The document discusses the concept of love and controlling love. It argues that not releasing love is a form of controlling it, and that giving love where it may face abuse is also a form of controlling love. It states that some people debunk love as they do not truly understand what it means to love themselves. The document suggests that life is about more than just the physical body, and that people should allow their soul to develop fully to its potential. It discusses how love can be expressed in unhealthy ways when it is used to express empty satisfaction or when it becomes "poisoned". Overall, the document advocates for finding love within oneself rather than blaming others or becoming obsessed with material things, and controlling love through discernment and

1. Controlled Love
February 3, 2022
Are you a hypochondriac of love or fear of love’s power, or are you
a ‘relegator of love to nonsense? Not releasing love is ‘controlling’, as well as giving it where
it’s met with abuse. Debunking love is unacknowledgedly common by pessimistically oriented
non believers who put it in the same category as ‘believing in Santa Claus’. These ‘love
debunkers’ have little idea even what it means to love themselves, which in one de
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nition is to
experience feelings about themselves that leaves no gap between how they feel about
themselves and the inability to imagine more. Life isn’t just about the body, including the brain
and mind. You are in a borrowed housing called the body that uses a name as identi
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cation.
Being a human is to allow the soul to further develop to its potential. Don’t be your own
‘downfall’!
Love is an energy with many degrees as well as in
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nite uses, sadly among them is to express satisfaction, often
having little or no real meaning but just a saying of the mind. Love can be like foul polluted air that also pollutes the
love that remains hidden within, giving out ‘poisoned love’. Love is huge but also very fragile and doesn’t mix well
with fears. The swamp is within unless cleared, and will never allow
the purity of love if not cleaned up. However, as the Jewish say,
when negative happens, everything is for the best as hopefully it will
awaken you. Remember to think ‘it’s for the best’, and always seek
for the that.
Every breath you take is a reminder that as much as you are
controlled, we each need to use our brains and open heart in ways
that use the best assessment of all circumstance. It’s especially
needed when it comes to using the highest discernment of loving
and with abandon, but hopefully not where reciprocity or intent is
non caring, and sadly perhaps with no intention of changing that.
‘Cutting teeth on love’ to clear the path and is somewhat dependent
on a parent acting as the good fairy with blessed loving care. If that
didn’t happen, you’re in charge to
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nd the unrequited love within.
A heart divided between what darkens it, such as being with any negative like being obsessed with the material and
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orts spent chasing that is anti love. A house divided against itself is not a home where life can pour out its
heavenly, within energy. You are the ‘doctor’, and can heal most of what comes your way. Mostly no other ‘doctor’ of
the physical, mental, emotional or spiritual self can provide the godly touch to
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ll you with the love deserved, than
your inherent abilities. Blaming others for your mental and heart prisons is an immature approach. ALL CAN BE
HEALED to put you on the racetrack of life and its gifts. Ask the universe to give you it’s love, and yet manage the
hurts that happen as life and love is trying to throw out the roadblocks to the real you. That ‘real you’ is a taste of
heaven and bliss. Transformation can be slow and sometimes arduous, but always available is ‘instant
transformation’ if your intent is strong enough. Mainly, it’s prudent to keep on the path forward, upward and ‘inward’!
Uncontrolled love depends on knowing when to control it and when to give with no limits and barriers.
Arhata~