This document discusses how beliefs and imagination shape our behavior and subjective realities. It argues that we cling to our subjective beliefs because they form our self-image and self-worth. We assume our subjective truths are objective and see others' beliefs as irrational. This leads to conflicts when we try to control how others see the world. Fear is the most common emotional response to challenges or changes to our beliefs, causing resistance, yelling, and compulsive behavior aimed at avoiding introspection or thinking. However, by expanding our minds through intellectual growth, volunteering, helping others, and practicing empathy, mindfulness and responsible behavior, we can overcome fear and outgrow our need to control others.