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Should I Stay Or
Go?
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Question:
• My relationship has been
going nowhere for the past
few months.
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• My partner and I have been
going through rough times
for various reasons
• We are not really talking to
each other.
• Should I stay or go?
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Answer:
• There are different reasons why
a relationship stagnates
• You and your partner have both
gone through an intense
personal transformation
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• You are both questioning
everything, including your
relationship
• Because of the transformation you
stopped communicating
• You first wanted to deal with your
own issues before sharing
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• Neither wanted to appear weak
• You areboth waiting to appear
strong before starting an intimate
conversation
• In a strong relationship both
partners appear ‘naked’ in all
senses
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• Your relationship was strong in
the past, and will be strong again
• Once you have completed your
personal journeys, your emotional
vacuum will be filled.
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• You both know you will reach a
critical point where you will
start talking again
• Then you will explain your
personal journeys to each other
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• This will be a new phase in your
relationship with a deeper level
of intimacy and understanding
• A psychic reading can confirm
where you are on this journey
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• You will be able to clear up the
confusion and lack of
communication sooner rather
than later
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• Sometimes a relationship
stagnates because neither
partner is willing to move
forward
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• When one partner meets
someone else, they have to deal
with closure and a new
beginning at the same time
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• Sometimes fear of the unknown
can make a stagnant relationship
look like the more viable option
• A psychic reading can help both
partners get clarity to make
decisions
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• You should consider staying and
riding out the wave.
• You have many years left in your
relationship
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