA
Program at Georgia State University
this year
• Have worked in multiple sectors of our
economy:
• Technology, Automotive, Financial
Services, Utilities, Consumer Goods
and Products
• Been in Atlanta for 10 years
Passionate about
Communication and
Talent Acquisition
3. Discovering Your HR Communication Cornerstone
• Discover
– To see, get knowledge of, learn of, find, or find out; gain sight or
knowledge of (something previously unseen or unknown)
• Your
– Individual
• Communication
– The imparting or interchange of thoughts, opinions, or information by
speech, writing, or signs.
• Cornerstone
– Something that is essential, indispensable, or basic
– The chief foundation on which something is constructed or developed
23. When to Set Expectations
Before you
take action!
24. Communication = Accountability
When we have
expectations of others
but do not make them
aware of those
expectations, we are
setting ourselves and
them up for failure and
frustration
26. Communication Styles
Take 30 seconds to think
about how you like to
communicate and be
communicated with:
• In person
• In writing
• By phone
• Other
28. When to Use Which Method
• In Person:
– When delivering a complex or sensitive message (can also be substituted
for any of the other reasons below)
• Writing:
– When explaining multiple ideas at once in order to catalog them or in case
documentation is necessary
• Phone:
– When alignment or re-alignment with someone is needed
• Text:
– When delivering a brief, but important message
• Social:
– When publicly praising someone or if you have no expectation of a
quick response
29. When to Use Which Method
• In Person:
– When delivering a complex or sensitive message (can also be substituted
for any of the other reasons below)
• Writing:
– When explaining multiple ideas at once in order to catalog them or in case
documentation is necessary
• Phone:
– When alignment or re-alignment with someone is needed
• Text:
– When delivering a brief, but important message
• Social:
– When publicly praising someone or if you have no expectation of a
quick response
30. When to Use Which Method
“How would you like to
be communicated with?
What’s the best method
for me to reach you?
Cell? Email? Text?
LinkedIn?”
Slide 1: Cover
Slide 2: Intro
Slide 3: Overview
Slide 4: Building the case for purposeful communication
Why is communication so important?
Travel abroad… spend time in a country where you cannot easily communicate with people and you will see the necessity and intensity of the need to communicate
Slide of cavemen
Egyptian hieroglyphics
Scrolls
Oral tradition
Printing press
Shakespeare
Movable type
Front porch story telling
Telegraph
Alexander graham bell
Fax machine
Business Meetings
Cell phones
Chat rooms
Email
Texting
Social media
Skype
Facetime
3d virtual conversations
Two people in a nice setting talking
All throughout history, we as humans have craved human interaction. For extroverts, this means being the life of the party and in constant community with people. For introverts, it means to be a part of a community where they aren’t expected to be in the spotlight, but gain strength from knowing they are still part of something.
Miscommunication (funny miscommunication slide), however is the tragic result of two well intentioned people not communicating well.
Typical reasons why communication doesn’t workout:
Method
Listening
Timing
Listening
Approach
Listening
Benefit of communication: Those who communicate have a higher understanding of the situations around them. (Research good communication quote and / or example).
Let’s dive deep and figure out a way to be better way to do this
Slide 5: Establishing Expectations: Yours, min, and theirs
The meeting before the meeting. “The time to set battle expectations is not in the middle of the war” (find funny war cartoon)
Most of the time, we have expectations of others that they never knew about. That’s not fair to you or them. You get twisted with which expectations are valid and which are just in your head and you set the other person (group) up for failure every time.
Recommend the book (Accountability wins?),
Who does what by when? Make sure everyone knows the answer to that question whenever you leave a room.
BE CAREFUL: Major Accountability here…. If you’re not ready to be accountable, do not try this at home. You may not met your own expectations. ;-)
Slide 6: Discover your communication style
Healer know thyself… take 30 seconds of silence and think about how you like to be communicated with. Share three categories. (30 seconds of silence)
In-person
In-writing
In-phone “:-)
Poll the room.
LOOK AT THE DIVERSITY!! (Ask for participation)
Bring 1 of each up to the front…
Why do you like in-person, etc…
Thank you!
Each method is correct and each person could probably communicate via the other two methods, but their PREFERRED method is one of the three.
When a phone person calls an email person and then emails a follow up to an in-person person, no one wins.
Use hypothetical: (I like biblical names; most everyone is familiar with them in the US)
Mary loves in-person connections
John loves in writing connections
Simon loves in phone connections
Mary swings by John’s desk and tells him verbally that there is an upcoming project team that he may want to know about regarding the introduction of TPS Reports into their system. John replies, that’s interesting. Mary swings by Simon’s office and he’s on the phone. Mary expects John to socialize this out and is disapointed. When two days goes by and Mary sends an email to John for follow up, he asks if there was an email aboout it that he may have missed? She (again) swings by Simon’s office and finds him on the phone and goes back to her office. In the meantime, however, John calls Simon and leaves him a voicemail. In the meantime, there is confusion and chaos…
Slide 7: Knowing when to use each communication style
Let’s look at the X main mediums:
In-person – When you are deivereing a complex message or a sensitive message
In-Writing – When you are laying out multiple ideas at once to catelog them
In-Phone – When you need to align or re-align with someone
In-text – When you have a brief but important message to deliver
In-Social – When you are publicly praising someone or if you have no expectation of a quick response
Best approach: Ask. If you can’t ask, try multiple approaches at once. Whichever one they respond to is their preferred method.
Mary stops by Simon’s office, leaves a message, sends an email and gets a return text…. Well, you know the best way to communicate with Simon.
Slide 8: Providing feedback: How, why, when
How: See above. HOWEVER, brevity is a friend and long-windedness is the enemy.
Why: Over communication is better than under communication. HOWEVER, brevity is a friend and long-windedness is the enemy.
When: EVERY time there is something to communicate. As inconsequential or fractured as the message may appear, communicating what you know is better than not communicating what you don’t.
Slide 9: How to really listen and hear
Active listening (use slides fro AGL).
Slide 10: Q&A
Slide 11 – Thank You!!
Slide 4: Building the case for purposeful communication
Why is communication so important?
Travel abroad… spend time in a country where you cannot easily communicate with people and you will see the necessity and intensity of the need to communicate
Slide of cavemen
Egyptian hieroglyphics
Scrolls
Oral tradition
Printing press
Shakespeare
Movable type
Front porch story telling
Telegraph
Alexander graham bell
Fax machine
Business Meetings
Cell phones
Chat rooms
Email
Texting
Social media
Skype
Facetime
3d virtual conversations
Two people in a nice setting talking
All throughout history, we as humans have craved human interaction. For extroverts, this means being the life of the party and in constant community with people. For introverts, it means to be a part of a community where they aren’t expected to be in the spotlight, but gain strength from knowing they are still part of something.
Miscommunication (funny miscommunication slide), however is the tragic result of two well intentioned people not communicating well.
Typical reasons why communication doesn’t workout:
Method
Listening
Timing
Listening
Approach
Listening
Benefit of communication: Those who communicate have a higher understanding of the situations around them. (Research good communication quote and / or example).
Let’s dive deep and figure out a way to be better way to do this
All throughout history, we as humans have craved human interaction. For extroverts, this means being the life of the party and in constant community with people. For introverts, it means to be a part of a community where they aren’t expected to be in the spotlight, but gain strength from knowing they are still part of something.
Miscommunication (funny miscommunication slide), however is the tragic result of two well intentioned people not communicating well.
Typical reasons why communication doesn’t workout:
Method
Listening
Timing
Listening
Approach
Listening
Benefit of communication: Those who communicate have a higher understanding of the situations around them. (Research good communication quote and / or example).
Let’s dive deep and figure out a way to be better way to do this
All throughout history, we as humans have craved human interaction. For extroverts, this means being the life of the party and in constant community with people. For introverts, it means to be a part of a community where they aren’t expected to be in the spotlight, but gain strength from knowing they are still part of something.
Miscommunication (funny miscommunication slide), however is the tragic result of two well intentioned people not communicating well.
Typical reasons why communication doesn’t workout:
Method
Listening
Timing
Listening
Approach
Listening
Benefit of communication: Those who communicate have a higher understanding of the situations around them. (Research good communication quote and / or example).
Let’s dive deep and figure out a way to be better way to do this