SELF- WORTH
Recognize How Privileged You Are
ODENAH OABEL-RUTAS
INFANTA NATIONAL HIGH SCHOOL
INFANTA,QUEZON
odiel.rutas@gmail.com.ph
09060049187
Defining Words
SELF- WORTHSELF- VAL
“a feeling that you are a good person
who deserves to be treated with
respect.” MerriamWebsterDictionary
Knowing that you are
valuable, loveable and of
inconceivable worth.
Understanding of your strengths and
personal attributes.
More on behavioral than
emotional.
How you act towards what
you value including yourself,
than how you feel about
yourself compared to others,
Defining Words
SELF- WORTHSELF- VAL
Having a sense of self-worth
means that you value yourself,
and having a sense of self-
value means that you are
worthy.
What Determines Self-Worth
Determined mostly by our self-evaluated abilities and
our performance that we deem valuable.
People own yardsticks measures:
APPEARANCE NET-WORTH
WHOYOU
KNOW/FRIENDS
WHATYOU DO/
CAREER
WHATYOU ACHIEVED
Self-worth does not depend on your net worth
NET WORTH
asset-Liabilites
MATERIAL THINGS
Self-worth does not depend on your net worth
accumulated asset/
value of a person
Application
( the act of helping and
extending hands to others)
NET WORTH
Self-worth does not depend on your net worth
It does not depends on recognition of others or anything external
But, by thinking that we are created in His image and likeness
( Genesis 1:26-27)
Do you really know the child in yourself?
Self-worth is more important than self-esteem
..recognizing I’m
greater than all of
those things.
..thinking well of
oneself
…a favorable
estimate or opinion
of oneself
…think , feel and
believe about
ourselves.
..an inborn quality
…flourish and build.
But, by thinking that we are created in His image and likeness
( Genesis 1:26-27)
…without self-worth, there is no self esteem.
SELF- WORTH
SELF- ESTEEM
We should hate evil, not ourselves.
Self-hate is a sign of not recognizing God is in us.
What are the reasons of self-hate?
Putting too much value with what the world offers.
Material things
Fame and power
Beauty , success,
relationship etc.
Self-Hate = Low Self Worth
- is a root of mental illness.
- can lead to anxiety and depression.
What are the factors?
Putting too much value with what the world offers.
Material things Fame and power
Beauty , success,
relationship etc.
What we should do?
Day-to-day HAPPINESS
Recognize how privileged you are!
1. See yourself as God’s masterpiece
- most loved & valued
- most precious
- most great
In return, how can we pay-off God for this worth that we possessing?
You are God’s unique creation,. You are the only you.
There was none and there will be another you.
What we should do?
Day-to-day HAPPINESS
Recognize how privileged you are!
2. Remind yourself of Your Origin
We created by loving and magnificent God. We were not created
to be a liability but an asset of the world.
We came from a loving God. That alone is enough
to push us to love in return.”
Are you willing to love others without expecting something in return?
What we should do?
Day-to-day HAPPINESS
Recognize how privileged you are!
3. Know that Comparison can Lead to Frustration
Never compare!
Your worth does not depend on the people around.
You are precious of being you.
We are all unique creations and created differently.
We are all originals.
What we should do?
Day-to-day HAPPINESS
Recognize how privileged you are!
3. Know that Comparison can Lead to Frustration
Comparison is a thief of joy - Theodore Roosevelt
For you, How do you see comparison as good and bad habit?
Comparison is an act of violence against self – Iyanla Vanzant
No one can you feel inferior with out your consent – Eleanor
Roosevelt
What we should do?
Day-to-day HAPPINESS
Recognize how privileged you are!
4. Enjoy the Universe While You Are Here
Life is meant to be fun.
Life is a journey. It is only once, so you have to enjoy it.
Enjoy life while you have it. Be free from regrets when you get old.
Do not look at life as a problem to solve but look at it surprise gift
everyday that adds meaning to your life.
Treasure healthy relationship.
What we should do?
Day-to-day HAPPINESS
Recognize how privileged you are!
4. Enjoy the Universe While You Are Here
Enjoy as many sunrise as you can.
How would like others enjoy your presence?
God did not make you worthy. He surrounded you with gifts that worth
enjoying.
Be grateful for every sunset.
Treasure all the relationship that you have and gone through.
What we should do?
Day-to-day HAPPINESS
Recognize how privileged you are!
5. Think Highly of Yourself
Think highly of yourself because the world takes you at your
own estimate.- Kurt Hann
Give me simple way/act to improve thinking about yourself.
Believed that you are an amazing individual.
Your thought becomes your works
“Never say anything that can put you down.”
What we should do?
Day-to-day HAPPINESS
Recognize how privileged you are!
6. Decide to be Happy with Who You Are
Happiness is a decision that comes within.
“Be comfortable with how magnificent you are like your great
and marvelous creator.”
Love and accept your own self.
Love the way you are.
What are your flaws that hinder you from happiness everyday?
“The worst loneliness is to not be comfortable with your self.”
What we should do?
Day-to-day HAPPINESS
Recognize how privileged you are!
If you are the boss of your own self. What kind of boss are you?
6 TYPES OF BOSSES
VISIONARY- inspiring & empathetic
COACH- motivating & trusting
AFFILIATED– empathetic & trusting
DEMOCRATIC- trusting & collaborative
COMMANDER- dictatorial & direct
PACESETTER- demanding & direct
What we should do?
Day-to-day HAPPINESS
Recognize how privileged you are!
7. Be Your Own Boss
Take a lead of your own life.
Do not let anyone dictates your happiness.
You are the maneuver of your own life.
“ Take charge of your life. You have more control than you
think you have.”
What we should do?
Day-to-day HAPPINESS
Recognize how privileged you are!
8. Box Your Own Life
Move out from the box that your families &
peers would you like to put in.
How can you help others to move out from the boxes?
Avoid pleasing anyone.
Leave your dreams
“ You are worthy not because of how others see you but
because of how God sees you.”
Follow you heart
What we should do?
Day-to-day HAPPINESS
Recognize how privileged you are!
9. Do Not Wait for People’s Action
How you react when you feel others do not give you the treatment you deserve ?
“ Your true value does not depend on how others treat you.
Treat yourself well even when others do not give you the
treatment you deserve.”
What we should do?
Day-to-day HAPPINESS
Recognize how privileged you are!
9. Be Courageous in Being You
What are the risks of being artificial someone else ?
“ It is easier to be natural you than to be artificial someone else.”
Do not impress people. Do not live you life based on
people’s expectation.
Do not be afraid for criticism, embarrassment, rejection and
unappreciated
Live the way you want.
Be true to who you are.
What we should do?
Day-to-day HAPPINESS
Recognize how privileged you are!
10. Believe in Your Abilities
“ If you start to believe in what you can do, you can start to do
unbelievable things.”
Believe in yourself. What you frequently think
manifest in reality.
Imagination is the limit
What we should do?
Day-to-day HAPPINESS
Recognize how privileged you are!
11. Believe in Your Abilities
How can you make your students believe that they can do better?
“If you don’t build your dream, someone will hire you to build
their.”
What we should do?
Day-to-day HAPPINESS
Recognize how privileged you are!
12. Do Not Equate Who You are With What You Do
How can you put God at the center of your life?
Do not look at self-worth as equated to net-worth.
“Put someone(not something) unshakeable at the center of your
life- God.”
Remember that material things in this world are all temporary
and gain superficial worthiness.
What we should do?
Day-to-day HAPPINESS
Recognize how privileged you are!
13. Do Not be Stranger to Yourself
Explain. Social media is a superficial world?
Meeting others expectations lead to become stranger
to your own self.
“ To live someone else’s life is to devaluate your own worth.”
Remember simply valuing matters to them, forgetting about
what really matters to us.
What we should do?
Day-to-day HAPPINESS
Recognize how privileged you are!
14. Be Attractive Both In and Out
How can be beautiful in and out everyday?
Give value to your physical body but more to inner self.
“ Physical beauty grabs the spotlight-inner beauty shines on
everyone.”
“ Beauty attracts the eye but personality captures the heart.”
“ Physical beauty is only skin deep but the beauty of the soul is infinite.”
Let’s Us Altogether Ponder.
Remember that:
“Because one believes inoneself,onedoesn’t try to
convince others. Because one iscontent with
oneself,onedoesn’t needothers approval. Because
oneaccepts oneself,the world accepts himor her.”
– Lao Tzu
Let us start valuing
ourselves and let us be
an instrument of
spreading the
importance of it.

Self-Worth ( Independent Study )

  • 1.
    SELF- WORTH Recognize HowPrivileged You Are ODENAH OABEL-RUTAS INFANTA NATIONAL HIGH SCHOOL INFANTA,QUEZON odiel.rutas@gmail.com.ph 09060049187
  • 2.
    Defining Words SELF- WORTHSELF-VAL “a feeling that you are a good person who deserves to be treated with respect.” MerriamWebsterDictionary Knowing that you are valuable, loveable and of inconceivable worth. Understanding of your strengths and personal attributes. More on behavioral than emotional. How you act towards what you value including yourself, than how you feel about yourself compared to others,
  • 3.
    Defining Words SELF- WORTHSELF-VAL Having a sense of self-worth means that you value yourself, and having a sense of self- value means that you are worthy.
  • 4.
    What Determines Self-Worth Determinedmostly by our self-evaluated abilities and our performance that we deem valuable. People own yardsticks measures: APPEARANCE NET-WORTH WHOYOU KNOW/FRIENDS WHATYOU DO/ CAREER WHATYOU ACHIEVED
  • 5.
    Self-worth does notdepend on your net worth NET WORTH asset-Liabilites MATERIAL THINGS
  • 6.
    Self-worth does notdepend on your net worth accumulated asset/ value of a person Application ( the act of helping and extending hands to others) NET WORTH
  • 7.
    Self-worth does notdepend on your net worth It does not depends on recognition of others or anything external But, by thinking that we are created in His image and likeness ( Genesis 1:26-27)
  • 8.
    Do you reallyknow the child in yourself?
  • 9.
    Self-worth is moreimportant than self-esteem ..recognizing I’m greater than all of those things. ..thinking well of oneself …a favorable estimate or opinion of oneself …think , feel and believe about ourselves. ..an inborn quality …flourish and build. But, by thinking that we are created in His image and likeness ( Genesis 1:26-27) …without self-worth, there is no self esteem.
  • 10.
  • 11.
    We should hateevil, not ourselves. Self-hate is a sign of not recognizing God is in us. What are the reasons of self-hate? Putting too much value with what the world offers. Material things Fame and power Beauty , success, relationship etc.
  • 12.
    Self-Hate = LowSelf Worth - is a root of mental illness. - can lead to anxiety and depression. What are the factors? Putting too much value with what the world offers. Material things Fame and power Beauty , success, relationship etc.
  • 13.
    What we shoulddo? Day-to-day HAPPINESS Recognize how privileged you are! 1. See yourself as God’s masterpiece - most loved & valued - most precious - most great In return, how can we pay-off God for this worth that we possessing? You are God’s unique creation,. You are the only you. There was none and there will be another you.
  • 14.
    What we shoulddo? Day-to-day HAPPINESS Recognize how privileged you are! 2. Remind yourself of Your Origin We created by loving and magnificent God. We were not created to be a liability but an asset of the world. We came from a loving God. That alone is enough to push us to love in return.” Are you willing to love others without expecting something in return?
  • 15.
    What we shoulddo? Day-to-day HAPPINESS Recognize how privileged you are! 3. Know that Comparison can Lead to Frustration Never compare! Your worth does not depend on the people around. You are precious of being you. We are all unique creations and created differently. We are all originals.
  • 16.
    What we shoulddo? Day-to-day HAPPINESS Recognize how privileged you are! 3. Know that Comparison can Lead to Frustration Comparison is a thief of joy - Theodore Roosevelt For you, How do you see comparison as good and bad habit? Comparison is an act of violence against self – Iyanla Vanzant No one can you feel inferior with out your consent – Eleanor Roosevelt
  • 17.
    What we shoulddo? Day-to-day HAPPINESS Recognize how privileged you are! 4. Enjoy the Universe While You Are Here Life is meant to be fun. Life is a journey. It is only once, so you have to enjoy it. Enjoy life while you have it. Be free from regrets when you get old. Do not look at life as a problem to solve but look at it surprise gift everyday that adds meaning to your life. Treasure healthy relationship.
  • 18.
    What we shoulddo? Day-to-day HAPPINESS Recognize how privileged you are! 4. Enjoy the Universe While You Are Here Enjoy as many sunrise as you can. How would like others enjoy your presence? God did not make you worthy. He surrounded you with gifts that worth enjoying. Be grateful for every sunset. Treasure all the relationship that you have and gone through.
  • 19.
    What we shoulddo? Day-to-day HAPPINESS Recognize how privileged you are! 5. Think Highly of Yourself Think highly of yourself because the world takes you at your own estimate.- Kurt Hann Give me simple way/act to improve thinking about yourself. Believed that you are an amazing individual. Your thought becomes your works “Never say anything that can put you down.”
  • 20.
    What we shoulddo? Day-to-day HAPPINESS Recognize how privileged you are! 6. Decide to be Happy with Who You Are Happiness is a decision that comes within. “Be comfortable with how magnificent you are like your great and marvelous creator.” Love and accept your own self. Love the way you are. What are your flaws that hinder you from happiness everyday? “The worst loneliness is to not be comfortable with your self.”
  • 21.
    What we shoulddo? Day-to-day HAPPINESS Recognize how privileged you are! If you are the boss of your own self. What kind of boss are you? 6 TYPES OF BOSSES VISIONARY- inspiring & empathetic COACH- motivating & trusting AFFILIATED– empathetic & trusting DEMOCRATIC- trusting & collaborative COMMANDER- dictatorial & direct PACESETTER- demanding & direct
  • 22.
    What we shoulddo? Day-to-day HAPPINESS Recognize how privileged you are! 7. Be Your Own Boss Take a lead of your own life. Do not let anyone dictates your happiness. You are the maneuver of your own life. “ Take charge of your life. You have more control than you think you have.”
  • 23.
    What we shoulddo? Day-to-day HAPPINESS Recognize how privileged you are! 8. Box Your Own Life Move out from the box that your families & peers would you like to put in. How can you help others to move out from the boxes? Avoid pleasing anyone. Leave your dreams “ You are worthy not because of how others see you but because of how God sees you.” Follow you heart
  • 24.
    What we shoulddo? Day-to-day HAPPINESS Recognize how privileged you are! 9. Do Not Wait for People’s Action How you react when you feel others do not give you the treatment you deserve ? “ Your true value does not depend on how others treat you. Treat yourself well even when others do not give you the treatment you deserve.”
  • 25.
    What we shoulddo? Day-to-day HAPPINESS Recognize how privileged you are! 9. Be Courageous in Being You What are the risks of being artificial someone else ? “ It is easier to be natural you than to be artificial someone else.” Do not impress people. Do not live you life based on people’s expectation. Do not be afraid for criticism, embarrassment, rejection and unappreciated Live the way you want. Be true to who you are.
  • 26.
    What we shoulddo? Day-to-day HAPPINESS Recognize how privileged you are! 10. Believe in Your Abilities “ If you start to believe in what you can do, you can start to do unbelievable things.” Believe in yourself. What you frequently think manifest in reality. Imagination is the limit
  • 27.
    What we shoulddo? Day-to-day HAPPINESS Recognize how privileged you are! 11. Believe in Your Abilities How can you make your students believe that they can do better? “If you don’t build your dream, someone will hire you to build their.”
  • 28.
    What we shoulddo? Day-to-day HAPPINESS Recognize how privileged you are! 12. Do Not Equate Who You are With What You Do How can you put God at the center of your life? Do not look at self-worth as equated to net-worth. “Put someone(not something) unshakeable at the center of your life- God.” Remember that material things in this world are all temporary and gain superficial worthiness.
  • 29.
    What we shoulddo? Day-to-day HAPPINESS Recognize how privileged you are! 13. Do Not be Stranger to Yourself Explain. Social media is a superficial world? Meeting others expectations lead to become stranger to your own self. “ To live someone else’s life is to devaluate your own worth.” Remember simply valuing matters to them, forgetting about what really matters to us.
  • 30.
    What we shoulddo? Day-to-day HAPPINESS Recognize how privileged you are! 14. Be Attractive Both In and Out How can be beautiful in and out everyday? Give value to your physical body but more to inner self. “ Physical beauty grabs the spotlight-inner beauty shines on everyone.” “ Beauty attracts the eye but personality captures the heart.” “ Physical beauty is only skin deep but the beauty of the soul is infinite.”
  • 31.
  • 32.
    Remember that: “Because onebelieves inoneself,onedoesn’t try to convince others. Because one iscontent with oneself,onedoesn’t needothers approval. Because oneaccepts oneself,the world accepts himor her.” – Lao Tzu
  • 33.
    Let us startvaluing ourselves and let us be an instrument of spreading the importance of it.