Dyads - Self and Identity - Heterosexuality - Liberal Arts - Humanities

1. DyadicsDyadics
“Self and Identity”

2. ““Dyads”Dyads”
A “Social psychology” term:
* A “Dyad” refers to a pair of individuals: male and
female – proper, in an interpersonal situation.
* Examples: an ‘equally yoked’ couple as fiancées
or spouses (husband and wife), or a deviant or
unequallyoked pair scheming to act out illicit sex,
or two loose criminals conspiring to commit a
misdemeanor sexual abuse or a felony rape for
profiteering.
- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology

3. ““Soul-mates”Soul-mates”
* A couple who experience their very first sexual
encounter together and their baby is born out of that
very first union are “Soul-mates”1
for life and if,..
* ..that couple bonds with each other, falls deeply
in love and is the happiest they have ever been
with each other in life are “Soul-mates”2
and if,…
* ..with that couple – who are ‘married’ and truly
“equallyoked” – they are truly “Soul-mates.”, i.e.,
of the ‘same’ or ‘very similar’ “civil-identities.” 3
- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology

4. ““Social Mores”Social Mores”
The term ‘Social Mores‘* refers to….
* “Social” meaning - to associate in a social way,
i.e., “folkways”, socializing, socialization 1
,
* “Mores” - concerns that of moral codes, mental
health values, standards, spiritual ideologies 2
.
*Also, customs, proper conduct/etiquette, health
behaviours/norms, healthy lifestyle. 3
Use in a Sentence: “Their family abided in good
social mores that reflected their sense of
integrity.” 4
- Word Meanings - Etymology- Word Meanings - Etymology
adjectiveadjective
plural nounplural noun

5. ““Endogamy”Endogamy”
* Endogamy means, “In-marriage” – and is when
an individual according to his/or her own social
customs1
…(Comment: this may be more like community health
regulation -as a social mores- or an actual religious ‘law’)….
* ….marries another individual within his or her own
cultural2
“Social group”*.
*Note; a “Social group” may be a village, a tribe, a
sect or cult, a geographic region, or a de facto
‘Civil identity’, etc.
- Sociocultural Anthropology- Sociocultural Anthropology

6. ““Unprefered Yoked”Unprefered Yoked”
A Couple:
* One very fat weight – One very skinny weight
* One very poor income – One very rich income
* One is very ‘sociable’ – One is very ‘homebody’
* One talks very fast – One talks very slow
* One very tall in height – One very short in height
* One highly educated – One lowly educated
* One ill mannered – One well mannered1
- The True Phenomenology of “Opposites Attract”

7. ““Unequally yoked”Unequally yoked”
- An Internet Search- An Internet Search

8. ““Civil Identity”Civil Identity”
* ‘Civil identity’ is a Social Psychology term
-describing a collective of features concerning
an individual’s present ethnicity, political party
membership, race and color, religious
membership, disability/handicap, age group/
generation, sexual orientation and marital
status.2
- Introduction to Social Psychology- Introduction to Social Psychology
See “Self-Image”See “Self-Image”

9. Biopsychosociocultural ModelBiopsychosociocultural Model
Biologic
“Civil Identity”
Psychologic Social Culture
Sex
Disability
Color
Race
Disability Religion Ethnicity
Martial Status
Belief/CreedSex
Race
Color FOOTNOTE: To a lesser or greater degree of mental disability always coexists with any
physical disability and so it is therefore that with a mental disability, a physical disability or a
biochemical imbalance is coexistent-affecting/or effecting an individual’s ‘civil identity.’
PoliticalParty

10. ““Civil Identity”Civil Identity”
*Ethnicity: Swedish-American
* Political Party: Republican
* Race: Anglozoid Color: Light Complexion
* Age group: ‘Senior’ Generation
* Religion: Christian
* Disability: Allergies
* Gender: Female *Sexual Orientation: Heterosexual
* Marital Status: Single/Widow
- Introduction to Social Psychology- Introduction to Social Psychology
An Example:

11. ““Couples”Couples”
* Couples who share: the same (or very
similar) ‘civil identities’, and in beliefs;
bonding, in marriage, and in that lifestyle -
living in a multicultural society are
considered to be ‘equallyoked’.1
- Introduction to Sociology: Soc 101- Introduction to Sociology: Soc 101

12. ““Coupling up”….Coupling up”….
* Nonequallyoked
– Couples who do recognize equallyokedtarianism as a
social mores and yet for their own aberrant selfish
motives still choose to violate social mores as an rash
option.1
* Unequallyoked
– Couples who are naïve, thus inadvertently demonstra
opposition to equallyokedtarianism-as a social mores.2
* Anti-equallyoked
– Couples who are a bit mentally/emotionally disturbed
and are deliberately active against proper socialization,
contrary to equallyokedtarianism and social mores,3
- Introduction to Social Psychology- Introduction to Social Psychology
……in a ‘hook up’ culturein a ‘hook up’ culture

13. ““Equallyoked”Equallyoked”
* Equallyoked, (is pronounced, Eek quel ee
yoak‘d) and is when a couple-who believe
in, bonds with, and marries one other
purposefully of the same (or nearly the
same) ‘Civil identity’* thus are multi-
cultural society, ‘equallyoked’1
.
- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology
Also, ‘equally yoked’Also, ‘equally yoked’

14. ““Equally yoked”Equally yoked”
* The term 'Equallyoked' (also, equally
yoked) probable came about from the Holy
Bible – wherein Jews marrying Jews,
Muslims marrying Muslims, Christians
marrying Christians, etc, etc, etc.1
- Word Origins / Philosophy- Word Origins / Philosophy
(also, ‘equallyoked’)(also, ‘equallyoked’)

15. ““Equallyoked”Equallyoked”
* The term 'Equallyoked' (also, equally
yoked) is a phenomena that exists in all
multicultural societies-peoples of the same
de facto ‘Civil identity' marrying one
another for reasons of self-esteem,
religious beliefs, preserving the integrity of
their family identity, and for abiding in
social mores - contributing to - community
(psychosocial) health.2
(also, ‘equally yoked’)(also, ‘equally yoked’)
- Sociology 101- Sociology 101

16. ““Equally Yoked”Equally Yoked”
The term 'Equallyoked' (also, equally yoked) …
an adverb:
* “Equally” - means “alike” 1
, in a “balanced” manner, “the
same” or to “the same” degree of, etc.
an verb:
* “Yoked” - means (Latin; jungere ‘to join‘) 2
, something
fastened around the neck to joined together, burdened with.
in history:
* May have evolved from synonyms with similar meanings,
such as: Equitably, Fairly, Justly3
Sentence: “They were an ‘equally yoked’ couple from
families of just ordinary means.”
- Word Meanings / Etymology- Word Meanings / Etymology
(also, equallyoked)(also, equallyoked)

17. ““Social Mores…”Social Mores…”
* Violations of social mores effects
negatively the longevity of family identity
of the especially conservative family
lineages and destroys the family
member’s self-esteem and as a ploy-the
continuance of the family’s financial lives.1
- Concepts in Sociology- Concepts in Sociology

18. ..a “Public Health” Issue..a “Public Health” Issue
As a Public Health Issue,
* Equallyokedtarianism as a social mores
– is a phenomena observed amongst
the most conservative segments of a
multi-cultural society.1
- Introduction to Public Health- Introduction to Public Health

19. ““Marriage, Family,Marriage, Family, && Child Psy.”Child Psy.”
* Marriage Family and Child Psychology
addresses the Self-esteem of the individuals
who are (or aren’t) equallyoked as an important
issue in mental health/ emotional health/ and
naturally self-preservation, as well as of the
integrity of their family identity.2
- Introduction to Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology- Introduction to Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology

20. Being “Equallyoked”Being “Equallyoked”
• Set a realistic ‘equallyoked’ relationship goal.
• Think positive about being ‘equallyoked.’
• Don’t compare your ‘equallyoked’ relationship with
others who are ‘equallyoked’ or even nearly so.
• Focus on ‘achieving’ an ‘equallyoked’ relationship.
• Focus on individual strengths in ‘equallyokedtarianism’.
• Spend time with ‘equallyoked’ people who respect you.
• Try out ‘new’ truly equallyoked relationships if not
married and save those experiences as lessons learned.
• Forgive yourself for any previous ‘unequallyoked’
relationship. Start fresh.
- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology- Marriage, Family, and Child Psychology

21. As a “Civil Right”As a “Civil Right”
* As a Civil Rights issue, justice of the peaces-
as civil servants who perform marriage
ceremonies are obligated to verify the
‘competency’ (or incompetence) of the
individuals present in the ceremony before
performing a marriage and attaching their
legal signature of considering community
(psychosocial) health matters.3
- Political Civil Rights/& Community Health- Political Civil Rights/& Community Health

22. The EndThe End
* Key Words: Unequally yoked, equally yoked,
egalitarianistic, true equality, introduction to
social psychology, sociology, violation of social
mores, social science, deviancy, deviancies,
statistics, abnormalacies, sexual perversions,
data base, psychopathology, sociopathology,
equallyoked, equallyokedtarian,
equallyokedtarianism, dyadic psychology,
marriage, family, and child psychology,
sociocultural anthropology, human ecology.
- Psychosocial Baselines: Sociology 101- Psychosocial Baselines: Sociology 101

23. Questions/ Answers
Your Name
Subject
Date Due
- Home Work Assignment Coming Up- Home Work Assignment Coming Up

24. Home Work Assignment
* Why is the social phenomena – ‘equally
yoked’ a reliable “psychosocial baseline in
‘healthy’ normalacy” in the social
sciences? What are the social forces
behind ‘unequallyoked’ peoples revealed
by statistical data showing that social
difficulties, whether within or across
political socioeconomical or cultural
lines,i.e., concerning that of ‘prosperity’ or
deficiencies in ‘checks and balances’?
NOTE: This Homework is worth 50% of your Semester GradeNOTE: This Homework is worth 50% of your Semester Grade

25. “Extra Credit”
Explain why: (Each one is worth 35 points/ALL=100 points)
* …Equallyokedtarians are the most targeted of all
social groups for destruction by world tyrannical/ or
totalitarian powers.
* …degradation of people’s ‘self esteem’ comes from
the of demise of family and destruction of
individual “Civil identity” by the powers2
that be.
* …the empowered liberal media, liberal public
education and liberal multicultural secularism perpetuates
‘cultural confusion’, and in such, thereby destroying or
ruining the individual identities the peoples.
NOTE: This Extracredit is for ‘make up’ assignments only. Sorry.NOTE: This Extracredit is for ‘make up’ assignments only. Sorry.

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- The Study of Theoretical Equallyokedtarianism-as Bible Truth