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PHASE 2
CURRICULUM
DISCIPLER TRAININGDISCIPLER TRAINING
1010
REASONS
WHY WE BELIEVE
THAT PERSONAL
DISCIPLESHIP
IS NEEDED
Lesson 1
1. The generally accepted definition of
“discipleship” is distorted
2. There is an attempt to develop “teachers”
rather than “disciplers”
3. To influence many people simultaneously is
generally considered the method of choice.
Personal one-on-one discipleship
appears to be too time-consuming,
energy consuming, and inefficient
1010 REASONS WHY WE BELIEVE THAT PERSONALREASONS WHY WE BELIEVE THAT PERSONAL
DISCIPLESHIP (SPIRITUAL PARENTING) IS NEEDED,DISCIPLESHIP (SPIRITUAL PARENTING) IS NEEDED,
IN ADDITION TO CORPORATE DISCIPLESHIPIN ADDITION TO CORPORATE DISCIPLESHIP
4. Most believers consider
themselves
inadequately trained, or ungifted
5. The practice of mentoring,
Or spiritual parenting, is not
being modeled
By many older believers
1010 REASONS WHY WE BELIEVE THAT PERSONALREASONS WHY WE BELIEVE THAT PERSONAL
DISCIPLESHIP (SPIRITUAL PARENTING) IS NEEDED,DISCIPLESHIP (SPIRITUAL PARENTING) IS NEEDED,
IN ADDITION TO CORPORATE DISCIPLESHIPIN ADDITION TO CORPORATE DISCIPLESHIP
6. “Personal discipleship” (“spiritual
parenting”) is not promoted and modeled
by the leadership in many churches
7. There is an assumption by many that the
appropriation of biblical knowledge by
itself will lead to spiritual maturity.
8. The church community typically
focuses on making converts rather
than making disciples
1010 REASONS WHY WE BELIEVE THAT PERSONALREASONS WHY WE BELIEVE THAT PERSONAL
DISCIPLESHIP (SPIRITUAL PARENTING) IS NEEDED,DISCIPLESHIP (SPIRITUAL PARENTING) IS NEEDED,
IN ADDITION TO CORPORATE DISCIPLESHIPIN ADDITION TO CORPORATE DISCIPLESHIP
9. Many believers are reluctant to make
a commitment that they perceive may
interfere with or limit their lifestyle or
plans
10. Biblical truth is often presented in
isolated (topical) form without a good
understanding of how it fits into
the Christian life as a whole,
promoting the compartmentalization
of the believer’s life
1010 REASONS WHY WE BELIEVE THAT PERSONALREASONS WHY WE BELIEVE THAT PERSONAL
DISCIPLESHIP (SPIRITUAL PARENTING) IS NEEDED,DISCIPLESHIP (SPIRITUAL PARENTING) IS NEEDED,
IN ADDITION TO CORPORATE DISCIPLESHIPIN ADDITION TO CORPORATE DISCIPLESHIP
I.I. THE GENERALLY ACCEPTED DEFINITION OFTHE GENERALLY ACCEPTED DEFINITION OF
“DISCIPLESHIP” IS DISTORTED“DISCIPLESHIP” IS DISTORTED
“DISCIPLESHIP” has become synonymous
with “teaching”.
Discipleship needs to be redefined to
include the idea of “spiritual parenting”,
“spiritual tutoring” or “spiritual
mentoring”.
Anyone who “teaches” is thought by many to
be fulfilling the mandate to “make
disciples”.
II.II. THERE IS AN ATTEMPT TO DEVELOP “TEACHERS”THERE IS AN ATTEMPT TO DEVELOP “TEACHERS”
RATHER THAN “DISCIPLERS”RATHER THAN “DISCIPLERS”
TEACHING is a gift of the Spirit
we must conclude that most believers will not
have the gift of teaching.
But “DISCIPLING” is not a gift.
Then how are the other 90% supposed to minister?
Rom. 12:4-8, 1 Cor. 12:28-29, James 3:1
The Biblical method of multiplication is much more
productive over the long term.
This is very important, because the seeming short-term
ineffectiveness has led many to the illusion that
it really is not the best method.
Many Christian leaders measure success by numbers.
III.III. TO INFLUENCE MANY PEOPLE SIMULTANEOUSLY ISTO INFLUENCE MANY PEOPLE SIMULTANEOUSLY IS
GENERALLY CONSIDERED THE METHOD OF CHOICE.GENERALLY CONSIDERED THE METHOD OF CHOICE.
PERSONAL ONE-ON-ONE DISCIPLESHIP APPEARS TO BE TOOPERSONAL ONE-ON-ONE DISCIPLESHIP APPEARS TO BE TOO
TIME-CONSUMING, ENERGY CONSUMING,TIME-CONSUMING, ENERGY CONSUMING,
AND INEFFICIENTAND INEFFICIENT
We believe this is one of the reasons
there is such an emphasis in the Christian
community to hold events and activities,
which give the impression of short-term
success if attendance is the measure.
(Rather than
“addition”)
CHURCHCHURCH
GROWTHGROWTH
THROUGHTHROUGH
SPIRITUALSPIRITUAL
MULTIPLICATIONMULTIPLICATION
IV.IV. MOST BELIEVERS CONSIDER THEMSELVESMOST BELIEVERS CONSIDER THEMSELVES
INADEQUATELY TRAINED, OR UNGIFTEDINADEQUATELY TRAINED, OR UNGIFTED
Typical Modern Church
Congregation
Typical Modern Church
Congregation
Leaders typically are perceived
to be “trained”, but don’t feel they
have the necessary
time to devote to individuals.
Followers usually
have more time,
but don’t feel they are
adequately trained
to meet the needs of
new believers.
Leaders
Followers
IS A SPIRITUAL GIFT REQUIRED TOIS A SPIRITUAL GIFT REQUIRED TO
DISCIPLE?DISCIPLE?
God has not intended for every believer to be gifted as an
“evangelist”. Eph. 4:11 And He gave … some as evangelists…
But God has intended for every believer to be available to Him as a
“witness”!
(not a gift.)
Matt. 5:16 “Let your light shine before men in such a way that they may see
your good works, and glorify your Father who is in heaven.
Acts 1:8 … you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon
you; and you shall be My
witnesses …
1 Peter 3:15 … sanctify Christ as Lord in your hearts, always being ready
to make a defense to everyone who asks you to give an account for the
hope that is in you, yet with gentleness and reverence;
God has not intended for every believer to be gifted as a “teacher”.
Eph. 4:11 And He gave … some as pastors and teachers,
Rom. 12:6-8 Since we have gifts that differ according to the grace given to us,
each of us is to exercise them accordingly: … he who teaches, in his teaching;
But God has intended for every believer to be available to
Him as a “discipler” (that is, a “spiritual parent”), not a
gift.
1 Thess. 2:7-13 But we proved to be gentle among you, as a nursing
mother tenderly cares for her own children. … exhorting and
encouraging and imploring each one of you as a father would his own
children, …
John 12:24-26 “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls
into the earth and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it bears much
fruit. …
Matt. 28:18-20 (Command to the Church) “Go therefore and make
disciples of all the nations,
Both the command to be witnesses, as well as the
command
to make disciples, were given to the Church at
large, not just
to those that were present at the time.
(Matthew 28:18-20 & Acts 1:8)
Both the command to be witnesses, as well as the
command
to make disciples, were given to the Church at
large, not just
to those that were present at the time.
(Matthew 28:18-20 & Acts 1:8)
The typical newer believer will imitate older believers who they look up to,
or with whom they associate. Thus every believer is a role model for other
believers, even if they don’t want to be.
V. THE PRACTICE OF MENTORING, OR SPIRITUAL
PARENTING, IS NOT BEING MODELED BY MANY OLDER
BELIEVERS
VI. “PERSONAL DISCIPLESHIP” (“SPIRITUAL PARENTING”)
IS NOT PROMOTED AND MODELED BY THE LEADERSHIP IN
MANY CHURCHES
In 1 Peter 5:1-3 leaders are told, “…, I exhort the elders among you, …, shepherd the
flock of God among you, … nor yet as lording it over those allotted to your charge,
but proving to be examples to the flock.
Not just telling people what to do, but rather, showing them what to do.
Can Christian leaders realistically expect followers to imitate what they
themselves are not modeling?
VII.THERE IS AN ASSUMPTION BY MANY THAT THE
APPROPRIATION OF BIBLICAL KNOWLEDGE BY ITSELF
WILL LEAD TO SPIRITUAL MATURITY.
VIII. THE CHURCH COMMUNITY TYPICALLY FOCUSES ON
MAKING CONVERTS RATHER THAN
MAKING DISCIPLES
IX. MANY BELIEVERS ARE RELUCTANT TO MAKE A
COMMITMENT THAT THEY PERCEIVE MAY
INTERFERE WITH OR LIMIT THEIR LIFESTYLE OR
PLANS
X. BIBLICAL TRUTH IS OFTEN PRESENTED IN
ISOLATED (TOPICAL) FORM WITHOUT A GOOD
UNDERSTANDING OF HOW IT FITS INTO THE
CHRISTIAN LIFE AS A WHOLE, PROMOTING THE
COMPARTMENTALIZATION
OF THE BELIEVER’S LIFE
CONCEPTS IN THE ORDER
IN WHICH THEY ARE TYPICALLY NEEDED BY THE NEW
CHRISTIAN
Discipling OthersDiscipling Others
Christian LivingChristian Living
Rewards CeremonyRewards Ceremony
How to Abide in ChristHow to Abide in Christ
The Lordship DecisionThe Lordship Decision
The Character of the Old NatureThe Character of the Old Nature
The Holy Spirit - My New GuideThe Holy Spirit - My New Guide
Why I Now Have Two NaturesWhy I Now Have Two Natures
What Happened at Salvation?What Happened at Salvation?
A Simple Overview of the Christian LifeA Simple Overview of the Christian Life
Jesus - my Rock and FoundationJesus - my Rock and Foundation
What is
personal
discipleship?
Lesson 2
WHAT IS PERSONAL
DISCIPLESHIP?
PARTIAL TRUTH:
To most Christians the term
“Discipleship” simply equates
to
“Presenting Biblical Truth”.
MORE ACCURATELY:
We believe the concept of
“Spiritual Parenting”
more accurately reflects the
Biblical meaning.
PARTIAL TRUTH:
To most Christians the term
“Discipleship” simply equates
to
“Presenting Biblical Truth”.
MORE ACCURATELY:
We believe the concept of
“Spiritual Parenting”
more accurately reflects the
Biblical meaning.
COMMITMENT TO
THE
SPIRITUAL GROWTH
AND WELFARE OF
THE BELIEVER(S)
MODELING
A SPIRITUAL WALK
WITH THE LORD
PERSONAL
ATTENTION
TO HELP EACH
ONE WITH
UNIQUE NEEDS
TEACHING
BIBLICAL
TRUTH
A BIBLICAL MODEL FOR “SPIRITUALA BIBLICAL MODEL FOR “SPIRITUAL
PARENTING”PARENTING”
1 THESSALONIANS 2:3-13 INCLUDES ALL1 THESSALONIANS 2:3-13 INCLUDES ALL
THE COMPONENTS OF SPIRITUALTHE COMPONENTS OF SPIRITUAL
PARENTING.PARENTING.
I. They cared for the believers as a
mother cares for her children
II. They became “role models” to the
new believers
III. They gave individual attention and
instruction as a father
IV. The word of god was an essential
component of discipleship
Paul’s concern for the believers went beyond that of just a
“teacher”. He was committed to their spiritual welfare
and growth.
Paul’s concern for the believers went beyond that of just a
“teacher”. He was committed to their spiritual welfare
and growth.
Paul’s concern for the believers went beyond that of just
a “teacher”.
He was committed to their spiritual welfare and growth.
A goal of the discipler should be to help the disciple
(apprentice learner) to mature, function, be fruitful, and
to spiritually reproduce. The benefits to the discipler are
secondary.
A discipler is a “model” (real, transparent) for the disciple.
The goal is for the disciple to emulate the convictions and
passion of the discipler.
A discipler is a “model” (real, transparent) for the disciple.
The goal is for the disciple to emulate the convictions and
passion of the discipler.
A newborn child requires an extra amount of individual
attention. As the child matures guidance can increasingly
take place in a group setting. Since each child is unique, it
should be expected that both group and personal
attention would be needed on the road to maturity.
A newborn child requires an extra amount of individual
attention. As the child matures guidance can increasingly
take place in a group setting. Since each child is unique, it
should be expected that both group and personal
attention would be needed on the road to maturity.
Paul recognized that each believer is unique and needs
individual attention.
Jesus commanded us to make "disciples", not just
converts.
In the Christian community there are many immature
“converts”, but very few disciples.
Biblical truth is an essential component of Biblical
discipleship.
Biblical truth is an essential component of Biblical
discipleship.
A. A Christian cannot be spiritually mature without
Biblical understanding, but a Christian may have much
Biblical knowledge and yet not be spiritually mature.
B. There are inherent problems with the
commonly held belief that “presenting
Biblical knowledge” equates to
discipleship, and that the other
components are “optional”. If the other
components are not given proper
importance in the nurturing process, the
Christian being mentored will typically
have a difficult time growing to a
reproductive spiritual maturity.
To love to teach is good, but to love those you
teach is better !
To know the Bible is good, but to intimately
know and understand
the One who the Bible reveals is better !
(Jer. 9:23-24; John 17:3)
THE GOAL OF PERSONAL DISCIPLESHIP
(Spiritual Parenting)
To help a believer through the transition from the
habit of daily living in
“self-dependence” to the habit of daily living in
“God-dependence”.
In other words, to make the transition from
“leaning on one’s own understanding” to “trusting in
the Lord with all one’s heart and in all ways
acknowledging Him”.
(Prov. 3:5-6)
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Judgment
of believers
for rewards,
or loss of
rewards !
Rewards based
on what I, by
faith, allow the
Holy Spirit to do
through my life
(His fruit)
SPIRITUAL MATURITY
SPIRITUAL FRUITFULNESS
SPIRITUAL REPRODUCTION
ANTICIPATED RESULTS OF DISCIPLESHIP ARE:
PHYSICAL & SPIRITUAL MULTIPLICATION
HUMAN RACE SPIRITUAL RACE
Genesis 1:26-28 Matthew 28:18-20
A medical doctor stated that about 90% of
normal healthy couples should be able to
physically reproduce children.
We have sympathy for a couple that is
unable to have children, because having
children is considered normal.
Should we not expect the majority of
normal healthy Christians to be able to
reproduce spiritually?
Do we have sympathy for the Christian who
is not spiritually reproducing? If not, why
not?
Obstacles to Physical Reproduction:
1. Physical Immaturity
2. A Physical Health Problem
3. Lack of Physical Intimacy
Obstacles to Spiritual Reproduction:
1. Spiritual Immaturity
2. A Spiritual Health Problem
3. Lack of Spiritual Intimacy
Adam (1st) & Eve
The
Physical
Human
Race
Jesus (2nd Adam)
The
Spiritual
Race
Growing –
thoughts on how
new believers
grow spiritually
Lesson 3
THOUGHTS ON GROWING NEW BELIEVERS
How Does A New Believer Acquire Spiritual Understanding?
If a new believer is not instructed otherwise, he will
typically appropriate the values and convictions of the
Christians that he associates with during the formative first
period of his new spiritual life, just as a baby will tend to
adopt the values and convictions of his family.
Let’s look at several examples of adopting “external behavior”
patterns:
Let’s look at several examples of adopting “external behavior”
patterns:
How does a new believer evaluate the
spiritually standard of living?
How about spiritually acceptable
houses?
How about spiritually acceptable
eating behaviors?
What do we mean by the terms
“self-dependent” and “carnal”?
In the Bible we see a contrast between
“spiritual believers” and “self-dependent
(carnal) believers”.
This, we believe, is the contrast brought out
in Proverbs 3:5-6,
Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do
not lean on your own understanding. In all
your ways acknowledge Him, and He will
make your paths straight.
In the Bible we see a contrast between
“spiritual believers” and “self-dependent
(carnal) believers”.
This, we believe, is the contrast brought out
in Proverbs 3:5-6,
Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do
not lean on your own understanding. In all
your ways acknowledge Him, and He will
make your paths straight.
POINTS TO CONSIDER!
Are congregational meetings not designed for the
“equipping” of the saints so that they
(each one) will in turn spiritually impact the lives of those
with whom they interact?
Why is it that many children of Christian leaders
become resistant to the values of their parents?
The new believer understands the
foundational doctrine of salvation by grace
through Christ.
Now he wants to build on that truth, but isn’t
quite sure how to go about it. Is it
reasonable to simply give him a Bible and
expect him to effectively grow to spiritual
maturity?
The Common Perspective of ChristianThe Common Perspective of Christian
CongregationsCongregations
vs.vs.
the Biblical Perspectivethe Biblical Perspective
(SPIRITUAL MATURITY IS(SPIRITUAL MATURITY IS
TYPICALLY GRADEDTYPICALLY GRADED
““ON THE CURVE”)ON THE CURVE”)
Common
perspective
Common
perspective
Biblical
perspective
“Spiritual”
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These Christians appear to have
wholeheartedly acknowledged His
Lordship in their life, be walking in
fellowship with the Holy Spirit, and
seem to be bearing spiritual fruit.
“Spiritual”
3
“Acceptable” These Christians don’t exhibit
excessive negative outward behavior.
“Self- dependent”
(carnal)
2
“Self- dependent”
(carnal)
2
These Christians tend to exhibit
questionable negative outward
behavior, such as on-going marriage,
relational or financial problems,
addictions, etc.
“Self- (carnal)
being unsaved. 1
TYPICAL DISCIPLED and UNDISCIPLED BELIEVERSTYPICAL DISCIPLED and UNDISCIPLED BELIEVERS
TYPICAL “DISCIPLED” BELIEVER
•Increasing dependence on God
(Master-servant)
Increasing God-reliance (Faith walk) Focus on inward
transformation
(producing Godly behavior)
“It’s about God!” (“dog attitude”)
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God is my “Junior” Partner
(up to 49% control)
God is my “Co-pilot”
(God is on standby) Focus on behavior
modification
Self-dependent
“It’s about me!” (“cat attitude”)
TYPICAL “UNDISCIPLED” BELIEVERTYPICAL “UNDISCIPLED” BELIEVER
LESSON GUIDELESSON GUIDE
Physical Birth to Spiritual Rebirth
Evangelism phase
The Cross
Discipleship Phase (Spiritual
Parenting)
Discipled believer
Undiscipled believer
Rewards Ceremony
TYPICAL DISCIPLED AND UNDISCIPLED BELIEVERS
FIVE IMPORTANT CONCEPTS
Every New Believer Needs To Understand
1. As your Savior – Jesus wants you to know
that all your sins have been forgiven, and
you now have eternal life.
2. As your Lord – Jesus wants you to know
that you have been bought with a price, and
you are no longer your own.
3. You are very special and God has a
marvelous, unique design for your entire
life,
and He wants to manage
His plan for you.
FIVE IMPORTANT CONCEPTS
Every New Believer Needs To Understand
4. God wants you to know that the Holy
Spirit alone is capable of guiding you and
revealing
God’s plan to you.
5. God wants you to know that the
Holy Spirit will train you to recognize,
follow and obey His guidance.
1.The character of God
(see Lesson 1-5)
1.The personality of the Holy Spirit
(see Lesson 1-6)
2.The human nature and the divine
nature (see Lesson 1-5)
3.The sovereignty of God
(see Lesson 1-14)
4.Internal transformation vs.
behavior modification
(see Lesson 1-16)
Related concepts that may be helpful to discuss at
this time:
What is
a Disciple?
Lesson 4
WHAT IS A BIBLICAL DISCIPLE?WHAT IS A BIBLICAL DISCIPLE?
“Disciple” speaks of a believer who exhibits an
acceptable level of observable Christian behavior.
Being a “disciple” should more accurately be
understood to reflect a believer’s disposition and
relationship with the Lord.
We seek to focus on a disciple’s heart attitude,
rather than just what a disciple “does”.
… for God sees not as man sees, for man looks
at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at
the heart.”
(1 Sam. 16:7)
GODLY BEHAVIOR IS AN OUTCOME OF GODLY
The pivotal issue that a disciple has dealt with is
that of Christ’s lordship over his life. In other
words, the believer has considered the claims of
Christ, and has concluded that the best
workable relationship is for the Lord to be in
charge of his entire life. One of Christ’s claims is
that of ownership (having authority over that
which is owned).
1 Cor. 6:19-20
1 Cor. 7:23
HE OWNS ME (WHETHER I BELIEVE IT OR NOT).
HIS OWNERSHIP IS NOT DEPENDENT ON MY ACCEPTANCE.
EVERY DISCIPLE IS A CONVERT,
BUT NOT EVERY CONVERT IS A BIBLICAL DISCIPLE.
Another issue that a disciple has dealt with is that
of Christ’s command for His followers to accept a
Master-servant relationship with Him.
Luke 14:25-33 Now large crowds were going along with Him;
and He turned and said to them, “If anyone comes to Me, and does
not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and
brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be My
disciple. “Whoever does not carry his own cross and come after Me
cannot be My disciple. … “So then, none of you can be My disciple
who does not give up all his own possessions.
Rom. 6:19 … so now present your members as slaves to
righteousness, resulting in sanctification.
1 Cor. 7:22 … he who was called while free, is Christ’s slave.
1 Peter 2:16 act as free men, and do not use your freedom as a
covering for evil, but use it as bondslaves of God.
A disciple of Jesus is more than just a student, he is an apprentice
THE
TEACHER
&
STUDENT
A disciple of Jesus is more than just a student, he is
an apprentice
THE TEACHERTHE TEACHER
Disciple model demands a greater commitment,
and much more personal attention, but we believe it is
the Biblical method as modeled by Jesus Himself,
and the model that will
result in the greatest
Individual spiritual
growth and impact
on the world.
A STUDENTA STUDENT
Typically the goal of a student is to
learn knowledge (information), that is,
to learn what the teacher knows.
The student may not even respect or like
his teacher.
A disciple of Jesus is more than just a student, he is
an apprentice
A DISCIPLEA DISCIPLE
A disciple on the other hand is a student
who has the goal of becoming like his teacher.
This model requires personal interaction, and a
personal commitment by the teacher (mentor,
spiritual parent) on behalf of the apprentice
learner.
A student wants to know what the
teacher knows, a disciple wants to become
like the teacher.
All disciples are students,
But not all students are disciples.
A disciple has a desire to know God, not
just know “about” Him.
 Jer. 9:23-24
 Luke 10:38-42
 John 17:3
 Romans 12:2
A disciple has the attitude of one who
follows the Lord, not one who
“leads” the Lord.
 Luke 5:10-11
 Luke 9:23-24
 John 12:24-26
What has been described in the previous
points should not imply that a disciple of
Jesus is super spiritual or beyond the
capacity to sin.
Although the disciple’s acceptance of
Christ’s yoke has given the Holy Spirit the
freedom to mold him, he still has a
capacity to disobey,
and he can submit to
the sinful human nature
for varying lengths of time.
One of the responsibilities of Church
leadership
is to convey to the congregation that
each believer
should aspire to be used by the Holy
Spirit as a “witness”,
and also as a “spiritual parent”
(discipler).
One characteristic that is typically
evident in the life of a disciple of
Jesus is a discernible
“passion for the Lord”.
"… He (God) raised up David to be their
king, concerning whom He also
testified and said, I have found David the
son of Jesse,
a man after My heart, who will do all My
will.'
(Acts 13:22)
Judgment of
believers for
rewards, or
loss of
rewards!
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WHERE AM I AS A CHRISTIAN?
“Lordship”
decision
“Promised Land” experience
“Desert” experience
GROUP # 1
New believer? Since I am now as
a little child in the “family” of God, I
need someone to walk alongside
of me to answer my questions
and help me to understand how to
follow the Lord and grow spiritually.
GROUP # 3
I have acknowledged His
Lordship over my life, but
my Christian growth
seems to have plateaued,
and I often find the
Christian life difficult
and unfulfilling.
GROUP # 3
I have acknowledged His
Lordship over my life, but
hunger to know more about
abiding in Christ and
spiritually mentoring others.
This is usually the most
effective “window of
opportunity” for discipleship.
GROUP # 2
Although I am a Christian, I have been living defeated, in a desert
experience. (Often characterized by ongoing spiritual symptoms
such as lack of peace, worry, anger, irritability, unbelief, addictive
behavior, a critical attitude, a sense of defeat, disobedience,
complaining and dissatisfaction.)
My attitude has been that God is there to help me with my plans,
rather than me fitting into His plans for my life.
In my everyday life, I have relied more on my own understanding
and
wisdom rather than relying on God’s character.
Will God allow a crisis in my life to humble me, so that I will be willing
to acknowledge His authority and Lordship over my life?
The typical new believer begins the
Christian life with a learner’s disposition. If
this period of openness (“first love”) to
personal discipleship is not taken
advantage of, most new believers will
learn to adapt their lifestyle to that which
is being modeled by the majority of other
believers with whom they are associated.
Guidelines
for Discipling
Others
Lesson 5
GUIDELINES FOR DISCIPLING
1. What is the purpose of discipling?
(See lesson 2-2)
2. Targeting
(Seeking God’s choices as to whom you
should disciple)
A.If you want to be an effective spiritual parent
(discipler), you need to prayerfully seek God’s
wisdom for discernment as to which Christian(s) will
benefit from your investment of time, energy and
possessions. Jesus let His Father make the decision.
B.Where should we look for Christians to disciple?
Judgment of
believers for
rewards, or
loss of
rewards!
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h
WHERE AM I AS A CHRISTIAN?
“Lordship”
decision
“Promised Land” experience
“Desert” experience
GROUP # 1
New believer? Since I am now as
a little child in the “family” of God, I
need someone to walk alongside
of me to answer my questions
and help me to understand how to
follow the Lord and grow spiritually.
GROUP # 3
I have acknowledged His
Lordship over my life, but
my Christian growth
seems to have plateaued,
and I often find the
Christian life difficult
and unfulfilling.
GROUP # 3
I have acknowledged His
Lordship over my life, but
hunger to know more about
abiding in Christ and
spiritually mentoring others.
This is usually the most
effective “window of
opportunity” for discipleship.
GROUP # 2
Christians who have been living in a
desert
experience (often for years), who
through a God
orchestrated crisis have found themselves
humbled and willing to acknowledge His
ownership and authority over their life.
The typical new believer begins the
Christian life with a learner’s disposition. If
this period of openness (“first love”) to
personal discipleship is not taken
advantage of, most new believers will
learn to adapt their lifestyle to that which
is being modeled by the majority of other
believers with whom they are associated.
Crisis
3. What characteristics should we look
for in a disciple-to-be?
A.Teachable attitude
B.A teachable attitude
C.A realibility (dependability)
4. Suggested guidelines for discipling
another person.
GUIDELINES FOR DISCIPLING
ESSENTIALS FOR DISCIPLING
(ROLE DESCRIPTIONS)
Holy
Spirit
Materials
(Bible and
compatible
resources)
Discipler
(me)
Disciple
1
2
3
RECOMMENDATIONS FOR EFFECTIVE
DISCIPLESHIP
A disciple has the goal of becoming like
the teacher.
(Jesus said)
“A pupil (apprentice learner) is not above his
teacher; but everyone,
after he has been fully trained,
will be like his teacher.
(Luke 6:40)
Discussion
Points Related
To Discipleship
Lesson 6
Jesus did not tell us to go into all the
world and just make “converts”,
He told us to go and make “disciples”.
Every believer should be seen as a
potential witness, and every
believer should be seen as a potential
discipler
(“spiritual parent”).

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Phase 2 discipleship curriculum

  • 2. 1010 REASONS WHY WE BELIEVE THAT PERSONAL DISCIPLESHIP IS NEEDED Lesson 1
  • 3. 1. The generally accepted definition of “discipleship” is distorted 2. There is an attempt to develop “teachers” rather than “disciplers” 3. To influence many people simultaneously is generally considered the method of choice. Personal one-on-one discipleship appears to be too time-consuming, energy consuming, and inefficient 1010 REASONS WHY WE BELIEVE THAT PERSONALREASONS WHY WE BELIEVE THAT PERSONAL DISCIPLESHIP (SPIRITUAL PARENTING) IS NEEDED,DISCIPLESHIP (SPIRITUAL PARENTING) IS NEEDED, IN ADDITION TO CORPORATE DISCIPLESHIPIN ADDITION TO CORPORATE DISCIPLESHIP
  • 4. 4. Most believers consider themselves inadequately trained, or ungifted 5. The practice of mentoring, Or spiritual parenting, is not being modeled By many older believers 1010 REASONS WHY WE BELIEVE THAT PERSONALREASONS WHY WE BELIEVE THAT PERSONAL DISCIPLESHIP (SPIRITUAL PARENTING) IS NEEDED,DISCIPLESHIP (SPIRITUAL PARENTING) IS NEEDED, IN ADDITION TO CORPORATE DISCIPLESHIPIN ADDITION TO CORPORATE DISCIPLESHIP
  • 5. 6. “Personal discipleship” (“spiritual parenting”) is not promoted and modeled by the leadership in many churches 7. There is an assumption by many that the appropriation of biblical knowledge by itself will lead to spiritual maturity. 8. The church community typically focuses on making converts rather than making disciples 1010 REASONS WHY WE BELIEVE THAT PERSONALREASONS WHY WE BELIEVE THAT PERSONAL DISCIPLESHIP (SPIRITUAL PARENTING) IS NEEDED,DISCIPLESHIP (SPIRITUAL PARENTING) IS NEEDED, IN ADDITION TO CORPORATE DISCIPLESHIPIN ADDITION TO CORPORATE DISCIPLESHIP
  • 6. 9. Many believers are reluctant to make a commitment that they perceive may interfere with or limit their lifestyle or plans 10. Biblical truth is often presented in isolated (topical) form without a good understanding of how it fits into the Christian life as a whole, promoting the compartmentalization of the believer’s life 1010 REASONS WHY WE BELIEVE THAT PERSONALREASONS WHY WE BELIEVE THAT PERSONAL DISCIPLESHIP (SPIRITUAL PARENTING) IS NEEDED,DISCIPLESHIP (SPIRITUAL PARENTING) IS NEEDED, IN ADDITION TO CORPORATE DISCIPLESHIPIN ADDITION TO CORPORATE DISCIPLESHIP
  • 7. I.I. THE GENERALLY ACCEPTED DEFINITION OFTHE GENERALLY ACCEPTED DEFINITION OF “DISCIPLESHIP” IS DISTORTED“DISCIPLESHIP” IS DISTORTED “DISCIPLESHIP” has become synonymous with “teaching”. Discipleship needs to be redefined to include the idea of “spiritual parenting”, “spiritual tutoring” or “spiritual mentoring”. Anyone who “teaches” is thought by many to be fulfilling the mandate to “make disciples”.
  • 8. II.II. THERE IS AN ATTEMPT TO DEVELOP “TEACHERS”THERE IS AN ATTEMPT TO DEVELOP “TEACHERS” RATHER THAN “DISCIPLERS”RATHER THAN “DISCIPLERS” TEACHING is a gift of the Spirit we must conclude that most believers will not have the gift of teaching. But “DISCIPLING” is not a gift. Then how are the other 90% supposed to minister? Rom. 12:4-8, 1 Cor. 12:28-29, James 3:1
  • 9. The Biblical method of multiplication is much more productive over the long term. This is very important, because the seeming short-term ineffectiveness has led many to the illusion that it really is not the best method. Many Christian leaders measure success by numbers. III.III. TO INFLUENCE MANY PEOPLE SIMULTANEOUSLY ISTO INFLUENCE MANY PEOPLE SIMULTANEOUSLY IS GENERALLY CONSIDERED THE METHOD OF CHOICE.GENERALLY CONSIDERED THE METHOD OF CHOICE. PERSONAL ONE-ON-ONE DISCIPLESHIP APPEARS TO BE TOOPERSONAL ONE-ON-ONE DISCIPLESHIP APPEARS TO BE TOO TIME-CONSUMING, ENERGY CONSUMING,TIME-CONSUMING, ENERGY CONSUMING, AND INEFFICIENTAND INEFFICIENT We believe this is one of the reasons there is such an emphasis in the Christian community to hold events and activities, which give the impression of short-term success if attendance is the measure.
  • 11. IV.IV. MOST BELIEVERS CONSIDER THEMSELVESMOST BELIEVERS CONSIDER THEMSELVES INADEQUATELY TRAINED, OR UNGIFTEDINADEQUATELY TRAINED, OR UNGIFTED Typical Modern Church Congregation Typical Modern Church Congregation Leaders typically are perceived to be “trained”, but don’t feel they have the necessary time to devote to individuals. Followers usually have more time, but don’t feel they are adequately trained to meet the needs of new believers. Leaders Followers
  • 12. IS A SPIRITUAL GIFT REQUIRED TOIS A SPIRITUAL GIFT REQUIRED TO DISCIPLE?DISCIPLE? God has not intended for every believer to be gifted as an “evangelist”. Eph. 4:11 And He gave … some as evangelists… But God has intended for every believer to be available to Him as a “witness”! (not a gift.) Matt. 5:16 “Let your light shine before men in such a way that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father who is in heaven. Acts 1:8 … you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you; and you shall be My witnesses … 1 Peter 3:15 … sanctify Christ as Lord in your hearts, always being ready to make a defense to everyone who asks you to give an account for the hope that is in you, yet with gentleness and reverence; God has not intended for every believer to be gifted as a “teacher”. Eph. 4:11 And He gave … some as pastors and teachers, Rom. 12:6-8 Since we have gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, each of us is to exercise them accordingly: … he who teaches, in his teaching;
  • 13. But God has intended for every believer to be available to Him as a “discipler” (that is, a “spiritual parent”), not a gift. 1 Thess. 2:7-13 But we proved to be gentle among you, as a nursing mother tenderly cares for her own children. … exhorting and encouraging and imploring each one of you as a father would his own children, … John 12:24-26 “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains alone; but if it dies, it bears much fruit. … Matt. 28:18-20 (Command to the Church) “Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, Both the command to be witnesses, as well as the command to make disciples, were given to the Church at large, not just to those that were present at the time. (Matthew 28:18-20 & Acts 1:8) Both the command to be witnesses, as well as the command to make disciples, were given to the Church at large, not just to those that were present at the time. (Matthew 28:18-20 & Acts 1:8)
  • 14. The typical newer believer will imitate older believers who they look up to, or with whom they associate. Thus every believer is a role model for other believers, even if they don’t want to be. V. THE PRACTICE OF MENTORING, OR SPIRITUAL PARENTING, IS NOT BEING MODELED BY MANY OLDER BELIEVERS VI. “PERSONAL DISCIPLESHIP” (“SPIRITUAL PARENTING”) IS NOT PROMOTED AND MODELED BY THE LEADERSHIP IN MANY CHURCHES In 1 Peter 5:1-3 leaders are told, “…, I exhort the elders among you, …, shepherd the flock of God among you, … nor yet as lording it over those allotted to your charge, but proving to be examples to the flock. Not just telling people what to do, but rather, showing them what to do. Can Christian leaders realistically expect followers to imitate what they themselves are not modeling? VII.THERE IS AN ASSUMPTION BY MANY THAT THE APPROPRIATION OF BIBLICAL KNOWLEDGE BY ITSELF WILL LEAD TO SPIRITUAL MATURITY.
  • 15. VIII. THE CHURCH COMMUNITY TYPICALLY FOCUSES ON MAKING CONVERTS RATHER THAN MAKING DISCIPLES IX. MANY BELIEVERS ARE RELUCTANT TO MAKE A COMMITMENT THAT THEY PERCEIVE MAY INTERFERE WITH OR LIMIT THEIR LIFESTYLE OR PLANS X. BIBLICAL TRUTH IS OFTEN PRESENTED IN ISOLATED (TOPICAL) FORM WITHOUT A GOOD UNDERSTANDING OF HOW IT FITS INTO THE CHRISTIAN LIFE AS A WHOLE, PROMOTING THE COMPARTMENTALIZATION OF THE BELIEVER’S LIFE
  • 16. CONCEPTS IN THE ORDER IN WHICH THEY ARE TYPICALLY NEEDED BY THE NEW CHRISTIAN Discipling OthersDiscipling Others Christian LivingChristian Living Rewards CeremonyRewards Ceremony How to Abide in ChristHow to Abide in Christ The Lordship DecisionThe Lordship Decision The Character of the Old NatureThe Character of the Old Nature The Holy Spirit - My New GuideThe Holy Spirit - My New Guide Why I Now Have Two NaturesWhy I Now Have Two Natures What Happened at Salvation?What Happened at Salvation? A Simple Overview of the Christian LifeA Simple Overview of the Christian Life Jesus - my Rock and FoundationJesus - my Rock and Foundation
  • 18. WHAT IS PERSONAL DISCIPLESHIP? PARTIAL TRUTH: To most Christians the term “Discipleship” simply equates to “Presenting Biblical Truth”. MORE ACCURATELY: We believe the concept of “Spiritual Parenting” more accurately reflects the Biblical meaning. PARTIAL TRUTH: To most Christians the term “Discipleship” simply equates to “Presenting Biblical Truth”. MORE ACCURATELY: We believe the concept of “Spiritual Parenting” more accurately reflects the Biblical meaning. COMMITMENT TO THE SPIRITUAL GROWTH AND WELFARE OF THE BELIEVER(S) MODELING A SPIRITUAL WALK WITH THE LORD PERSONAL ATTENTION TO HELP EACH ONE WITH UNIQUE NEEDS TEACHING BIBLICAL TRUTH
  • 19. A BIBLICAL MODEL FOR “SPIRITUALA BIBLICAL MODEL FOR “SPIRITUAL PARENTING”PARENTING” 1 THESSALONIANS 2:3-13 INCLUDES ALL1 THESSALONIANS 2:3-13 INCLUDES ALL THE COMPONENTS OF SPIRITUALTHE COMPONENTS OF SPIRITUAL PARENTING.PARENTING. I. They cared for the believers as a mother cares for her children II. They became “role models” to the new believers III. They gave individual attention and instruction as a father IV. The word of god was an essential component of discipleship
  • 20. Paul’s concern for the believers went beyond that of just a “teacher”. He was committed to their spiritual welfare and growth. Paul’s concern for the believers went beyond that of just a “teacher”. He was committed to their spiritual welfare and growth. Paul’s concern for the believers went beyond that of just a “teacher”. He was committed to their spiritual welfare and growth. A goal of the discipler should be to help the disciple (apprentice learner) to mature, function, be fruitful, and to spiritually reproduce. The benefits to the discipler are secondary. A discipler is a “model” (real, transparent) for the disciple. The goal is for the disciple to emulate the convictions and passion of the discipler. A discipler is a “model” (real, transparent) for the disciple. The goal is for the disciple to emulate the convictions and passion of the discipler.
  • 21. A newborn child requires an extra amount of individual attention. As the child matures guidance can increasingly take place in a group setting. Since each child is unique, it should be expected that both group and personal attention would be needed on the road to maturity. A newborn child requires an extra amount of individual attention. As the child matures guidance can increasingly take place in a group setting. Since each child is unique, it should be expected that both group and personal attention would be needed on the road to maturity. Paul recognized that each believer is unique and needs individual attention. Jesus commanded us to make "disciples", not just converts. In the Christian community there are many immature “converts”, but very few disciples.
  • 22. Biblical truth is an essential component of Biblical discipleship. Biblical truth is an essential component of Biblical discipleship. A. A Christian cannot be spiritually mature without Biblical understanding, but a Christian may have much Biblical knowledge and yet not be spiritually mature. B. There are inherent problems with the commonly held belief that “presenting Biblical knowledge” equates to discipleship, and that the other components are “optional”. If the other components are not given proper importance in the nurturing process, the Christian being mentored will typically have a difficult time growing to a reproductive spiritual maturity.
  • 23. To love to teach is good, but to love those you teach is better ! To know the Bible is good, but to intimately know and understand the One who the Bible reveals is better ! (Jer. 9:23-24; John 17:3)
  • 24. THE GOAL OF PERSONAL DISCIPLESHIP (Spiritual Parenting) To help a believer through the transition from the habit of daily living in “self-dependence” to the habit of daily living in “God-dependence”. In other words, to make the transition from “leaning on one’s own understanding” to “trusting in the Lord with all one’s heart and in all ways acknowledging Him”. (Prov. 3:5-6)
  • 25. B I R T H CHILD CHILD “Death” “Life” John 5:24 P H Y S I C A L D E A T H t 1 2 3 4 Judgment of believers for rewards, or loss of rewards ! Rewards based on what I, by faith, allow the Holy Spirit to do through my life (His fruit) SPIRITUAL MATURITY SPIRITUAL FRUITFULNESS SPIRITUAL REPRODUCTION ANTICIPATED RESULTS OF DISCIPLESHIP ARE:
  • 26. PHYSICAL & SPIRITUAL MULTIPLICATION HUMAN RACE SPIRITUAL RACE Genesis 1:26-28 Matthew 28:18-20 A medical doctor stated that about 90% of normal healthy couples should be able to physically reproduce children. We have sympathy for a couple that is unable to have children, because having children is considered normal. Should we not expect the majority of normal healthy Christians to be able to reproduce spiritually? Do we have sympathy for the Christian who is not spiritually reproducing? If not, why not? Obstacles to Physical Reproduction: 1. Physical Immaturity 2. A Physical Health Problem 3. Lack of Physical Intimacy Obstacles to Spiritual Reproduction: 1. Spiritual Immaturity 2. A Spiritual Health Problem 3. Lack of Spiritual Intimacy Adam (1st) & Eve The Physical Human Race Jesus (2nd Adam) The Spiritual Race
  • 27. Growing – thoughts on how new believers grow spiritually Lesson 3
  • 28. THOUGHTS ON GROWING NEW BELIEVERS How Does A New Believer Acquire Spiritual Understanding? If a new believer is not instructed otherwise, he will typically appropriate the values and convictions of the Christians that he associates with during the formative first period of his new spiritual life, just as a baby will tend to adopt the values and convictions of his family. Let’s look at several examples of adopting “external behavior” patterns: Let’s look at several examples of adopting “external behavior” patterns: How does a new believer evaluate the spiritually standard of living? How about spiritually acceptable houses? How about spiritually acceptable eating behaviors?
  • 29. What do we mean by the terms “self-dependent” and “carnal”? In the Bible we see a contrast between “spiritual believers” and “self-dependent (carnal) believers”. This, we believe, is the contrast brought out in Proverbs 3:5-6, Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight. In the Bible we see a contrast between “spiritual believers” and “self-dependent (carnal) believers”. This, we believe, is the contrast brought out in Proverbs 3:5-6, Trust in the Lord with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.
  • 30. POINTS TO CONSIDER! Are congregational meetings not designed for the “equipping” of the saints so that they (each one) will in turn spiritually impact the lives of those with whom they interact? Why is it that many children of Christian leaders become resistant to the values of their parents? The new believer understands the foundational doctrine of salvation by grace through Christ. Now he wants to build on that truth, but isn’t quite sure how to go about it. Is it reasonable to simply give him a Bible and expect him to effectively grow to spiritual maturity?
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  • 36. The Common Perspective of ChristianThe Common Perspective of Christian CongregationsCongregations vs.vs. the Biblical Perspectivethe Biblical Perspective (SPIRITUAL MATURITY IS(SPIRITUAL MATURITY IS TYPICALLY GRADEDTYPICALLY GRADED ““ON THE CURVE”)ON THE CURVE”)
  • 37. Common perspective Common perspective Biblical perspective “Spiritual” 3 These Christians appear to have wholeheartedly acknowledged His Lordship in their life, be walking in fellowship with the Holy Spirit, and seem to be bearing spiritual fruit. “Spiritual” 3 “Acceptable” These Christians don’t exhibit excessive negative outward behavior. “Self- dependent” (carnal) 2 “Self- dependent” (carnal) 2 These Christians tend to exhibit questionable negative outward behavior, such as on-going marriage, relational or financial problems, addictions, etc. “Self- (carnal) being unsaved. 1
  • 38. TYPICAL DISCIPLED and UNDISCIPLED BELIEVERSTYPICAL DISCIPLED and UNDISCIPLED BELIEVERS TYPICAL “DISCIPLED” BELIEVER •Increasing dependence on God (Master-servant) Increasing God-reliance (Faith walk) Focus on inward transformation (producing Godly behavior) “It’s about God!” (“dog attitude”) Child B I R T H tE D Judgment of believers for rewards, or loss of rewards! P h y s i c a l D e a t h GOD me GOD me 1 2 3 4 Before Christ 6 5 7 Child
  • 39. God is my “Junior” Partner (up to 49% control) God is my “Co-pilot” (God is on standby) Focus on behavior modification Self-dependent “It’s about me!” (“cat attitude”) TYPICAL “UNDISCIPLED” BELIEVERTYPICAL “UNDISCIPLED” BELIEVER
  • 40. LESSON GUIDELESSON GUIDE Physical Birth to Spiritual Rebirth Evangelism phase The Cross Discipleship Phase (Spiritual Parenting) Discipled believer Undiscipled believer Rewards Ceremony TYPICAL DISCIPLED AND UNDISCIPLED BELIEVERS
  • 41. FIVE IMPORTANT CONCEPTS Every New Believer Needs To Understand 1. As your Savior – Jesus wants you to know that all your sins have been forgiven, and you now have eternal life. 2. As your Lord – Jesus wants you to know that you have been bought with a price, and you are no longer your own. 3. You are very special and God has a marvelous, unique design for your entire life, and He wants to manage His plan for you.
  • 42. FIVE IMPORTANT CONCEPTS Every New Believer Needs To Understand 4. God wants you to know that the Holy Spirit alone is capable of guiding you and revealing God’s plan to you. 5. God wants you to know that the Holy Spirit will train you to recognize, follow and obey His guidance.
  • 43. 1.The character of God (see Lesson 1-5) 1.The personality of the Holy Spirit (see Lesson 1-6) 2.The human nature and the divine nature (see Lesson 1-5) 3.The sovereignty of God (see Lesson 1-14) 4.Internal transformation vs. behavior modification (see Lesson 1-16) Related concepts that may be helpful to discuss at this time:
  • 45. WHAT IS A BIBLICAL DISCIPLE?WHAT IS A BIBLICAL DISCIPLE? “Disciple” speaks of a believer who exhibits an acceptable level of observable Christian behavior. Being a “disciple” should more accurately be understood to reflect a believer’s disposition and relationship with the Lord. We seek to focus on a disciple’s heart attitude, rather than just what a disciple “does”. … for God sees not as man sees, for man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.” (1 Sam. 16:7) GODLY BEHAVIOR IS AN OUTCOME OF GODLY
  • 46. The pivotal issue that a disciple has dealt with is that of Christ’s lordship over his life. In other words, the believer has considered the claims of Christ, and has concluded that the best workable relationship is for the Lord to be in charge of his entire life. One of Christ’s claims is that of ownership (having authority over that which is owned). 1 Cor. 6:19-20 1 Cor. 7:23 HE OWNS ME (WHETHER I BELIEVE IT OR NOT). HIS OWNERSHIP IS NOT DEPENDENT ON MY ACCEPTANCE. EVERY DISCIPLE IS A CONVERT, BUT NOT EVERY CONVERT IS A BIBLICAL DISCIPLE.
  • 47. Another issue that a disciple has dealt with is that of Christ’s command for His followers to accept a Master-servant relationship with Him. Luke 14:25-33 Now large crowds were going along with Him; and He turned and said to them, “If anyone comes to Me, and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be My disciple. “Whoever does not carry his own cross and come after Me cannot be My disciple. … “So then, none of you can be My disciple who does not give up all his own possessions. Rom. 6:19 … so now present your members as slaves to righteousness, resulting in sanctification. 1 Cor. 7:22 … he who was called while free, is Christ’s slave. 1 Peter 2:16 act as free men, and do not use your freedom as a covering for evil, but use it as bondslaves of God.
  • 48. A disciple of Jesus is more than just a student, he is an apprentice THE TEACHER & STUDENT
  • 49. A disciple of Jesus is more than just a student, he is an apprentice THE TEACHERTHE TEACHER Disciple model demands a greater commitment, and much more personal attention, but we believe it is the Biblical method as modeled by Jesus Himself, and the model that will result in the greatest Individual spiritual growth and impact on the world.
  • 50. A STUDENTA STUDENT Typically the goal of a student is to learn knowledge (information), that is, to learn what the teacher knows. The student may not even respect or like his teacher. A disciple of Jesus is more than just a student, he is an apprentice
  • 51. A DISCIPLEA DISCIPLE A disciple on the other hand is a student who has the goal of becoming like his teacher. This model requires personal interaction, and a personal commitment by the teacher (mentor, spiritual parent) on behalf of the apprentice learner. A student wants to know what the teacher knows, a disciple wants to become like the teacher. All disciples are students, But not all students are disciples.
  • 52. A disciple has a desire to know God, not just know “about” Him.  Jer. 9:23-24  Luke 10:38-42  John 17:3  Romans 12:2 A disciple has the attitude of one who follows the Lord, not one who “leads” the Lord.  Luke 5:10-11  Luke 9:23-24  John 12:24-26
  • 53. What has been described in the previous points should not imply that a disciple of Jesus is super spiritual or beyond the capacity to sin. Although the disciple’s acceptance of Christ’s yoke has given the Holy Spirit the freedom to mold him, he still has a capacity to disobey, and he can submit to the sinful human nature for varying lengths of time.
  • 54. One of the responsibilities of Church leadership is to convey to the congregation that each believer should aspire to be used by the Holy Spirit as a “witness”, and also as a “spiritual parent” (discipler).
  • 55. One characteristic that is typically evident in the life of a disciple of Jesus is a discernible “passion for the Lord”. "… He (God) raised up David to be their king, concerning whom He also testified and said, I have found David the son of Jesse, a man after My heart, who will do all My will.' (Acts 13:22)
  • 56. Judgment of believers for rewards, or loss of rewards! B I R T H t P h y s i c a l D e a t h WHERE AM I AS A CHRISTIAN? “Lordship” decision “Promised Land” experience “Desert” experience GROUP # 1 New believer? Since I am now as a little child in the “family” of God, I need someone to walk alongside of me to answer my questions and help me to understand how to follow the Lord and grow spiritually. GROUP # 3 I have acknowledged His Lordship over my life, but my Christian growth seems to have plateaued, and I often find the Christian life difficult and unfulfilling. GROUP # 3 I have acknowledged His Lordship over my life, but hunger to know more about abiding in Christ and spiritually mentoring others. This is usually the most effective “window of opportunity” for discipleship. GROUP # 2 Although I am a Christian, I have been living defeated, in a desert experience. (Often characterized by ongoing spiritual symptoms such as lack of peace, worry, anger, irritability, unbelief, addictive behavior, a critical attitude, a sense of defeat, disobedience, complaining and dissatisfaction.) My attitude has been that God is there to help me with my plans, rather than me fitting into His plans for my life. In my everyday life, I have relied more on my own understanding and wisdom rather than relying on God’s character. Will God allow a crisis in my life to humble me, so that I will be willing to acknowledge His authority and Lordship over my life? The typical new believer begins the Christian life with a learner’s disposition. If this period of openness (“first love”) to personal discipleship is not taken advantage of, most new believers will learn to adapt their lifestyle to that which is being modeled by the majority of other believers with whom they are associated.
  • 58. GUIDELINES FOR DISCIPLING 1. What is the purpose of discipling? (See lesson 2-2) 2. Targeting (Seeking God’s choices as to whom you should disciple) A.If you want to be an effective spiritual parent (discipler), you need to prayerfully seek God’s wisdom for discernment as to which Christian(s) will benefit from your investment of time, energy and possessions. Jesus let His Father make the decision. B.Where should we look for Christians to disciple?
  • 59. Judgment of believers for rewards, or loss of rewards! B I R T H t P h y s i c a l D e a t h WHERE AM I AS A CHRISTIAN? “Lordship” decision “Promised Land” experience “Desert” experience GROUP # 1 New believer? Since I am now as a little child in the “family” of God, I need someone to walk alongside of me to answer my questions and help me to understand how to follow the Lord and grow spiritually. GROUP # 3 I have acknowledged His Lordship over my life, but my Christian growth seems to have plateaued, and I often find the Christian life difficult and unfulfilling. GROUP # 3 I have acknowledged His Lordship over my life, but hunger to know more about abiding in Christ and spiritually mentoring others. This is usually the most effective “window of opportunity” for discipleship. GROUP # 2 Christians who have been living in a desert experience (often for years), who through a God orchestrated crisis have found themselves humbled and willing to acknowledge His ownership and authority over their life. The typical new believer begins the Christian life with a learner’s disposition. If this period of openness (“first love”) to personal discipleship is not taken advantage of, most new believers will learn to adapt their lifestyle to that which is being modeled by the majority of other believers with whom they are associated. Crisis
  • 60. 3. What characteristics should we look for in a disciple-to-be? A.Teachable attitude B.A teachable attitude C.A realibility (dependability) 4. Suggested guidelines for discipling another person. GUIDELINES FOR DISCIPLING
  • 61. ESSENTIALS FOR DISCIPLING (ROLE DESCRIPTIONS) Holy Spirit Materials (Bible and compatible resources) Discipler (me) Disciple 1 2 3
  • 62. RECOMMENDATIONS FOR EFFECTIVE DISCIPLESHIP A disciple has the goal of becoming like the teacher. (Jesus said) “A pupil (apprentice learner) is not above his teacher; but everyone, after he has been fully trained, will be like his teacher. (Luke 6:40)
  • 64. Jesus did not tell us to go into all the world and just make “converts”, He told us to go and make “disciples”. Every believer should be seen as a potential witness, and every believer should be seen as a potential discipler (“spiritual parent”).