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Tough Love
Should you hold the line, no matter what?
• There’s a difference between tough love and bullying. That’s the key
  to learning how to use tough love correctly! It’s all about knowing
  when to stop, learning to balance between being tough and being
  loving.
• The most common users of tough love are parents, and couples. It is
  also used in by various others, like by
  teachers, coaches, psychologists etc. The main age group that utilizes
  it would be around 20-35.
• For people belonging to this age group blogs/forums on the internet
  and TV series are the popular sources of information and
  entertainment.


How to use it? When to use it?
Where to draw the line?
Tough love, New Zealand is an organisation that serves as a parent support
group. Empowering parents is a blog/forum where people share their
experiences, offer advice and where people can learn a couple basic
guidelines for parenting.Both websites share success stories of various parents
to encourage and guide parents to raise their children well. A little tough love
can go a long way!!!

Parental Guidance Websites
• This forum is a parental forum where
  parents ask for solutions to their
  parenting problems and are offered
  possible solutions by experienced
  parents or professionals. This is an
  example of a question from a mother a
  reasonable solution given to her to help
  her out.


    Forums
Renowned matchmaker
                   Steve Ward puts women
                   with various dating
                   problem through his
                   “boot camp”. He is direct
                   about what he thinks of
                   them and maybe even
                   sometimes harsh in telling
                   them what they’re doing
                   wrong. But with a
                   combination of love and
                   support and a little tough
                   love the results in the self

Television shows
                   esteem of these girls are
                   amazing!!


VH1’s TOUGH LOVE, Miami
Dr. Phil uses tough love
                    on the people that
                    approach him for
                    help, be it
                    couples, parents, single
                    people etc. to make face
                    the questions they hide
                    from and are scared to
                    face. Nanny Jo Frost
                    teaches parents how to
                    use tough love with their
                    kids correctly, and in
                    moderation. She guides

Television shows
                    parents and children who
                    are in difficult situations
                    to be harmonious.

Dr.Phil and Super Nanny
Tough love is used in very different fields.
Be it an ordinary teacher in the classroom pushing
and encouraging a child by providing consequences or
 be it coach Brian Kelly using a tough love regime on his Notre Dame
team to keep them in line, they successfully use tough love for the betterment
of their students/team.


 The Mentors
“See everything; overlook a great deal;
correct a little.” Pope John XXII-
• Learn the difference between tough love and bullying.
• Find a balance, find the middle ground.
• Anything in excess is harmful, use it appropriately and in
  moderation.




The End.

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Tough Love

  • 1. Tough Love Should you hold the line, no matter what?
  • 2. • There’s a difference between tough love and bullying. That’s the key to learning how to use tough love correctly! It’s all about knowing when to stop, learning to balance between being tough and being loving. • The most common users of tough love are parents, and couples. It is also used in by various others, like by teachers, coaches, psychologists etc. The main age group that utilizes it would be around 20-35. • For people belonging to this age group blogs/forums on the internet and TV series are the popular sources of information and entertainment. How to use it? When to use it? Where to draw the line?
  • 3. Tough love, New Zealand is an organisation that serves as a parent support group. Empowering parents is a blog/forum where people share their experiences, offer advice and where people can learn a couple basic guidelines for parenting.Both websites share success stories of various parents to encourage and guide parents to raise their children well. A little tough love can go a long way!!! Parental Guidance Websites
  • 4. • This forum is a parental forum where parents ask for solutions to their parenting problems and are offered possible solutions by experienced parents or professionals. This is an example of a question from a mother a reasonable solution given to her to help her out. Forums
  • 5. Renowned matchmaker Steve Ward puts women with various dating problem through his “boot camp”. He is direct about what he thinks of them and maybe even sometimes harsh in telling them what they’re doing wrong. But with a combination of love and support and a little tough love the results in the self Television shows esteem of these girls are amazing!! VH1’s TOUGH LOVE, Miami
  • 6. Dr. Phil uses tough love on the people that approach him for help, be it couples, parents, single people etc. to make face the questions they hide from and are scared to face. Nanny Jo Frost teaches parents how to use tough love with their kids correctly, and in moderation. She guides Television shows parents and children who are in difficult situations to be harmonious. Dr.Phil and Super Nanny
  • 7. Tough love is used in very different fields. Be it an ordinary teacher in the classroom pushing and encouraging a child by providing consequences or be it coach Brian Kelly using a tough love regime on his Notre Dame team to keep them in line, they successfully use tough love for the betterment of their students/team. The Mentors
  • 8. “See everything; overlook a great deal; correct a little.” Pope John XXII- • Learn the difference between tough love and bullying. • Find a balance, find the middle ground. • Anything in excess is harmful, use it appropriately and in moderation. The End.