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Communicating In Intimate Relationships
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by McGraw-Hill Education. This is proprietary material solely for authorized instructor use. Not authorized for sale or distribution in any manner. This document may not be copied, scanned, duplicated, forwarded, distributed, or posted on a website, in whole or part. The Nature of Intimate Relationships (2 of 7) Intimacy in relationships requires deep commitment. • Commitment is the desire to stay in a relationship no matter what happens.
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by McGraw-Hill Education. This is proprietary material solely for authorized instructor use. Not authorized for sale or distribution in any manner. This document may not be copied, scanned, duplicated, forwarded, distributed, or posted on a website, in whole or part. The Nature of Intimate Relationships (3 of 7) Intimate relationships require deep commitment. • Commitment takes several forms: • Emotional commitment • Social commitment • Legal commitment • Financial commitment
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by McGraw-Hill Education. This is proprietary material solely for authorized instructor use. Not authorized for sale or distribution in any manner. This document may not be copied, scanned, duplicated, forwarded, distributed, or posted on a website, in whole or part. The Nature of Intimate Relationships (5 of 7) Intimate relationships require continuous investment. • Investment is the commitment of resources and energies to a relationship. • People in intimate relationships are often aware of how much they invest.
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by McGraw-Hill Education. This is proprietary material solely for authorized instructor use. Not authorized for sale or distribution in any manner. This document may not be copied, scanned, duplicated, forwarded, distributed, or posted on a website, in whole or part. The Nature of Intimate Relationships (7 of 7) Intimate relationships spark dialectical tensions. • Dialectical tensions are conflicts between two important but opposing needs. • Autonomy versus Connection • Openness versus Closedness • Predictability versus Novelty
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by McGraw-Hill Education. This is proprietary material solely for authorized instructor use. Not authorized for sale or distribution in any manner. This document may not be copied, scanned, duplicated, forwarded, distributed, or posted on a website, in whole or part. Characteristics of Romantic Relationships (1 of 7) Some romantic relationships emphasize exclusivity. • Monogamy means being in only one romantic relationship at a time and avoiding romantic involvement with others outside the relationship. • Infidelity means having romantic or sexual interaction with someone outside of one’s romantic relationship.
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by McGraw-Hill Education. This is proprietary material solely for authorized instructor use. Not authorized for sale or distribution in any manner. This document may not be copied, scanned, duplicated, forwarded, distributed, or posted on a website, in whole or part. Characteristics of Romantic Relationships (4 of 7) Some romantic relationships emphasize love. • Much of the Western world thinks of romantic relationships as being based on love. • People sometimes enter romantic relationships for financial stability or power.
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by McGraw-Hill Education. This is proprietary material solely for authorized instructor use. Not authorized for sale or distribution in any manner. This document may not be copied, scanned, duplicated, forwarded, distributed, or posted on a website, in whole or part. Characteristics of Romantic Relationships (7 of 7) Exceptions to intimate relationships can be determined by culture. • Expectations for exclusiveness (polygamy) • Expectations for voluntariness • Expectations for love • Expectations for sexuality
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by McGraw-Hill Education. This is proprietary material solely for authorized instructor use. Not authorized for sale or distribution in any manner. This document may not be copied, scanned, duplicated, forwarded, distributed, or posted on a website, in whole or part. Forming and Communicating in Romantic Relationships (1 of 9) Knapp’s model of relationship has five-stages: 1. Initiating 2. Experimenting 3. Intensifying 4. Integrating 5. Bonding Stages vary across cultures and online.
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8-18 Copyright © 2018
by McGraw-Hill Education. This is proprietary material solely for authorized instructor use. Not authorized for sale or distribution in any manner. This document may not be copied, scanned, duplicated, forwarded, distributed, or posted on a website, in whole or part. Forming and Communicating in Romantic Relationships (2 of 9) Romantic relationships vary in how they handle conflict. • Wilmot and Hocker: Conflict is “an expressed struggle between at least two interdependent parties who perceive incompatible goals, scarce resources, and interference from the other party in achieving their goals.”
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8-21 Copyright © 2018
by McGraw-Hill Education. This is proprietary material solely for authorized instructor use. Not authorized for sale or distribution in any manner. This document may not be copied, scanned, duplicated, forwarded, distributed, or posted on a website, in whole or part. Forming and Communicating in Romantic Relationships (5 of 9) Conflict-avoiding couples discuss disagreements covertly rather than openly. Hostile couples have frequent, intense conflict.
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by McGraw-Hill Education. This is proprietary material solely for authorized instructor use. Not authorized for sale or distribution in any manner. This document may not be copied, scanned, duplicated, forwarded, distributed, or posted on a website, in whole or part. Forming and Communicating in Romantic Relationships (6 of 9) Romantic relationships vary in how they handle privacy. • Petronio believes we all experience tensions regarding disclosure (communication privacy management theory). • Partners in a couple jointly own the information about their relationship. • We form and manage privacy boundaries.
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8-23 Copyright © 2018
by McGraw-Hill Education. This is proprietary material solely for authorized instructor use. Not authorized for sale or distribution in any manner. This document may not be copied, scanned, duplicated, forwarded, distributed, or posted on a website, in whole or part. Forming and Communicating in Romantic Relationships (7 of 9) Romantic relationships vary in how they handle emotional communication. • Happy partners share more positive emotion and less negative emotion than do unhappy partners. • Unhappy partners are more likely than happy partners to reciprocate expressions of negative emotion.
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by McGraw-Hill Education. This is proprietary material solely for authorized instructor use. Not authorized for sale or distribution in any manner. This document may not be copied, scanned, duplicated, forwarded, distributed, or posted on a website, in whole or part. Communicating in Families (1 of 5) What makes a family? • Genetic ties • Legal obligations • Role behaviors © ABC via Getty Images
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8-27 Copyright © 2018
by McGraw-Hill Education. This is proprietary material solely for authorized instructor use. Not authorized for sale or distribution in any manner. This document may not be copied, scanned, duplicated, forwarded, distributed, or posted on a website, in whole or part. Communicating in Families (2 of 5) Families come in various types. • Family of origin (family in which we grow up) • Family of procreation (family we start as adults) • Nuclear family • Blended family • Single-parent family
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by McGraw-Hill Education. This is proprietary material solely for authorized instructor use. Not authorized for sale or distribution in any manner. This document may not be copied, scanned, duplicated, forwarded, distributed, or posted on a website, in whole or part. Communicating in Families (4 of 5) Families enact rituals. • Family rituals are repetitive activities that have special meaning for a family. • Some family rituals are “imported” from families into blended families. Families tell stories. • Family stories give families a sense of their history, their expectations, and their connections. • Family web pages often embody a family’s stories.
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8-31 Copyright © 2018
by McGraw-Hill Education. This is proprietary material solely for authorized instructor use. Not authorized for sale or distribution in any manner. This document may not be copied, scanned, duplicated, forwarded, distributed, or posted on a website, in whole or part. Improving Communication in Intimate Relationships (1 of 5) We can improve communication in our relationships by emphasizing excitement and positivity. • Sharing exciting activities increases our relationship satisfaction. • Using confirming messages emphasizes positivity. • Disconfirming messages imply a lack of respect or value for others.
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by McGraw-Hill Education. This is proprietary material solely for authorized instructor use. Not authorized for sale or distribution in any manner. This document may not be copied, scanned, duplicated, forwarded, distributed, or posted on a website, in whole or part. Improving Communication in Intimate Relationships (2 of 5) Handle conflict constructively. • According to Gottman, these four conflict behaviors are destructive: • Criticism (judgment) • Contempt (hostility and disrespect) • Defensiveness (playing the victim) • Stonewalling (withdrawal)
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