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•Your wedding day is your day
•Make a list of what you want
•Decide what is ideal
•Decide what is not negotiable
•Decide what is not acceptable at all
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•Meet with everyone involved
•Tell then what you want and what you will do
•Let them decide what they want to do
•You must have the final say
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Second issue:
•Various issues are coming to the surface
•You need to discuss and resolve these issues now
•Get to know each other better
•Set boundaries
•Negotiate your future
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•If the two of you cannot resolve issues now then you are not ready to get married
•The run-up to the wedding is a sample of what you will have after the wedding