You are your own harshest critic, telling yourself negative things that control your life and beliefs. However, these beliefs are false and came from external sources, not who you truly are. You were born with unlimited potential, and you can regain that natural state by replacing negative self-talk with appreciation for who you are and what you like about yourself. Prioritizing positive self-talk and self-love will improve your emotional well-being and help you achieve your goals.

1. You thinkthousandsof thoughtseachday.You talkto yourself more thananyone else.Youare your
mosttrustedadvisorand confidant.Manyof the conversationsthatyouhave withyourself youwould
nevershare withanyone else becausetodoso wouldexposethe “real”you.The youthat isfilledwith
self doubt,worries,sadness,guilt,hurtsanddisappointments.
But thisisnot the “real you”at all.Thisis the you thatyour egoand belief systemshave constructed.
These negative beliefshave beenconstructedbyyouandacceptedby youas truth. The sad thingisthat
nothingcan be furtherfromthe truth.
Where didthese false ideasaboutyouoriginate?Theymostlycame fromothersparents,teachers,co-
workers,andfriends.Theymighthave plantedthe seedbysayingsomethinglike “she isfat”andyou
have cultivatedthose commentstothe pointthattheyhave become yourtruth.
You are allowingyourentire lifetobe controlledbysome obscure commentsmade yearsago.Nobody
has the rightor powertodictate whoyou are.Onlyyouknow whoyou trulyare andwhat’sin your
heart.
Whenyouwere born youenteredthisworldwithoutthe burdensof youcurrentnegative belief system.
You enteredthisworldasa beautiful bundle of joyfilledwithunlimitedpotential andpossibilities.
I’mhere to tell youthat youhave not changed.Youare still andwill alwaysbe abeautiful bundle of joy
withunlimitedpotential andpossibilities.
The onlydifference iswhatyougive yourattentionto.Letme askyou a question.If youstoppedall the
negative talkthatyoucurrentlyhave withyourself suchas
– I’mtoo fat
– Whywouldanyone wantto love me
– I will neverbe thin
– I alwaysfail

2. Andthe listcan go on and on… How wouldyoufeel ?Doyou thinkthatyou wouldfeel emotionally
lighter?Do you thinkthatyou wouldfeel happier?Doyou thinkthatyou wouldfeel more confident?
Nowhowdo youthinkyour life wouldchange if youwere togoone stepfurtherand modifyyourself
talkby onlyspeakingpositivelyaboutyourself.If youtake some time andfocusonwhat youlike about
yourself andfocusononlythat youremotional state will become positive tothe pointthatyouwill be
able to accomplishanything.
Once you beginlookingforthe positive things withinyou,youwill be surprisedtorealizeyour
magnificence hasalwaysbeenthere justbelow the surface.Youhave neverbeenanythingotherthen
that shiningbundle of joythatenteredthe worldyearsago.It’seasytouncoverpositive aspectsof
yourself byaskingsome questions.
– What am I goodat?
– Whohas benefitedbyme beinginthe world?
– Whoam I,what isinmy heart thatonlyI know?
– What doI like aboutmy body?
Your goal is to feel goodnow.Howdoyou feel now?If youonlyobserve whatyoufeel ispositiveabout
you,youwill feel good,youwill be happy.Decide righthere andrightnow how youwantto feel.Decide
that youwill alwayslookforthe goodwithinyouandappreciate thatgoodness.
So whatdoesall of thishave to do withlosingweight?Everything!!!Youremotional state isthe control
valve thatdetermineswhatyoudrawintoyourexperience.How youtalkto yourself createsyourbeliefs
and programsyour subconscious.Soyouneedtoaskyourself doyouwantyour beliefsand
subconsciousprogrammingtobe basedonfalse negative thinking.Ordoyouwant yourbeliefstobe
basedon the truth,that youare and alwayshave beenaperfectbeing.

3. Begintodayto love andnurture yourself.Allow the joy,playfulnessandenthusiasmthatyounaturally
had as a childbegintoflowintoyoureverydayexperiences.Allow yourselftocelebrate eachandevery
successno matterhowsmall.Love andappreciate yourself everyopportunityyouhave.Dothis
everydayandwatchyour weightbegintodissolve justasyouroldnegative beliefsaboutyourself begin
to dissolve.
Thank youfor readingmyarticle here thismayhelpas well.
https://bit.ly/3xwG9Nb