This document summarizes a story about a mother demonstrating grace towards her son. The mother suspects her son stole $20 from a secret cash stash at home. Rather than confronting him angrily, she shares a story from her own childhood where she stole money and her mother did not show her grace. She tells her son she believes him when he denies taking the money. Later, he admits to taking it, and she writes it in his account without punishment, showing him unconditional love and forgiveness. The mother feels this healed a wrong from her past and set a better example for her son.
A CLASSIC TALE OF THOSE WHO ABUSE PRAYERRoland Ofori
This document tells a story about a man named Brother Joe Hanson who had been unemployed for 3 years despite being a devout Christian and prayer warrior. The author confronts Joe about not taking any action to find a job other than praying. Joe insists that God will provide a job for him without any effort. The author argues that Joe's situation is like a couple who prays for a child but never has sex, expecting a virgin birth. After this confrontation, Joe begins actively job hunting and finds a job within 2 months. The author's message is that prayer is not a substitute for action, and one must take steps of faith in order to see prayers answered.
I have long looked to Frederick Buechner, who turns 92 next month, as a mentor. I included him in Soul Survivor as one of the key people who helped form my faith. https://philipyancey.com/a-father-is-born
Mark Wahlberg had a troubled youth that involved criminal activities and gang involvement. At age 17, he was charged with attempted murder for an attack that permanently blinded one of the victims. His life changed after this encounter when he met a Catholic priest who helped steer him away from crime. Now Wahlberg is a devout Catholic who attends daily mass and sees his faith as an important part of his life and focus. He will be hosting an event for Pope Francis due to his high profile celebrity status and open pursuit of faith.
This is a collection of writings dealing with the issue of sexuality and the Holy Spirit. Sexual intimacy plays a major role in both the physical and spiritual area of life.,
This document is a newsletter from First Baptist Church of Franklinton providing information about upcoming church events and services. It discusses Easter services celebrating Jesus' resurrection, carrying a cross on Good Friday to commemorate Jesus' journey to Calvary, discipleship classes on Sunday evenings in April, senior adult activities, youth summer camps, and thanks those involved in the church music ministry.
This document discusses various types of sexual bondage and their consequences. It begins by defining destiny and various "killers within" like sin and wickedness. It then explores types of sexual bondage like fornication, adultery, homosexuality, bestiality, pornography, and masturbation. The document outlines how addiction starts and the demographics affected. It discusses why people enter sexual bondage and the consequences, which include destroying one's relationship with God, soul, body, prosperity, marriage/future relationships, and posterity. The overall message is that sexual sin has severe negative repercussions.
A CLASSIC TALE OF THOSE WHO ABUSE PRAYERRoland Ofori
This document tells a story about a man named Brother Joe Hanson who had been unemployed for 3 years despite being a devout Christian and prayer warrior. The author confronts Joe about not taking any action to find a job other than praying. Joe insists that God will provide a job for him without any effort. The author argues that Joe's situation is like a couple who prays for a child but never has sex, expecting a virgin birth. After this confrontation, Joe begins actively job hunting and finds a job within 2 months. The author's message is that prayer is not a substitute for action, and one must take steps of faith in order to see prayers answered.
I have long looked to Frederick Buechner, who turns 92 next month, as a mentor. I included him in Soul Survivor as one of the key people who helped form my faith. https://philipyancey.com/a-father-is-born
Mark Wahlberg had a troubled youth that involved criminal activities and gang involvement. At age 17, he was charged with attempted murder for an attack that permanently blinded one of the victims. His life changed after this encounter when he met a Catholic priest who helped steer him away from crime. Now Wahlberg is a devout Catholic who attends daily mass and sees his faith as an important part of his life and focus. He will be hosting an event for Pope Francis due to his high profile celebrity status and open pursuit of faith.
This is a collection of writings dealing with the issue of sexuality and the Holy Spirit. Sexual intimacy plays a major role in both the physical and spiritual area of life.,
This document is a newsletter from First Baptist Church of Franklinton providing information about upcoming church events and services. It discusses Easter services celebrating Jesus' resurrection, carrying a cross on Good Friday to commemorate Jesus' journey to Calvary, discipleship classes on Sunday evenings in April, senior adult activities, youth summer camps, and thanks those involved in the church music ministry.
This document discusses various types of sexual bondage and their consequences. It begins by defining destiny and various "killers within" like sin and wickedness. It then explores types of sexual bondage like fornication, adultery, homosexuality, bestiality, pornography, and masturbation. The document outlines how addiction starts and the demographics affected. It discusses why people enter sexual bondage and the consequences, which include destroying one's relationship with God, soul, body, prosperity, marriage/future relationships, and posterity. The overall message is that sexual sin has severe negative repercussions.
The document provides an overview and analysis of dating from a biblical perspective. It begins by noting that dating is not directly addressed in the Bible since romantic relationships were structured differently in biblical times. It then analyzes the story of Samson as an example of what not to do when seeking a spouse, as Samson made three major mistakes: 1) He looked for a wife among the idolatrous Philistines, contrary to God's commands. 2) He chose a wife based solely on physical attraction rather than character. 3) He ignored the wise counsel of his parents. The document aims to bring biblical principles to dating in the modern context.
The story describes a day in the life of Linda Harrison, a worker at a Hylyne chicken processing plant. Due to worsening glaucoma, she has difficulty seeing directly in front of her and must position chicks to the sides when cervical dislocating them. Her coworker Daisy expresses concern about Linda's vision problems. Linda also describes imaginings where she sees herself in the chicks and uses laser vision to cut down trees, though she realizes these are not real.
THE BATTLE THAT RAGES FOR YOUR MIND
WAKE UP WARNING 2019
Message by Pastor Carter Conlon,
Spoken on March 8, 2015
Spoken at Times Square Church, New York City
Publshed on YouTube January 2019
Transcribed by James E. Barbush
"I want to talk to you this morning about THE BATTLE THAT RAGES FOR YOUR MIND. And you have to be aware that Satan is coming against this generation in an unprecedented measure.
He is attacking this generation to take the thoughts of God out of the minds of an entire society.
He's doing it through the school system.
He's doing it in our colleges.
He's doing it in the marketplace.
He's doing it in the halls of government.
And he's even doing it in the house of God.
Trying to eradicate everything that comes from the mind of God, to blind an entire generation, to take captives, as many as he can, for the scripture says, he knows that his time is short.
The document outlines a presentation by Janice M. Payoyo discussing how she has found success and meaning through building her life on a foundation of faith in God. She describes personal struggles from 10 years ago and how studying the Bible helped her overcome difficulties. Payoyo emphasizes finding purpose and strength through trusting in God during both prosperity and poverty.
A verse by verse commentary on Judges 14 dealing with the marriage of Samson to a Philistine woman, and the story of Samson killing the lion and killing 30 men for their clothes.
1) The document discusses the parable of the Prodigal Son from the perspective of the father's attitude of love and compassion.
2) It describes how the father sees the son from afar, runs to embrace him, and celebrates his return with a feast. This depicts the father's unconditional love and forgiveness.
3) The father's love is presented as a divine love that offers freedom but also suffers when his children reject him or leave home. His primary desire is to bless and welcome his children.
1. The document summarizes a short story by W. Somerset Maugham about a missionary who tries to convert a prostitute but ends up killing himself after falling into sin with her, unable to forgive himself.
2. It then summarizes the parable of the prodigal son from Luke 15, focusing on how both sons received the same love from their father but one rebelled while the other was faithful. It discusses how the prodigal son hit rock bottom, realized his sins, and returned home with sincere repentance, and how the father graciously welcomed him back without requiring penance.
3. It notes how E.G. White's description in Christ's Object Lessons provides the
I decided to write a commentary on this passage because of the challenge of trying to understand what Paul is saying when he asks the Corinthians to hand one of their sinful members over to Satan for the destruction of the flesh that he might in the day of the Lord be saved. The man has to be given to his greatest enemy who will do him great harm, but in the end this will be a means by which he will escape
damnation and enjoy salvation. It sounded too crazy for me to pass it up. It is one of those difficult passages of Paul that Peter wrote about in 2Pe 3:16 “As also in all his
epistles, speaking in them of these things;
Drench yourself in grace as you spend a few moments each day in God's Word. Excerpts from Max Lucado's works offer insight & inspiration on topics that are relevant to your life and will help you connect daily with the Savior to experience the fullness of His grace. If you love the writings & teachings of Max Lucado you will enjoy this 21 day reading plan!
The document discusses a case of sexual immorality occurring within a Christian congregation, involving a man sleeping with his father's wife. The author expresses disappointment that the congregation has not taken action to discipline this man, and calls on them to expel him so that his spirit may be saved. Additional advice is given around avoiding sexual immorality and greed, as well as resolving disputes within the congregation rather than through outside legal systems. The body is described as a temple for God rather than for immoral acts.
Rachel shares her testimony of overcoming a difficult childhood filled with abuse and making poor choices as a teenager and young adult through finding faith in Jesus Christ. She describes accepting Christ at age 19 but still struggling for years with mental health issues, addiction, and losing custody of her children before fully committing to obey God. Her life then became transformed - she was able to stay sober, regain custody of her children, find success in her career, purchase a home, and meet her husband, all through following God. She encourages others to let God love them and transform their lives.
The women of Proverbs 31 Ministries understand what it means to search for encouragement and perspective during the everyday moments in life.
Now you can uncover God’s truth on good days or hard days, in the car pool line or the doctor’s office with devotions designed to meet you where you are.
This 14 day reading plan is built from the NIV Real-Life Devotional Bible for Women by Zondervan.
This chapter discusses faith and the importance of walking by faith rather than by sight. It encourages walking by faith in the year 2008. The chapter notes that while people want change in their lives and in various institutions, true change must first come from within each individual. Walking by faith means trusting God even when we cannot see the outcome.
The document discusses the biblical story of Leah, who was the older, less attractive daughter of Laban. Jacob fell in love with Leah's younger sister Rachel and worked 7 years to marry her. However, on the wedding night, Laban deceived Jacob into marrying Leah instead in the dark. Leah spent her life facing rejection from her husband Jacob, who loved Rachel more, and trying unsuccessfully to gain his love through bearing him sons. The document draws parallels between Leah's rejection and hurt and how people still experience rejection today, emphasizing that only God can truly satisfy and fill the void in one's life.
This document contains the order of service for a corporate worship event held at St. Vincent Ferrer Parish on May 22, 2018. It includes songs, readings, and prayers in English and other languages. The document lists various songs that were sung praising God, readings from the Bible, and prayers offered during the event.
"And they compel one Simon, a Cyrenian, who
passed by, coming out of the country, the father of
Alexander and Bufus, to bear his cross." — Mark
15 : 21.
THIS is one of the little touches in the
story of the crucifixion which it would
be easy for us quite to overlook. The
climax overshadows everything. Our minds,
like the feet of the crowd which followed
Jesus, hurry to the issue. The tide which is
rushing toward that great event drags us also
with it, just as it seized the people of that
quarter of Jerusalem and swept them up the
slope of Calvary, with no thought but of one
person and one awful spectacle. Later, we
discover that, as often under great excitement,
we had noted many things we did not know
we noticed. So is it here. In truth, it seems
to me that there are in the whole gospel few
more touching and instructive episodes than
this one of the Cyrenian who, at that moment
of Christ 's need, by chance came by.
This document discusses how intentions do not guarantee arriving at hoped for destinations, but that directions and actions determine the outcome. It provides examples of people who hope for financial security, good grades, intimacy with God, but take alternative routes through debt, neglecting studies, or casual dating. While they hope for these goals, the document argues their current directions will not lead there. It emphasizes that worshipping God through following Torah and principles, and embracing the Way of Messiah Yeshua provides the proper direction to arrive at God's hoped for destination.
The Holy Spirit brings people to faith in Jesus and sanctifies them through the means of God's Word and sacraments. The Spirit uses the gospel message found in Scripture and Baptism and Lord's Supper to wash away sins, turn people from the sinful world to be holy, and create and strengthen saving faith in believers. Without the Spirit's work through these means, no one could come to faith on their own due to our sinful, spiritually blind nature.
The document discusses a mother finding $20 missing from her drawer at home after her son told her he found $20 in his pocket. She remembers stealing money from her own mother as a child and being caught in a lie. She brings her son in to talk to prevent a similar experience. She tells him the story of stealing from her mother as a child. When she asks if the $20 was from her drawer, he admits he lied about finding it. The mother handles it graciously to build trust and prevent feelings of shame.
The document summarizes key expressions and slang used in American TV dramas that are useful for English learners to know. It provides examples of expressions like "cross fingers", "screw", "stuff", "rain check", "bottom line", "fling", and "word" and explains their meanings in different TV drama contexts. It also discusses emotionally moving moments, funny moments, and inspirations that can be found in American TV dramas.
The document provides an overview and analysis of dating from a biblical perspective. It begins by noting that dating is not directly addressed in the Bible since romantic relationships were structured differently in biblical times. It then analyzes the story of Samson as an example of what not to do when seeking a spouse, as Samson made three major mistakes: 1) He looked for a wife among the idolatrous Philistines, contrary to God's commands. 2) He chose a wife based solely on physical attraction rather than character. 3) He ignored the wise counsel of his parents. The document aims to bring biblical principles to dating in the modern context.
The story describes a day in the life of Linda Harrison, a worker at a Hylyne chicken processing plant. Due to worsening glaucoma, she has difficulty seeing directly in front of her and must position chicks to the sides when cervical dislocating them. Her coworker Daisy expresses concern about Linda's vision problems. Linda also describes imaginings where she sees herself in the chicks and uses laser vision to cut down trees, though she realizes these are not real.
THE BATTLE THAT RAGES FOR YOUR MIND
WAKE UP WARNING 2019
Message by Pastor Carter Conlon,
Spoken on March 8, 2015
Spoken at Times Square Church, New York City
Publshed on YouTube January 2019
Transcribed by James E. Barbush
"I want to talk to you this morning about THE BATTLE THAT RAGES FOR YOUR MIND. And you have to be aware that Satan is coming against this generation in an unprecedented measure.
He is attacking this generation to take the thoughts of God out of the minds of an entire society.
He's doing it through the school system.
He's doing it in our colleges.
He's doing it in the marketplace.
He's doing it in the halls of government.
And he's even doing it in the house of God.
Trying to eradicate everything that comes from the mind of God, to blind an entire generation, to take captives, as many as he can, for the scripture says, he knows that his time is short.
The document outlines a presentation by Janice M. Payoyo discussing how she has found success and meaning through building her life on a foundation of faith in God. She describes personal struggles from 10 years ago and how studying the Bible helped her overcome difficulties. Payoyo emphasizes finding purpose and strength through trusting in God during both prosperity and poverty.
A verse by verse commentary on Judges 14 dealing with the marriage of Samson to a Philistine woman, and the story of Samson killing the lion and killing 30 men for their clothes.
1) The document discusses the parable of the Prodigal Son from the perspective of the father's attitude of love and compassion.
2) It describes how the father sees the son from afar, runs to embrace him, and celebrates his return with a feast. This depicts the father's unconditional love and forgiveness.
3) The father's love is presented as a divine love that offers freedom but also suffers when his children reject him or leave home. His primary desire is to bless and welcome his children.
1. The document summarizes a short story by W. Somerset Maugham about a missionary who tries to convert a prostitute but ends up killing himself after falling into sin with her, unable to forgive himself.
2. It then summarizes the parable of the prodigal son from Luke 15, focusing on how both sons received the same love from their father but one rebelled while the other was faithful. It discusses how the prodigal son hit rock bottom, realized his sins, and returned home with sincere repentance, and how the father graciously welcomed him back without requiring penance.
3. It notes how E.G. White's description in Christ's Object Lessons provides the
I decided to write a commentary on this passage because of the challenge of trying to understand what Paul is saying when he asks the Corinthians to hand one of their sinful members over to Satan for the destruction of the flesh that he might in the day of the Lord be saved. The man has to be given to his greatest enemy who will do him great harm, but in the end this will be a means by which he will escape
damnation and enjoy salvation. It sounded too crazy for me to pass it up. It is one of those difficult passages of Paul that Peter wrote about in 2Pe 3:16 “As also in all his
epistles, speaking in them of these things;
Drench yourself in grace as you spend a few moments each day in God's Word. Excerpts from Max Lucado's works offer insight & inspiration on topics that are relevant to your life and will help you connect daily with the Savior to experience the fullness of His grace. If you love the writings & teachings of Max Lucado you will enjoy this 21 day reading plan!
The document discusses a case of sexual immorality occurring within a Christian congregation, involving a man sleeping with his father's wife. The author expresses disappointment that the congregation has not taken action to discipline this man, and calls on them to expel him so that his spirit may be saved. Additional advice is given around avoiding sexual immorality and greed, as well as resolving disputes within the congregation rather than through outside legal systems. The body is described as a temple for God rather than for immoral acts.
Rachel shares her testimony of overcoming a difficult childhood filled with abuse and making poor choices as a teenager and young adult through finding faith in Jesus Christ. She describes accepting Christ at age 19 but still struggling for years with mental health issues, addiction, and losing custody of her children before fully committing to obey God. Her life then became transformed - she was able to stay sober, regain custody of her children, find success in her career, purchase a home, and meet her husband, all through following God. She encourages others to let God love them and transform their lives.
The women of Proverbs 31 Ministries understand what it means to search for encouragement and perspective during the everyday moments in life.
Now you can uncover God’s truth on good days or hard days, in the car pool line or the doctor’s office with devotions designed to meet you where you are.
This 14 day reading plan is built from the NIV Real-Life Devotional Bible for Women by Zondervan.
This chapter discusses faith and the importance of walking by faith rather than by sight. It encourages walking by faith in the year 2008. The chapter notes that while people want change in their lives and in various institutions, true change must first come from within each individual. Walking by faith means trusting God even when we cannot see the outcome.
The document discusses the biblical story of Leah, who was the older, less attractive daughter of Laban. Jacob fell in love with Leah's younger sister Rachel and worked 7 years to marry her. However, on the wedding night, Laban deceived Jacob into marrying Leah instead in the dark. Leah spent her life facing rejection from her husband Jacob, who loved Rachel more, and trying unsuccessfully to gain his love through bearing him sons. The document draws parallels between Leah's rejection and hurt and how people still experience rejection today, emphasizing that only God can truly satisfy and fill the void in one's life.
This document contains the order of service for a corporate worship event held at St. Vincent Ferrer Parish on May 22, 2018. It includes songs, readings, and prayers in English and other languages. The document lists various songs that were sung praising God, readings from the Bible, and prayers offered during the event.
"And they compel one Simon, a Cyrenian, who
passed by, coming out of the country, the father of
Alexander and Bufus, to bear his cross." — Mark
15 : 21.
THIS is one of the little touches in the
story of the crucifixion which it would
be easy for us quite to overlook. The
climax overshadows everything. Our minds,
like the feet of the crowd which followed
Jesus, hurry to the issue. The tide which is
rushing toward that great event drags us also
with it, just as it seized the people of that
quarter of Jerusalem and swept them up the
slope of Calvary, with no thought but of one
person and one awful spectacle. Later, we
discover that, as often under great excitement,
we had noted many things we did not know
we noticed. So is it here. In truth, it seems
to me that there are in the whole gospel few
more touching and instructive episodes than
this one of the Cyrenian who, at that moment
of Christ 's need, by chance came by.
This document discusses how intentions do not guarantee arriving at hoped for destinations, but that directions and actions determine the outcome. It provides examples of people who hope for financial security, good grades, intimacy with God, but take alternative routes through debt, neglecting studies, or casual dating. While they hope for these goals, the document argues their current directions will not lead there. It emphasizes that worshipping God through following Torah and principles, and embracing the Way of Messiah Yeshua provides the proper direction to arrive at God's hoped for destination.
The Holy Spirit brings people to faith in Jesus and sanctifies them through the means of God's Word and sacraments. The Spirit uses the gospel message found in Scripture and Baptism and Lord's Supper to wash away sins, turn people from the sinful world to be holy, and create and strengthen saving faith in believers. Without the Spirit's work through these means, no one could come to faith on their own due to our sinful, spiritually blind nature.
The document discusses a mother finding $20 missing from her drawer at home after her son told her he found $20 in his pocket. She remembers stealing money from her own mother as a child and being caught in a lie. She brings her son in to talk to prevent a similar experience. She tells him the story of stealing from her mother as a child. When she asks if the $20 was from her drawer, he admits he lied about finding it. The mother handles it graciously to build trust and prevent feelings of shame.
The document summarizes key expressions and slang used in American TV dramas that are useful for English learners to know. It provides examples of expressions like "cross fingers", "screw", "stuff", "rain check", "bottom line", "fling", and "word" and explains their meanings in different TV drama contexts. It also discusses emotionally moving moments, funny moments, and inspirations that can be found in American TV dramas.
The story is narrated in first person by Maya and describes traumatic events from her past and present. Eight years ago, Maya witnessed her father's death in a car accident, leaving her orphaned. In the present, Maya is interning at a company where she meets Ayan, who will be her supervisor for the next three months. Though Ayan was initially in an argument, Maya sees a kinder side to him and hopes her opinion of him will change over time. Maya fears that her past trauma will resurface during her internship.
Written in first person, the story revolves around Maya's Present and Past. Destiny puts her through pain '8 years ago, and 8 years later again' that she describes as still, dark black. She will find a touch of the ecstasy of love, but how long will it last?
This sermon discusses the resources believers need to judge rightly.
- The greatest resource is prayer to God, who is perfectly wise and can grant wisdom (James 1:5). Believers must pray for God's direction in situations requiring judgment.
- Jesus emphasizes persistence in prayer - "Ask, seek, knock." Prayer should be continual and bold before God's throne of grace.
- Jesus illustrates God's trustworthiness through a analogy - even imperfect human fathers give good gifts to children, so how much more will our perfect Father in heaven give good things to those who ask?
Adversity can be the gateway to greatness.
The dire circumstances that threaten to ruin your life may actually be a step on the path to a life far greater than you've dreamed of.
From Fizzle To Sizzle Week 2 ExperimentationErnie Zarra
The document provides an overview of a class discussing experimentation among the Baby Boomer generation during the 1960s and 1970s. It explores how the counterculture movement influenced society and the church's attempts to reach youth through new ministry paradigms. Statistics about increasing divorce rates and decreasing religious involvement are presented, raising questions about the church's role and message. Biblical passages encourage believers to walk by the Spirit rather than gratify fleshly desires and to set a godly example through love and truth.
A powerpoint about Media Masters, the manipulation of the masses through TV, the invisible government and true ruling powers of the world and their agenda to control the public mind.
A father met and invited a stranger to live with his family just before the narrator was born. The stranger became like an uncle to the family, entertaining them for hours with stories and drawings. However, the stranger disregarded the family's moral values by using profanity, discussing sex openly, and encouraging substance use. Though the stranger undermined the father's authority, he was rarely confronted and never asked to leave. The narrator realizes as an adult that the stranger had an unnoticed but significant influence on shaping their worldview.
The document discusses the dangers of comparison and gives advice on how to avoid comparing oneself to others. It notes that comparison often leads to feeling bad about oneself and recommends focusing on self-improvement instead of measuring oneself against others. Specific tips include not wishing to be someone else, lifting others up instead of tearing them down, and remembering one's inherent worth. The document encourages the reader to spend time avoiding comparison in order to notice its negative effects and gain a healthier self-esteem independent of others.
This document is a newsletter from Our Saviour Lutheran Church providing tips and encouragement to seize moments and live intentionally in the present. It discusses how easily distracted humans can be from the present moment and offers tools like using the senses to praise God in each moment. The newsletter emphasizes making the most of each gift of time that God provides.
This document provides guidance on improving relationships through developing love, respect, and compassion. It recommends focusing one's thoughts and actions on meeting one's partner's core emotional needs. Specifically, it suggests: holding one's partner in one's heart throughout the day, hugging them for six seconds six times a day, thinking positive thoughts about the relationship for ten seconds during the workday, and making a commitment to generously show love through small gestures daily. The goal is to transform negative emotions like fear and shame into connection by protecting and caring for one's partner.
This document contains a prayer service focused on child abuse. It includes prayers asking God to heal those who have been abused and help abusive parents change their ways. It also contains a reading from Ephesians about obeying parents and general intercessions praying for abused children, abusive parents, and those who have overcome abuse. The service aims to bring awareness to child abuse and pray for those affected.
This document provides advice on cultivating contentment based on the story of Winifred, a discontent man who collects complaints. It discusses how, like Winifred, humans often waste time dwelling on past regrets or future worries instead of living in the present. However, the document asserts that one can learn to be content in any situation through faith in Christ, as exemplified by Paul in the Bible. It encourages focusing on blessings over burdens and finding sufficiency internally rather than in external things, as true contentment comes from having one's life centered in Christ.
The document discusses views on sex, premarital relationships, and masturbation from a religious perspective. It presents arguments that:
1) Sex was created by God for the loving union of husband and wife within marriage to bond the couple and allow procreation. Premarital sex risks damaging future relationships and marriage.
2) Masturbation that involves lustful thoughts is sinful according to scripture. It can also lead to sexual addiction and experimentation with unclean acts.
3) Not masturbating is not unhealthy as the body naturally reabsorbs unused sperm cells, and any residual secretions are released through nocturnal emissions. Remaining pure allows one to live a holy life as called by God
This document discusses some common distorted concepts people have of God that result from sin and broken relationships. It suggests that sin can lead us to see God as distant, uncaring, harsh or too busy, rather than as loving, merciful and involved. It argues we should see God as our loving Father based on what is known about his character from scripture and Jesus. Wrestling with past hurts and reconciling them with a good God is important for trusting him with our future. Ultimately overcoming death through Christ's resurrection shows God's desire to break the cycle of suffering.
The document discusses the importance of zeal and passion. It defines passion capital as consisting of creed, culture, courage, brand, resources, strategy, and persistence combined with energy, intensity and sustainability. It also discusses identifying strengths through testing, and maintaining zeal by respecting it, repenting from sin, remembering good things, relating to enthusiastic people, and renewing one's commitment despite resistance. Priorities and situations are said to reveal one's zeal.
This prayer service focuses on infertility and reproductive technologies. It includes an opening prayer asking God to bless couples struggling with infertility with children. It also includes a reading from Deuteronomy about God never leaving or forsaking those who trust in him. The service includes general intercessions praying for married couples struggling with infertility and for families who lost children to fertility issues. It closes with a song expressing the singer's desire to have a child and how far she would go to experience motherhood.
This document provides a summary of a study on Revelation 14 and guarding the home. It discusses the 144,000 mentioned in Revelation 14 as those who have been cleansed from false doctrines and have a pure faith. It emphasizes the need to crucify the flesh and bring thoughts, affections, and passions into subjection to God. Quotes from scripture and the book Adventist Home encourage guarding the heart, controlling thoughts and affections, and allowing the higher powers of the soul to reign over animal propensities. The goal is to develop purity of heart in order to see God and be part of the 144,000.
The passage discusses the parable of the Prodigal Son from the Bible. It tells the story of a young man who asked for his inheritance from his father and left home to live freely. He squandered his money and ended up poor, feeding pigs. Realizing his father's servants had plenty, he decided to return home and ask for forgiveness. His father welcomed him back with open arms and celebration, showing God's gracious love and forgiveness for sinners who repent. The story teaches that all people are lost and sinful like the Prodigal Son, but God loves and forgives us when we return to Him through faith in Jesus Christ.
This document contains excerpts from the Bible describing the life of King Hezekiah of Judah. The summaries are:
1) King Hezekiah falls ill and is told he will die, but he prays fervently and God extends his life by 15 years.
2) Later, Hezekiah shows his treasures to Babylonian envoys, causing the prophet Isaiah to warn that everything will be taken to Babylon in the future.
3) Details are provided about Hezekiah's good deeds as king and rebuilding efforts, as well as the evil reign of his son Manasseh who undoes much of the good work.
This document provides recommended resources from Lamplighter Ministries for building character in children of different age groups through stories. It also includes summaries of stories, quotes, and lessons learned from various books. There is a discussion of Jacob's struggle with God and how one's name and identity can change through divine intervention. A mother shares her struggle with anger issues and desire to break the cycle of verbal abuse through reconnecting with God through prayer and devotion.
The document discusses motivation and what truly drives human achievement. It argues that people are not born talented, but become skilled through dedicated practice and cultivating their abilities over many hours. Recent research shows that intelligence can be increased through effort and experience builds new connections in the brain through "myelin". The most motivated individuals are driven by finding meaning and purpose in their work rather than just money.
This three paragraph summary provides the key details from the long document:
A nurse, Sue Kidd, is called to help a patient, Mr. Williams, who has had a minor heart attack. Mr. Williams asks the nurse to call his daughter Janie to let her know about his condition. When the nurse calls Janie, she is distraught because she and her father had a big fight a year ago and have not spoken since. Janie rushes to the hospital to see her father. However, when the nurse returns to Mr. Williams' room, he has gone into cardiac arrest. The medical team works to revive him but is unsuccessful and Mr. Williams passes away. When Janie arrives, devast
This letter describes a man's deeply troubled marriage. He feels constantly criticized and disrespected by his wife, who he believes views him through the lens of her past abuse rather than who he truly is. She dominates conversations, frequently accusing him of abuse and bringing up past issues. He has tried to apologize and make a fresh start but she refuses. Others have witnessed and commented on her disrespectful treatment of him. He feels rejected, unimportant, and lacking a supportive partner. The relationship has deteriorated to the point where he finds it hard to show compassion during her ongoing medical recovery.
A mother attends a conference where Mark Hamby speaks. His lecture breaks her heart as she realizes she is emotionally abusing her children just like her mother abused her. She prays to God for the first time in years. This prayer sparks a change in her - she remains calm with her children and stops yelling. Her children start to warm up to her again and trust her more. She knows real change will take time but is committed to rebuilding her relationships through prayer.
This document provides a summary of the Lamplighter Ministries document "Let God's Creatures Be the Teachers" by Mark Hamby. It recommends several Lamplighter books and audio resources. It also includes brief summaries and excerpts from Psalms and stories from the Bible along with testimonials praising the positive impact of Lamplighter books.
This document discusses strategies for motivating children through developing an understanding of worth, using role models, cultivating values, and avoiding overly strict or critical parenting. It draws from the teachings of 17th century educator Francois Fenelon, who emphasized showing children love, avoiding fatigue from strict study, and mixing difficulty with liberty and delight. The document advocates developing confidence in children through character rather than external rewards or punishments. Overall it promotes intrinsic motivation by helping children appreciate worth, value perseverance, and feel fully loved and known without fear of rejection.
This document contains excerpts from various spiritual writings focused on topics like suffering, humility, sin, and finding peace in God. Some key points:
- Suffering is necessary and intended by God to purify and heal, not as punishment. It should be borne peacefully by accepting God's will.
- True humility involves being at peace even when humiliated and focusing on obedience to God rather than desires of the ego.
- Finding relief from problems in worldly things like changing circumstances or alcohol only provides temporary relief, not healing. True healing and cleansing of sin comes only from God.
This document discusses the negative effects of mass media such as television and social media on moral development and character building in children and society. It provides numerous statistics showing that children now spend much more time engaged with media than in other developmental activities like reading, social interaction, or religious activities. It also cites research showing that excessive media use can physically affect brain development in ways that hurt attention span, empathy, reasoning skills, and can promote addictive or antisocial behaviors. The document advocates for limiting media time and promoting activities like reading that strengthen character.
This document provides a list of recommended books and resources on various topics such as biographies, adventure stories, finding fulfilling work, leadership, and parenting. It also includes brief excerpts from the Bible about Caleb receiving land, the next generation not knowing God, God gathering the lambs, a father apologizing to his son, and a son apologizing in return and asking his father to hold his hand. The document promotes Christian values through its selections and messages of reconciliation between a father and son.
The document discusses different parenting styles and their potential negative effects on children. It describes dictatorial/authoritative parenting as angrily demanding and fault-finding, prioritizing responsibility over relationships. This can lead to children like Jephthah's daughter who was sacrificed to fulfill a rash vow. Enmeshed parenting is overly protective and prevents independence, potentially causing resentment like Joseph's brothers felt. Indulgent parenting that indulges a child's wants can produce entitled children like Eli's sons who abused their priestly duties.
Fenelon was a French philosopher educated in Greece who was known for regaining trust from Huguenots after a massacre and educating the king's grandson. His philosophy emphasized abstaining from responding to a child in one's first emotion or the child's first emotion, as responding or correcting in that state would show being governed by mood rather than reason and the child's heart would not be open to learning.
Those who are humble, mournful, gentle, hungry for righteousness, merciful, pure of heart, and work for peace are blessed, as the kingdom of heaven belongs to them. Additionally, those who are persecuted for righteousness will find the kingdom of heaven.
The document discusses Fenelon's approach to educating a difficult child who was entrusted to him. It summarizes that Fenelon:
1) Succeeded in influencing the child through making himself loved by the child first, rather than using a strict authoritative approach.
2) Advocated being compassionate toward a child's weaknesses rather than displaying shock or irritation.
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The document provides testimonials from several people about the positive impact that reading books from the Lamplighter series has had on their lives and families. It discusses how the books have transformed one person's daughter's life and caused other families to flourish in grace. One person said the books were the finest they had ever read. The testimonials suggest the books are having a tremendous effect on strengthening character and families.
A mother discovers that $20 is missing from a drawer in her home. She suspects her son may have taken it. She talks to him privately and shares a story from her own childhood where she stole money from her mother. She treats her son with grace, trust and forgiveness. Later, prompted by the Holy Spirit, the son admits to taking the money. The mother continues to show him unconditional love and allows him to keep the money, hoping he will always remember her gracious response.
1) David conquered Jerusalem and took control of the city from the Jebusites, the original inhabitants.
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Insight: In a landscape where traditional narrative structures are giving way to fragmented and non-linear forms of storytelling, there lies immense potential for creativity and exploration.
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But, how safe is a team? How can we determine if there are any factors that make the team unsafe or have an impact on the team’s culture?
In this mini-workshop, we’ll play games for psychological safety and team culture utilizing a deck of coaching cards, The Psychological Safety Cards. We will learn how to use gamification to gain a better understanding of what’s going on in teams. Individuals share what they have learned from working in teams, what has impacted the team’s safety and culture, and what has led to positive change.
Different game formats will be played in groups in parallel. Examples are an ice-breaker to get people talking about psychological safety, a constellation where people take positions about aspects of psychological safety in their team or organization, and collaborative card games where people work together to create an environment that fosters psychological safety.
This presentation by Tim Capel, Director of the UK Information Commissioner’s Office Legal Service, was made during the discussion “The Intersection between Competition and Data Privacy” held at the 143rd meeting of the OECD Competition Committee on 13 June 2024. More papers and presentations on the topic can be found at oe.cd/ibcdp.
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This is a workshop about communication and collaboration. We will experience how we can analyze the reasons for resistance to change (exercise 1) and practice how to improve our conversation style and be more in control and effective in the way we communicate (exercise 2).
This session will use Dave Gray’s Empathy Mapping, Argyris’ Ladder of Inference and The Four Rs from Agile Conversations (Squirrel and Fredrick).
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Let’s talk about powerful conversations! We all know how to lead a constructive conversation, right? Then why is it so difficult to have those conversations with people at work, especially those in powerful positions that show resistance to change?
Learning to control and direct conversations takes understanding and practice.
We can combine our innate empathy with our analytical skills to gain a deeper understanding of complex situations at work. Join this session to learn how to prepare for difficult conversations and how to improve our agile conversations in order to be more influential without power. We will use Dave Gray’s Empathy Mapping, Argyris’ Ladder of Inference and The Four Rs from Agile Conversations (Squirrel and Fredrick).
In the session you will experience how preparing and reflecting on your conversation can help you be more influential at work. You will learn how to communicate more effectively with the people needed to achieve positive change. You will leave with a self-revised version of a difficult conversation and a practical model to use when you get back to work.
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This presentation by Professor Giuseppe Colangelo, Jean Monnet Professor of European Innovation Policy, was made during the discussion “The Intersection between Competition and Data Privacy” held at the 143rd meeting of the OECD Competition Committee on 13 June 2024. More papers and presentations on the topic can be found at oe.cd/ibcdp.
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Strong willed parent!
1. Raise them UP,Raise them UP,
Don’t Crush them Down!Don’t Crush them Down!
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The Strong-Willed ParentThe Strong-Willed Parent
By Mark HambyBy Mark Hamby
Lamplighter MinistriesLamplighter Ministries
www.lamplighterpublishing.comwww.lamplighterpublishing.com
1-888-246-77351-888-246-7735
6. My children, ages 14, 12 and 7, are voraciousMy children, ages 14, 12 and 7, are voracious
readers, and it has always been a challenge to findreaders, and it has always been a challenge to find
suitable reading material for them. We've had tosuitable reading material for them. We've had to
content ourselves with books that are merelycontent ourselves with books that are merely
inoffensive, but NOW we can provide them withinoffensive, but NOW we can provide them with
literature that encourages and teaches them in theliterature that encourages and teaches them in the
ways of the Lord, in Truth that will guide their livesways of the Lord, in Truth that will guide their lives
unto godliness!!! After God's teaching in His Word,unto godliness!!! After God's teaching in His Word,
Lamplighter has been the greatest support in ourLamplighter has been the greatest support in our
homeschool, and I can't thank you, and praise ourhomeschool, and I can't thank you, and praise our
Lord, enough.Lord, enough.
23. Raise them UP,Raise them UP,
Don’t Crush them Down!Don’t Crush them Down!
&&
The Strong-Willed ParentThe Strong-Willed Parent
By Mark HambyBy Mark Hamby
Lamplighter MinistriesLamplighter Ministries
www.lamplighterpublishing.comwww.lamplighterpublishing.com
1-888-246-77351-888-246-7735
24. Raise them UP,Raise them UP,
Don’t Crush them Down!Don’t Crush them Down!
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The Strong-Willed ParentThe Strong-Willed Parent
Meet Jonathan!Meet Jonathan!
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36. He tends his flock like a shepherd;He tends his flock like a shepherd;
He gathers the lambs in his armsHe gathers the lambs in his arms
And carries them close to his heart;And carries them close to his heart;
He gently leads those that have young.He gently leads those that have young.
Isaiah 40:11Isaiah 40:11
37.
38. Jonathan,
Your posture looks very tired. Please sit
up and
look attentive in God’s house. Please use
Mom’s
Bible. Thanks for listening to my
instruction.
Manhood Lesson #1
A Will To Obey!
39. Dad,
I am tired. I slept for four hours.
Instead of always finding some
way to “instruct me”, let me listen
and understand in peace.
Thanks,
Jonathan
Trying to help!
40. JUDGMENT
LISTEN
OBEY
JUDGMENT SHORT LIFE
Dad
Jonathan,
I would love to be sensitive to your tiredness, but
someday you will stand before the living God and
will give an account for your refusal to listen to my
instruction. Like it or not, God has given me the
responsibility to instruct you. Whether you listen or
not is up to you. Just remember, refusal to listen
places you outside the blessing and protection of
God.
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41. Dad,
I did sit up. I’m not refusing to listen and I’m
tired of you getting on my case. Do you
actually wonder why I don’t like sitting with
you? C’mon, I am totally exhausted. I’m
doing my best just to stay awake, ok?!
Jonathan
Listening and Obeying
for there’s no other way!
42. Jonathan,
I’ve been doing some soul searching lately, and I believe I
have not been a good father to you, but recognize that by
God’s grace, it is never too late. I am truly sorry for the
pain I’ve caused you. May God’s spirit and your
committed dad bring healing ointment to your life. Here
is my shoe oil thing--use it whenever you like.
All that is mine is yours!
Love,
Dad
Ephesians 3:20
43. Dad,
I’ve been doing some thinking of my
own. I, too, am sorry for the pain I’ve
caused you. However, I disagree with
you in that you have not been a good
father—we’ve just had some rough
spots (more like smooth spots on sand
paper, but who’s looking). Here’s my
tie—wear it whenever you want.
Jonathan
James 1:2-3
44. And He shall turn the hearts ofAnd He shall turn the hearts of
the Fathers to the children,the Fathers to the children,
And the heart of the childrenAnd the heart of the children
to their fathers,to their fathers,
Lest I come and smite theLest I come and smite the
earth with aearth with a
CURSE!
Malachi 4:6Malachi 4:6
45. The results of the curse:The results of the curse:
serpent – will now crawl on its bellyserpent – will now crawl on its belly
and constant conflictand constant conflict
Eve – inEve – in sorrowsorrow she will bring forthshe will bring forth
childrenchildren
Adam – inAdam – in sorrowsorrow he will bring forth thehe will bring forth the
fruit of the groundfruit of the ground
sorrow: intense laborsorrow: intense labor
46. THETHE GRACEGRACE
OF OUR LORDOF OUR LORD
JESUS CHRISTJESUS CHRIST
BE WITH YOU ALL AMEN.BE WITH YOU ALL AMEN.
Revelation 22:21Revelation 22:21
62. Dear Dad:
I read your gift. Why do you do
that do me? Yes I cried. But don’t get
all suppy and mushy.
I’m forever sorry for not helping you
when you needed it. That will change.
Things can be different now. Thank
you for trying over and over again, to
be the best father that you can be. I
love you. Please hold my hand forever.
Jonathan (the music you are listening to)
64. ““One walking in grace accepts people onOne walking in grace accepts people on
the basis of unconditional acceptance.the basis of unconditional acceptance.
This doesn’t suggest a blanket approval ofThis doesn’t suggest a blanket approval of
all behavior, but grace allows one to loveall behavior, but grace allows one to love
others regardless of their actions. Peopleothers regardless of their actions. People
influenced by the curse set out to changeinfluenced by the curse set out to change
what peoplewhat people do.do. Grace looks beyondGrace looks beyond
what others do and affirms them for whowhat others do and affirms them for who
theythey are,are, encouraging them to live up toencouraging them to live up to
their identity in Christ. People influencedtheir identity in Christ. People influenced
by the curse heap guilt and shame onby the curse heap guilt and shame on
those who fail to measure up. A graciousthose who fail to measure up. A gracious
Christian loves unconditionally.”Christian loves unconditionally.”
Grace WalkGrace Walk by Steve McVeyby Steve McVey
65. 20 Bill20 Bill
Recently, the Lord gave me a wonderful opportunity to demonstrate theRecently, the Lord gave me a wonderful opportunity to demonstrate the
power of His awesome grace to one of my sons.power of His awesome grace to one of my sons.
This son phoned me at the bookstore one day and said, "Guess what,This son phoned me at the bookstore one day and said, "Guess what,
mom... I found a $20 bill in the pocket of one of my pairs of shorts."mom... I found a $20 bill in the pocket of one of my pairs of shorts."
Immediately I discerned that what he was telling me probably wasn't theImmediately I discerned that what he was telling me probably wasn't the
truth. But I congratulated him on finding the lost money and wetruth. But I congratulated him on finding the lost money and we
speculated that it was probably some forgotten birthday money. End ofspeculated that it was probably some forgotten birthday money. End of
phone call.phone call.
When I hung up the phone with him I tried to remind myself to check inWhen I hung up the phone with him I tried to remind myself to check in
a drawer at home to see if a $20 bill was still there. It is a drawer thata drawer at home to see if a $20 bill was still there. It is a drawer that
the older boys know about... where my husband and I stash extra cashthe older boys know about... where my husband and I stash extra cash
for emergencies.for emergencies.
That night I forgot to check, but a few days later I remembered and sawThat night I forgot to check, but a few days later I remembered and saw
that it was missing. My husband hadn't taken any money from it... andthat it was missing. My husband hadn't taken any money from it... and
money had never been missing before. I knew I had to talk to my son. money had never been missing before. I knew I had to talk to my son.
What a flashback to my childhood!!What a flashback to my childhood!!
My son was from my blood, for sure. But he didn't have the desperate,My son was from my blood, for sure. But he didn't have the desperate,
driving need for money that I thought I had as a child... or did he? Idriving need for money that I thought I had as a child... or did he? I
remembered the guilt and shame... and the loss of trust with my parentsremembered the guilt and shame... and the loss of trust with my parents
as I stole time and again and was caught and disciplined for it. Ias I stole time and again and was caught and disciplined for it. I
remembered how it felt... how I knew I lost their trust so I didn't careremembered how it felt... how I knew I lost their trust so I didn't care
after awhile... Oh, no. I don't want my dear son feeling that way orafter awhile... Oh, no. I don't want my dear son feeling that way or
taking that path!taking that path!
66. I brought him into a quiet room away from his brothersI brought him into a quiet room away from his brothers
and we sat down together. I told him I wanted to tell himand we sat down together. I told him I wanted to tell him
a story... and I proceeded to tell him about when I was aa story... and I proceeded to tell him about when I was a
little girl and I had taken a $10 bill from my mother'slittle girl and I had taken a $10 bill from my mother's
wallet. My mother found the money missing very shortlywallet. My mother found the money missing very shortly
afterward and was distraught. It was the only money weafterward and was distraught. It was the only money we
had for groceries that week! I felt so terrible... and Ihad for groceries that week! I felt so terrible... and I
really wanted to return the money. But how? I decidedreally wanted to return the money. But how? I decided
to make up a story to cover my sin. I went outside toto make up a story to cover my sin. I went outside to
where the sprinkler was watering the lawn and Iwhere the sprinkler was watering the lawn and I
pretended to find the money under the sprinkler. I wentpretended to find the money under the sprinkler. I went
in the house, triumphant that I had "found" the (now wet)in the house, triumphant that I had "found" the (now wet)
missing money, eager to hand it over to my distraughtmissing money, eager to hand it over to my distraught
mother and make things right again.mother and make things right again.
Much to my dismay, I was met with an angry parent whoMuch to my dismay, I was met with an angry parent who
vowed that I was lying... that I had stolen the money...vowed that I was lying... that I had stolen the money...
and that I could never be trusted. I sank deeper into myand that I could never be trusted. I sank deeper into my
sin, believing that I might as well be what she claimed Isin, believing that I might as well be what she claimed I
was. It didn't matter anymore.was. It didn't matter anymore.
I knew that I wanted this encounter with my son to beI knew that I wanted this encounter with my son to be
very, very different. So I told him the story while holdingvery, very different. So I told him the story while holding
him in my arms and rubbing his back. Then I let himhim in my arms and rubbing his back. Then I let him
know that I was missing $20 and I asked if it wasknow that I was missing $20 and I asked if it was
possibly the $20 that he had found in his pocket. Hepossibly the $20 that he had found in his pocket. He
immediately said, "No, mom... I did find that in myimmediately said, "No, mom... I did find that in my
67. I was so pleased that God was in control!!! It was at this point that I got theI was so pleased that God was in control!!! It was at this point that I got the
awesome opportunity to heal a great wrong in my life... simply by treating myawesome opportunity to heal a great wrong in my life... simply by treating my
son (in his sin) the way that I had only dreamed of being treated.son (in his sin) the way that I had only dreamed of being treated.
I said to him, "I BELIEVE you."I said to him, "I BELIEVE you."
I hugged him and sent him on his way.I hugged him and sent him on his way.
Later that night I mentioned to him that we needed to put the $20 up on hisLater that night I mentioned to him that we needed to put the $20 up on his
"chart." We keep a running account of the younger children's money on a"chart." We keep a running account of the younger children's money on a
chart on the refrigerator. Then we keep the cash for them so they don't losechart on the refrigerator. Then we keep the cash for them so they don't lose
it. They do this by choice, and he had already given me the $20 bill the dayit. They do this by choice, and he had already given me the $20 bill the day
he had called me to say he had found it in his pocket. They usually keephe had called me to say he had found it in his pocket. They usually keep
smaller amounts in their wallets, but the bigger amounts they give back to ussmaller amounts in their wallets, but the bigger amounts they give back to us
and write up on their "account."and write up on their "account."
I had joyfully written the $20 entry on his account. I felt such peace... suchI had joyfully written the $20 entry on his account. I felt such peace... such
joy. Conviction of sin was up to the Holy Spirit alone!! I had done the onlyjoy. Conviction of sin was up to the Holy Spirit alone!! I had done the only
job required of me... I had lavished "prodigal" grace on my son.job required of me... I had lavished "prodigal" grace on my son.
I call it prodigal grace because prodigal means "reckless, lavish, wasteful." I call it prodigal grace because prodigal means "reckless, lavish, wasteful."
The father in the parable of the "prodigal son" was actually the one who wasThe father in the parable of the "prodigal son" was actually the one who was
reckless, lavish, and wasteful!! He "wasted" the fatted calf on his waywardreckless, lavish, and wasteful!! He "wasted" the fatted calf on his wayward
son; he "lavished" an undeserved gift of a robe and a ring. He recklessly ranson; he "lavished" an undeserved gift of a robe and a ring. He recklessly ran
down the road to meet him. He poured out unconditional love. Yes -- that isdown the road to meet him. He poured out unconditional love. Yes -- that is
what I lacked as a child. That is what I wanted my son, yet in hiswhat I lacked as a child. That is what I wanted my son, yet in his
unrepentant sin, to experience.unrepentant sin, to experience.
A few hours later I was preparing to read aloud a book to the boys. MyA few hours later I was preparing to read aloud a book to the boys. My
heartbroken son came into the room and burst into tears at my side. Iheartbroken son came into the room and burst into tears at my side. I
hugged him. I asked him if he would like to tell me something.hugged him. I asked him if he would like to tell me something.
"Yes...", he stammered, "I.... I did take that money out of your drawer, Mom.""Yes...", he stammered, "I.... I did take that money out of your drawer, Mom."
What joy in my heart to see the Holy Spirit bring about the work ofWhat joy in my heart to see the Holy Spirit bring about the work of
repentance totally unhindered by me!!!repentance totally unhindered by me!!!
68. I said this to him...”Oh, my dear son... I LOVE you. I am so proud ofI said this to him...”Oh, my dear son... I LOVE you. I am so proud of
you for telling me the truth. That took SO much courage. I believedyou for telling me the truth. That took SO much courage. I believed
you when you told me that you didn't take the money because I reallyyou when you told me that you didn't take the money because I really
trust you. I'm so glad I can trust you to tell me the truth. I know thattrust you. I'm so glad I can trust you to tell me the truth. I know that
was a hard thing to do.was a hard thing to do.
I do want you to know something. All that I have is yours. If you everI do want you to know something. All that I have is yours. If you ever
feel like you need money you just come and tell me. I don't ever wantfeel like you need money you just come and tell me. I don't ever want
you to feel like you have to steal.you to feel like you have to steal.
And I want you to keep that money... I don't want it back. I'm just soAnd I want you to keep that money... I don't want it back. I'm just so
glad you let the Holy Spirit work in your heart."glad you let the Holy Spirit work in your heart."
Yes... I wanted him to keep the money. And no one else in ourYes... I wanted him to keep the money. And no one else in our
household knows what happened. I covered over his sin for a very goodhousehold knows what happened. I covered over his sin for a very good
purpose --- so that he will never forget what that kind of love feels like.purpose --- so that he will never forget what that kind of love feels like.
I don't believe I'll ever deal with this issue with him again. And for thatI don't believe I'll ever deal with this issue with him again. And for that
very reason... it was worth it to be a prodigal mom.very reason... it was worth it to be a prodigal mom.
God's love is so radical toward us... so incredibly unbelievable!! WeGod's love is so radical toward us... so incredibly unbelievable!! We
were ungodly, we were sinners, we were enemies.were ungodly, we were sinners, we were enemies.
One will hardly die for a righteousOne will hardly die for a righteous
man; though perhaps for the goodman; though perhaps for the good
man someone would dare even toman someone would dare even to
die. But God demonstrates His owndie. But God demonstrates His own
love toward us, in that while we werelove toward us, in that while we were
yet sinners, Christ died for us.yet sinners, Christ died for us.
(Romans 5:7-8)(Romans 5:7-8)
Won't you show a little of that "amazing grace" to your undeservingWon't you show a little of that "amazing grace" to your undeserving
child today,child today,
HeatherHeather
69. Does Grace Really Work?Does Grace Really Work?
Dear Mr. Hamby,Dear Mr. Hamby,
……When our first child was born 7 years ago, IWhen our first child was born 7 years ago, I
looked and looked for Christian teaching onlooked and looked for Christian teaching on
discipline and raising godly children. I settled on adiscipline and raising godly children. I settled on a
"first-time obedience" approach that was popular."first-time obedience" approach that was popular.
My husband willingly went along with it, being asMy husband willingly went along with it, being as
uncertain as I was about how to raise godlyuncertain as I was about how to raise godly
children.children.
70. I carried a lot of anger and resentment toward myI carried a lot of anger and resentment toward my
children. I viewed their disobedience as a personalchildren. I viewed their disobedience as a personal
offense against me. I was exasperated by their lackoffense against me. I was exasperated by their lack
of self-control and emotions. My oldest daughter isof self-control and emotions. My oldest daughter is
very strong-willed, and her temper tantrums werevery strong-willed, and her temper tantrums were
outrageous. The tantrums were not used as a tool tooutrageous. The tantrums were not used as a tool to
get attention in public or to manipulate me, but theyget attention in public or to manipulate me, but they
were always directed at me (rarely her father)… Herwere always directed at me (rarely her father)… Her
behavior outside of the home was impeccable. Itbehavior outside of the home was impeccable. It
made it very hard to talk with anyone about thismade it very hard to talk with anyone about this
problem.problem.
71. No one believed there WAS a problem, or passedNo one believed there WAS a problem, or passed
it off as an isolated incident or a “stage.” And noit off as an isolated incident or a “stage.” And no
one ever, ever challenged me to remove the logone ever, ever challenged me to remove the log
in my own eye. She did not sleep well at nightin my own eye. She did not sleep well at night
since very early on. She was defiant and talkedsince very early on. She was defiant and talked
back a lot. My daughter never completed a choreback a lot. My daughter never completed a chore
without intervention from me. She waswithout intervention from me. She was
determined to have her say when corrected. Itdetermined to have her say when corrected. It
was an uphill battle all the time, and quite frankly Iwas an uphill battle all the time, and quite frankly I
didn't enjoy her at all.didn't enjoy her at all.
72. ……I had found a discipline style that suitedI had found a discipline style that suited meme
early on...early on...butbut I had not truly searched theI had not truly searched the
scriptures to find how to reach my children’sscriptures to find how to reach my children’s
hearts. While I thought I was following God'shearts. While I thought I was following God's
lead, I realize that I had my own agenda and itlead, I realize that I had my own agenda and it
was a self-righteous one that didn't require me towas a self-righteous one that didn't require me to
change. I wasn't willing to consider that mychange. I wasn't willing to consider that my
convictions were selfish ones. I confessed myconvictions were selfish ones. I confessed my
sin to the Lord and began to show moresin to the Lord and began to show more
tenderness and self-control with my daughter. Itenderness and self-control with my daughter. I
still fell into the old ways often, though.still fell into the old ways often, though.
73. I could have put my name in your place. II could have put my name in your place. I
was ALWAYS correcting my daughter,was ALWAYS correcting my daughter,
ALWAYS finding fault with her endeavors,ALWAYS finding fault with her endeavors,
ALWAYS saying her name in a way thatALWAYS saying her name in a way that
implied disapproval or correction, ALWAYSimplied disapproval or correction, ALWAYS
fussing about undone chores. I had placedfussing about undone chores. I had placed
responsibility over relationship. I had a childresponsibility over relationship. I had a child
who was fearful of my correction - that's thewho was fearful of my correction - that's the
root of the sleep problem, and the reason forroot of the sleep problem, and the reason for
her unwillingness to try so many things. Iher unwillingness to try so many things. I
was not casting out fear with love.was not casting out fear with love.
74. ……I realized that little Sarah had very little chance ofI realized that little Sarah had very little chance of
earning my approval. I stopped getting angry everyearning my approval. I stopped getting angry every
time a simple chore was left undone. I stoppedtime a simple chore was left undone. I stopped
spanking. I stopped lecturing. I started cleaning herspanking. I stopped lecturing. I started cleaning her
toys up outside without asking her to help. I wenttoys up outside without asking her to help. I went
upstairs and made her bed in the morning. Sheupstairs and made her bed in the morning. She
spent a Saturday morning with me to run errands. Ispent a Saturday morning with me to run errands. I
asked her what she wanted to do, and that's whatasked her what she wanted to do, and that's what
we did. The errands got done another day. Shewe did. The errands got done another day. She
loves flowers and gardens; I bought her a ton ofloves flowers and gardens; I bought her a ton of
seed packets and helped her plant them. She lovesseed packets and helped her plant them. She loves
to paint; I started painting with her several times ato paint; I started painting with her several times a
week. I started hanging a butterfly on her closetweek. I started hanging a butterfly on her closet
door at night after she fell asleep, so if she woke updoor at night after she fell asleep, so if she woke up
she would KNOW that I had kept my promise toshe would KNOW that I had kept my promise to
check on her. I started hugging and kissing hercheck on her. I started hugging and kissing her
intentionally.intentionally.
75. In a matter of days, the most remarkable thingIn a matter of days, the most remarkable thing
happened. I was doing some cleaning, and Ihappened. I was doing some cleaning, and I
asked my youngest to do a small chore, whichasked my youngest to do a small chore, which
she did willingly. Without my asking for help,she did willingly. Without my asking for help,
Sarah set about doing chores—big chores thatSarah set about doing chores—big chores that
required a lot of effort on her part. She dusted,required a lot of effort on her part. She dusted,
swept, and washed dishes. She straightenedswept, and washed dishes. She straightened
up and put things away properly. It was then Iup and put things away properly. It was then I
realized what a different child she had become.realized what a different child she had become.
She sleeps better at night. She laughs more,She sleeps better at night. She laughs more,
and she is not as angry.and she is not as angry.
76. She takes offenses from her younger sisterShe takes offenses from her younger sister
better. She handles disappointment with gracebetter. She handles disappointment with grace
and not anger. She says “yes ma'am” and “noand not anger. She says “yes ma'am” and “no
ma'am” consistently. She accepts myma'am” consistently. She accepts my
correction willingly and changes her behaviorcorrection willingly and changes her behavior
when necessary. She cleans up her outdoorwhen necessary. She cleans up her outdoor
toys without being told. She wants me to readtoys without being told. She wants me to read
to her now instead of just tolerating it. And bestto her now instead of just tolerating it. And best
of all, she has started talking about the thingsof all, she has started talking about the things
that are in her heart, and she wants ME to hearthat are in her heart, and she wants ME to hear
them.them.
77. When I started trying to disciple Sarah the wayWhen I started trying to disciple Sarah the way
Jesus would, she bloomed. She is a joy to beJesus would, she bloomed. She is a joy to be
with, and I have lost my anger and impatience.with, and I have lost my anger and impatience.
When those feelings do try and creep to theWhen those feelings do try and creep to the
surface I can label them, confess them, andsurface I can label them, confess them, and
deal with them before they control me.deal with them before they control me.
…God allows us to remember our sins, not so…God allows us to remember our sins, not so
we condemn ourselves repeatedly, but so wewe condemn ourselves repeatedly, but so we
can show others what he has delivered uscan show others what he has delivered us
from. …Our God is a GREAT God.from. …Our God is a GREAT God.
78. And He shall turn the hearts ofAnd He shall turn the hearts of
the Fathers to the children,the Fathers to the children,
And the heart of the childrenAnd the heart of the children
to their fathers,to their fathers,
Lest I come and smite theLest I come and smite the
earth with aearth with a
CURSE!
Malachi 4:6Malachi 4:6
79. “…“…to turn the hearts of theto turn the hearts of the
fathers to the children, andfathers to the children, and
the disobedient to thethe disobedient to the
wisdom of the just, to makewisdom of the just, to make
ready a people prepared forready a people prepared for
the Lord.”the Lord.”
Luke 1:17Luke 1:17
80. Jesus looked so wearyJesus looked so weary
From the worries of the dayFrom the worries of the day
But the look of His face lightedBut the look of His face lighted
When the children came his wayWhen the children came his way
But before He could reach out to themBut before He could reach out to them
And join them in their playAnd join them in their play
His grown up band of followersHis grown up band of followers
Told the kids to go away.Told the kids to go away.
Let The Children Come
By Michael Card
81. Chorus:Chorus:
Let the children comeLet the children come
Don’t dare drive them awayDon’t dare drive them away
In them the kingdom comesIn them the kingdom comes
Hear the holy, foolish things they sayHear the holy, foolish things they say
The springtime of their life decidesThe springtime of their life decides
The adults they’ll becomeThe adults they’ll become
So let the children,So let the children,
Please let the children come.Please let the children come.
82. A bruised reed he shall notA bruised reed he shall not
break, and smoking flaxbreak, and smoking flax
shall he not quench…shall he not quench…
Matthew 12:20Matthew 12:20
(prisoners)(prisoners)
83. The golden gift of childhood lastsThe golden gift of childhood lasts
A lifetime if you tryA lifetime if you try
The simple trusting faith they ownThe simple trusting faith they own
Keeps the scholars mystifiedKeeps the scholars mystified
And so the Lord adopts usAnd so the Lord adopts us
As His daughters and His sonsAs His daughters and His sons
For the kingdom is for childrenFor the kingdom is for children
So, please let the children come.So, please let the children come.
84. Chorus:Chorus:
Let the children comeLet the children come
Don’t dare drive them awayDon’t dare drive them away
In them the kingdom comesIn them the kingdom comes
Hear the holy, foolish things they sayHear the holy, foolish things they say
The springtime of their life decidesThe springtime of their life decides
The adults they’ll becomeThe adults they’ll become
So let the children,So let the children,
Please let the children come.Please let the children come.
86. During the Peloponnesian War,During the Peloponnesian War,
Thucydides wrote,Thucydides wrote,
““There is no need to supposeThere is no need to suppose
that human beings differ verythat human beings differ very
much one from another:much one from another:
but it is true that the ones whobut it is true that the ones who
come out on top are the onescome out on top are the ones
who have been trainedwho have been trained
in the hardest school.”in the hardest school.”
87. ““Though he were a son, yetThough he were a son, yet
learned he obedience bylearned he obedience by
the things which hethe things which he
suffered.”suffered.”
Hebrews 5:8Hebrews 5:8
88. Take my yoke upon youTake my yoke upon you
and learn of me; for I amand learn of me; for I am
meek and lowly in heart:meek and lowly in heart:
and you shall find rest untoand you shall find rest unto
your souls.your souls.
Matthew 11:29Matthew 11:29
89. Fund DevelopmentFund Development
CounselCounsel
Dear Mr. Hamby,
I just wanted to express my gratitude. Teddy’s Button has
captivated my class of 4th graders like no other book I’ve ever read.
I’ve prayed with two of them that WERE Christians to “become
true soldiers” and it does such a clear job of expressing the true war
we are in. Thank you for finding and restoring this treasure!!
God Bless you, Betsy Linnell
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Dear Mark,
I just went through your latest Lamplighter and felt inspired to
write...you! On behalf of my wife and nine children (ranging in
ages from 21 to 2), I would like to thank you for the high quality
(academic, spiritual, and [even] graphic) books you publish.
Please be encouraged in your efforts.
Sincerely, Craig Funston
90.
91. Two Warnings:
1. Eph 6:4 – provoke not
- proximity, alongside, lit. from side of.
- to be passionate, enrage, to anger
(from root word orgy - violent passions and
perverted sexual relationships) abhorrence,
vengeance, wrath, punishment.
Remedy: bring them up –
to nurture, rearing to maturity, to cherish, train,
nourish, reference to nursing.
92. Two Warnings:
1.Col 3:21 – provoke not
(root word ) to stimulate, irritate, embitter,
rouse to anger or fight, to be quarrelsome,
perverse, to make resentful, to stir up for combat,
i.e. to excite a bull for the arena.
- a child frequently irritated by over-
severity or injustice to which, nevertheless, must
submit, acquires a spirit of sullen resignation
leading to despair. (Abbott)
93. Two Warnings:
Lest they be discouraged:
from the root word - passion, fierce
indignation, breathe hard, smoke, slaughter,
sacrifice, kill, slay.
- negative particle that denotes without
passion, spiritless.
94. Progressive Warning and
Consequence:
In Ephesians, there is a warning with a
remedy.
The child has a spirit to fight back.
In Colossians, there is a warning with
consequences.
The child has lost his spirit.
95.
96. “Fathers should not, therefore, drive
their children to exasperation or
resentment. This would rule out
excessive discipline, unreasonable
hard demands, arbitrariness, constant
nagging and condemnation, and any
gross insensitivity to children’s
sensibilities that would break their
spirit and make them listless and
unresponsive.”
98. Two JourneysTwo Journeys
Compulsatory
Self Protective
Journey 1
Journey 2
Other Governed Existence
(Problem Focus Approach)
Christ Governed Existence
(Person Focus Approach)
Self Governing
Existence
Christ Centered
Existence
99. ““The Lord is merciful and gracious, slowThe Lord is merciful and gracious, slow
to anger, and plenteous in mercy.”to anger, and plenteous in mercy.”
““He hath not dealt with us after our sins;He hath not dealt with us after our sins;
nor rewarded us according to ournor rewarded us according to our
iniquities.”iniquities.”
““Like as a father has compassion on hisLike as a father has compassion on his
children, so the Lord has compassion onchildren, so the Lord has compassion on
them that fear him.”them that fear him.”
Psalm 103:8, 10, 13Psalm 103:8, 10, 13
100. Just wanted to let you know I finished reading "Giant Killer" to
my kids last weekend and started Basket of Flowers Sunday
Night. We are really enjoying these books. Last night my kids
had the choice of watching a half an hour of TV, playing video
games for half an hour or having me read an extra half an hour to
them and they chose reading a Lamplighter book. They knew I
was going to read to them at bedtime anyway, but still chose the
extra half hour of "story time". I was very excited to have my 9, 7,
5 and one of our neighbors kids (also 5) all want to sit around my
living room while I read a couple chapters of Basket of Flowers. If
they could have stayed awake, we would have read until
midnight. They love this book and so do I. Your ministry is having
a tremendous, positive effect on me and my family. Grace is
flourishing in our home.
George
101. Dear Mark:
I will tell you that my children love the lamplighter
books. Thursday, I had a day off from work and we
read most of The Little Lamb together on the couch. I
think I had intended to read a couple chapters, but the
children kept saying “another chapter, please!”, so we
kept reading. It was a wonderful relationship building
day. So, I see the immense value these books hold.
Anything that can keep a 5 year old daughter snuggled
by her daddy on the couch is a wonderful thing!
Jason Southerland
102. The Hidden Hand reveals every emotion known to
mankind. The reader follows anxiously after the
adventures of Capitola to see what lies ahead.
The saddest part of this book is when you
discover there are no more pages to read!
Mark, I can’t see how a movie based on this book
would not be a big success! Go for it!!
JR
103. As an avid reader and a professional educator for 35
years, I found myself with a renewed passion for the
impact of great literature. In four days, I read five of
them. I was addicted to these books. I was so inspired
that I called Lamplighter to talk with someone who
could understand what this experience was like.
I find myself unable to stop.
I introduced my 82-year-old mother and she is reading
non-stop. I found myself jealous of her.
It is easy to become spiritually weary in Christian service.
These books have spiritually revitalized me.
Dr. Carolyn Brock,, Houston, TX
104. June 6, 2005
Dear Mr. Hamby,
In February of this year you visited the CHALC graduating class of Lancaster,
PA. I was so impressed by what you said about your books that I purchased all
fourteen sets. All four of my children have been reading them, but my daughter,
I believe, has been affected by them more than my three sons.
Writing has always been difficult for my daughter because of her dyslexia;
however, depth of thought has always been present. Lately, I have noticed that
her writing has changed. The way she words her thoughts on every
composition piece reminds me of writings of people from way back in the 1800s.
One day I asked her, “This writing is good, Jen, how do you do this?”
Her answer amazed me, and you would have chuckled to see her. With
shoulders square and lifted, she stretched her 17-year-old, five-foot frame, loftily
tiled her nose to the sky, closed her eyes purposefully, and pressed her
fingertips deeply into her chest. With an unquestionable finality, she answered,
“I (and she tossed her head backward) read Lamplighter books!”
I showed Jen’s latest compositioning to her writing teacher. She, too, noticed
the change and became very enthusiastic about guiding Jen to develop this new
found talent. I have no doubt that Jen will take her writing places that no one
ever dreamed she had the ability to go. Thanks, Mr. Hamby!
Jen’s very pleased mother,
Dora Messner
105. Dear Mark,
My wife and I read The Hidden Hand to each other
over a two-week period, and we both agree that it is one
of the finest books we have ever read. As a follower of
Jesus Christ, I was especially encouraged by the
providence of God that is "seen" throughout the book,
thus the title. The divine appointments of the Spirit-led
life make me smile and give me great joy.
God bless you, Mark, and your ministry. Thank
you for the treasure of The Hidden Hand!
In Christ, Bill Ketts (Jeremiah 10:23)
106. A bruised reed he shall notA bruised reed he shall not
break, and smoking flaxbreak, and smoking flax
shall he not quench…shall he not quench…
Matthew 12:20Matthew 12:20
(prisoners)(prisoners)
107. Sarah Edwards knew how to make her children regard and
obey her cheerfully, without loud angry words, much less
heavy blows. She seldom punished them, and in speaking to
them, used gentle and pleasant words. If any correction was
necessary, she did not administer it in passion; when she had
occasion to reprove and rebuke she would do it in few
words, without noise; she had need to speak but once; she
was cheerfully obeyed because she convinced her children of the
reasonableness of her request; murmuring and answer again were
not known among them. The kind and gentle treatment they
received from their mother, while she strictly and
punctiliously maintained her parental authority, seemed
naturally to…promote a filial respect and affection, and to
lead them to a mild, tender treatment of each other.
Quarrelling and contention, which too frequently take place
among children, were in her family unknown.
108. She carefully observed the first appearance of
resentment and ill will in her young children…
showed her displeasure and suppressed it to the
uttermost; yet not by angry, wrathful words, which
often provoke children to wrath…Her system of
discipline was begun at a very early age and it was
her rule to resist the first, as well as every
subsequent exhibition of temper or disobedience in
the child…wisely reflecting that until a child will obey
his parents he can never be brought to obey God.
Samuel Hopkins, in Marriage to a Difficult Man, the Uncommon
Union of Jonathan and Sarah Edwards.
109. Hello Mark,
In January of 2006 I ordered sixteen books to increase our
Lamplighter library. Within a week I read six books. The next
week I read another six. The impact these books had on my life
was astounding. I felt myself draw closer to our Almighty God
and experienced His love and grace through these powerful
stories. My character also became more Christ-like through the
inspiration of the characters in the books. Mary and her father
(The Basket of Flowers), Gertie (The Lamplighter), and Musdale
and Daddy Ragsdale (The Open Door) have inspired me to be a
more devoted Christ follower, more appreciative of my husband
with an increased desire to meet his needs, and more sensitive,
compassionate and loving towards our children. Thank you for
making these books available to us and the countless others in
the world. May God bless you as you forward His Kingdom.
Appreciatively,
Terra
110. Dear Lamplighter,
I am 12 years old and wanted to express my feelings
towards The Hidden Hand, Ishmael and Self-Raised. The
Hidden Hand is the best book I have ever read. All the
suspense, humor, action and godliness make it #1 on my
list. I was absolutely inspired by this book. I also was
captivated by the purity, humbleness, and servant-heart of
Ishmael. I could not put it down. These three books have
influenced me and my parents greatly. I am sure they will
be in the library in heaven!
One of your many fans,
Michelle
P.S. I lent The Hidden Hand to my grandfather who is
recovering from heart surgery. Reading the book led to a
spiritual renewal in his life. He has since bought 2 copies for
his brother and sister!
111. Mark,
I just felt the need to drop you a note of thanks today for your and Lamplighter
Publishing's efforts with the Rare Collector books. The first book we ever purchased
was "Teddy's Button" a few years back at the NCHE conference in Winston Salem, NC.
We read this book as a family. As a pastor, I also had many in my church read this
book. For the past several years, my wife and I have been purchasing Rare Collector
books for our children's personal libraries when they are ready to leave home. I have
read many of these books that we purchased for them. I told my wife they are going to
have to leave those books in my home and visit us in order to read them. Two of the
books that I read recently were "Ishmael" and "Self-Raised." I have this morning
finished reading "Self-Raised." I am so glad I bought both of these books together. As
soon as I finished "Ishmael," I began reading "Self-Raised." That book caused a flood
of emotions to arise from my heart. At one point, you find yourself nearly in tears, and
then at other times, you are nearly laughing aloud. Those books are so suspenseful
and at the same time weave a biblical message. To me, it is a story of perseverance as
Ishmael faces adversity, but with God's help, there is absolutely nothing that he cannot
accomplish. Young people today need role models such as Ishmael Worth, who live life
according to the Word of God and depend upon Him for every need.
I have never read a bad Rare Collector book. To be honest, it is hard to label
one as better than the others. I cannot wait to begin another one of these wonderful
books. I am not sure where you guys find such books to publish, but please keep up
the good work.
God bless you and Lamplighter Publishing, ,Pastor Jeff McCann, NC
112. Susan,
We received the order just this morning, and my son and I
have already read the Hedge of Thorns; we could not wait!
We were so pleased to find the story to be everything we
have heard and read about. What a blessing! Additionally,
the embossed book covers are exquisite! We are looking
forward to collecting more wonderful works of your Christian
literature for our son's library. Hence, I have also found a
wonderful gift idea for my great nieces and nephews!
What a blessing you are to all of the families who want
character-building literature for their children! The
contemporary writings found in the local bookstores ( I loathe
to call it "literature") are simply frightening. Thanks to all of
the staff at Lamplighter for seeking and answering the need
for quality literature for the families of this country, when our
country is so aimlessly wandering further and further from the
teachings of our Great God. God bless everyone at
Lamplighter Publishing!
Sincerely, Colleen
113. Dear Mr. Hamby,
I started reading The Hidden Hand last night and stayed up
until three o'clock in the morning reading because I simply
could not put it down. I finished it the next day. The Hidden
Hand is on my top list of favorite books. I would love to be
more like role models in this book. They have also improved
my writing style and my vocabulary…
Rachel
“My wife and I read the Hidden Hand and believe it is the
finest book we’ve ever read!” Bill
“Not only was I profoundly moved, but half way through
Ishmael, I set the book aside so I could savor it a little longer.
I did not have the same self control with its sequel, Self
Raised. Thank you for offering these literary gems. I continue
to recommend these to books to everyone.” Nicole
114. My 14 year old daughter's life has
been extremely transformed as a
result of "The Lamplighter", House
of Love, The Wide Wide World, and
countless others. We value these
books more than our food. No joke.
Thanks a million!!!
About My Father's Business,
Joan
115. Dear Mr. Hamby,Dear Mr. Hamby,
I have read a handful of books in the LamplighterI have read a handful of books in the Lamplighter
Rare Collector Series and have not beenRare Collector Series and have not been
disappointed yet! My children also have loveddisappointed yet! My children also have loved
each book we have read. My all-time favorite haseach book we have read. My all-time favorite has
been Helen’s Temper. I have two girls who arebeen Helen’s Temper. I have two girls who are
very similar to Betty and Louisa; this was evidentvery similar to Betty and Louisa; this was evident
after finishing the book when one daughter shedafter finishing the book when one daughter shed
an obligatory tear and the other cried for nearlyan obligatory tear and the other cried for nearly
and hour. It has been a great tool to remind them,and hour. It has been a great tool to remind them,
as well as myself, to check our attitudes. Are weas well as myself, to check our attitudes. Are we
being a Betty or Louisa? As a family we arebeing a Betty or Louisa? As a family we are
enjoying each book tremendously.enjoying each book tremendously.
Sincerely,Sincerely,
J. C.J. C.
116. Jonathan:
I'll try to keep it short but it will be difficult. To say I am sorry does not express what I would like to
say to you. I do not know a word that can properly reveal my anguish of heart. To treat you as I
have I feel so blind; rather retarded, and totally numb.
That's a good description; insensitive; controlling (nothing new),
miserable (especially during Thanksgiving and Christmas, and I don’t know why! Stress,
pressure…). There are a host of words I can choose. you get the picture.
My desire for you to turn out godly and My desire for you to
succeed, but this has outweighed my unconditional love for you. This is not good and has been the
source of conflict. My desire is also called blind selfishness. Jonathan, if you turn out ok it will be a
miracle! I have been so damaging to you. Someone should have given me a powerful sleeping pill
and woken me up after you had children. Now, before you think I am the only one guilty in all of
this, you know better. Some of your actions and words have been very provocative. However, if
you can begin to see a real change in me, you will know that you too can have victory by God's
grace. Son, I am determined by God's grace that you are about to experience the father that you
dreamed for. Now I know that it is easy to say these things but I am beginning to understanding
something that I didn't understand before. I have been fighting you, when I should have been
praying for you. I have been responding in anger when you needed understanding. I, I, I , I , I have
fallen….but a just man falls down seven times and rises again. I am determined by God’s grace to
rise so you will have a father to follow. May your heart heal and may your spirit experience
unshackled freedom. I am committed to just being there for you when you need me. No judgment,
no nothing (unless you get an earring or tatoo! that might
get things stirred a little!):) In closing one finance lesson: you need to accumulate assetts. The only
assett to your name is your first album. worth about 4,000 today. Do another one and you double
it! simple math. let me know if you want to do this over Christmas.
I love you, Dad
117. “Within a week I read six Lamplighter books. The next week I
read another six. The impact these books had on my life was
astounding. Terra”
“I intended to read a couple chapters of Little Lamb, but the
children kept saying “another chapter, please!” It was a
wonderful relationship building day. I see the immense value
these books hold. Anything that can keep a 5 year old
daughter snuggled by her daddy on the couch is pure gold!
Jason”
“Lamplighter books are having a tremendous effect on me and
my family. Grace is flourishing in our home. George”
“My wife and I read the Hidden Hand and believe it is the finest
book we’ve ever read!” Bill
118. “I was profoundly touched by the book True to the Last. I
COULD NOT put it down. When I finished, I was sobbing.
My prayer after reading this was, “Lord, make me more like
you...”
“Dear Lamplighter: I am at my desk at work and I am in
tears. It’s more than I could describe.
Lamplighter, Every teenager in the world needs to read
Hand on the Bridle…if I had read that when I was a young
teen it would have changed the direction of my life!
The book White Knights is the best book for boys we have
ever found. In fact, we are writing parts of the story on their
bedroom walls! Thank you for supplying us with godly role
models!
119. “Dear Mark, I wanted you to know that my 7-year-old
daughter prayed that the Good Shepherd would find her
after she listened to A Peep Behind the Scenes. Two
weeks later she came to us and said the Good Shepherd
had found her. So I can say first hand that the Lord is using
the stories to draw people to himself.”
“Dear Mr. Hamby, Lamplighter’s ministry of building
character one story at a time has been greatly used by God.
The Lamplighter books and dramas have had a huge effect
on our family.”
“Mark, we’re listening to Lamplighter Theatre and we’re
hanging on every word as well as moved to tears. We hope
and pray that God provides the resources necessary to
keep this part of your ministry going - it’s a great blessing!”
125. Tasting the Miracles Tasting the Miracles
My brothers and sisters in Christ, I invite you to join me behind the scenes toMy brothers and sisters in Christ, I invite you to join me behind the scenes to
experience the miracles. This is about much more thanexperience the miracles. This is about much more than
books, seminars, dramas, radio, and the Guild. Children are coming to Christ andbooks, seminars, dramas, radio, and the Guild. Children are coming to Christ and
adults are learning to endure adversity as God's assignment for trueadults are learning to endure adversity as God's assignment for true
transformation. Missionaries in Muslim countries are being encouraged, tribes intransformation. Missionaries in Muslim countries are being encouraged, tribes in
Uganda are sitting around the radio hearing the uniqueness of Christ's law of love,Uganda are sitting around the radio hearing the uniqueness of Christ's law of love,
children in Singapore are learning to speak English while at the same time learningchildren in Singapore are learning to speak English while at the same time learning
that they need a Savior, women in India are finding hope as they're rescued fromthat they need a Savior, women in India are finding hope as they're rescued from
despair, parents are learning that humility is the foundation for authority, and sodespair, parents are learning that humility is the foundation for authority, and so
much more . . . so much more! My desire is to keep filling the pots with water andmuch more . . . so much more! My desire is to keep filling the pots with water and
serving our best to the world so that they can learn about the one who is stillserving our best to the world so that they can learn about the one who is still
turning ordinary pots into vessels of celebration. Would you prayerfully considerturning ordinary pots into vessels of celebration. Would you prayerfully consider
serving with us? How, you ask? Here are four ways you can be involved:serving with us? How, you ask? Here are four ways you can be involved:
Introduce Lamplighter Ministries to your church leadership to see if they wouldIntroduce Lamplighter Ministries to your church leadership to see if they would
make Lamplighter books and audios available for their congregation.make Lamplighter books and audios available for their congregation.
ContactRoger@lamplighter.net. Help us find corporate and individual sponsors toContactRoger@lamplighter.net. Help us find corporate and individual sponsors to
produce the next Lamplighter Theatre drama.produce the next Lamplighter Theatre drama.
Contact Beecher@lamplighter.net. Provide a full or partial scholarship to enable aContact Beecher@lamplighter.net. Provide a full or partial scholarship to enable a
student who needs financial help to attend the Guild.student who needs financial help to attend the Guild.
Contact Beecher@lamplighter.net with questions. Ask about becoming aContact Beecher@lamplighter.net with questions. Ask about becoming a
Lamplighter representative at conferences, churches, schools, bookstores, andLamplighter representative at conferences, churches, schools, bookstores, and
libraries. Contact Roger@lamplighter.net. libraries. Contact Roger@lamplighter.net.
126. God’s judgment is to theGod’s judgment is to the
33rdrd
and 4and 4thth
generation; hisgeneration; his
mercy is to a 1000mercy is to a 1000
generations!generations!
Ex 34:7; Deut 7:9Ex 34:7; Deut 7:9