PERSUASION
STRATEGIES
BY: Dr. Arvinder Singh
(Human Intelligence Trainer)
How to Get People To Like You
(In 90 Seconds and Less)
Develop “Like Ability”
How do You Develop Likeability?
#1-“Two Birds of a Feather”
• Demonstrate Similarities with the Target
Person.
How do You Develop Likeability?
#2-“The George Clooney/ Halle Berry Effect”
• Pay Careful Attention To How We Look
How do You Develop Likeability?
#3-“May I Compliment Thee?”
• Give Compliment
WIIFM: Go to the Edge
• WIIFM – What’s in it For Me?
• Know your Target’s Goals.
WIIFM: Go to the Edge
# 4 - Go the Edge
Benefits target will receive.
• Esteem More
• Do More
• Gain More
• Enjoy More
WIIFM: Go to the Edge
# 5 - The “Star Wars” Toothbrush Technique
• Include Specific Benefits
The Expert Spillover Effect, Geek Street
and Other Cool Techniques
#6 - The Expertise Advantage
Correlation between Source Expertise and
Persuasive Success
The Expert Spillover Effect, Geek Street
and Other Cool Techniques
#6 - “See My Decorated Wall?”
• Show Credentials and Achievements.
The Expert Spillover Effect, Geek Street
and Other Cool Techniques
#7 - “The Expert Spillover Effect”
• Long Term Strategy – Connection with Experts
Experts
The Expert Spillover Effect, Geek Street
and Other Cool Techniques
#8 - “Geek Street”
• To Become Expert Develop the Habit of
Reading
The Expert Spillover Effect, Geek Street
and Other Cool Techniques
#9 - “The Anecdotal Testimony”
• Showcase Testimonials from Previous Clients.
The Expert Spillover Effect, Geek Street
and Other Cool Techniques
#10 – The “Don’t be an Idiot” Strategy
• Should have Required Knowledge
• Become Competent
#11- The Yes Ladder: Putting Your
Target into an Agreement Mindset
• Set Positive Mood of Target.
• Ask Serious of Questions to which You Know
Answers are “Yes”.
#12- The Fair Persuader: One Sided
Versus Balanced Arguments
• Two Sided Arguments with Counter
Arguments.
#13 - Inoculation
Immunize Your Prospect
Against Counter
Persuasion Attempts.
The Mint Sweet and Other
Experiments
#14-”How Can I Help You?”
• Law of Reciprocation
The Mint Sweet and Other
Experiments
#15-”The Mint Sweet / Coke Gift”
• Small Favor Even Though Client may not have
asked For It.
The Petrified Forest
# 16 – The Sitcom Laughter Track
• Use Social Proof – Sitcoms with Laughter
Track.
The Petrified Forest
# 17 – The Petrified Forest Persuasion Failure
• Do not Use Negative Social Proof
#18- The Rokia Technique
• Include Story to Develop Connectivity with
People’s Emotions.
• Story Should Contain:
o Characters
o Conflict/ Difficulty
o Cure
o Change
Clear Next Step
#19 – Clear Next Step
What is the Next Step You Want Your Prospect
To Take? Ask Them To take It.
The Counterintuitive Persuasion
Technique that Works
#20- The BYAF Technique
• But You Are Free Technique
What to Do If Your Prospect Says No
#21-The Power of “Why Not?”
To Uncover and address the Objections
Train Your Mind, Intelligence, Creativity and
Emotional Intelligence by Dr. Arvinder Singh,
Gold Medallist, National Award Winner and
Motivational Speaker.
Visit : http://drarvindersingh.com

Persuasion strategies

  • 1.
    PERSUASION STRATEGIES BY: Dr. ArvinderSingh (Human Intelligence Trainer)
  • 2.
    How to GetPeople To Like You (In 90 Seconds and Less) Develop “Like Ability”
  • 3.
    How do YouDevelop Likeability? #1-“Two Birds of a Feather” • Demonstrate Similarities with the Target Person.
  • 4.
    How do YouDevelop Likeability? #2-“The George Clooney/ Halle Berry Effect” • Pay Careful Attention To How We Look
  • 5.
    How do YouDevelop Likeability? #3-“May I Compliment Thee?” • Give Compliment
  • 6.
    WIIFM: Go tothe Edge • WIIFM – What’s in it For Me? • Know your Target’s Goals.
  • 7.
    WIIFM: Go tothe Edge # 4 - Go the Edge Benefits target will receive. • Esteem More • Do More • Gain More • Enjoy More
  • 8.
    WIIFM: Go tothe Edge # 5 - The “Star Wars” Toothbrush Technique • Include Specific Benefits
  • 9.
    The Expert SpilloverEffect, Geek Street and Other Cool Techniques #6 - The Expertise Advantage Correlation between Source Expertise and Persuasive Success
  • 10.
    The Expert SpilloverEffect, Geek Street and Other Cool Techniques #6 - “See My Decorated Wall?” • Show Credentials and Achievements.
  • 11.
    The Expert SpilloverEffect, Geek Street and Other Cool Techniques #7 - “The Expert Spillover Effect” • Long Term Strategy – Connection with Experts Experts
  • 12.
    The Expert SpilloverEffect, Geek Street and Other Cool Techniques #8 - “Geek Street” • To Become Expert Develop the Habit of Reading
  • 13.
    The Expert SpilloverEffect, Geek Street and Other Cool Techniques #9 - “The Anecdotal Testimony” • Showcase Testimonials from Previous Clients.
  • 14.
    The Expert SpilloverEffect, Geek Street and Other Cool Techniques #10 – The “Don’t be an Idiot” Strategy • Should have Required Knowledge • Become Competent
  • 15.
    #11- The YesLadder: Putting Your Target into an Agreement Mindset • Set Positive Mood of Target. • Ask Serious of Questions to which You Know Answers are “Yes”.
  • 16.
    #12- The FairPersuader: One Sided Versus Balanced Arguments • Two Sided Arguments with Counter Arguments.
  • 17.
    #13 - Inoculation ImmunizeYour Prospect Against Counter Persuasion Attempts.
  • 18.
    The Mint Sweetand Other Experiments #14-”How Can I Help You?” • Law of Reciprocation
  • 19.
    The Mint Sweetand Other Experiments #15-”The Mint Sweet / Coke Gift” • Small Favor Even Though Client may not have asked For It.
  • 20.
    The Petrified Forest #16 – The Sitcom Laughter Track • Use Social Proof – Sitcoms with Laughter Track.
  • 21.
    The Petrified Forest #17 – The Petrified Forest Persuasion Failure • Do not Use Negative Social Proof
  • 22.
    #18- The RokiaTechnique • Include Story to Develop Connectivity with People’s Emotions. • Story Should Contain: o Characters o Conflict/ Difficulty o Cure o Change
  • 23.
    Clear Next Step #19– Clear Next Step What is the Next Step You Want Your Prospect To Take? Ask Them To take It.
  • 24.
    The Counterintuitive Persuasion Techniquethat Works #20- The BYAF Technique • But You Are Free Technique
  • 25.
    What to DoIf Your Prospect Says No #21-The Power of “Why Not?” To Uncover and address the Objections
  • 26.
    Train Your Mind,Intelligence, Creativity and Emotional Intelligence by Dr. Arvinder Singh, Gold Medallist, National Award Winner and Motivational Speaker. Visit : http://drarvindersingh.com

Editor's Notes

  • #3 It is easier to persuade people who like you than to persuade those who don’t have positive feelings towards you
  • #4 Example – shared interest, common hobby, similar dressing, etc.
  • #5 Look Attractive
  • #6 Person who received compliments developed positive feelings towards the person who gave compliment.
  • #8 Esteem more – Prospect will experience greater self-esteem and more confidence Do more – more productive Gain more – what prospect will gain as a result of agreeing to your request. Eg. More money. More time, etc. Enjoy more – more fun, happiness, etc.
  • #9 Specific benefits are more memorable, exciting and perceived as being more credible than non specific benefits.
  • #10 Eg: The consumers who felt that salespersons were competent were more like to purchase the product.
  • #14 Share previous experience with the client.eg: by the way, I had a client similar to you…..
  • #15 You cannot give what you do not have.
  • #16 Questions are not necessarily have to be related to the idea.
  • #17 One sided argument only talk about benefits. Two sided arguments give details about benefits, problems and solutions.
  • #18 The easiest way is to ask potential opposing arguments even before they are asked. Accept the objection and then give them some new information that changes their perspectives.
  • #19 Ask yourself – how can I help this person?
  • #20 Waiters who give their patrons a mint along with their bill receive bigger tips.
  • #21 We hear people laughing, it causes us to laugh too. Similarly, for doors to doors charity campaigns, the longer the list of prior donors, the more likely it becomes that the person being solicited will donate.
  • #22 Eg: Statement - Many past visitors have removed wood from the petrified forest. Result in increased, rather than decreased, theft of petrified wood.
  • #23 Statistics inform but stories involve people emotionally. The story about Rokia’s struggle with hunger got more response from listeners.
  • #24 Eg : If you are a reservation agent at a hotel, ask the callers, So should I go ahead and secure your reservation?
  • #25 You can use phrase - You are free to choose, don’t feel obliged, or you are free to say no. Eg: You are going for survey and if you say “please don’t feel obliged to fill out the form, but I would appreciate it if you did it”. Then chances of positive reply get increased.
  • #26 The information from “Why Not” technique can help us to change the mindset of prospect and persuade similar prospects in the future.