Running head: RESEARCH AND WRITING ON PARENTING STARTING DRAFT 1 RESEARCH AND WRITING ON PARENTING STARTING DRAFT 3 Research and writing on Parenting Starting Draft Tyvesia Shingles Professor Clark November 5, 2018 Research and writing on Parenting Starting Draft Introduction Parenting is one of the important practices that adults can do to contribute to society positively. It entails the act of supporting and promoting the social, emotional, intellectual, and physical development of a child from childhood to adulthood. For one to parent; one does not need to be a biological parent of a child, but as long as one is an adult, he/she has the duty of executing parenting tasks to the child. However, some individuals feel that parenting should only be done by the biological parents or guardians directly taking care of children. My position about parenting is that it is a great practice that all adults should learn and apply in all children that they come across. This is the only way that the society can bring up reliable and responsible children to adulthood, and they would also take care of the children during their time. Again, there are different types of parenting which include; authoritative, authoritarian, permissive, and neglectful. This parenting essay shall focus on elaborating what parenting entails and the appropriate parenting style that can help parents to play their roles effectively. Discussion Understanding parenting Parenting according to Shah, & De Sousa, (2015); is also known as child rearing and it is the process of supporting and promoting the social, physical, emotional, and intellectual development of the child from infancy to adulthood. This means that parenting is a long-term role that parents have to diligently execute to bring up mature, responsible, and disciplined children. Further, Shah, & De Sousa, (2015) claims that parenting roles are not only meant to be played by a child’s biological parents. They are roles that should be learned and practiced by all people who have attained the legal age, as they should all positively support growing children so that they can attain the maturity age successfully. Moreover, children also tend to learn from members of society which mean they make an impact in the lives of children. Additionally, some children do not have the joy of having their parents due to diverse reasons, and hence it is up to the extended family and voluntary guardians to play the parenting as a biological parent would. Parenting roles and their importance Children are vulnerable beings, and they need care and protection for them to grow up healthy and enlightened. It is also crucial to note that parenting roles start during inception as the two parents need to take care of the fetus until it is born. When a child is born, he/she is not aware of anything, and this is the time proactive parenting roles commences (Rezai Niaraki, & Rahimi, 2013). It is the role of the parent to feed the chil.

1. Running head: RESEARCH AND WRITING ON PARENTING
STARTING DRAFT 1
RESEARCH AND WRITING ON PARENTING STARTING
DRAFT 3
Research and writing on Parenting Starting Draft
Tyvesia Shingles
Professor Clark
November 5, 2018
Research and writing on Parenting Starting Draft
Introduction
Parenting is one of the important practices that adults can do to
contribute to society positively. It entails the act of supporting
and promoting the social, emotional, intellectual, and physical
development of a child from childhood to adulthood. For one to
parent; one does not need to be a biological parent of a child,
but as long as one is an adult, he/she has the duty of executing
parenting tasks to the child. However, some individuals feel that
parenting should only be done by the biological parents or
guardians directly taking care of children. My position about
parenting is that it is a great practice that all adults should learn

2. and apply in all children that they come across. This is the only
way that the society can bring up reliable and responsible
children to adulthood, and they would also take care of the
children during their time. Again, there are different types of
parenting which include; authoritative, authoritarian,
permissive, and neglectful. This parenting essay shall focus on
elaborating what parenting entails and the appropriate parenting
style that can help parents to play their roles effectively.
Discussion
Understanding parenting
Parenting according to Shah, & De Sousa, (2015); is also
known as child rearing and it is the process of supporting and
promoting the social, physical, emotional, and intellectual
development of the child from infancy to adulthood. This means
that parenting is a long-term role that parents have to diligently
execute to bring up mature, responsible, and disciplined
children. Further, Shah, & De Sousa, (2015) claims that
parenting roles are not only meant to be played by a child’s
biological parents. They are roles that should be learned and
practiced by all people who have attained the legal age, as they
should all positively support growing children so that they can
attain the maturity age successfully. Moreover, children also
tend to learn from members of society which mean they make an
impact in the lives of children. Additionally, some children do
not have the joy of having their parents due to diverse reasons,
and hence it is up to the extended family and voluntary
guardians to play the parenting as a biological parent would.
Parenting roles and their importance
Children are vulnerable beings, and they need care and
protection for them to grow up healthy and enlightened. It is
also crucial to note that parenting roles start during inception as
the two parents need to take care of the fetus until it is born.
When a child is born, he/she is not aware of anything, and this
is the time proactive parenting roles commences (Rezai Niaraki,
& Rahimi, 2013). It is the role of the parent to feed the child,
make sure that the child gets the right medical attention, train

3. the child, and provide shelter for the child. It is also a parenting
role provide the children with clothes and protect them from
any harm that may negatively impact their emotional,
psychological, and physical health.
In the cases where good parenting has not been applied,
negative consequences have been experienced for instance
children being molested, raped, and even killed. In the instances
where child negligence is experienced as a result of bad
parenting, the child is forced to make wrong decisions in life
for instance joining immoral gangs or even becoming street
children. The sad reality is that when bad parenting is applied,
the entire society is affected (Carrillo et al., 2016). The reason
is that the parent or foster parenting must advise the child when
growing up so that the child can differentiate between the good
and the bad. Failure to the let the child know the things to do
and those to avoid as well as the right time and way to handle
different issues; the child would end up doing things in a
manner that he/she would think whether good or bad (Rezai
Niaraki, & Rahimi, 2013). The society would suffer because
when a child is not properly advised, he/she will engage in
activities that will affect the society, for instance, stealing or
even prostituting. The latter is in the sense that when a child
becomes desperate, it becomes hard to remain in control of their
mental and emotional stability.
Societal parenting role
The child is said not to belong to a specific person simply
because of the natural right but also to the society as well. The
reason is that apart from home activities, all other activities all
done in the social domain. This means that the society occupies
an important part of a child's life. According to Serbin et al.,
(2014); members of the community have a responsibility in
taking part in parenting tasks. The reason is that when a child is
growing up, he/she also looks up to other community members
to learn from them and emulate as a result (Carbines,
Dickinson, & McKenzie-Green, 2017). This means that even if
members of the community do not directly provide basic needs

4. and luxuries to the children, they have to provide a good
example that the child and learn and emulate and grow to
become a better person in the future.
By having a good example, parenting efforts made by parents
and guardians become more effective because there is no point
of contradiction. The society has the potential to compromise
good parenting that the biological or foster parents have played
in the past. The reason is that most of the time the child is with
the society in school, church, and social events and due to the
curious nature of children, the child is likely to get influenced
(Bartholomeu et al., 2016). Also, society has the potential to
rectify a child who has undergone a bad or no parenting at all.
This means that society should act in a manner that aligns with
good parenting.
Parenting styles and how they impact a child
According to Sinno, Schuette, & Hellriegel, (2017); parenting
style determines the quality of a parent that an adult is. When a
parent is too strict and dictates to the child, the style of
parenting makes the child develop a negative attitude.
Moreover, children are also human, and they appreciate being
heard, when dictatorship type of parenting is applied, it causes
more harm to the child than good (Carbines, Dickinson, &
McKenzie-Green, 2017). It is even more hazardous when the
parent adopts and uses the ignorant style of parenting because
the child is left to do what he/she desired to lead to
irresponsible decisions. Permissive style though it allows
communication to take place but also denies the parent the
chance to apply balanced power (Bartholomeu et al., 2016).
This is also not a very good parenting style because children
can only be shaped through the parent's power over their child
being felt in the right way. Listening to the children without
making the right move might not have any impact, and the child
might never learn.
However, the authoritative style of parent is the best that
parents should learn and apply (Rezai Niaraki, & Rahimi, 2013).
The reason is that it allows open communication to take place

5. and expectations are set to clear which the children are aware
and informed on how to achieve them. It is also a style that
allows punishment to be applied where due and also ample
support and encouragement from the parent which children need
for stable and reliable growth to be realized (Bartholomeu et al.,
2016). Moreover, it is the open communication and application
of true parental power that enables the children to learn the
vital social skills that further helps in eliminating levels of
vulnerability and children learn how to become independent and
defend themselves.
Conclusion
Children are born unfamiliar with anything that surrounds a
situation that makes them tedious and sensitive. Parenting is the
only thing that provides the child with all the necessities that
would enable the child to grow and become a responsible
member of society. Nevertheless, it all depends on the amount
of investment that the parent of the person taking care of the
child is willing to invest. Limited or no investment on parenting
would affect the child negatively as well as the society, and a
good investment leads to a positive impact of the child.
Additionally, society has a parenting role to play to make work
of biological or foster parents effective in a child.
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