4. 2009 -15: The elephant in the room
• No name, no role models #scaredAsFuck
• Ignorance is bliss
5. 2015: The elephant rhino in the room
• “I am Trans* - and I need to do something about it”
• There’s no way around anymore
• “How do I survive this?”
8. “How to eat an elephant? One bite at a time!”
“This transition is such a huge thing - might be too big for me!”
9. Non-Binary = complex = iterative approach, navigate the unknown
“If I don’t know whether I am man or woman - where shall I go?”
10. small increments. one step at a time. inspect and adapt.
“I am so scared to make a mistake (and end up as monster)”
11. It’s just a test. Try it. If you don’t like it: stop. No pressure.
“Am I doing the right thing (or am I just nuts)?”
12. “I don’t feel ready for the outside world”
Hey, it’s just a PROTOTYPE! :-)
13. Define your own MVP
“But I’ll never be a REAL [man / woman / putYourIdealGenderHere]…!”
14. Retrospect and Learn!
• small increments. one step at a time. inspect and adapt.
“I have the feeling I get lost on the way…”
Do retrospectives. Learn and improve.
Look back and see how far you’ve come already.