Why Relation’ships’ get broken…
What could force a partner to call it quits – based on Times Of India article
(Research done by Western Sydney University – with 6500 people)
Presentation made by Dr. Balasandilyan
Thought Leader/Transformation Coach/Psychologist/Psychotherapist
www.visionunlimited.in Mobile 9840027810
Who is at fault?
Why people call it 'quit'
2
Dishevelled or unclean appearance
 71% of women
 63% of men
Are like that…
Why people call it 'quit'
3
Partner is irritated when lazy
 72% of women
 60% of men
Are lazy
Why people call it 'quit'
4
Too needy
 69% of women
 57% of men
Are too needy
Why people call it 'quit'
5
No sense of humour
 58% of women
 50% of men
Have no sense of humour
Why people call it 'quit'
6
Lives far away
 47% of women
 51% of men
Live far away…
Why people call it 'quit'
7
Bad sex
 50% of women
 44% of men
Are poor in sex
Why people call it 'quit'
8
Lacking self-confidence
 47% of women
 33% of men
Lack self-confidence
Why people call it 'quit'
9
Too much TV or video games
 41% of women
 25% of men
Are engaged in too much of
TV or video games
Why people call it 'quit'
10
Low sex drive
 27% of women
 39% of men
Have low sex drive
Why people call it 'quit'
11
Stubborn
 34% of women
 32% of men
Are stubborn
Why people call it 'quit'
12
Talks too much
 20% of women
 26% of men
Talk too much to irritate the
other partner
Why people call it 'quit'
13
Too quiet
 17% of women
 11% of men
Are too quiet
Why people call it 'quit'
14
Blunt
 17% of women
 11% of men
Are very blunt in their
communication
Why people call it 'quit'
15
Does not want children
 15% of women
 13% of men
Do not want children for
many reasons only known to
them
Why people call it 'quit'
16
Has kids
 12% of women
 14% of men
Have kids
Why people call it 'quit'
17
Too athletic
 10% of women
 7% of men
Are too athletic and the
partner is irritated because of
that.
Why people call it 'quit'
18
Not athletic
 6% of women
 7% of men
Are not being athletic is the
reason for break-up
Why people call it 'quit'
19
Many reasons are revealed here
 The relationship ‘deal-
breakers’ that cause men
and women to rule
themselves out of romance
have been revealed here…
Why people call it 'quit'
20
How do we change the chemistry
and change the situation…?
Answer lies within and not
without…
Why people call it 'quit'
21

Why relation’ships’ get broken

  • 1.
    Why Relation’ships’ getbroken… What could force a partner to call it quits – based on Times Of India article (Research done by Western Sydney University – with 6500 people) Presentation made by Dr. Balasandilyan Thought Leader/Transformation Coach/Psychologist/Psychotherapist www.visionunlimited.in Mobile 9840027810
  • 2.
    Who is atfault? Why people call it 'quit' 2
  • 3.
    Dishevelled or uncleanappearance  71% of women  63% of men Are like that… Why people call it 'quit' 3
  • 4.
    Partner is irritatedwhen lazy  72% of women  60% of men Are lazy Why people call it 'quit' 4
  • 5.
    Too needy  69%of women  57% of men Are too needy Why people call it 'quit' 5
  • 6.
    No sense ofhumour  58% of women  50% of men Have no sense of humour Why people call it 'quit' 6
  • 7.
    Lives far away 47% of women  51% of men Live far away… Why people call it 'quit' 7
  • 8.
    Bad sex  50%of women  44% of men Are poor in sex Why people call it 'quit' 8
  • 9.
    Lacking self-confidence  47%of women  33% of men Lack self-confidence Why people call it 'quit' 9
  • 10.
    Too much TVor video games  41% of women  25% of men Are engaged in too much of TV or video games Why people call it 'quit' 10
  • 11.
    Low sex drive 27% of women  39% of men Have low sex drive Why people call it 'quit' 11
  • 12.
    Stubborn  34% ofwomen  32% of men Are stubborn Why people call it 'quit' 12
  • 13.
    Talks too much 20% of women  26% of men Talk too much to irritate the other partner Why people call it 'quit' 13
  • 14.
    Too quiet  17%of women  11% of men Are too quiet Why people call it 'quit' 14
  • 15.
    Blunt  17% ofwomen  11% of men Are very blunt in their communication Why people call it 'quit' 15
  • 16.
    Does not wantchildren  15% of women  13% of men Do not want children for many reasons only known to them Why people call it 'quit' 16
  • 17.
    Has kids  12%of women  14% of men Have kids Why people call it 'quit' 17
  • 18.
    Too athletic  10%of women  7% of men Are too athletic and the partner is irritated because of that. Why people call it 'quit' 18
  • 19.
    Not athletic  6%of women  7% of men Are not being athletic is the reason for break-up Why people call it 'quit' 19
  • 20.
    Many reasons arerevealed here  The relationship ‘deal- breakers’ that cause men and women to rule themselves out of romance have been revealed here… Why people call it 'quit' 20
  • 21.
    How do wechange the chemistry and change the situation…? Answer lies within and not without… Why people call it 'quit' 21