If “stress” doesn’t even begin
to describe your nonstop life, read this.
You could be heading toward
burnout. Take a deep breath: There are
simple, everyday solutions to feeling
calmer and more in control. And you
don’t even have to chuck it all and
start fresh on another, quieter planet.
Caregiver stress can manifest physically, emotionally, and psychologically and put caregivers at risk for poor health outcomes and early mortality. Screening tools like the Zarit Burden Interview can help physicians identify caregivers experiencing high levels of stress. Interventions may include reducing caregiving demands through respite services, counseling, or institutionalizing the care recipient in extreme cases. It is important to evaluate the health status and needs of both the caregiver and care recipient as a unit.
This document discusses healing from birth trauma using Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT). The author started offering workshops on healing birth trauma after experiencing an unwanted c-section herself, which left her feeling devastated and like she failed as a new mother. Birth trauma can have major impacts on women's health, relationships, and decisions around future children. EFT is described as a powerful way to heal trauma and resolve blocked energy from distressing birth experiences by reframing memories and reducing negative emotions associated with the trauma. Practicing EFT during the workshops is meant to help women process their experiences and feel relief from symptoms of postpartum traumatic stress disorder.
The document provides tips for designing and delivering effective presentations. It discusses the importance of design principles like contrast, alignment, proximity and using visuals like photos and charts to engage audiences. Specific tips include limiting text on slides, using no more than two font styles, constraining the number of words and bullet points per slide. For delivery, it recommends practicing your presentation, engaging the audience, speaking conversationally and finishing strongly by reiterating your key messages. The overall message is that effective presentation requires considering both design and delivery techniques to communicate clearly and hold audience attention.
7 Tips to Beautiful PowerPoint by @itseugenecEugene Cheng
Short talk about presentations given at Startup Dynamo, a workshop held by Startup@Singapore NUS using the Learn Startup Methodology.
My segment was on Presentation Design to make an impact on VCs. Many thanks to @ryanlou for the invite. And not to forget Emiland De Cubber for his amazing slide deck inspirations and invaluable advice. Disclaimer: this is a reimagination off some of Emiland's presentations. I do not make any money of this.
Download for just a tweet: http://goo.gl/fbM4j
Want something similar done for your next pitch? Contact me at my site: http://itseugene.me/contact/
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Caregiver stress can manifest physically, emotionally, and psychologically and put caregivers at risk for poor health outcomes and early mortality. Screening tools like the Zarit Burden Interview can help physicians identify caregivers experiencing high levels of stress. Interventions may include reducing caregiving demands through respite services, counseling, or institutionalizing the care recipient in extreme cases. It is important to evaluate the health status and needs of both the caregiver and care recipient as a unit.
This document discusses healing from birth trauma using Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT). The author started offering workshops on healing birth trauma after experiencing an unwanted c-section herself, which left her feeling devastated and like she failed as a new mother. Birth trauma can have major impacts on women's health, relationships, and decisions around future children. EFT is described as a powerful way to heal trauma and resolve blocked energy from distressing birth experiences by reframing memories and reducing negative emotions associated with the trauma. Practicing EFT during the workshops is meant to help women process their experiences and feel relief from symptoms of postpartum traumatic stress disorder.
The document provides tips for designing and delivering effective presentations. It discusses the importance of design principles like contrast, alignment, proximity and using visuals like photos and charts to engage audiences. Specific tips include limiting text on slides, using no more than two font styles, constraining the number of words and bullet points per slide. For delivery, it recommends practicing your presentation, engaging the audience, speaking conversationally and finishing strongly by reiterating your key messages. The overall message is that effective presentation requires considering both design and delivery techniques to communicate clearly and hold audience attention.
7 Tips to Beautiful PowerPoint by @itseugenecEugene Cheng
Short talk about presentations given at Startup Dynamo, a workshop held by Startup@Singapore NUS using the Learn Startup Methodology.
My segment was on Presentation Design to make an impact on VCs. Many thanks to @ryanlou for the invite. And not to forget Emiland De Cubber for his amazing slide deck inspirations and invaluable advice. Disclaimer: this is a reimagination off some of Emiland's presentations. I do not make any money of this.
Download for just a tweet: http://goo.gl/fbM4j
Want something similar done for your next pitch? Contact me at my site: http://itseugene.me/contact/
The stress proof brain master your emotional response to stress using mindful...An Le Truong
Lê Trường An – Dịch giả – Tác giả – Marketer – chuyên thực hiện các dự án SEO, Social Media, Dịch thuật và xuất bản nội dung. Ngoài ra, Lê Trường An liên tục cập nhật nội dung blog với các chủ đề SEO, Marketing và nhiều hơn nữa…
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Chuyên viên Marketing – Tác giả - Dịch giả tại letruongan.com
Chuyên viên Marketing tại BrainCoach
Chuyên viên Content Marketing tại FoogleSEO
Dịch vụ Marketing – SEO – Content Marketing
Post election stress disorder- we spoke to 8 professionals on how to manage itDavidCutrano
The document provides advice from 8 professionals on coping with stress and anxiety following the 2020 US presidential election. Some key recommendations include: accepting the election results to find clarity and peace; incorporating simple self-care strategies like exercise and meditation; limiting exposure to stressors like social media; speaking to a mental health professional if anxiety persists; focusing on the present through mindfulness; engaging in enjoyable activities; prioritizing sleep; and setting healthy boundaries. A neuropsychologist predicts Americans will want normalcy sooner than after the 2016 election due to other ongoing crises.
Performance Analysis - Starbucks
Employee Performance: Find any information on the company’s performance in context of its workforce. Look for rankings of the “best companies to work for,” news reports of labor troubles (e.g., lawsuits), and whether the company’s workforce unionized). Then, in a short paragraph, assess the company’s employee performance. To what extent is the company capable of satisfying its employees’ needs? Is the company rated a good employer?
How is it that the wor takes over
your life, leaving you burned out, even
miserable? It doesn't have to be tnat
way. Here's how to make it all better.
BY DANA TANYERI
AYBE IT'S A CHAR-GRILLED STEAK AND A BONE-DRY MARTINI. OR BEING
in love, playing with the dog or perhaps a new pair of Jimmy
Choos. It could also be that warm glow you get looking over a full
dining room on those rare nights when everything hums along perfectly.
Turns out, happiness-deep, lasting satisfaction as
opposed to pleasures that evaporate as quickly as the
last drops of gin in that martini-is considerably more
complex. Scientists who spend their lives studying the
subject contend that it's some combination of genetics,
values and life experience that lead to a happy life.
Whatever happiness is for you, chances are you don't
have enough of it. You spend most of your time just
trying to make sure that everyone else-customers, staff,
suppliers, reviewers, inspectors-is happy. You work
while others play and the days when life controls you far
outnumber those when you control life. Employees don't
show, prices rise, bad weather kills your traffic, the dish-
washer's been lifting steaks and
your spouse has had it with your
schedule. You're on the firing line
every day, and that's one tough place
to find happiness.
But figuring out how to find it does
more than put a smile on your face. Happy
people are healthier, tend to be more suc-
cessful-and they live longer too. According to
Dr. Ed Diener at the University of Illinois, a lead-
ing researcher in the science of happiness, "Not only
does happiness feel good, but happy people appear to
function better than unhappy people-making more
ILLUSTRATIONS BY BILL MAYER
30 Restaurant Business May 2007 restaurantbiz.corn
restaurantbiz.Gom May 2007 Restaurant Business, 31
money, having better social relation-
ships, being better organizational
citizens at work, doing more volun-
teer work and having better health."
Diener cites one study that found
that, on average, happy people lived
10.7 years longer than unhappy people.
Another study tracked a group
of nuns in a Milwaukee convent.
Before joining the order back in the
1930s, each nun agreed to keep a
diary. The language used and emo-
tions exhibited in those journals
were analyzed over the years and
enabled researchers to separate
the group into "happy nuns" and
"not so happy nuns." According
to Diener, two-thirds of the not so
happy nuns died before their 85th
birthdays, while 90 percent of ...
Performance Analysis - Starbucks
Employee Performance: Find any information on the company’s performance in context of its workforce. Look for rankings of the “best companies to work for,” news reports of labor troubles (e.g., lawsuits), and whether the company’s workforce unionized). Then, in a short paragraph, assess the company’s employee performance. To what extent is the company capable of satisfying its employees’ needs? Is the company rated a good employer?
How is it that the wor takes over
your life, leaving you burned out, even
miserable? It doesn't have to be tnat
way. Here's how to make it all better.
BY DANA TANYERI
AYBE IT'S A CHAR-GRILLED STEAK AND A BONE-DRY MARTINI. OR BEING
in love, playing with the dog or perhaps a new pair of Jimmy
Choos. It could also be that warm glow you get looking over a full
dining room on those rare nights when everything hums along perfectly.
Turns out, happiness-deep, lasting satisfaction as
opposed to pleasures that evaporate as quickly as the
last drops of gin in that martini-is considerably more
complex. Scientists who spend their lives studying the
subject contend that it's some combination of genetics,
values and life experience that lead to a happy life.
Whatever happiness is for you, chances are you don't
have enough of it. You spend most of your time just
trying to make sure that everyone else-customers, staff,
suppliers, reviewers, inspectors-is happy. You work
while others play and the days when life controls you far
outnumber those when you control life. Employees don't
show, prices rise, bad weather kills your traffic, the dish-
washer's been lifting steaks and
your spouse has had it with your
schedule. You're on the firing line
every day, and that's one tough place
to find happiness.
But figuring out how to find it does
more than put a smile on your face. Happy
people are healthier, tend to be more suc-
cessful-and they live longer too. According to
Dr. Ed Diener at the University of Illinois, a lead-
ing researcher in the science of happiness, "Not only
does happiness feel good, but happy people appear to
function better than unhappy people-making more
ILLUSTRATIONS BY BILL MAYER
30 Restaurant Business May 2007 restaurantbiz.corn
restaurantbiz.Gom May 2007 Restaurant Business, 31
money, having better social relation-
ships, being better organizational
citizens at work, doing more volun-
teer work and having better health."
Diener cites one study that found
that, on average, happy people lived
10.7 years longer than unhappy people.
Another study tracked a group
of nuns in a Milwaukee convent.
Before joining the order back in the
1930s, each nun agreed to keep a
diary. The language used and emo-
tions exhibited in those journals
were analyzed over the years and
enabled researchers to separate
the group into "happy nuns" and
"not so happy nuns." According
to Diener, two-thirds of the not so
happy nuns died before their 85th
birthdays, while 90 percent of .
This article provides 6 tips for learning to enjoy time spent alone, as research has shown many people prefer external stimulation and find inner thoughts anxiety-provoking. The tips are: start with small periods of alone time each week; practice mindfulness of present moments; focus on deep breathing to calm anxiety; let the mind wander without judgment; engage the creative side through hobbies; and write letters to relax the mind. With regular practice, people can gain comfort with solitude and experience reduced stress and improved focus.
This document provides 10 steps to get your ex back. It begins by emphasizing the importance of relationships and discussing how delicate romantic relationships can be. It stresses taking time after a breakup to slow down and divert your mind with other tasks, friends, family, or pets. The document recommends avoiding immediately trying to get your ex back and instead using the time to reflect on what went wrong in the relationship. It suggests finding the underlying reason for the breakup by reflecting on whether consequences were inevitable. Overall, the summary emphasizes slowing down, self-care, and reflection as important first steps after a breakup before attempting to reconcile with an ex.
Archivetemp how to eliminate stress & anxiety from your lifeFofoSoso3
It seems like you hear it all the time from nearly every
one you know – “I’m SO stressed out!” Pressures abound in
this world today. Those pressures cause stress and anxiety,
and often we are ill-equipped to deal with those stressors
that trigger anxiety and other feelings that can make us
sick. Literally, sick.
The statistics are staggering. One in every eight
Americans age 18-54 suffers from an anxiety disorder. This
totals over 19 million people! Research conducted by the
National Institute of Mental Health has shown that anxiety
disorders are the number one mental health problem among
American women and are second only to alcohol and drug
abuse by men.
It seems like you hear it all the time from nearly every one you know – “I’m SO stressed out!” Pressures abound in this world today. Those pressures cause stress and anxiety, and often we are ill-equipped to deal with those stressors that trigger anxiety and other feelings that can make us sick. Literally, sick.
Bhawna Monga is an author and emotional well-being expert based in New Delhi, India. She has written a book called "World Full of Needles" about helping people overcome challenges in their relationships. Monga has degrees in HR, sociology, education, and psychological counseling. She uses her experience and training to help people with their emotional wellness. Monga frequently writes articles on relationships and gives advice to help people improve their personal and professional lives.
The Science of Happiness and Link to Preventing DementiaDiana Gardner
Presentation for the Advance Club in Marion, Indiana introducing the Science of Happiness and activities that crossover into preventing dementia. Presented October 20, 2021 First 14 slides is the back story of how I became interested in this topic - notes start on slide 15.
This document provides an overview of stress and anxiety. It begins by defining stress as a reaction to pressures from external factors, while anxiety is stress that continues after the triggering event is gone. Key differences are outlined, including that stress is caused by an external stressor, while anxiety has an unknown source. Physical symptoms of each are also described. The document then explores common causes of stress and anxiety in modern life, such as work, family, financial pressures, and constant connectivity. Unhealthy coping mechanisms that can worsen stress like poor diet, smoking, and overuse of drugs are also mentioned.
9 ways to help a friend or family member with depressionkirti betai
The document provides 9 ways to help a friend or family member with depression. These include: 1) educating yourself on depression, 2) asking questions to understand their experience, 3) helping them learn what may be contributing to their depression physiologically or emotionally, 4) discussing stress and ways to reduce it, 5) talking about support systems, 6) reminding them of their strengths, 7) using humor to make them laugh, 8) providing hope that they won't always feel that way, and 9) listening without judgment. The overall message is that understanding depression, reducing stress, providing support and hope can help guide a depressed person to recovery.
How to Help Someone Struggling With AnxietyPeter Max
Nearly one in 25 American adults has serious mental illness, which means odds are someone in your life is coping with anxiety, depression, OCD, bipolar disorder or another debilitating condition. Still, shame about mental illness — likely a holdover from when people wrongly believed such conditions were character aws or a mother’s fault — can make it hard to seek help or even know what to say to those who struggle. To shine a light on the daily realities of mental illness, Good Housekeeping and the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) surveyed more than 4,000 people, and found that over a third had a close friend or relative with mental illness. In our special package on how to support loved ones with mental illness, women who live with these widely misunderstood psychological issues share what it feels like, and how you can make a difference
ELIMINATE
STRESS AND ANXIETY FROM
YOUR LIFE
It seems like you hear it all the time from nearly everyone you know – “I’m SO stressed out!” Pressures abound in this world today. Those pressures cause stress and anxiety, and often we are ill-equipped to deal with those stressors that trigger anxiety and other feelings that can make us sick. Literally, sick.
The document provides an overview of an 8-step guide to managing stress by removing stressors. It begins by explaining how stress can shorten telomeres and potentially cause health issues or death over time. The guide then outlines 3 ways to prevent stress: 1) stay informed about personal finances, health, work etc to avoid surprises, 2) focus on a few priority goals or tasks at a time rather than multitasking, and 3) recognize personal limits and say no to taking on too many commitments. The guide aims to help the reader eliminate stressors systematically rather than just cope with stress.
The document provides five thoughts on finding balance in life as a lawyer and woman. It discusses defining success on one's own terms rather than by external standards, embracing vulnerability rather than always needing to be right, trusting intuition in addition to logic, listening rather than always problem-solving for others, and cultivating an abundance mindset rather than one of scarcity. The accompanying book review discusses a book on the myth of women having successful careers and families, finding an imbalance still exists for many successful women who take on a "second shift" of domestic duties.
It seems like you hear it all the time from nearly every
one you know – “I’m SO stressed out!” Pressures abound in
this world today. Those pressures cause stress and anxiety,
and often we are ill-equipped to deal with those stressors
that trigger anxiety and other feelings that can make us
sick. Literally, sick.
The document provides advice from the director of a college on 5 things every college graduate should know. They are: 1) a degree does not entitle you to a high-paying job immediately; 2) find what you truly love to do for a career; 3) learn how to interact well with people; 4) understand office politics; and 5) build and maintain a strong social network. The director emphasizes being realistic about one's first job and working to develop important career skills after graduation.
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• Related Body Systems: All
• Related reading from text: Chapters 3 and 5
• Content Overview—the following topics are included in this unit:
1. A review of the relationship between stress and health.
2. A review of the General Adaptation Syndrome.
3. Examination of your personal "stress style".
4. The influence of negative thinking in the experience of stress.
5. The role of stress management skills and social support in the
experience of stress.
• Objectives—knowledge, skills, and attitudes. By the end of this
lab, each student will be able to:
1. Describe the impact of various types of stressors on the human
body.
2. Identify the major sources of stress in his/her life.
3. Identify his/her primary ways (both positive and negative) of
coping with stressful events and/or circumstances.
4. Identify the extent to which she/he engages in negative thinking
patterns in everyday interactions and/or stressful situations.
5. Observe and record the impact of a relaxation exercise on their
heart rate and blood pressure.
6. Observe the impact of the introduction of a social performance
stress situation.
7. Observe the impact of the addition of social support to the social
performance stress situation.
8. Experience a social support exercise.
• To be completed prior to the laboratory:
ü Worksheets 6-A, 6-B, 6-C, and 6-D (note: In order to complete
Worksheet 6-A, you will be required to watch one television
news broadcasts prior to completing the survey).
• Before leaving the lab, you need to complete and turn in:
1. Exercise 1: Negative Thinking.
2. Exercise 2: Relaxation Response.
3. Exercise 3: Social Performance Anxiety.
4. Exercise 4: Impact of Social Support on Social Performance
Anxiety.
Unit 6: Stress and Health
6-12
Stressful Thinking
Stress is the “wear and tear” our bodies experience as we adjust to our continually
changing environment; it has physical and emotional effects on us and can create positive
or negative feelings. As a positive influence, stress can help compel us to action; it can
result in a new awareness and an exciting new perspective. As a negative influence, it can
result in feelings of distrust, rejection, anger and depression, which in turn can lead to
health problems, heart disease, and stroke. With the death of a loved one, the birth of a
child, a job promotion, or a new relation, we experience stress as we adjust our lives to
these changes.
Why do different people react differently to the same stress situation? Why do similar life
events evoke such varying reactions as depression, anxiety, hostility, elation, and even
indifference? The answer points to one of the most powerful and useful notions in stress
management: our experience of stress is influenced by our thoughts and perceptions. In
technical terms, our cognitions influence our reactions to stress.
We have already ...
Fijner (thuis) werken door Playful work designArnold Bakker
Iedere werkgever weet het: bevlogen medewerkers
zijn productiever. Maar bevlogenheid … hoe breng je
die tot stand? Recent onderzoek wijst in een nieuwe
richting: playful work design. Het eigen initiatief daarin
is zeker belangrijk tijdens de coronacrisis. Want je zult
ook de samenwerking met anderen moeten ‘craften’.
Post election stress disorder- we spoke to 8 professionals on how to manage itDavidCutrano
The document provides advice from 8 professionals on coping with stress and anxiety following the 2020 US presidential election. Some key recommendations include: accepting the election results to find clarity and peace; incorporating simple self-care strategies like exercise and meditation; limiting exposure to stressors like social media; speaking to a mental health professional if anxiety persists; focusing on the present through mindfulness; engaging in enjoyable activities; prioritizing sleep; and setting healthy boundaries. A neuropsychologist predicts Americans will want normalcy sooner than after the 2016 election due to other ongoing crises.
Performance Analysis - Starbucks
Employee Performance: Find any information on the company’s performance in context of its workforce. Look for rankings of the “best companies to work for,” news reports of labor troubles (e.g., lawsuits), and whether the company’s workforce unionized). Then, in a short paragraph, assess the company’s employee performance. To what extent is the company capable of satisfying its employees’ needs? Is the company rated a good employer?
How is it that the wor takes over
your life, leaving you burned out, even
miserable? It doesn't have to be tnat
way. Here's how to make it all better.
BY DANA TANYERI
AYBE IT'S A CHAR-GRILLED STEAK AND A BONE-DRY MARTINI. OR BEING
in love, playing with the dog or perhaps a new pair of Jimmy
Choos. It could also be that warm glow you get looking over a full
dining room on those rare nights when everything hums along perfectly.
Turns out, happiness-deep, lasting satisfaction as
opposed to pleasures that evaporate as quickly as the
last drops of gin in that martini-is considerably more
complex. Scientists who spend their lives studying the
subject contend that it's some combination of genetics,
values and life experience that lead to a happy life.
Whatever happiness is for you, chances are you don't
have enough of it. You spend most of your time just
trying to make sure that everyone else-customers, staff,
suppliers, reviewers, inspectors-is happy. You work
while others play and the days when life controls you far
outnumber those when you control life. Employees don't
show, prices rise, bad weather kills your traffic, the dish-
washer's been lifting steaks and
your spouse has had it with your
schedule. You're on the firing line
every day, and that's one tough place
to find happiness.
But figuring out how to find it does
more than put a smile on your face. Happy
people are healthier, tend to be more suc-
cessful-and they live longer too. According to
Dr. Ed Diener at the University of Illinois, a lead-
ing researcher in the science of happiness, "Not only
does happiness feel good, but happy people appear to
function better than unhappy people-making more
ILLUSTRATIONS BY BILL MAYER
30 Restaurant Business May 2007 restaurantbiz.corn
restaurantbiz.Gom May 2007 Restaurant Business, 31
money, having better social relation-
ships, being better organizational
citizens at work, doing more volun-
teer work and having better health."
Diener cites one study that found
that, on average, happy people lived
10.7 years longer than unhappy people.
Another study tracked a group
of nuns in a Milwaukee convent.
Before joining the order back in the
1930s, each nun agreed to keep a
diary. The language used and emo-
tions exhibited in those journals
were analyzed over the years and
enabled researchers to separate
the group into "happy nuns" and
"not so happy nuns." According
to Diener, two-thirds of the not so
happy nuns died before their 85th
birthdays, while 90 percent of ...
Performance Analysis - Starbucks
Employee Performance: Find any information on the company’s performance in context of its workforce. Look for rankings of the “best companies to work for,” news reports of labor troubles (e.g., lawsuits), and whether the company’s workforce unionized). Then, in a short paragraph, assess the company’s employee performance. To what extent is the company capable of satisfying its employees’ needs? Is the company rated a good employer?
How is it that the wor takes over
your life, leaving you burned out, even
miserable? It doesn't have to be tnat
way. Here's how to make it all better.
BY DANA TANYERI
AYBE IT'S A CHAR-GRILLED STEAK AND A BONE-DRY MARTINI. OR BEING
in love, playing with the dog or perhaps a new pair of Jimmy
Choos. It could also be that warm glow you get looking over a full
dining room on those rare nights when everything hums along perfectly.
Turns out, happiness-deep, lasting satisfaction as
opposed to pleasures that evaporate as quickly as the
last drops of gin in that martini-is considerably more
complex. Scientists who spend their lives studying the
subject contend that it's some combination of genetics,
values and life experience that lead to a happy life.
Whatever happiness is for you, chances are you don't
have enough of it. You spend most of your time just
trying to make sure that everyone else-customers, staff,
suppliers, reviewers, inspectors-is happy. You work
while others play and the days when life controls you far
outnumber those when you control life. Employees don't
show, prices rise, bad weather kills your traffic, the dish-
washer's been lifting steaks and
your spouse has had it with your
schedule. You're on the firing line
every day, and that's one tough place
to find happiness.
But figuring out how to find it does
more than put a smile on your face. Happy
people are healthier, tend to be more suc-
cessful-and they live longer too. According to
Dr. Ed Diener at the University of Illinois, a lead-
ing researcher in the science of happiness, "Not only
does happiness feel good, but happy people appear to
function better than unhappy people-making more
ILLUSTRATIONS BY BILL MAYER
30 Restaurant Business May 2007 restaurantbiz.corn
restaurantbiz.Gom May 2007 Restaurant Business, 31
money, having better social relation-
ships, being better organizational
citizens at work, doing more volun-
teer work and having better health."
Diener cites one study that found
that, on average, happy people lived
10.7 years longer than unhappy people.
Another study tracked a group
of nuns in a Milwaukee convent.
Before joining the order back in the
1930s, each nun agreed to keep a
diary. The language used and emo-
tions exhibited in those journals
were analyzed over the years and
enabled researchers to separate
the group into "happy nuns" and
"not so happy nuns." According
to Diener, two-thirds of the not so
happy nuns died before their 85th
birthdays, while 90 percent of .
This article provides 6 tips for learning to enjoy time spent alone, as research has shown many people prefer external stimulation and find inner thoughts anxiety-provoking. The tips are: start with small periods of alone time each week; practice mindfulness of present moments; focus on deep breathing to calm anxiety; let the mind wander without judgment; engage the creative side through hobbies; and write letters to relax the mind. With regular practice, people can gain comfort with solitude and experience reduced stress and improved focus.
This document provides 10 steps to get your ex back. It begins by emphasizing the importance of relationships and discussing how delicate romantic relationships can be. It stresses taking time after a breakup to slow down and divert your mind with other tasks, friends, family, or pets. The document recommends avoiding immediately trying to get your ex back and instead using the time to reflect on what went wrong in the relationship. It suggests finding the underlying reason for the breakup by reflecting on whether consequences were inevitable. Overall, the summary emphasizes slowing down, self-care, and reflection as important first steps after a breakup before attempting to reconcile with an ex.
Archivetemp how to eliminate stress & anxiety from your lifeFofoSoso3
It seems like you hear it all the time from nearly every
one you know – “I’m SO stressed out!” Pressures abound in
this world today. Those pressures cause stress and anxiety,
and often we are ill-equipped to deal with those stressors
that trigger anxiety and other feelings that can make us
sick. Literally, sick.
The statistics are staggering. One in every eight
Americans age 18-54 suffers from an anxiety disorder. This
totals over 19 million people! Research conducted by the
National Institute of Mental Health has shown that anxiety
disorders are the number one mental health problem among
American women and are second only to alcohol and drug
abuse by men.
It seems like you hear it all the time from nearly every one you know – “I’m SO stressed out!” Pressures abound in this world today. Those pressures cause stress and anxiety, and often we are ill-equipped to deal with those stressors that trigger anxiety and other feelings that can make us sick. Literally, sick.
Bhawna Monga is an author and emotional well-being expert based in New Delhi, India. She has written a book called "World Full of Needles" about helping people overcome challenges in their relationships. Monga has degrees in HR, sociology, education, and psychological counseling. She uses her experience and training to help people with their emotional wellness. Monga frequently writes articles on relationships and gives advice to help people improve their personal and professional lives.
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ELIMINATE
STRESS AND ANXIETY FROM
YOUR LIFE
It seems like you hear it all the time from nearly everyone you know – “I’m SO stressed out!” Pressures abound in this world today. Those pressures cause stress and anxiety, and often we are ill-equipped to deal with those stressors that trigger anxiety and other feelings that can make us sick. Literally, sick.
The document provides an overview of an 8-step guide to managing stress by removing stressors. It begins by explaining how stress can shorten telomeres and potentially cause health issues or death over time. The guide then outlines 3 ways to prevent stress: 1) stay informed about personal finances, health, work etc to avoid surprises, 2) focus on a few priority goals or tasks at a time rather than multitasking, and 3) recognize personal limits and say no to taking on too many commitments. The guide aims to help the reader eliminate stressors systematically rather than just cope with stress.
The document provides five thoughts on finding balance in life as a lawyer and woman. It discusses defining success on one's own terms rather than by external standards, embracing vulnerability rather than always needing to be right, trusting intuition in addition to logic, listening rather than always problem-solving for others, and cultivating an abundance mindset rather than one of scarcity. The accompanying book review discusses a book on the myth of women having successful careers and families, finding an imbalance still exists for many successful women who take on a "second shift" of domestic duties.
It seems like you hear it all the time from nearly every
one you know – “I’m SO stressed out!” Pressures abound in
this world today. Those pressures cause stress and anxiety,
and often we are ill-equipped to deal with those stressors
that trigger anxiety and other feelings that can make us
sick. Literally, sick.
The document provides advice from the director of a college on 5 things every college graduate should know. They are: 1) a degree does not entitle you to a high-paying job immediately; 2) find what you truly love to do for a career; 3) learn how to interact well with people; 4) understand office politics; and 5) build and maintain a strong social network. The director emphasizes being realistic about one's first job and working to develop important career skills after graduation.
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• Related Body Systems: All
• Related reading from text: Chapters 3 and 5
• Content Overview—the following topics are included in this unit:
1. A review of the relationship between stress and health.
2. A review of the General Adaptation Syndrome.
3. Examination of your personal "stress style".
4. The influence of negative thinking in the experience of stress.
5. The role of stress management skills and social support in the
experience of stress.
• Objectives—knowledge, skills, and attitudes. By the end of this
lab, each student will be able to:
1. Describe the impact of various types of stressors on the human
body.
2. Identify the major sources of stress in his/her life.
3. Identify his/her primary ways (both positive and negative) of
coping with stressful events and/or circumstances.
4. Identify the extent to which she/he engages in negative thinking
patterns in everyday interactions and/or stressful situations.
5. Observe and record the impact of a relaxation exercise on their
heart rate and blood pressure.
6. Observe the impact of the introduction of a social performance
stress situation.
7. Observe the impact of the addition of social support to the social
performance stress situation.
8. Experience a social support exercise.
• To be completed prior to the laboratory:
ü Worksheets 6-A, 6-B, 6-C, and 6-D (note: In order to complete
Worksheet 6-A, you will be required to watch one television
news broadcasts prior to completing the survey).
• Before leaving the lab, you need to complete and turn in:
1. Exercise 1: Negative Thinking.
2. Exercise 2: Relaxation Response.
3. Exercise 3: Social Performance Anxiety.
4. Exercise 4: Impact of Social Support on Social Performance
Anxiety.
Unit 6: Stress and Health
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Stressful Thinking
Stress is the “wear and tear” our bodies experience as we adjust to our continually
changing environment; it has physical and emotional effects on us and can create positive
or negative feelings. As a positive influence, stress can help compel us to action; it can
result in a new awareness and an exciting new perspective. As a negative influence, it can
result in feelings of distrust, rejection, anger and depression, which in turn can lead to
health problems, heart disease, and stroke. With the death of a loved one, the birth of a
child, a job promotion, or a new relation, we experience stress as we adjust our lives to
these changes.
Why do different people react differently to the same stress situation? Why do similar life
events evoke such varying reactions as depression, anxiety, hostility, elation, and even
indifference? The answer points to one of the most powerful and useful notions in stress
management: our experience of stress is influenced by our thoughts and perceptions. In
technical terms, our cognitions influence our reactions to stress.
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Redbook090115 burnout
1. life
t’s monday morning. You’ve had a weekend to
(ostensibly) unwind, yet when the alarm goes
off, you don’t want to hit snooze. You want to
throw your freaking phone across the room
and barricade the door. The exhaustion is more
than a lack of sleep—it feels mental, too, born
from your never-ending to-do list. You’re not just
stressed. You’re burnt out.
That term, burnout, has usually been associated
with health-care professionals and others who toil
in difficult, emotionally draining conditions. But in
our overachieving era, with emails from the boss at
10 p.m., professional-level kids’ sports, and lack of
wireless dead zones, that feeling of barely hanging
onisrampantforotherpeople,acrossallprofessions,
too. “It’s clearly a cultural phenomenon,” says Chris-
tina Maslach, coauthor of one of the subject’s most
widely respected books, The Truth About Burnout,
and a professor of psychology at the University of
California, Berkeley.
Why now? “Technology makes it much more
likely that we’ll experience burnout,” says Ales-
sandra Wall, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist and life
coach in San Diego. “Burnout is complex,” adds
Paula Davis-Laack, author of Addicted to Busy:
Your Blueprint for Burnout Prevention. “There
isn’t one event that causes it: Work can spill over
If “stress” doesn’t even begin
to describe your nonstop life, read this.
You could be heading toward
burnout. Take a deep breath: There are
simple, everyday solutions to feeling
calmer and more in control. And you
don’t even have to chuck it all and
start fresh on another, quieter planet.
BY PAULA DERROW
/ / /
There isn’t
one thing that
sets you off—
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2. life
to home and vice versa.” The economy factors in too, says
Maslach. “There’s a real crunch in the workplace—fewer
people being asked to do more work for less pay.”
Womenarenostrangerstoexcessivestress.“Womentendto
be pulled in more directions than men are,” says Ron Epstein,
M.D., a professor of family medicine, psychiatry, oncology,
and nursing at the University of Rochester Medical Center
and a leading expert in how to prevent burnout in health-care
professionals. “And anyone who is giving, giving, giving and
not getting much back is likely to reach a breaking point,” he
says. A meta-analysis in the Journal of Vocational Behavior
found that in any group of 1,000 workers, 80 more women than
men will experience emotional exhaustion—a small number,
statistically speaking, but indicative of women’s willingness
to go the extra mile. “As a clinical psychologist, I see so many
women, mostly mothers, who come in feeling overwhelmed,
exhausted, and isolated from the demands of caring for their
children, working, and taking on other roles and responsibili-
ties,” says Claire Nicogossian, a clinical psychologist and the
founder of momswellbeing.com.
/ / / A R E Y O U S U F F E R I N G F R O M I T ? / / /
herearesolutionstoburnout—andtheydon’tinvolve
quitting your job or giving away your kids. First, though,
it’s key to understand what it is: “Burnout develops when
someone is dealing with a high level of stress but doesn’t
have access to adequate resources, such as social support, help-
ful advice, feedback from friends or colleagues, or control over
how they spend their time,” explains Arnold B. Bakker, Ph.D.,
a professor of work and organizational psychology at Erasmus
University Rotterdam who is one of the most prolific burnout
researchersinthefield.Sowhatdoesthatlooklikeinyourworld?
People who are burnt out tend to experience three major
symptoms. First, there’s the soul-crushing fatigue that goes
on and on, however much you sleep. It’s a feeling Kelly Gur-
nett, 33, of Buffalo, NY, describes as hitting a wall—and not
bouncing back. “I’m a writer, and the sole earner in my family.
My husband has a chronic illness, and last year I was work-
ing from home, taking care of the house, being everything to
everyone. I was going on fumes for months. Then suddenly,
the fumes ran out. Any curveball in my day, like a client
switching a deadline, would overwhelm me.” It’s no wonder:
“Whenyou’reexhaustedandsleep-deprived,it’shardertoaccess
good coping skills,” Nicogossian explains. “That’s when you
find yourself snapping at your mate or kids, overeating, feel-
ing too tired to do daily chores, or taking shortcuts at work.”
Gurnettalsodescribesakindofcynicismaboutlife,another
classic element of burnout. “It got to the point where I wasn’t
excited at all about the things I once cared about, like posting
on my blog, which had always been my passion project,” she
says. You may start to notice that you feel disengaged from
activities you loved, like hobbies or plans with friends, says
Davis-Laack.“Youunplugfromthingsthatusedtogiveyoujoy.”
Even getting through your to-do list can, ironically, lead
to the third major component of burnout, which is a sense of
inefficacy. “You feel like, ‘Man, I’m putting in all this effort,
but I’m not seeing any results or getting any recognition,’”
says Davis-Laack. Jocelyn Negron-Rios feels that way daily.
Since she had her second child, the 37-year-old executive
assistant’s responsibilities at work have increased, and her
husband puts in lots of late nights and travels for business.
“With my 11-year-old and the preteen drama, plus a 3-year-old
who never stops moving, there are times I’m overwhelmed to
the point of wanting to curl up in a closet and cry,” she says.
“In fact, I’ve done exactly that, just to get some quiet time.”
Even though she knows she’s accomplishing a lot, Negron-
Rios often feels as if she doesn’t measure up. “I can’t truly
be present with anyone because my mind is going in 50 mil-
lion directions at once,” she frets. “I’m constantly thinking
of what I have to do so all the balls I’m juggling don’t drop.”
Unlike garden-variety stress, burnout typically can’t be
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feeling, despite
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3. cured by a weekend getaway or a few mental-health days.
Researchers at Tel Aviv University found that workers with
burnout reported feeling sluggish and frustrated again less
thanaweekafterreturningfromvacation.Anditisn’tthesame
thing as depression, which is “context-free,” Bakker explains,
and requires medication, psychotherapy, or a combination of
the two. In contrast, you can pin burnout on external forces—
and, fortunately, manage them to find peace in your life again.
/ / / T H E M A G I C 2 0 P E R C E N T R U L E / / /
ne important way to inoculate yourself against
burnout may be to find little ways to create a more
meaningful routine. “If you feel like you’re making a
difference, you’re less likely to burn out,” says Epstein.
What’s amazing is that even if the vast majority of your day
is comprised of annoying or emotionally draining tasks, you
can still manage to feel content, energized, and that you’re
having an impact. When he studied academic physicians, “the
research suggested that they needed to like only 20 percent
of what they did, on most days, to feel happy in their work,”
says Epstein. That’s a number it can’t hurt for anyone to strive
for. When you think about it, 20 percent isn’t that hard to
achieve—it’s about 90 minutes in a typical eight-hour workday.
Kelly Gurnett, the Buffalo writer, upped the amount of her
day that felt meaningful by “taking a hatchet” to any activity
that wasn’t absolutely essential—and spending the extra time
on things that brought her joy. “For so long, I was focused
only on work that seemed ‘productive.’ Either it was billable or
could be crossed off a to-do, like housework,” she says. “Now I
let myself focus on things that are unproductive but that I care
about. I’m a huge dog lover, so I foster dogs. I watch silly TV
shows with my husband. I feel more relaxed and have more
ideas, so it winds up helping the billable side of things, too.”
If cutting things out of your day feels less than realistic,
think instead about the tasks you enjoy most and figure out
ways to do more of those, however you can. Burnout experts
and positive psychologists (who study what it takes to thrive)
have a name for this kind of conscious tweaking of your
routine: job crafting. “You basically change your job without
leaving it,” explains Davis-Laack. And it’s a principle you can
put into practice whether you spend your time in an office or
your job is managing your home and family. Try reordering
your daily to-do’s so you either begin or end with something
you love, depending on what feels best for your own rhythms.
If you’re a people person, you might decide to schedule meet-
ings for early in the day, to get a jolt of energy. If you’re a
teacher and you love numbers, maybe you want to save the
math lesson for last and end on a high note. Either way, how
you prioritize can make a difference in how you feel overall.
Shifting the balance of her weekly tasks helped Court-
ney, a 37-year-old social worker and mother of two (who
doesn’t want to use her last name). Though she found her
work—counseling very sick people and their families—
meaningful, “the sadness of the job spilled over into the rest
of my life,” she says. “It became hard for me to leave work
at work.” So she decided to split her time between running
support groups for people with cancer and leading groups
for new mothers. Being with the new moms lifted her. “It
really helped to have something that wasn’t about life and
death,” she says. She also credits spending time with friends
and colleagues, which helped her cope with her sadness.
Making connections with others that way, as well as being
a bright spot for someone else, can increase your happiness.
“Think about it: If you’re working at a cash register, you can
re-envision your job and give yourself a goal of making cus-
tomers’ days happier by smiling or saying a few nice words,”
explains Sonja Lyubomirsky, Ph.D., a professor of psychology
at the University of California, Riverside, and author of The
Myths of Happiness. A well-known anecdote from a study
on job crafting found that hospital janitors who started their
day by putting flowers in patients’ rooms felt much happier
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and energetic. “The flowers had a huge, positive effect on
patients, which in turn gave the janitors a boost of energy,”
says Davis-Laack. In a similar vein, you might be able to get
that boost by mentoring a younger coworker or bringing a
mom friend with the blues a cup of coffee at the playground.
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aking tiny changes in your thinking and your
daily habits can also make a huge difference in how
you feel when the alarm goes off. “Learning how
to notice small signals—a knot in your stomach,
tension in your neck—then counteracting them with infor-
mal, mindful moments can go a long way,” says Epstein.
In a 2012 study he coauthored, he found that doctors who
learned to do mindful things like sharing a positive personal
experience from their day with someone or tuning in to
their emotions and physical sensations felt more engaged
as they worked. What that means for those of us who aren’t
M.D.’s: When you find yourself getting irritated at your kid
for no reason, instead of plowing on to the next task, force
yourself to pause. Take a deep breath. Acknowledge that
you’re feeling stressed. Eventually, that mindfulness will
become more automatic, and will keep you from feeling
overwhelmed in the first place.
Granted, eking out time to relax is hard when your head
is about to explode. Take baby steps: Instead of rolling out
of bed, making coffee, checking email, and throwing in a
load of laundry before hustling the kids off to school, keep
your door closed for five minutes and write in a journal or
do a few yoga poses. “Starting your day this way helps you
get centered, which is when you’ll end up doing your best
work,” says Joan Borysenko, Ph.D., author of Fried: Why
You Burn Out and How to Revive. “Too many women say,
‘I can’t afford to be, because I’ve got stuff to do!’ But if you
put yourself in a place where you’re not trying to do any-
thing but be present, you’ll increase your level of brilliance.”
Hitting pause can give you the space, energy, and tools
you need to figure out that it’s time for a change. “Women
are running around so much that we don’t take the time
to really back off and look at our lives,” says Borysenko. To
avoid those closeted crying sessions, Negron-Rios says that
every so often, she takes a step back. “I let the balls drop for a
moment and get into a good book. Or I leave work at the office
and vow not to log in after hours so I can really be at home.”
That’s smart, says Epstein: “Making small commitments to
do things for yourself that are mindful, like focusing on your
lunch instead of looking at a computer screen while eating,
can be more important for your state of mind than taking
a weeklong vacation. Enjoy your lunch. Be in the present.”
It can also help to make a conscious effort to talk about
experiences that have gone well in your day. “It’s the oppo-
site of venting,” says Epstein. If you work, you could tell a
coworker about a positive interaction you had with a client
instead of piling on the complaints. For a frazzled mom,
that might mean telling a friend that you’ve finally gotten
your child on a regular nap schedule, or recounting to your
spouse the most adorable thing your kid did that day. The
key is sharing those positive moments with people you trust,
because research suggests that developing high-quality rela-
tionships is one of the best predictors of well-being. “If there
are a few people you can talk with in an authentic way,
you won’t feel as exhausted and drained,” Davis-Laack says.
In a culture where many of us feel like it’s normal to
always have our game face on, to constantly be available
(if not to a boss, then to our kids), making these kinds of
mindful choices can feel like a huge challenge. But when
it comes down to it, there’s no way you can be a good col-
league, an effective worker, not to mention a caring per-
son, if you don’t give yourself permission to do the things
that are meaningful to you. Or to do nothing at all, at
least for a few minutes a day. “Even if I feel I don’t have
time, when I make myself go out with friends or pick up
that book, somehow the chaos eases,” says Negron-Rios.
You deserve that kind of peace too. Let yourself find it. R
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WHAT ’S YOUR BURNOUT R ISK?
H ER E’S HOW WE SEE IT:
If you’re extroverted, you may be… BURNOUT-
PROTECTED /// Outgoing types are better able to resist
the downward spiral of burnout, possibly because they
get more support from friends, according to Arnold
Bakker, Ph.D., a leading expert on burnout. Still, you might
need alone time, too. Research also suggests that a dose
of quiet can make you feel less spent. For instance, if
you’re frazzled, take a 30-second walk down the hall, slip
into an empty conference room, and do some work there.
If you’re a perfectionist, you may be…
BURNOUT-PRONE /// You might kick butt at a job but
also find yourself hurtling toward the fryer. “If you’re
always wanting to take on more, you’re likely to end up
mentally exhausted,” says Ron Epstein, M.D. Try to
recognize when your perfectionism isn’t helping (do you
really need to triple-check a work email or fold your kid’s
underwear?) and give yourself permission to back off.
If you identify too closely with what you do for a
living, you may be…BURNOUT-PRONE /// “What you
do isn’t the totality of who you are,” says media mogul
Arianna Huffington, author of Thrive. Make time for what
you love outside the grind, whether that’s doing yoga,
blogging, or making your friends laugh. “Confusing what
you do with who you are,” says Huffington, “eventually
leads to choices that are antithetical to flourishing.”
Ifyoutakestepstochangeabadsituation, you
may be… BURNOUT-PROTECTED /// “Engaged people
change a situation at work or home when they don’t like
it,” says Bakker. “That’s how they stay engaged.” That might
mean asking to take on new tasks when a job gets boring,
or asking friends for help when you’re feeling down.
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