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Who’s in
Charge?

The Delicate
Balance of
Boundaries with
the Gifted
Dr. Dan Peters &
Lisa Van Gemert
How do you set
Boundaries?
First, evaluate your motives.
You will
need to
shift
them
over
time.
It’s important to involve
kids in planning their time.
What are your goals
for the boundaries?
Talk about boundaries in general.
Govern Yourself.
{so no one else has to}
Let kids set some of
their own boundaries.
Know Perspective
And where are
your SHOES?
Just
make
sure you
can see it
their way
before
you go all
cray-zay.
You do not need to do this.
I mean, who has a kangaroo?
Don’t
be this

family
Make connections
to motives clear.
Don’t get into this.
Contract it out.
Dr. Google
does not
know
whereof he
speaks.
Don’t
expect
this kind
of balance.
Should they
have the same
boundaries?
Oh, prefrontal cortex,
where art thou?
Choose your fence with care.
It’s easier
to loosen
than
tighten.
So let’s talk
fences.
Privacy Fence
Chain link:
fences
with holes
Ranch fences
fence rules
Build the same fence.
Repair me!
Go build a great fence!
Q&A
Connect with us!
Dan

Lisa

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