Learn the difference between love and infatuation, and you will be able to get a balanced view of the person you claim to love.

1. I Am In Love with
My Boss
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Question:
• I am a medical doctor
• I report to a more senior doctor
who has been my mentor since
we were students

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• He is very critical of me
• He once said he will never date
another doctor
• He is involved with an architect

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• I have feelings for him
• How do I control my feelings in
his presence?

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Answer:
• You find the balance to control
your feelings.
• He is not interested in you as a
woman, but he does notice you
as a colleague

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• It is quite OK to like him
• Find a good trait for every bad
trait that you see in him, and
the other way round

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• Because you focus on his good
traits you put him on a pedestal
• Find the downside of his good
traits and you will feel different
about his criticism

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• Once you have found balance,
you will be in a better position
to decide whether his criticism
is valid

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• Where he does have a point,
you will be able to take his
advice
• Where he is feeding his own
ego, you will be able to give his
criticism right back to him
without feeling embarrassed.

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