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TSEOSOPHRY
The Craving — Satatiety Model of
Anger Management.
TSEOSOPHRY
Anger, also known as
wrath or rage, is an
intense emotional state
involving a strong
uncomfortable, and non-
cooperative response to a
perceived provocation,
hurt, or threat.
(wikipedia.org)
TSEOSOPHRY
The same article on
Wikipedia tries to
categorize Anger into
three types. The three
types of anger recognized
by psychologists are:
TSEOSOPHRY
Hasty and sudden anger
is connected to the
impulse for self-
preservation. It is shared
by humans and other
animals, and it occurs
when the animal is
tormented or trapped.
This form of anger is
episodic.
TSEOSOPHRY
Settled and
deliberate anger is a
reaction to
perceived deliberate
harm or unfair
treatment by others.
This form of anger
is episodic.
TSEOSOPHRY
Dispositional anger is
related more to
character traits than
to instincts or
cognitions. Irritability,
sullenness, and
churlishness are
examples of the last
form of anger.
TSEOSOPHRY
In this article, I try to model
anger differently. I called it
the Craving—Satiety Model
of Anger Management. It
tries to explain anger in
terms of craving and lack of
satiety. If we look at the
three types of anger listed
above, They all have craving
as their causality.
TSEOSOPHRY
Hasty and sudden anger
happens because of denied
safety and protection to an
organism. When animals or
human beings are threatened or
sense an intrusion from other
organisms, they usually burst
into anger. Organisms have a
craving and need for safety and
protection. Denial of these will
cause anger.
TSEOSOPHRY
Settled and deliberate
anger happens because
of unfair treatment from
others. This type of
anger happens because
of the organism’s desire
and craving for justice
and fairness.
TSEOSOPHRY
Dispositional anger
happens because of the
individual's personality and
traits. The person
experiencing anger has a
craving for acceptance and
a need to feel happy. The
lack of these feelings causes
anger in the individual
TSEOSOPHRY
TSEOSOPHRY
Anger Expression
This section is adopted from
wikipedia.org
One simple dichotomy of anger
expression is passive anger
versus aggressive anger versus
assertive anger. These three types
of anger have some characteristic
symptoms:
TSEOSOPHRY
Passive anger
Passive anger can be expressed in the
following ways:[citation needed]
Dispassion, such as giving someone the
cold shoulder or a fake smile, looking
unconcerned or “sitting on the fence” while
others sort things out, dampening feelings
with substance abuse, overreacting,
oversleeping, not responding to another’s
anger, frigidity, indulging in sexual practices
that depress spontaneity and make objects
of participants, giving inordinate amounts
of time to machines, objects or intellectual
pursuits, talking of frustrations but showing
no feeling.
TSEOSOPHRY
Evasiveness, such as turning
one’s back in a crisis, avoiding
conflict, not arguing back, and
becoming phobic.
Defeatism, such as setting
people up for failure, choosing
unreliable people to depend on,
being accident-prone,
underachieving, sexual
impotence, expressing
frustration at insignificant
things but ignoring serious ones.
TSEOSOPHRY
Obsessive behavior, such as needing to
be inordinately clean and tidy, making a
habit of constantly checking things,
over-dieting or overeating, and
demanding that all jobs be done
perfectly.
Psychological manipulation, such as
provoking people to aggression and
then patronizing them, provoking
aggression but staying on the sidelines,
emotional blackmail, false tearfulness,
feigning illness, sabotaging
relationships, using sexual provocation,
using a third party to convey negative
feelings, withholding money or
resources.
TSEOSOPHRY
Secretive behavior, such as
stockpiling resentments that
are expressed behind people’s
backs, giving the silent
treatment or under-the-breath
mutterings, avoiding eye
contact, putting people down,
gossiping, anonymous
complaints, poison pen letters,
stealing, and conning.
Self-blame, such as apologizing
too often, being overly critical,
and inviting criticism.
TSEOSOPHRY
Bullying, such as threatening
people directly, persecuting,
insulting, pushing or shoving, using
power to oppress, shouting, driving
someone off the road, playing on
people’s weaknesses.
Destruction, such as destroying
objects such as vandalism, harming
animals, child abuse, destroying a
relationship, reckless driving,
substance abuse.
Aggressive anger
The symptoms of aggressive anger are:
TSEOSOPHRY
Grandiosity, such as showing off,
expressing mistrust, not delegating,
being a sore loser, wanting center
stage all the time, not listening,
talking over people’s heads,
expecting kisses, and make-up
sessions to solve problems.
Hurtfulness, such as violence,
including sexual abuse and rape,
verbal abuse, biased or vulgar
jokes, breaking confidence, using
foul language, ignoring people’s
feelings, willfully discriminating,
blaming, and punishing people for
unwarranted deeds, labeling others.
TSEOSOPHRY
Risk-taking behavior,
such as speaking too
fast, walking too fast,
driving too fast, reckless
spending.
Selfishness, such as
ignoring others’ needs,
not responding to
requests for help, queue
jumping.
TSEOSOPHRY
Threats, such as frightening
people by saying how one could
harm them, their property, or their
prospects, finger-pointing, fist-
shaking, wearing clothes or
symbols associated with violent
behavior, tailgating, excessively
blowing a car horn, slamming
doors.
Unjust blaming, such as accusing
other people of one’s own
mistakes, blaming people for a
person’s own feelings, and making
general accusations.
TSEOSOPHRY
Unpredictability, such as
explosive rages over minor
frustrations, attacking
indiscriminately, dispensing
unjust punishment, inflicting
harm on others for the sake of
it, illogical arguments.
Vengeance, such as being
over-punitive. This differs
from retributive justice, as
vengeance is personal and
possibly unlimited in scale.
TSEOSOPHRY
Blame, such as after a
particular individual
commits an action that’s
possibly frowned upon,
the particular person will
resort to scolding. This is
in fact, common in
discipline terms.
Assertive anger
TSEOSOPHRY
Punishment, the angry person
will give a temporary
punishment to an individual
further limiting a child’s will to
do anything they want like
playing video games, reading,
(excluding schoolwork), etc.,
after they did something to
cause trouble.
Sternness, such as calling out a
person on their behavior, with
their voices raised with utter
disapproval/disappointment.
TSEOSOPHRY
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The Craving — Satatiety Model of Anger Management..pdf

  • 1. TSEOSOPHRY The Craving — Satatiety Model of Anger Management.
  • 2. TSEOSOPHRY Anger, also known as wrath or rage, is an intense emotional state involving a strong uncomfortable, and non- cooperative response to a perceived provocation, hurt, or threat. (wikipedia.org)
  • 3. TSEOSOPHRY The same article on Wikipedia tries to categorize Anger into three types. The three types of anger recognized by psychologists are:
  • 4. TSEOSOPHRY Hasty and sudden anger is connected to the impulse for self- preservation. It is shared by humans and other animals, and it occurs when the animal is tormented or trapped. This form of anger is episodic.
  • 5. TSEOSOPHRY Settled and deliberate anger is a reaction to perceived deliberate harm or unfair treatment by others. This form of anger is episodic.
  • 6. TSEOSOPHRY Dispositional anger is related more to character traits than to instincts or cognitions. Irritability, sullenness, and churlishness are examples of the last form of anger.
  • 7. TSEOSOPHRY In this article, I try to model anger differently. I called it the Craving—Satiety Model of Anger Management. It tries to explain anger in terms of craving and lack of satiety. If we look at the three types of anger listed above, They all have craving as their causality.
  • 8. TSEOSOPHRY Hasty and sudden anger happens because of denied safety and protection to an organism. When animals or human beings are threatened or sense an intrusion from other organisms, they usually burst into anger. Organisms have a craving and need for safety and protection. Denial of these will cause anger.
  • 9. TSEOSOPHRY Settled and deliberate anger happens because of unfair treatment from others. This type of anger happens because of the organism’s desire and craving for justice and fairness.
  • 10. TSEOSOPHRY Dispositional anger happens because of the individual's personality and traits. The person experiencing anger has a craving for acceptance and a need to feel happy. The lack of these feelings causes anger in the individual
  • 12. TSEOSOPHRY Anger Expression This section is adopted from wikipedia.org One simple dichotomy of anger expression is passive anger versus aggressive anger versus assertive anger. These three types of anger have some characteristic symptoms:
  • 13. TSEOSOPHRY Passive anger Passive anger can be expressed in the following ways:[citation needed] Dispassion, such as giving someone the cold shoulder or a fake smile, looking unconcerned or “sitting on the fence” while others sort things out, dampening feelings with substance abuse, overreacting, oversleeping, not responding to another’s anger, frigidity, indulging in sexual practices that depress spontaneity and make objects of participants, giving inordinate amounts of time to machines, objects or intellectual pursuits, talking of frustrations but showing no feeling.
  • 14. TSEOSOPHRY Evasiveness, such as turning one’s back in a crisis, avoiding conflict, not arguing back, and becoming phobic. Defeatism, such as setting people up for failure, choosing unreliable people to depend on, being accident-prone, underachieving, sexual impotence, expressing frustration at insignificant things but ignoring serious ones.
  • 15. TSEOSOPHRY Obsessive behavior, such as needing to be inordinately clean and tidy, making a habit of constantly checking things, over-dieting or overeating, and demanding that all jobs be done perfectly. Psychological manipulation, such as provoking people to aggression and then patronizing them, provoking aggression but staying on the sidelines, emotional blackmail, false tearfulness, feigning illness, sabotaging relationships, using sexual provocation, using a third party to convey negative feelings, withholding money or resources.
  • 16. TSEOSOPHRY Secretive behavior, such as stockpiling resentments that are expressed behind people’s backs, giving the silent treatment or under-the-breath mutterings, avoiding eye contact, putting people down, gossiping, anonymous complaints, poison pen letters, stealing, and conning. Self-blame, such as apologizing too often, being overly critical, and inviting criticism.
  • 17. TSEOSOPHRY Bullying, such as threatening people directly, persecuting, insulting, pushing or shoving, using power to oppress, shouting, driving someone off the road, playing on people’s weaknesses. Destruction, such as destroying objects such as vandalism, harming animals, child abuse, destroying a relationship, reckless driving, substance abuse. Aggressive anger The symptoms of aggressive anger are:
  • 18. TSEOSOPHRY Grandiosity, such as showing off, expressing mistrust, not delegating, being a sore loser, wanting center stage all the time, not listening, talking over people’s heads, expecting kisses, and make-up sessions to solve problems. Hurtfulness, such as violence, including sexual abuse and rape, verbal abuse, biased or vulgar jokes, breaking confidence, using foul language, ignoring people’s feelings, willfully discriminating, blaming, and punishing people for unwarranted deeds, labeling others.
  • 19. TSEOSOPHRY Risk-taking behavior, such as speaking too fast, walking too fast, driving too fast, reckless spending. Selfishness, such as ignoring others’ needs, not responding to requests for help, queue jumping.
  • 20. TSEOSOPHRY Threats, such as frightening people by saying how one could harm them, their property, or their prospects, finger-pointing, fist- shaking, wearing clothes or symbols associated with violent behavior, tailgating, excessively blowing a car horn, slamming doors. Unjust blaming, such as accusing other people of one’s own mistakes, blaming people for a person’s own feelings, and making general accusations.
  • 21. TSEOSOPHRY Unpredictability, such as explosive rages over minor frustrations, attacking indiscriminately, dispensing unjust punishment, inflicting harm on others for the sake of it, illogical arguments. Vengeance, such as being over-punitive. This differs from retributive justice, as vengeance is personal and possibly unlimited in scale.
  • 22. TSEOSOPHRY Blame, such as after a particular individual commits an action that’s possibly frowned upon, the particular person will resort to scolding. This is in fact, common in discipline terms. Assertive anger
  • 23. TSEOSOPHRY Punishment, the angry person will give a temporary punishment to an individual further limiting a child’s will to do anything they want like playing video games, reading, (excluding schoolwork), etc., after they did something to cause trouble. Sternness, such as calling out a person on their behavior, with their voices raised with utter disapproval/disappointment.
  • 24. TSEOSOPHRY Medium Publications from the same creator https://medium.com/time-to-rethink - Time to Rethink https://medium.com/the-good-psyche - The Good Psyche https://medium.com/zealionaire - Zeallinaire https://medium.com/words-worth-wows - Words Worth Wows YouTube Channels from the same creator Time to Rethink Words Worth Wows The Good Psyche Zeallionaire