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Benefits of dating and the social graces recommended


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Benefits of dating and the social graces recommended

  1. 1. Benefits of Dating and the Social Graces Recommended During Dating
  2. 2. Benefits of Dating ▪ Dating is a part of exploration of looking around to find one person whom you want to enjoy your time with and share your experiences. Although it can start on friendly dating, this friendship can be nurtured until it develops into true love.
  3. 3. Social Graces Recommended During Dating ▪ When boy asks a girl for a date, they should be aware of the responsibilities and privileges that go with it. ▪ For a date to be successful and pleasant the following social graces are recommended: 1. Boys and girls should make it their obligation to inform their parents about their plans. 2. Boys should always take the initiative in making dates, except for some instances when girls needed help. 3. Be considerate when accepting or rejecting a date. 4. A girl should be ready when the boys call for her – dressed and groomed for the occasion. 5. A boy is expected to arrive at the girl’s house on time.
  4. 4. Social Graces Recommended During Dating 6. When having his own or hiring a car, the boy must escort the girl to the car and opens the door for her before getting in. in leaving the car he gets out first before the girl. 7. When taking a bus, the boy helps the girl first and follows her to her seat. When leaving the bus, boy gets off first so that he can assist the girl on getting off. 8. When walking together the girl must be on the right side of the boy. 9. When entering a restaurant, the boy pulls out the door for her and follows her in. He should also pull out a chair for the girl and seats her. 10. When the boy takes the girl home after a date, he should escort her to the door. If the parents are waiting she may invite the boy to come in for a while.
  5. 5. Social Graces Recommended During Dating 11.It is the girl responsibility to say when to go home and to keep track of the time. 12.Both boys and girls must have an understanding with their parents about the time they will be home after the date. 13.The parents or family must be informed of any changes of plan. 14.The boy takes care of the expenses of the date for which he has extended the invitation. It can be a Dutch treat if there is any agreement of both to share in the expenses.
  6. 6. Possible Risk in Dating ▪ Dating usually starts in groups. After a certain period of time and experience in group dating, two girls and two boys may plan a double date. As teenagers mature, they occasionally go out on single dates. ▪ Just as there are benefits which may be derived from dating, there are also certain risk or danger in going out when young people are not emotionally stable.
  7. 7. Possible Risk in Dating 1. Strong emotional involvement may develop which may lead to marriage before they are ready. 2. Social growth of both boys and girls may not be develop which may lead to failure in school. 3. It might be lead to exploitation. One partner may take advantage of the partner's popularity, sexual desires and revenge. 4. Financial problems may occur on the part of the body. 5. It can be cause of conflict between the parents and the teenager.