Understanding between two people requires that both people know themselves internally and have aligned thoughts and feelings. Without this internal clarity and external alignment, a lack of understanding will exist between the two. Trying to understand someone whose "state of being" clashes with your own is like trying to fit a square peg in a round hole - it will not provide a reliable connection. True love is logical, but becomes illogical when two people are confused about who they are internally and how they perceive each other. Clearing the mind's clouds and gaining internal understanding of oneself is necessary for best understanding another person and merging together harmoniously.

1. Understanding a Woman
March 31, 2012
Know yourself, and be with a woman who does likewise, and there is
nothing to understand! Simple! From another perspective, to think two
gay men as lovers are going to not have the same dilemma of sufferings
from not understanding each other is wishful thinking. Any separation in
thought and feelings creates a lack of understanding from my experience. No need to do such when one
knows and loves who one is inside. To marry someone to only find that understanding the other is never
going to happen is just the universes humor to sit back and laugh at how stupid the pair has been to jump
where fools would only shun. Understanding, anyway, is the booby prize in life.
Putting a square peg in a round hole is not a reliable fit, nor are two people with cross purposes and ‘states
of beings’ that clash with little effort to alleviate the resistances. Trying to figure out a woman is being a
square peg trying to figure out why you don’t fit in the hole. A pure male energy never will be able to figure
out what’s wrong with a woman no matter how centered she might be because the problem is himself.
Always when one chooses to be with someone, it’s a reflection upon his mental and emotional status.
Contrary to popular perception, love is very logical. Love becomes illogical to the one who is
confused over who they really are inside. Many things get confusing
when walking in the dark, especially when two people are both
walking in the dark while both are having confused perceptions of
themselves and each other. Without the close connection to the
heart, one is more likely to exhibit the traits of a psychopath who has
little ability to discern anything but that which benefits their desires
with little or no compassion and understanding of another’s being.
Clearing the minds skies of clouds from being able to ‘understand’
another is a wondrous human loving requirement for best
understanding and merging with others in all aspects of life. Female
energy at it’s highest and clearest, combines with the same male
energy to create a wholesome, well rounded merged being. A well
centered you is a balance of both. The world of female suppression, and male dominance has created the
dissonance, and most unnecessary suffering we see today. Love really conquers, or gives its flow of energy
to the mind. An evolved you and humanity, awaits the rise of the spiritual consciousness to create an
existence on earth that has infinitely more heavenly qualities.
Understanding to many men is easy: ‘’Men have two emotions: Hungry and Horny. If you see him without
an erection, make him a sandwich.’’
Yesss Self Love Center
ArhataOsho.com