6. DELIBERATE STYLE
Use when long term
relationship likely
Involves cooperation
and relationship
building to reach
agreement
Needs much prep,
hard work
May move in fits and
starts .
7.
8. There are no rules
Establish an agenda
Everything is
negotiable
Ask for a better deal
Be creative
Learn to say “NO”
yourself
10. What do you want?
What does the other
side need?
Decide on style
What are the
consequences of each
choice.
11. Creative title
Reduce to “must
know” items
Keywords
Mini-speeches
around keywords
Visuals
Don’t give
concessions just to
keep things going
Make note of
concerns and keep
going
12. When in doubt, ask
questions!
Open questions
Reflective
questions
Tactics
13. Agreement.
Arrangements should be neutral and
comfortable
Pay attention to what others say
Screen out all visual distractions
Ask open ended questions
Listen to responses
Proactive vs. reactive behavior