How is it to get married?

1. Marriage-
a big NO NO land

2. Howis it to get married
Bromance
Autophobia
Restrictions& Adjustments
Career mattersthe most
Loosing their charm?
Going for ownkind
Don’tget marriedsimplyto have sex
In favorof Bachelorship
Theyhave it better
Live-inrelationships
Trust issues
To Conclude

3. How is it, to get married?
Not all relationships are meant to last forever. They might make it work for a few years.
Maybe they'll even have children. However, sooner or later, they find themselves in
front of a judge, begging for a divorce. By that time, each party is angrily declaring, "I
never should have married you!” Are you wondering if you really ever have to get
married? Here are great reasons not to marry and experience a better and more
fulfilling life

4. Bromance
• Guys prefer hanging out withguys and having theirsocial life active
• They have the feeling that post-marriage, time spent with friends will
not be thesame
• Fear of losing their freedom to go anywhere anytime and doing
whatever theywant stops themfromgetting married

5. Autophobia
• Being afraid of divorce is the most common reason people don’t get
hitched
• Witnessing a friend or relative going through painful process of divorce
changes perspectives
• Now-a-day law supports women and helps them get huge amounts of
alimonyleading to fear of separation

6. Restrictions…Adjustments
• Marriage changeseverything for both,menas wellas women
• Theyhave to change their habits,routines,& homesmaking it difficultto adjustat times
• Introduction of new,unknownpeople in one’slife
• Variouslife changing eventsoccur
• End upadjusting with in-laws and theirrituals

7. Career matters the most
• We live in twentyfirst centuryand everyone needs to be practical
• Moneyis the first priority these days and for the sake of stable career
withbright opportunities, one has to comeout of their comfortzone.
• Corresponding situations, marriage creates problems resulting
sacrifices for ech another

8. Losing their charm?
• People thinkthat getting married will add themintothe boringand dull part of the
society
• Theyalso panic to carryout routine stuff and don’t opt for newadventurousthings
• Suchcircumstances leadsto an ignorant behaviour about social status andpublic
appearance
• Bachelors find it unacceptable to lose their charmin such ways.

9. Going for Ownkind
• As our societyis not yet open for same sex marriages, these
peopleavoidgetting married
• This is the only way such people have to liveas choosing the
life partner of their choice is not a option for them

10. No need to get married for having sex
• Since inception, marriagewas commenced as a ritual to bringpeople togetherfor
procreation
• Western culture withmodernizedthinking are resulting in openand live-in
relationships
• Societydon’t feel like complicating their livesby getting married
• Theycan have hassle free relationships withall the privileges without legal things

11. In favor of Bachelorship
• Guys who are in love with their bachelorship don’t feel like
gettingmarried
• Bachelors like the popularity they acquire for their Casanova
image fromthe opposite sex

12. They have it Better
• Some people think that it is betterto be single without havingany kind of
commitment to anybody
• It gives themfinancialfreedomalong withthe powerto do whatever theywant
• Theycan talkand be withanyone whenever theywant so theychoose not to get
married

13. Live-in Relationships
• Live-inrelationshipis the product of westernizedthinking-twopeople
stay together without getting married
• Most of the people prefer it as thereare no legal formalities and gives a
freedomto take the relationat a desiredlevel

14. Trust Issues
• Everyone has different priorities thesedays and peopleare muchmore
practical than earlier days
• One can’t guarantee that personyou are trusting will never disrespect
you or lie to you
• People findit difficult to trust each other leading it to reason of not
getting married

15. To Conclude
Marriage is a commitment for life to another person who would be equally involved
with you for the rest of your life. Think thoroughly, discuss it with your partner and
consider his or her views too before committing or proposing to get married. Ask you
self too, don’t ignore your feelings and thoughts for your partner. Take necessary
actions and few discussions if you have any second thought. Ending up a relationship
of marriagemight give a heartache and leave youin a soup.