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It's pretty easy to spot a couple on
their first date.
At the very least, you can tell
something's a bit different.
But since you know about these
things, and can dig deeper, and notice
things certain people don't.
Like how their posture is a bit less
relaxed.
Their facial expressions and body
language show a bit more politeness.
Maybe their laughter is a bit less
natural, a bit more forced.
If they're eating they pick up their food
and chew it carefully.
On the other hand, when you see two
people who have clearly known each
other for a long time, their behavior is
pretty easy to spot as well.
Eating off each other's plates.
Interrupting each other while talking.
Open scowls and rolled eyes whenever
appropriate.
Most people take a while to "feel
comfortable" with other people.
Even if they're not a potential client or
romantic interest, we tend to "stiffen
up" a bit when we're around strangers.
Some rare people, have a gift of
making EVERYBODY relaxed around
them.
They walk up, and you don't feel the
need to guard your emotions, or feel
any worry about offending them or
pleasing them.
Something about them, their body
language, facial expressions, voice
tone, movements, make you feel
relaxed, and at ease.
Maybe because they fully accept the
world, and themselves, exactly how it
is.
Maybe they're not worried about
needing to impress anybody or try to
prove anything to anybody.
They know that no matter what
happens, they'll be fine.
They give off a vibe of "The only time
and place I'd like to be is right here,
right now."
And they ALWAYS tend to give off that
vibe.
Stuck in traffic, sitting in a business
meeting, on a first date, on a fiftieth
date, anywhere. Everywhere.
How can YOU be that person?
The first step is to get rid of all that
emotional junk that most of us have.
Those secret sore spots you may be
worried about hitting on accident.
Like when you're talking to somebody,
and they bring up some "taboo"
subject, (at least in your mind) and
suddenly you're on full alert.
You may have decided that these "sore
spots" are there to stay, and there's
nothing you can do.
You might not even be ready to admit
they're there.
We've ALL got them.
They are not because you're broken,
or dysfunctional. It's merely a result of
the "growing up process."
Luckily, when you find out how easy
they are to get rid of, you can let out
that deep, charismatic you.
That person EVERYBODY looks forward
to being around.
mindpersuasion.com/emotional-freedom/

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