Interpersonal Relations, influences significantly our ability to enjoy our work and the skill with which we can hope to get along with others – Whether at office, or home or anywhere else. Hence, the need for paying some attention to the need for improving our interpersonal relations.

1. Some Thoughts On
ImprovingInter Personal Relations

2. ImprovingInter Personal Relations
Some Thoughts On
Presented by: Prof. V. Viswanadham

3. TRUST BEGETS TRUST
Factors that build trust:
1. Character ~ implies Reliability and Integrity
2. Competence
3. Consistency
4. Being Fair, Open and Unprejudiced

4. DEVELOPING
A PLEASING PERSONALITY
1. Character, Competence and Commitment,
will lead to success.
Success acquires the Power of Attraction.
Attraction makes you acquire
a magnetic personality –
helps in developing Charisma

5. DEVELOPING
A PLEASING PERSONALITY
2. Being Fair and Just is
Righteousness.
Develops warmth in your behaviour ~
transparent on your face,
as it powerfully begins to flow
from your heart.

6. DEVELOPING
A PLEASING PERSONALITY
3. Consistency,
acquired through constant practice
becomes natural and further improves
charisma

7. LOSE ~ WIN
WIN ~ LOSE
WIN ~ WIN
LOSE ~ LOSE

8. SELF
SELFISHNESS
PRIDE
JEALOUSY
EGO

9. • An OPEN MIND is FLEXIBLE.
It may ACCEPT or REJECT Ideas
based on careful consideration and merit.
• An EMPTY MIND is like a DUMPING GROUND.
It accepts, without evaluation, both GOOD and
BAD Ideas.
• A CLOSED MIND allows, neither the Good nor the
Bad.

10. Accept
RESPONSIBILITY
When you willingly and smilingly accept
RESPONSIBILITY
You are actually giving yourself an elevation
to your stature and status
PROVE YOUR INDISPENSABILITY

11. Develop
Good COMMUNICATION SKILLS
Excessive talking does not mean
communication.
Talk less, say more.
Develop
Effective Communication Skills

12. COMPARISON ~ COMPETITION
EFFORT ~ RESULT ~ EVALUATION
ANALYSIS ~ CRITICISM ~
CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM
FEEDBACK ~
GIVING FEEDBACK &
RECEIVING FEEDBACK

13. We are very good
in criticizing others.
Are we willing to use
at least a small part
of our critical ability
to improve ourselves ?

14. ALL OF US
Desire to be
FRIENDLY,
WANTED,
LIKED,
APPRECIATED.
Appreciation acts as a
wonderful MOTIVATING FORCE

15. A STRAIGHT LINE

16. WHAT IS A
SMILE ?
A smile is a curved line
that can straighten
many problems.

17. A SINCERE AND HONEST
SMILE
CAN SOLVE / IMPORVE MANY THINGS.
What are YOU
Without your SMILE ?

18. Good Listening Skills ~
improve Conversational Skills ~
leading to improvement in
communication skills
~ particularly their effectiveness.
What are YOU
Without your
LISTENING SKILLS ?

19. DO YOU DISCUSS OR ARGUE ?
An argument
throws heat;
a discussion
throws light.
Argument is coming from
a closed mind
trying to prove who is right
rather than what is right.
Arguing is like fighting
a losing battle,
even if you win ,
the cost may be more than the victory

20. What are YOU
Without your
desire to improve your
LISTENING SKILLS ?

21. With a good sense of humour
you become more likable and attractive.
Smile and Humour,
are the best known tranquillizers

22. DO YOU GET
ANGRY?
CONTROLLING YOUR ANGER IS IMPORTANT
DEALING WITH OTHERS’ ANGER IS MORE IMPORTANT
DEALING WITH OTHERS’ ANGER, WHEN YOU ARE YOURSELF ANGRY
IS MUCH MORE IMPORTANT

23. Sympathy is
“I understand how you feel”
Empathy is
“I feel how you feel”

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