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Mistakes to  be Avoided in conflict resolution
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 But usually causes more stress to both parties, as tensions rise and a much bigger argument eventually results.
 It's much healthier to address and resolve conflict,[object Object]
 When partners don’t feel listened to and    unresolved conflicts and continue to grow.,[object Object]
“You always come home late!” or “You never do what I want to do!” increases the level of conflict.,[object Object]
 Don’t demand that your partner see things the same way as you do.
 Look for a compromise or agreeing to disagree,[object Object]
 Feeling based only on faulty interpretations of their actions creates hostility and misunderstandings.,[object Object]
 Don’t underestimate the importance of really listening and empathizing with the other person.,[object Object]
 They see admitting any weakness on their own part as a weakening of their credibility.
 Try to view conflict as an opportunity to analyze the situation objectively come up with a solution that helps you both.,[object Object]

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mistakes to be avoided in conflict resolution

  • 1. Mistakes to be Avoided in conflict resolution
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  • 4. But usually causes more stress to both parties, as tensions rise and a much bigger argument eventually results.
  • 5.
  • 6.
  • 7.
  • 8. Don’t demand that your partner see things the same way as you do.
  • 9.
  • 10.
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  • 12. They see admitting any weakness on their own part as a weakening of their credibility.
  • 13.
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  • 15. This creates negative perceptions on both sides.
  • 16.
  • 17. This shows disrespect and, in certain situations, even contempt
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