3. Life Attitudes
Win-Lose: This means that you win something like, your mom letting you take
the car but you lose because she can’t go buy food for another week.
Win-Win: This means that like, you win a game and afterwards you go get ice
cream.
Lose-Win: This means that you lose a game but you still get to go out for ice
cream afterwards even though you lost.
Lose-Lose: This means that if you get bad grades you can’t go on your
computer for a week.
4. The Tumor Twins
One of the twins is comparing and it is bad because you want to look like
other people.
The other one is competition and it is bad because you try to be better then
someone.
5. Real Life Think Win-Win Situation and
video link.
Marie Skłodowska Curie and Pierre Curie thought Win-Win because they both got
the Nobel prize for physics. To get the Nobel prize they worked together to earn
it.
Below is the link to the video. Skip to 1:27 and end at 1:34.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZEV4KJBJvEg
6. How Does Seeking First To
Understand Help Us To
Build Better Relationships?
8. Genuine Listening
First, Listen with your eyes, heart, and ears: This means that you listen to
peoples tone, words, and their body language.
Second, stand in their shoes: This means you need to think about how they
feel.
Third, practice mirroring: This means that you should practice repeating the
meaning of what someone said. Ex) So you're saying…
This helps us build better relationships because you listen to someone and
they will keep talking so they build trust in you.
9. Seeking to Understand.
Princess Diana seeked first to understand then to be understood when she and
her husband got divorced. She and her husband talked about if they wanted to
divorce.
11. Diversity Profiles
Shunner: This means that you feel that people that are different then you are
bad and not equal.
Tolerator: This means that you don’t think people that are different are bad
you just don’t think they are good.
Celebrator: This means that you think people who are different are good and
you like them.
Being a celebrator will help you reach synergy because you try to make
friends with everyone.
12. Roadblocks To Differences
Ignorance: This means that you are clueless about stuff.
Cliques: This means that you are in a little group that look and act the same.
Prejudice: This means that you are labeled before people get to know you.
These stop us from reaching synergy because you make peoples differences
stop you.
13. Synergy in Action
Adele and her husband used synergy when they talked about if they wanted to
have a child.
14. Bibliography
YouTube: Marie Curie bio
http://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/entertainment/g2812/princess-
diana-facts/: Princess Diana and her family.
http://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2015/12/adele-
scalpers/421362/: Adele
